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Because the other connections didn’t seem that genuine and natural from the jump. I’ve had other nice connections but they’ve taken a while to build with some friction being there or I can tell it was purely about sex. She was discussing her values and things to me that she likes in a parter and we were checking all the boxes and mutual attraction was apparent. It almost felt like a movie so seeing now that it was fake is just shocking to me, that’s pretty much why.
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:13 PM
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The whole thing feels like gambling and I hate that. I heard that the same neural pathways that drive gambling addictions are triggered by dating
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:06 PM
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1 Long term relationship of 5.5 years and several other flings that lasted for a while but I haven’t committed to anyone else since my last relationship. I can date and have sex with new women every so often but none are really what I want as a LTR
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:02 PM
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I totally get that. Im against it when guys flirt with women at their job for that reason because they’re stuck there and they’re paid to be nice. I know she’s assigned there and I didn’t wanna make it awkward so I constantly pulled back or let go of her hand to give her an out and she would reinitiate. I was testing her by leaning out and she would lean into me more so she was just passing those tests and I guess I was just her temporary distraction
/r/seduction22/06/26 06:59 PM
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Funny because I actually did bang a girl with a boyfriend on this trip and the things we did were vile, I almost felt horrible for the guy but at the same time it’s not my problem, it’s pretty concerning for the future and makes me want to be a lot more selective. I have to move a lot more cold, that’s so true. This was the pivotal moment of realizing that. I’ve had tons of intimacy with women I didn’t really care too much for but she seemed like she checked my boxes. Gotta stay cautious always
/r/seduction22/06/26 06:39 PM
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why? maybe i’m not attractive in photos but usually when i get an instagram and not a number they don’t like me as much. and ive never been able to pull from DMs
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:57 AM
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That does give me comfort. Thank you. I think my guard is going to be up now. I expected a connection like that to be something legit based on stories but that’s all it is, just fantasy or hearsay. They need to prove themselves to me and I shouldn’t have been so impressed or willing to allow someone in
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:14 AM
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Yea i’ve learned they live in the moment. This type of thing just keeps happening over and over, I just thought she’d be different because i’ve never connected with a random person that way. That was such a rare feeling and it seemed special as dumb as that now sounds. I’ve read stories of how people fell in love that didn’t even seem at this caliber. It’s going to stick with me but hopefully I come out of it stronger
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:11 AM
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nah i just wanted her number, i don’t like women following me on insta and judging my pics or what girls that follow me
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:08 AM
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well said
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:48 AM
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i made sure to keep pulling back as a way to give her an out if she felt that way and test if she would try to pull me back in and she “passed.” like when i let go of her hand or went to the bathroom she initiated touch again. or when i leaned out she leaned into me. i think i was just a distraction and once we landed she no longer needed me to keep her entertained. it’s pretty fucked
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:42 AM
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yea i usually do that, it builds mystery but if you need to do that then they likely don’t care that much anyway. she just seemed like she really liked me so i found it appropriate to contact her later on at night
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:35 AM
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yea she might reach out when she’s bored or something. i won’t count on it
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:26 AM
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those are great responses
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:25 AM
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You’re right on several aspects of this. She was a few years younger (21) and in college and she even admitted to me she uses instagram often and posts herself a lot. That was her only red flag and I called her out on it in a playful way. I should have taken that comment more seriously
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:15 AM
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facts, i wish i went into the interaction feeling this way. she just wanted to yap to anyone who would listen and i happened to be the guy and mistook it for interest. in retrospect i should have just put in both of my airpods and listened to music as planned instead of some girl i don’t even know
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:09 AM
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dude that’s crazy I had no idea that was a thing. i’ve never been assigned next to anyone close to my age let alone an attractive girl at that so i’ve never experienced that. I feel slightly better now that I know this is a thing
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:01 AM
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I agree. I’ve had it happen where we meet and hook up the same night, drinking out at a bar or something but the connection doesn’t feel like that, it feels like a random hookup then I get ghosted. We all have had that, it doesn’t feel horrible. This was like super organic / natural feeling so that’s why it feels so bad.
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:51 AM
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It was crazy lol, her wifi kicking in was like flicking a light switch. She immediately didn’t seem care about me or talking much anymore
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:46 AM
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Yea definitely played. Is future pacing / holding hands something girls will commonly do to indicate they aren’t serious? I remember the way the hand holding started was she acted scared during the turbulence and then held my arm so i pushed my arm out and she wrapped around it and then i teased her about being scared and she held my hand for almost the rest of the flight, even grabbing again when i pulled back
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:44 AM
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lol well that’s how i feel now as if i was in the wrong or misread, but trust me my full intention was to sit there in silence with my airpods in and not say a word. i’m very antisocial and she showed every sign and told me she was having so much fun talking to me.
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:33 AM
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I find it hard to say something else after she acted like she was into me and then not replying deliberately after everything is wild. I cant imagine doing that to someone else
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:32 AM
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i’d agree but she led all of the interaction into those topics and it flowed naturally into that, i reciprocated because that was just the vibe
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:27 AM
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You absolutely hit the nail on the head and ironically I was in NYCs lower east side when i talked about that interaction I faced. To come to think of it most negative interactions i’ve had by now with women are in NYC. They’re totally brainwashed
/r/seduction29/05/26 12:21 PM
