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Let's check for financial compatibility. Life goal compatibility. Moral compatibility. Emotional compatibility. Hobby compatibility And when all of thouse are established, and only then, can we talk about sexual compatibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:42 PM
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There's actually a horror movie called "frozen" about three people stuck on a ski-lift. See that would have been funny, a double feature of frozen and frozen. (I personally loved both) But it would require he buys two DVDs and put actual thought into it so i guess that's too hard : /
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:34 PM
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While the other points are good, sex is not a "need" it's a "want" You do not need sex like you need food or shelter. It's perfectly possible to live a fulfilling life without ever having sex. Too many times people use "he has needs" to justify cheating, prostitution or even rape. It's a want, plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:09 PM
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I'll add Breaking bad. The main character is pretty much abusive, yet his poor wife gets shit on all the time for being suspicious while he's starting a freaking drug empire "ShE's InvAdInG hIs pRivAcY" It's a good show, but so many men fail to see that walter is obviously the bad guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:26 PM
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On the flip side, my ex did chores that took me 30 mins in half the time, because he wasn't doing them properly and then said it's my fault for taking so long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:00 PM
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To add on to this: -your standards are not to high, -you're not "too hard to impress" -you're not too picky -you don't have to give them a chance, -you're not incapable of romantic love just because you haven't found anyone that you genuinely like yet, the choices probably just suck Because i always hear that you shouldn't worry about no one wanting to date you, but rarely about you just not wanting to date anyone, even though you do have the option
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:52 PM
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Not to mention that the average woman puts way more effort into her appearance, of course a more attractive person gets easier dates Buy some conditioner and a decent button up and stop whining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:11 PM
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"That's so unfair, it's not my fault you're on your period, why do i get punished too" Implying that it's her fault, this is her punishment and that she deserves to be in pain or uncomfortable God i hate lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:08 PM
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Video games and beer? Has this person met the average woman? The most popular game among my 30+ female relatives and acquaintances is candy crush, while other creative hobbies are much more common (painting, sewing, knitting, jewellery making etc). And the most popular drink is definitely either champagne or wine, but i guess that wouldn't look bad enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:47 AM
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Note that you can go through the trouble of cleaning his nasty room and STILL be labeled a "shitty gf"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:51 PM
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At first i thought this might be a cute flow chart as a message against all those pathetic elitist "you're not a real gamer if you only play animal crossing or sims" But no, it's another stupid dating app, complete with an "i hate fun" neg at anyone who doesn't want to use it. Also why are there 2 different paths for the same answer? Crappy design
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:45 PM
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I didn't edit my reply at all, from the start i said she's not worth it to him. Maybe you skipped over it the first time, but i never said anything else. That is my full original statement. I did say he doesn't value her, but i was under the impression that most women of this sub would know that a man not valuing something doesn't mean shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:16 AM
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I believe you are missing my point, i did not mean it in the way you understood it She's not worth it TO HIM. Of course she deserves a man that puts actual effort into the relationship, but he is obviously not that man, because he does not value her like he SHOULD. That's on him and him only A man not valuing someone or something says absolutely nothing about the actual value. There's plenty of things most men don't value enough. (Like housework, or the work it takes women to look beautiful, or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:59 AM
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Even if they were that stupid (which really? Are you trying to insult yourself?) it takes 30 seconds tops to create a reminder on your phone She's not worth the 30 seconds of writing it down to him, much less the 30 mins it would take to drive to the store. He does not value her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:43 AM
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Hmm so it's a app for hook ups, but if you put that in your bio you won't get any dates... Perhaps because you know damn well most women are looking for dates, not causal sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:26 AM
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A small thing but "I'm good at cooking" And then doesn't even own more than 3 usable spices... And then tears up the whole kitchen leaving it a complete mess...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:36 PM
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No, she's not a saint. Stop doing this. Stop glorifying women for sacrificing their health, career and happiness for NVM who would never in a million years do the same for her. She stayed with a cheating man who most likely couldn't be bothered to wear a condom (risking her getting std) and is now pushing all the childcare duties for his child on her. I feel for her, but this narrative is pushed onto women way too often, and we need to call it out. She was being a doormat. I'm glad she's learned…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:17 PM
