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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Question: What is your long term/dream outcome ? | Conversation | ace_qk | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:44 AM |
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| 1 | Do you guys feel weird going places just to cold approach?Get a book every time you go, then when you’re at home in the dark alone you can make the choice whether to read and class this all as personal development or close your eyes and accept it as degeneracy | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Fall in love with the grind | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Banged dads friends daughter, now she's causing issuesBased. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:39 AM |
| 67 | I can't take this anymore.Look mate you need to improve yourself, no offence you’re probably a little bitch. I hope that hurt your feelings, good. I hope you’re pissed off women are literally trying to cuck you. I hope you’re pissed off women consider you ‘replaceable’ GET PISSED OFF & transform yourself to a point of recognition. Fck girls, not sexually - Fck their existence - you couldn’t give a fck- you’re focused on you. Then all of them will chase you, don’t start being a little bitch again and revert - they’ll be r… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:20 AM |
| 6 | What can I do if I simply don't attract any women/am not attractive enough physically?You see what you’re saying right now ‘THAT’ is your problem. You think you’re a loser, so girls think you’re a loser. You could be the most attractive guy physically in the world, with the mindset of nobody finds me attractive, ooh it could be any other guy. You will always fail, find your balls. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Will taking a break from "the game" disrupt my progress?No offence bro, if you fear taking 2 weeks off will ‘impact’ your game, you don’t have strong enough game yet. 2 weeks is a short break, you should take 2 months or 2 years but alas | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?I don’t know what people are saying in here but I can personally confirm after going through puberty, that if you are attractive unless you are absent minded you will 100% know. You make eye contact with A LOT of people, people are generally very nice when they serve you and will go above and beyond - it’s like a superpower - get attractive. Anyway, I’ve looked at your picture - you are not ugly. You just clearly don’t give a shit or put any effort. Get a nice haircut and keep it maintained ever… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed with this girl?Bro leave her to cool off, she’s playing you right now and you are participating. Don’t respond, when she inevitably hits you - take your time (helps if you are actually busy and stop dropping everything to attend to her) When you respond keep it chill & as someone said propose a date. Ie. Do not converse with her unless you are date setting and once you have a date, don’t start texting all day everyday, stay busy - don’t play all your cards at once. Once on date, close. If you do not - be prepa… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | How to be confident if you can't back it up?There are no shortcuts, you must pay the toll. You are identifying with your situation & that of ‘low value’. All you need to do is start making ways to change your situation. You don’t need to be a multimillionaire over night. But if you are working on your fitness, finance and mental health - simply having the direction and putting in the work everyday will give YOU yourself confidence as you know you’re working towards it. Furthermore, it will increase your attraction as you are a man working… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | How to talk slow instead of getting excited and rapid talking?Someone above said something helpful about mindset. Also logistically, what you want to do is become more conscious - so when you speak/move you are present. A very easy and important tip for this is breathing, breathe deeper and slower - it will literally slow & calm you down. Accompany this with leaning back, when really indulged in conversation; you will find yourself leaning in as you get more excited. When you catch yourself take a deep breath in, lean back, get comfortable & reset. It’s a … | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 11:37 AM |
| 29 | Best way to ask girls if they want to go somewhere else to have sex?I understand the issue your having & it’s more of a belief problem than an actual logistical problem. I’ve experienced it myself, you kind of assume sex is quite taboo and you’re likely an overthinker and don’t want girls to think ‘Ah he’s just using me for sex’. But from my experience, I realise guys like us have a misunderstanding about how comfortable girls are with sex and you actually need to be more direct and initiating more. Whether your inherent issue is actually with yourself and confi… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?This is an asset not a liability, it is more of a defence mechanism from girls that they are slightly intimidated and feel insecure. Your move is to simply use game; say something flirty - make a joke with it and move the conversation to where you want to take it. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 11:15 AM |
| 3 | First date cancelled twice - how to proceed?Since you know she’s gonna be at an event you’re at, I would you just wait - enjoy yourself there, overthink. When you bump into her, keep it cool; the same vibes you were on when you first met her. And if, only if, you enjoy her company as much plan something then, if convenient & make a light hearted joke like ‘3 strikes and you’re out’ or this is a special opportunity, gold doesn’t usually strike twice. Something simple not too cheesy that acknowledges, you didn’t get to meet up but you can a… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Date with girlYou need to take a breath & chill out, 100% thinking too much. Just relax, in general (& when on dates), detach from the outcome & enjoy the moment. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | How to work on yourself and fix personality?Make watching comedy a habit & develop wit | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The simplest answer to this: Enjoy yourself while you are alone. I don’t want to give tips cos it should truly be natural but if you’re sitting laughing to ‘yourself’ because you’re on the phone or watching a podcast or whatever. Girls/People will naturally come closer to you, it’s hard to verbalise but there was a vid I saw on here one time of 2 guys randomly dancing in the street, then 3 girls walking past just joined them. Something like, create your own fun & everyone will wanna take part | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.Start a business | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | First cold approach in my life: traded Instagrams with two girls in convenience storeLOL at your brother calling you a simp for whatever reason | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | When it rains, it poursDeffo don’t start moving your personal stuff around, that’s a beginning of the end. Keep it cool, structure your week & get a good rotation. Ie if you can only do Saturdays & Sundays, you see 2 then … worst case 1. And if the others ask & you’re busy, although initially they may seem annoyed, it only works in your favour. You just seem like a busy man or they intuit you are dating others, again, both play in your favour. If brought up, simply keep it joking & mysterious, neither confirm nor deny… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do female friends get jealous when their male friends flirt with and talk with other women?The friendzone is not a true place, because you are not truly friends. Women just use the guys they place in their for attention & other things they can convince you to do. When they see you interacting with other women, they are naturally jealous because your attention is not on them. Which in their eyes is what your role is as a friendzonee, not to be happy, support or cheer you on like you’d expect from a real friend. In conclusion, ‘friendzone’ is a scam & always reject any kind of resemblan… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:29 AM |
| 7 | I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through textingI feel your frustration, especially on the self-esteem knocks. It’s confusing because the matches & initial attention convey you’ve got something going on, and I assume you have a personality in real life. So getting through that initial stage to convey that is definitely annoying. Without going on too much of a tangent I have to highlight how humorous it is, when sometimes you do meet these girls and in real life (Where it matters!) they have no substance. Anyway, practically - I have resolved … | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | First time cold approaching a woman went well, but turned weird....That’s sweet bro, you clearly got good game, which I’ve realised is all that’s needed - I like the strategy of engaging convo with the non target, then opening up. I reckon, when her friends opt to leave you use that as your reason for number, ‘Since you’re leaving, let me get your number and you can show me more of all the weird drinks you like’ if they’ve been laughing or enjoying your company, from what I’ve noticed it doesn’t matter what you say if you say it confidently and put your phone i… | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 12:04 PM |
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