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It’s crazy because they’ll react that way to the most simple courteous interaction. I hate that all these people are like “just approach whats the worst that can happen” when I literally had some unhinged jerkoff almost throw away his future at my expense from white knighting some nasty women who would never fuck him. It can get brutal. They can act however they want but it doesn’t mean they aren’t out of line and disrespectful and surely won’t save them from an exchange of words they may not li…
/r/seduction28/05/26 09:03 AM
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There’s no getting caught, who you see doesn’t matter until you’re exclusive with someone. If they ask then it’s good to be honest but you’re not “caught” if that makes sense, it’s just your choice
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:51 AM
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Yea man it happened to me this weekend and it’s unfortunate but it’s the second time I had to put my foot down and stand up for myself. I called them out on bad behavior and told them they’re very rude for having that reaction to a simple social interaction. They tried being offensive and I was offensive back. I hate that I had to do that, but what else to do but sit there and take that gross behavior? Then they tried to get a male friend to threaten me and I maintained my frame and let him yap …
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:45 AM
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I’d say the #1 thing is that people have become way more shallow from seeing tons of highly attractive people on social media and dating apps. Unrealistic standards have been set. the #2 reason id say is that women seem increasingly less open to being approached or socializing with men at all, specifically while out with their girl friends. I think part of this is online dating behavior making people more socially inept and less motivated to finding a partner irl and a little bit of trying to fl…
/r/seduction28/05/26 06:03 AM
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dating apps did nothing but make me feel absolutely horrible about myself and destroy my confidence. when i eliminated apps, i went to pull in real life to spite my lack of success there and i found that i became an absolute slayer. banged on almost every first date by meeting them irl. women on dating apps don’t care about you and get way too much attention. you have to really stand out far above anyone else to get an ounce of success on there. i wouldn’t even get matches but then in real life …
/r/seduction13/05/26 04:50 AM
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yea, over time i started banging hotter girls and my standard raised, slowly but surely. I got to a point where I don’t even go up to women I don’t actually find attractive anymore, I don’t care for them
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:31 PM
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yea it feels like shit getting talked to like that by women. but usually after they do it the first time i’ll fuck off and not continue trying 2 more times. Btw there’s this whole “be mean to men” movement going on where women will just act horrible to you, sometimes unprompted and they think it’s a flex to do in front of their friends. I stopped taking those kind of rejections seriously anymore because of it, don’t think much into their behavior.
/r/seduction28/02/26 09:31 PM
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People are heavily influenced by attractiveness when it comes to their treatment of others. It’s a brutal reality. This is especially true with opposite gender interactions. Women tend to have this overall disregard for men that they don’t find attractive or necessary in some way. If you go out and try to meet women and you’re constantly ignored or people go “are you ok?” to the girl you’re trying to talk to then you’re probably unattractive.
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:21 PM
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I agree to a limited extent. I’ve had it happen where a girl was giving mixed signals and during a point she got really dry with me I just said some super real shit, kinda vulnerable and suddenly she was into the convo and being engaged.
/r/seduction09/02/26 10:08 PM
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Everyone has different personalities and things they like to hear from potential romantic partners. I once had a girl I was into who seemed borderline interested in me. She wasn’t sold yet, but I was trying to employ game to get her very interested. I’m not going to lie, my game was TIGHT with her. I came up with the right things to say, I impressed her, she even seriously admitted to me that I had her blushing. I can tell she liked what I was coming up with. I failed because she just assumed I …
/r/seduction30/01/26 10:31 AM
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Absolutely not. There’s a saying from a wise man, “Women know within the first few seconds of meeting a guy whether they want to marry him, fuck him, or kill him.” I find truth in this. If a woman sees you and subjectively finds you repulsive or unattractive, it becomes insanely difficult if not impossible to pull her out of that. And there’s no such thing as “perfect game.” Game is subjective. Sometimes “perfect game” to one girl might be great and to another girl triggers her douche alarm warn…
/r/seduction30/01/26 10:16 AM
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This works. I was really feeling myself one night and went up to a group of latinas and told them how hot they all looked tn and they ate it up lmfaoo
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:54 AM
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You’re in a place where people all know each other and you’re the odd man out. That’s already being behind the curve by default. People tend to be apprehensive towards those they aren’t familiar with who are “different” or seem out of place. You might be dressed different than everyone else or underdressed. If you’re wearing sweatpants and a hoodie while others are wearing nice clothes, you’ll get that reaction. If you have a certain alternative style while others dress like normies then you can…
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:37 AM
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What are you talking about? It’s better to have one on one plans with a girl vs some group activity. Group Hangouts are for friends or if there’s no other possible workaround. You’re explaining that it’s worked out for you before, great for you, I never said you can’t. I’ve done it too. All i’m saying is getting laid is way easier if you plan a 1 on 1 date and it isn’t that hard to understand why that is. Women don’t want to hang around your friends they want you to take them on an intimate prop…
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:30 AM
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I agree that they have to want you and be attracted already or else it’s going to be very hard if not impossible to really seduce them. But don’t put their desires over yours ever. Them liking you is only half the battle, what matters more is if YOU like them. I’ve had women be crazy about me that are total red flags and kind of annoying. I’ll never commit to them on the basis of them being super attracted to me. I just don’t desire them so i’ll smash a couple times and then leave it at that and…
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:42 AM
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Why would you want the extra obstacle? Ideally you want to create a fun date night for just the two of you like a real man none of this HS friend date BS. I’ve had girls all over me while alone and in front of friends they don’t wanna do anything. Make it easier for yourself and keep it separate
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:35 AM
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It’s fine if you see them as a serious long term partner because it kinda gives relationship vibes. Having a girl around your friends is definitely an obstacle to physical intimacy because many people find PDA uncomfortable
/r/seduction28/01/26 11:25 PM
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This kind of thing seems like a big step forward. Introducing a girl to friends and especially family is pretty intimate. I’d make sure you’re sleeping with her already because friends being around does actually serve as an obstacle to physical intimacy in general. If you don’t see her as a serious long term partner then i’d say not to do it. It kind of gives relationship vibes and she may get hopes up
/r/seduction28/01/26 11:23 PM
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I’ve dated and slept with a good amount of women to know that if they bring up other guys or exes, they likely are just trying to fuck and don’t take you that seriously. But she’s giving mixed signals because girls like that usually don’t text a day or two later saying they had a great time and all that. I just think her interest level isn’t that high to consider a serious LTR and she’s sleeping around likely