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My brother once gave me a Christmas present wrapped in the plastic bag he got from the store...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:56 PM
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Don't insult noseferatu like that After all from what I remember the guy had a fully furnished castle...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:44 AM
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I did When i was 16 and my "friends" pushed me to "finally" start dating because i was such a loner. Dumped him after the second date because he had the audacity to complain that i didn't text him (first!) while i was puking my guts out. Boy bye I wished i could say i learned my lesson then but it took me another year to get my standards up. And damn I'm glad that i did. Swapped out walk dates for museum then dinner dates. So much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:40 AM
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The only place i can think of that has coupons is McDonald's.... I mean I've seen some decent restaurants that offer gift cards, but even that I'd save for a friend rather than a date. Not to mention "activity for 2" gift cards are usually given to couples
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:48 AM
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The majority of sex workers don't want to be sex workers but have trouble finding another job. We should not throw these poor women under the train wreck of NVM who think buying sex is ok. Giving men a subclass of women to abuse is still abuse of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:50 AM
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I always understood it as "you say you have a car, but you actually don't" It's repeated in the "your best friends car" part. I think she's not upset about the walking, but that he doesn't actually have a car at all. I know i would never date a carless guy again. it's incredibly inconvenient and over the age of 20 frankly embarrassing and reflects on other parts of his life. Maybe it's different in countries or even city's with better public transportation, but I'm not living there so thank you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:44 PM
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He wants her to have sex with him 1-2 times a week, in the way that he likes it, without looking like she's in pain in positions she's not comfortable in or they won't get children. Oh and he's bothered she doesn't want his cum on the sheets. He's coercing her into sex Sex by coercion is rape Reddit: ya He's right you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:22 AM
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And 150$ of that is just weed and alcohol...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:10 PM
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While i congratulate you on your realization about yourself, FDS did not "turn" you gay. Being gay is an initiate trait that cannot be turned on or off by choice, people don't change their sexuality because they have been provided reason to. (Straight women prove this time and time again) Noone turns gay they just are, sometimes without realising it. This distinction is important because too many straight men pressure or even force lesbians to give them a chance and that they'll "turn them strai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:12 AM
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"She's also homeschooling our kids" 42 hours work homeschooling (usually around 30 hrs/week) housekeeping ( let's say 10 hrs/week) cooking (with 3 meals a day at least 7hrs) = 89 hours This poor lady is doing almost 90 hours while he's doing 0. But he's the one with a burn out....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:57 PM
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Screenshot from r/wholesomemes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:36 PM
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Notice how the only negative female groups he could name were us and "leg beards". Women who don't want to date toxic men and women who don't shave their legs. That's the worst thing he could come up with. Imagine being so privileged that this is all you have to worry about. Women not dating you because you don't put effort into the relationship. Women not shaving to be appealing to you 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:58 PM
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i can see how it can be interpreted both ways, but i really hope yours is right. At least a little faith in humanity restored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:00 AM
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She "gets to" space out sex because she's hurting. Gets to as if it's a gift from him, as if he's doing her a favor by not hurting her. She gets to avoid sex she doesn't want, see he's being so gracious and caring! I didn't even need to read beyond that to know that the whole man is thrash And people are actually bugging her about the C-section? What on earth? "Get a major abominal surgery so your man can get his dick wet" how is that even being discussed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:39 AM
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Yeah, i was suspicious at first but then i got to the last part and she's actually diagnosed as depressed! And of course he didn't mention it in the main post 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:49 PM
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How incredibly uncaring can a partner get. She is dealing with depression and all he cares about is her weight and how inconvenient it is for him to carry her things. But no it's just "the gamer lifestyle" the depression wasn't involved in this, not at all. How stupid can you be to think that it won't affect exercise, especially when she wasn't the most active anyway? Get that woman a doctor already, maybe throw in a divorce attorney while you're at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:35 PM
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Adding some series/movies -fight club breaking bad -Rick and mortey -bojack horseman -you (the stalker show) -any anime with overly sexualized women/girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:21 PM
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What kind of hocus pocus is this Bullshit? Losing weight will make his dick bigger? How is that even supposed to work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:47 AM