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:38 PM
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LOL we’re the opposite, I came from getting the alt / emo girls because of my music scene and how I dress / look. I realized they all kinda have issues and I want normie basic girls now so i’m trying to dress like im a finance bro when I go out to get the dumb basic blondes you mentioned lol. They don’t like me with the way I dress now. It’s like playing on hard mode when at punk shows it’s like pulling on tutorial mode
/r/seduction24/01/26 02:08 PM
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I’m going through an aesthetic change to test a theory. I naturally have a more alt / punk aesthetic but I dress nice. I wear a lot of dark clothes and jewelry, I have tattoos. I only really attract one type of woman and they generally aren’t what I want (red flags / trauma / promiscuous / alt). I want to attract normie chicks, think blonde cheerleader or starbucks / marketing major girl archetype. These girls usually don’t like me especially the more alternative or punk I look, so I’m going to …
/r/seduction24/01/26 02:04 PM
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Yea good advice if you like trashy girls lol
/r/seduction16/01/26 06:11 AM
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Whichever you fuck first, if it’s good D, she’s going to try to “claim” you. She’s going to brag about how good you were and the other one won’t even try it and get it out of her head. If you need both then whichever you bang first tell her to keep it a secret like your friendship depends on it
/r/seduction09/01/26 07:06 PM
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From around NYC too, it’s a huge drinking culture here. I have several friends that cut it out years ago, they still come to the same bars and don’t complain about it and they have a good time so I guess you still can do that if your friends do
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:41 AM
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A lot of guys don’t realize how important #4 is especially with the “dress like the guys they’re with” aspect. I’ll admit, I have good style and I put effort into my fit but it’s a niche style, think darker clothes with jewelry. The punk / emo girls in my scene love it and i’ll have high success there but I struggle outside of that space. I recently was studying on social dynamics and noticing things. At regular bars / clubs, basic dressed guys that are objectively less attractive than me in the…
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:36 AM
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You’re good as long as you’re attractive. Honestly you don’t even need to be THAT good looking. We have all seen and heard about guys that are legit losers, have bad emotional / anger issues, are criminals or drug addicts etc. that bang tons of hot women. I’ve seen multiple IRL examples of this. You’ll be just fine lol
/r/seduction08/01/26 07:09 PM
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Nothing will ever beat in person communication. Dating apps are a validation video game to women for a dopamine spike. Social media is and has been treated as a dating app by many for years now. It don’t work. Meeting online is unnatural to most people and high status women can just walk outside and get top tier dudes, they don’t need the internet. You’ll need to put in so much game and prove you’re not a serial killer and prove you’re even a real person. Just go outside and talk to people
/r/seduction08/01/26 06:56 PM
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Sometimes women who aren’t high interest will still go out with you, while on a date see how much they ask you about your life vs. how much they talk about themselves. See if they thank you for paying or thank you for the date in general after the fact. Pay attention to how she dresses and puts herself together for your date. If these 3 metrics aren’t in line with how they should be, she’s likely using you for a free meal / entertainment or maybe even sex and isn’t that into you
/r/seduction08/01/26 06:15 PM
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If you’re asking for subtle, I recently had two sisters at different points in a night go out of their way to be mean to me or yell at me for seemingly no reason, something ridiculous. Later on each one was asking questions about my life and being really nice and sweet to me and smiling. I realized they were probably flirting by being mean in a weird way maybe like a shit test
/r/seduction08/01/26 05:51 PM
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I had to look up what AFC means and when I saw it means Average Frustrated Chump I laughed because it describes so many guys. Don’t try to teach or tell them anything, they don’t have the drive or really even the IQ to do anything about their frustration. They might even understand but won’t do anything about it and then get mad at you for trying to help
/r/seduction08/01/26 05:35 PM
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That part about feminine men being more manipulative than women are is such a fact. They have the pettiness and emotions of a woman but the drive like a guy to go and do something about it on the low to sabotage you
/r/seduction08/01/26 05:31 PM
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I agree, it’s kind of like how there’s usually that one guy in a guy/girl friend group that gets everyone together and makes plans that people actually want to go to. They naturally happen to be the one calling the shots and people look to them for moves. That guy usually always gets the most girls and hot girlfriends vs the dude that just comes along or follows the vibe. It’s a status thing.
/r/seduction03/01/26 03:32 PM
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It sucks but that’s the game, you don’t own them an they can go to whoever they want. can’t blame her or your friend for real. If you really liked her that much and told your homies not to fuck it up, or you kind of made it obvious, then yea he’s a dick but it’s not worth feeling negative about your friend, you’ll find more trust me, if she wanted you enough she wouldn’t have opened herself up to him like that
/r/seduction16/12/25 05:31 PM
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yes that can be true. it’s the worst when i’m just trying to be friendly and say hi and they act like im offending them or trying to sell the something
/r/seduction16/12/25 05:08 PM
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I can see that. I figured I had caught their eye in a good way somehow, if they found me repulsive or didn’t respect me i’m sure they would have just said nothing instead and ignored me. The immediate shit test was a complete surprise to me. I thought they would have a more joking type borderline friendly demeanor but they had a very cold demeanor when they did it. Was very shocking
/r/seduction16/12/25 04:12 PM
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there’s nothing you really can do if theyre actively blowing you off. harping on it just hurts more, talk to other women and move on
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:55 PM
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For anyone interested: Her twin sister was around us and chilling with one of my guy friends all night so I wasn’t talking to her to avoid cock blocking. There were a few times she added into the convos I had with her sister and she was being chill. Later on i’m in the club minding my business, vibing with friends. She leaves the side of my guy friend she was with nearby just to come up to me and tell me to go away and stand somewhere else, she had a bad attitude. I look her in the eyes trying t…
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:49 PM
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For me more like approach 20, 10 act interested, sleep with maybe 4
/r/seduction16/12/25 02:14 AM
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More often than not, they’ll disappear. You’ll learn this pretty quickly. You can meet a girl one night and think you really hit it off, maybe even get physical and then she will never answer your texts after you get her contact info. We know that women tend to behave and act on how they feel in a given moment and that’s always subject to change. It really fucks your head up the first couple of times it happens, just expect it and move on when they do that
/r/seduction15/12/25 09:05 PM
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Im not really too sure about what percent of the time it happens, it’s only been 4x ever but I don’t do approach like it’s a hobby, I do it a fair amount when I go out. On a night of going out I approach like 3-4 women and usually get their number. I go out a lot, usually every week
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:50 PM
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In those 4 instances it’s only been the early 20s aged women while out drinking. So I guess that’s one thing. I’m that age tho so not really much I can do
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:47 PM
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I wouldn’t say they scream / shout but in the 4x it ever happened they speak louder like they’re trying to assert themselves over me and talk over me while repeating “no” and / or “go away” it literally happened this same way each time. They do it like they don’t wanna hear a single word I have to say or even hear me talk like what a child would do when they don’t wanna listen to their parents.
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:46 PM
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Facts. One of the 4 times I’ve had that happen, I wasn’t even really cold approaching. A gay mutual friend brought some girls around to a bar we were at. Didn’t introduce them to the rest of us guys but it was loud and packed in there. That friend just disappeared and wasn’t answering the phone so I went to ask one of the girls he brought if they knew where he was. The one I asked kept cutting me off as I was trying to get the words out and was just saying “no” and cold shouldered me. A friend w…
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:40 PM
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It’s only happened in bars for me because that’s basically the only place I do it although I should change that. I’m not getting drunk at all but maybe them drinking has a bit to do with it.
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:29 PM
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I’m also in NYC, manhattan in particular. Yes men do it too but i’m just stating what I notice that’s all. It’s the same thing in bars in LES, they’re usually facing each other locked into a convo not looking away from it or towards the door or at who is around. I’m glad you’re observant tho, it’s necessary especially here so I commend you
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:42 AM
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I said a lot of women not all lol. And I know because walking around in the city i’m always observing and looking around, constantly making eye contact with other men doing the same thing. Women generally aren’t looking around at anything besides what’s in front of them or down at their phone, watch for it and you’ll see what I mean.
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:33 AM
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A lot of women have zero social awareness, they don’t see anything around them let alone make eye contact with anyone unless they’re actively looking for a guy in which case eye contact would be an indicator of interest but you’re right it’s rare they’re looking around at all so it’s best to make yourself seen by the approach
/r/seduction07/12/25 01:03 AM
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That’s a relief, it is kind of a shitty feeling when that happens. I wasn’t really phased last night because it’s happened before but the first 3 times it happened I was so caught off guard and shocked and it kind of ruined my night
/r/seduction06/12/25 09:04 PM
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Good I was worried it was just some weird visceral reaction that only happens to me i’m like wtf did i do lol
/r/seduction06/12/25 09:03 PM
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yea it all depends. I just feel like a really hot chick isn’t going to treat you like a subhuman even if they’re a little rude / dismissive. in my two experiences it felt like they didn’t even see me as an actual person with feelings. it was so bad to the point where one of my friends saw that happen and was like “dude wtf was that, that really wasn’t cool of her i’m sorry she treated you like that” it almost ruined my night but i brushed it off after like 10-15 mins
/r/seduction26/09/25 02:48 PM
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There were 2 times where I approached a woman and they were legitimately mean as fuck to me. Once to be friendly and another literally to ask an actual question, not about herself. They gave me the nastiest attitude, one told me to go away and the other just said “no” both did it repeatedly and interrupted me mid sentence before I can get 3 words out. You can already guess they were like 6s at best in the looks department Beautiful women that are 8+ have never been mean to me, actually the oppos…
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:19 PM
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So when I went out by my friends place in westchester they were hot actually, like blonde trad girls wearing crucifix necklaces. That’s what most girls were like in there. But in queens it’s mostly white or lighter hispanic girls but also not bad looking. But they’re queens white girls so they might be a bit more promiscuous and loose
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:19 AM
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oh dude it’s crazy at bars in the NYC metro area. I see it every single time in queens around bell blvd and i’ve seen it in white plains westchester. White chick looks bored and uninterested when a decent looking white guy approaches but if it’s a tall average black dude with a nice smile, not trying to seem the way you described, they’re all giggly and smiles no matter what he says or does. I’ve seen it way too much Sometimes i’ve even thought they’re doing it deliberately to not seem like they…
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:10 AM
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so what’s the deal with women who reply fast and sound enthusiastic when they do reply but then say no to hanging out
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:11 PM
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my first ever BJ, I was 17 and just learned the girls name at a backyard party, one fun fact she included upon introduction was that she loves sucking dick and is really good at it. I said let’s put that to the test and she blew me in the corner while well over 50 other people were around and many glancing over lol So i’d say about 4 minutes. I’ll never forget when she looked up and said your dick is way nicer than my boyfriends lol
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:34 PM
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i’ve only had one girl not want to see me again but she had issues and respectfully explained she wasn’t in a place to date but was begging for me to promise that she will see me again the night of date 1 lol. Everyone else has been repeat customers if I allow it
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:08 PM
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Your other tall friends don’t get the same attention? If you were to be honest do you feel as if they aren’t as attractive or in shape or is it that they don’t have presence? I feel location also plays a factor, my friends and I go out in NYC and younger women our age there, early 20s, seem to be a lot more cold towards even attractive men. They are very in their own bubble too focused on their own friends and some long drawn out convo to look around at other guys. Like other people don’t exist …
/r/seduction20/09/25 02:44 PM
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Yea game matters but I think it’s only to an extent. Me being 5’7 and decent looking, my game and charisma needs to be tight and I can pull 7s at best. I’m sure if he had my same confidence his upper limit could be 9s and he’d get laid more frequently. However my friend lacks confidence badly so my body count doubles his. Highly attractive but low confidence gets you nothing without luck. Highly attractive with only a little bit of confidence gets you better quality women and more frequent wins …
/r/seduction19/09/25 06:43 PM
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I’ve actually walked around a bar with him and tried to observe to see if women would look at him and they just don’t. I’ve seen him approach but his issue is he lacks confidence like badly and i’m sure it shows so those interactions don’t go too well. I can turn on my charisma sometimes and when i do it’s a lot better than him as a 5’7 guy with decent face card and it’s worked in my favor but there’s a limit to the quality of woman i can pull. I’ll put it this way, my body count doubles his. al…
/r/seduction19/09/25 06:39 PM
-4