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Report them! We can't let these scrotes drive us away from useful things, we should try to push them out instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:24 AM
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I think it really depends on the person. There are plenty of women who show off their new Kitchen aid on baking subreddits, just as there are a lot of men raving about their new tools. In this case he's complaining but i know a lot of men (and a few women, myself included) who would be overjoyed getting good quality tools. These things can be very expensive, they usually last long and it's a good, useful investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:18 PM
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But women are the ones that make a big deal out of height 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:00 PM
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They want a girl with flawless skin but make fun of her if she spends money, time or effort on make up or skincare They want a neck to feet hairless girl with long beautiful hair on her head but hate when her showers take more than 15 min They want a thin girl but get annoyed when she orders a salad They want a thicc butt but don't want her to spend time at the gym, much less pay for it They want a woman with nice clothes but ridicule her for going shopping All the rewards without any of the wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:26 AM
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What do you mean you want to wear HEELS on our date?! Do you want to embarras me? How DARE you wear anything over 1 cm! Get back home and switch your shoes NOW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:30 PM
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I genuinely don't understand how they can really be delusional enough to believe this shit. The average woman puts so much more time in her appearance. She takes care of her skin, uses masks, exfoliates regularly, uses serums, gets her vitamins, takes care of her hair, does sport and so forth How can men think that they can skip all of that and believe that they'll still turn out better looking? How can they look at the average 40 year old woman and the average 40 year old man and say that the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:15 PM
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If you find yourself in a similar situation: wait until a red light or very low speed, pull the hand brake and get out of there ASAP. You never know how quickly these men can get dangerous or violent. Also report them! Talk to their bosses, stand up for yourself and other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:57 PM
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It's not the boobs that they hate, it's the women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:10 PM
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Right? He's not even letting THEM play, just making them watch. It's one thing to introduce your kids to your hobbies and teach them how to do it, but to just make them sit there while you're having fun? Not to mention that a 2yo shouldn't have that much screen time anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:42 PM
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This is the only problem i see with straight up telling them it's not working out. The possibility that they might get violent. Always choose a public space when meeting men you don't know! He's less likely to get angry, and if he does there will be someone to help you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:28 PM
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*less than the bare minimum And expect you to be grateful for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:17 PM
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The poor girl couldn't see clearly for 5 MONTHS and he gets 12 days + 80 work hours... He'll be done with his sentence years before She'll recover from this. We need more women in law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:54 AM
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Not your barbie girl - ava max King and queens - ava max High-school sweethearts - Melanie Martinez You don't own me - grace Woman up - Megan Trainor Lips are moving - Megan Trainor Womanizer - Britney spears And for my ladies who need help getting over him: Lose you to love me - Selena gomez Jokes on you - Charlotte Lawrence Shake it out - Florence and the machine Blow me - pink Ain't your mama - Jennifer lopez You gotta not - little mix Boy - little mix Done - Beth Crowley I am not nothing - B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:33 PM
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I mean I'd get someone being happy they don't have kids, they're not for everyone. ...but health insurance? ... Taxes? Correct me if this is different in the US but wouldn't you need either a really low paid job or no job at all to archive no taxes? That's more hardly working than hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:11 AM
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Mind telling us the Name so non Spotify users can look it up on YouTube?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:42 AM
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Am I the only one bothered by the last part? "Controversial social comments were largely focused on stances on abortion and gun control" They didn't even specify what stances, so we're left to guess. And looking at the rest of this shit-show I'll go ahead and guess the worst. They're saying advocating for women's reproductive rights is unprofessional. God i hate LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:21 AM
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If they really didn't want their personal life on social media, they wouldn't have non-annonymous social media accounts. You could Google their name and next to nothing comes up. (I personally prefer this but to each their own) But You willing to post your car, your flat, your job and your face but not your girlfriend? That's a big no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:04 PM