I’ve only seen black guys get that reaction from white women, that’s about it as far as i’ve seen from observing at bars and such
/r/seduction19/09/25 06:01 PM
18

idk about that, i have a friend that’s like 6’4 attractive and fit, he seriously doesn’t even get any women to look his way and if he approaches they don’t really seem to bite. they give him the same treatment as me where its like i don’t exist until i approach and then it’s a dice roll if they’re receptive or not
/r/seduction19/09/25 05:37 PM
1

funny you say that, the one i fucked that night DID approach me first. she offered her standing spot to me because she saw i was taking pics and then started talking to me. I also only met the other girl because they were standing together. But i’ve also just gone up to them and made convo then had sex at a later date. Also yea the best women that catch my eye at shows are all taken bro i swear. 80% of them in there are taken so often i watch from afar to see if they go up and embrace their man …
/r/seduction18/09/25 08:26 AM
1

I feel good about my looks in a self confidence way but I have my insecurities. I think I have a pretty nice face and a nice body that i worked hard on but I don’t think i’m actually THAT attractive otherwise i’d be getting the type of women i wanted. Basically I look at myself and think hell yea I look good but then around women I go eh i’m like a 6/10 they don’t want me. I think my height is my downfall because im 5’7. I meet women at concerts mostly because we have shared interests there and …
/r/seduction18/09/25 08:15 AM
1

I genuinely believe I am very attractive in the face and I have a nice body. I have natural confidence, but when women see my height on dating apps that’s my downfall. I get nothing. In real life, they don’t see my height (as a written number) they just see me and that i’m taller than them but you should use that to your advantage in real life. So the concerts I go to are like underground punk / indie emo, it’s more intimate of a venue and there’s time in between sets and before / after the show…
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:48 AM
9

Great fucking show. Props on the reference. I swear when I watch californication often, My game improves so much it’s not even funny. I try to bring out my inner hank moody
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:29 AM
2

I feel the same as you. Except I checked out of dating apps because all that swiping with essentially no matches happening really does damage to my self esteem. I start to feel like i’m really ugly and there’s something wrong with me so I stop. Thing is I pull in real life, I’ve fucked 4 different women in 1 week and all of them were girls i met at concerts and such. So it’s the apps that are a problem for sure. I’ve also checked out of meeting women in real life because the ones who don’t rejec…
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:24 AM
1

What hoops do you jump through? are you mostly talking about the actual process of getting matches on dating apps? or jumping through hoops once you finally meet a woman that matches and responds to you?
/r/seduction18/09/25 06:55 AM
2

I have a friend who is autistic like zero social skills and says weird shit but he’s tan, has high prominent cheekbones and a sharp jawline, decently tall like 5’10. He gets HOTTIES to match with him across all apps and fumbles all of them by being weird LOL I try to steer him in the right direction but he can’t help himself
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:22 PM
2

damn maybe i gotta try snapchat game. Do you contact them first by sending a pic or something? Or reply to stories?
/r/seduction16/09/25 08:00 PM
2

You meet them through snapchat? I stopped using that in like 2018 so idk if thats a thing lol. But I mean after you smash, are you texting them and having phone conversations?
/r/seduction16/09/25 07:50 PM
3

I’m so sick of ghosting. That’s a long time for them to kinda be on the hook and then ghost when it’s about to lead to a meetup. I’ve had women express very high interest off the bat, even being the first to show it and then they enthusiastically agree to plans just to ghost me. That I cannot respect
/r/seduction16/09/25 07:46 PM
3

In between “dates”? If i go out with a girl and fuck i won’t text her again to set something up for like 5-7 days but i’ve also waited 2 weeks. Anything more might be a little cold and they might lose interest
/r/seduction16/09/25 07:40 PM
6

I get almost zero success on dating apps. I download them and get no good matches for a while then delete my account. I refuse to partake in it anymore. I think it’s because they see my height (5’6) and filter me out. I meet them in real life and then text them a few days later asking when they’re free
/r/seduction16/09/25 07:36 PM
25

Are you texting them at all? I don’t text any of the chicks I fuck, I just ask them when they’re free to hang out then I take them out and we have fun then fuck and that’s it. We don’t speak outside of the link. Nobody gets attached and they come back for more
/r/seduction16/09/25 07:31 PM
2

This is one of the best and most well said points i’ve seen in a while. I only disagree with the aspect of “you eventually will get adopted.” Stats show the likeliness of never marrying or having kids has exponentially increased over the years and the older we get the worse the odds get. That’s just reality. But yes harping on these useless truths won’t do any good. We must put in work on ourselves to become more attractive but if that’s not enough then it is what it is and that’s ok
/r/BlackPillScience23/08/25 11:39 PM
1

Holy shit my exact experience. Gave this chick a real good fuck, she gets in a lesbian relationship and when that crashes down she comes back to me for another great fucking session. The next day as i’m hungover to high hell she’s trying to get me to spend the day with her, get breakfast go to the beach, demanding kisses asking for my clothes to put on. Each time i’m like no no please no. I never wanted someone out of my house so desperately like that. She started wanting GF treatment and gettin…
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:47 PM
5

I knew a guy who was like a hippie that dressed weird and gave off those carefree IDGAF vibes. He was slightly bummy and looked malnourished, super skinny and often wore the same clothes and smelled like weed. To be honest he was a degenerate. He attracted more women than i’ve seen most normal men get. To be frank, the girls he attracted were also degenerates. But not only that he was super confident, he would essentially just tell girls hey you’re sexy we should fuck sometime and they’d oblige …
/r/seduction21/08/25 06:36 PM
1

Here’s the facts. I’m your age and since starting college i knew guys who are decent looking and have rarely ever had sex if at all and never had a girlfriend to this day. Those guys have one thing in common, it’s that they just simply do not care and put in zero effort when it comes to getting women. As someone who used to care so much and would try, and often was successful but have become deeply pessimistic and stopped caring or chasing at all just like those guys, i’ve reverted to essentiall…
/r/seduction13/08/25 04:38 PM
1

Yes, and unfortunately i’ve come to find that the women who initiate sex and are very forward about it, happen to be a little crazy with some emotional / attachment issues or are just a lot to handle and very demanding. It’s not really the good thing a lot of men think it is. I’ve noticed the girls i’ve had to work harder for to actually have sex or get on a date happen to be the more well rounded and emotionally sound women
/r/seduction13/08/25 03:43 PM
1

I’ve (27M) pretty much completely given up. I used to have a positive outlook and decent connections then one day each new woman I meet turns out to be just a bad person who couldn’t care if I died. I’m done trying because a few more failures and I think it will do serious damage to my mental well being. I think it’s a product of the times or something, I have no clue but for now it isn’t worth the effort.
/r/seduction09/08/25 03:42 AM
1

can you show me as well?
/r/seduction08/11/24 06:12 AM
14

even when i manage to get my foot in the door i get ghosted eventually. even when i become slightly flirty to move it forward that’s when they soon go away
/r/seduction24/10/24 06:05 PM
1

She lives over an hour away with multiple tolls, we were both 15 mins from my house at the time she asked. I had work 7 am the next day and she didn’t. I ain’t going to her place brother. I’ll consider it payback for when my parents did the same to me as a kid, they’ll get over it like I did
/r/seduction08/07/24 07:41 PM
-5

I’m getting a new bed frame to help, you know those ain’t cheap. I’m not going to just pause my dating life id rather do what I can to mitigate problems
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:22 PM
4

This girl specifically is a friend that I probably see once a month maybe twice and it’s with a group. She told me that night we should have been doing that a lot sooner and she’s wanted to fuck me badly for about a year. She said she remembers some times I had my arm around her waist and she found it hot, she invited the touching those times and gave signs like standing close by or brushing against me. I’m always fun around her but never being too goofy, just chill and smile often. That night s…
/r/seduction08/07/24 02:27 PM
-8

I just banged a girl Saturday night until 5 am. My bed frame is cheap and makes noise with every movement and my headboard smacks into my wall. She made noise too and none of that stops me because i’m enjoying myself and so is she. My house is small with my parents across the hall. My mom is nosy and goes out of her way to try and see this girl as she’s exiting the bathroom and stays awake because she wants to know exactly what i’m doing and who i’m seeing. She has cameras around the outside of …
/r/seduction08/07/24 02:11 PM
5

You’re very right about how they dress correlating to how open they are to being approached. They look pretty because they want to feel pretty and the way that happens is when men approach them in a respectful way and flirt with them. That’s why they’re more open to conversation
/r/seduction01/06/24 12:08 AM
1

This. There’s so many reasons why someone wouldn’t get involved with you that aren’t always because you’re a failure of a man or they just don’t like you enough.
/r/seduction10/05/24 05:28 PM
1

I like this outlook. Until someone really knows you, they can’t actually reject you. All they did was choose to not give you a shot, for whatever reason it is, it doesn’t matter. True rejection is if they really got to know you and then decided they simply don’t like you enough
/r/seduction10/05/24 05:23 PM
7

Looks don’t matter that much. It’s all about their ego and how they perceive guys that are interested in them. Some women will think they’re hot shit and laugh in your face when you approach but they’re a 5 at best. You can have a 9 that’s an absolute sweetheart and is willing to give you a shot. I’ve found women that look “out of my league” to be way nicer and responsive to me than 6s who think they’re hot shit and are masking deep insecurities
/r/seduction10/05/24 05:17 PM
1

People have always been concerned about their appearance, worst case scenario they try this stuff and realize it’s fake then move on. I’ve been there done that
/r/seduction16/02/24 05:20 AM
1

I tried it over a year ago before it became a meme and it genuinely didn’t do anything for my appearance. Granted I have genetic face fat that I can’t get rid of so maybe the gains are hidden by that. I find the meme hilarious and I feel like it’s making fun of people like me who thought it was real lmao
/r/seduction16/02/24 05:18 AM
1

Yea it’s a complete meme. I’m sure some ppl are curious if it’s legit. I was buying into these things over a year ago so I know it’s bogus. At what cost? Doing dumb shit with my tongue and buying jaw exercisers? I spent like $25 total and realized after a few months that it didn’t do anything. The loss is negligible, nobody is shelling out large sums of money for this stuff. People are making money off of it tho that’s for sure.
/r/seduction16/02/24 05:14 AM
1

All good points actually, my only criticism is that you mentioned coffee shop as an alternative which personally, like eating in front of someone, can be a bit gross and a turn off. Coffee breath is such a turn off for me and it’s so easy to get it. Just a couple sips and your breath is bad and mouth tastes like shit until you brush your teeth. I’d never want to kiss someone or talk close to someone after drinking it but maybe that’s just me. I don’t really indulge in it
/r/seduction30/01/24 02:34 PM
13

it’s always the dudes like that who get unbelievable amounts of pussy. I remember in highschool there was one kid who was an absolute mess, he looked and acted very feminine, was high all the time and has no goals or ambitions. didn’t even have a car when everyone else did, still doesn’t but he was so upfront and direct with women and I guess he knew the types of girls to go for that he was banging someone new pretty much bi-weekly
/r/seduction11/09/23 11:25 AM
2

I think the main benefit money has when it comes to dating (and it’s a big one), is actually having the money to take them out to fun places and show them a good time. Higher quality restaurants and more fun date locations that cost money that people who don’t make as much aren’t willing to spend to make sure a girl has a blast with you. They take her to a local italian spot that may be nice but you’re taking her to the best steakhouse within miles and aren’t feeling the expense as much. You can…
/r/seduction11/09/23 11:20 AM
141

It’s so much easier said than done. for me at least, It takes feeling genuinely good in a moment and feeling like I look particularly good and I’m just in an overall positive resourceful state. Then on top of that I have to be in the right setting where there’s an abundance of single women who are open to talking to someone new. Otherwise I feel there’s no use
/r/seduction15/08/23 12:12 AM
1

I feel the same, recently went through a breakup after being in a relationship for years and being single is a rude awakening. Makes it worse that I was able to get girls much easier before I was in a relationship and now that i’m single I get literally zero female attention
/r/seduction06/09/22 08:55 AM
2

Some guys are just taken as they are without working on themselves because they have something you don’t and it may not be obvious to you. Everyone knows a guy that’s lame that just pulls girls for seemingly zero reason. It’s just the way it goes. I think you only really need to work on yourself for your own confidence unless you really are lacking heavily in something important. Let’s say you have a sub-optimal understanding of how to have successful social interactions with people, you need to…
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:10 AM
1

I do it strictly for aesthetics or bodybuilding purposes
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:16 AM
1

Yea just like they say about dressing up and wearing makeup. They can ask the same question about why I lift at the gym and id give that same response for that too
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:12 AM
1

that makes sense now
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:53 PM
1

I do want to know lol, no judgment
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:12 PM
6

Girls don’t inherently have value. Their value lies in their looks. This is just a double standard enforced by some fake toxic masculine complex. A man’s appearance matters less than a woman’s appearance does, i’m sure we agree on that, but some men can’t even get their foot in the door without appearing like they’re the right height despite all of their accolades and other appearance factors like being jacked, well groomed, nice hair/face etc. Even having good game and confidence wouldn’t matte…
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:00 AM
25

If a girl likes you already, doing more won’t help anything. In fact it makes it worse. If she’s the one chasing you, she won’t be running away. Keep this dynamic. Contact her first once in the blue only to keep her from becoming discouraged but mostly only to set dates and let her do the rest of the contacting
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:34 AM
1

Tbh I kinda don’t believe you at this moment but let’s say you are telling the truth (who really knows) i’d like to hear about how exactly you get so much free choice in sex with women every single day. It seems like you have it all figured out and if that’s the case how have you not entered a serious relationship if that’s what you want? I feel like at this point it’s wayyy easier for me to enter a LTR than it is for me to just get random sex let alone plenty of it which is what i’m currently a…
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:15 AM
15

Imagine instead of a man this post was made by a woman, and instead of height inserts it was makeup. Women don’t fear that a man will leave them because he sees her without makeup. It’s expected that a chick isn’t really as good looking as she appears to be on a weekend night at the club. No guy expects a girl that wears lots of makeup to be at the same level of attractiveness when she washes it off. It’s also not something you’re supposed to call out. Why is it such a sin for a guy to wear heig…
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:10 AM
5

But literally tho. It’s so normal for Women to wear makeup to turn from a 6 to an 8 in looks. What’s so bad about a guy turning from let’s say 5’6 to 5’8. Women generally care so much about height that this difference can literally make a guy go from a 6 to an 8 in attractiveness to them. Someone tell me i’m wrong about that. It’s completely fair this way. although i’d argue if you’re already 5’8 or taller it probably doesn’t benefit you that much more unless tall women are your thing
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:02 AM
3

This. If it’s useful for anything it’s extremely useful for this. The girls that wear platform heels or boots at concerts are doing it for this exact reason plus it’s stylish. As someone who loves concerts it’s made my experiences way better. I wear them to bars too and sadly women are way more receptive to me when I have them in. If I were to ever take my shoes off in front of a girl that I met with them on they prob wouldn’t even notice much of a difference and if they do i’d just say oh these…
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:57 AM
2

I do the same thing just not 4 inches. Mine boost me about 2.75-3 inches. I only wear them when I go out to bars/clubs or concerts. Women wear makeup and push-up bras and even wear heels to go out. The heels itself makes them taller so you should be able to wear those to supplement that. It should be perfectly fine for shorter guys to wear lifts on special occasions especially if women are initially more receptive to you that way whereas before you were overlooked. It’s not a big deal just try t…
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:53 AM
4

Same but I can’t find a girl to do it with honestly. I just got out of a LTR and want to bang nearly any woman and all kinds but don’t really know how right now. Ive been out of the game too long
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:50 AM
8

Yea but if you got divorced or go through a breakup and have to actually date in the world we now live in i bet you’ll relate to the shit you find laughable in here. I was just as smug as you guys are until I had to be single again after a bunch of years
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:41 AM
11

no you don’t lol
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:48 AM
3

It’s true, in this day and age that would effectively hurt your dating game. A lot of older experts would say not to text at all unless it’s to set up a date or waiting until the day of the date to send a quick text. I think it’s good for a mystery sense but younger generation women tend to take this as disinterest and would rather you actually text them
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:57 PM
16

I feel you here but i’ve also heard the complete opposite, the girl who would become my LTR said she was upset that I didn’t kiss her on the first date and considered it disinterest or lacking the confidence to do it. But then again she became my gf so i guess i did something right
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:51 PM
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