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Newsflash idiot: ALL humans were birthed by women. Every inventor Every scientist Every politican Every doctor ALL OF THEM came from a woman's womb. Every single one. If you're really going to blame mothers for their sons deeds, you better praise them for their contributions to society too. From electricity to the internet to the very continuation of the human race, nothing would be possible without mothers. Mothers give life and it's about time we start respecting that gift more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:42 AM
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In one of the comments he says he expected around 100$. I have no idea how someone can be this dense about the price of clothing. My prom shoes were 100€! Just the shoes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:20 PM
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You mean the types of careers women are pushed into along every step on the way from kindergarten toys to high school politic discussions? The type that they don't get judged for, where they have female colleagues, equal changing- and restrooms and bosses that don't think less of them for being a woman? That don't give out worse grades because you happen to be female? Where they don't have to see the porn posters their colleagues hung up? I'm a woman in tech and this type of thinking just annoys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:13 AM
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Alright, that's enough Internet for today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:14 PM
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70$. 70$ for something she'll want to wear the rest of her life. Something that shouldn't break or dent easily, something that shouldn't leave stains on her hands. Something to symbolise his love and value to her. I'm not a person to spend too much on jewellery, and I personally hate the diamond industry, and even i can recognise that ring won't last. The bar is so low it has dug it's way below the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:47 AM
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Where is that post? Someone needs to tell her that she needs to go to the doctor. She's already thinking of it, but this is absolutely necessary. Strangulation is incredibly dangerous and death can occur days after it happened. Most victims underestimate the severity. If you don't want to post it here, please send her this link https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/health-issues-result-from-strangulation/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:44 PM
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Am I the only one who thinks the picture would look way better without someone standing in it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:34 PM
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I've noticed this too and I hate it so, so much. There are so many shows and movies with these absolute lvm scoring hvw. Just today we were watching a movie IN SCHOOL where the main character is an unemployed, tactless, fat, ugly man who lives in a trailer in his mom's garden. And he still manages to get a good looking woman, currently working, has a flat, and cooks for him, who loves him deeply for absolutely no reason. He's not even nice to her! (Who guessed it? A male teacher put it on, the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:27 PM
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Look into your countries weapons law. In Germany owning pepper spray as defense against humans is not allowed, but owning it as defense against animals and using it on a human attacker is legal. Also fighting knifes are often prohibited, but maybe you just "borrowed" that kitchen knife from a friend and it's in your purse and now that you've been attacked, you just panicked and used it to defend yourself. A big Umbrella can also be used, but they can be inconvenient and will look a little weird …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:56 PM
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It ain't even 50:50 at the start. Dinner is more expensive than lunch, a good suit is often more expensive than shoes, and depending on your cinema snacks are more expensive than the tickets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:52 PM
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I actually think if you look beyond ss she's an incredible character. In some versions of the comics she breaks free from the joker and learns to respect herself more. And that story of overcoming abuse is a very powerful one, one that inspires hope and courage. I haven't seen the movie yet but I've listed to the soundtrack. "joke's on you" is a very good recovery song. I hope this movie will do her character development justice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:30 PM
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Honestly me neither. But when this story appeared on my newsfeed I couldn't help but think of this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:51 PM
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Taken from r/meirl Wouldn't let me Crosspost for some reason so now it's a screenshot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 02:20 PM
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I hate this so so much. People pretending to be woke while telling you who you should date. Give short men a chance, give fat men a chance, give Asian men a chance, give black men a chance, give disabled men a chance, give broke men a chance, give trans men a chance And as soon as you say that's not your type you are labeled shallow/racist/abelist/transphobic or a gold digger. F* right off with that shit. I date who I want to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:13 PM
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you bet they are the same kind of people that would complain when his SO is earning more than them because they feel "emasculated"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:34 PM
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Old enough to know how to spell hello at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:26 PM
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"why? Get into it girl" 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:17 AM
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My first relationships were basically all me giving them a chance. I wasn't attracted to them. Not at all. But they were to me and society and all my friends were telling me to give them that chance so I could "finally" (at 17 cause that's apparently "late" now) get a bf. And what a bunch of losers they all turned out to be. From not knowing how to keep one single room clean, failing their second attempt at university to getting upset I don't start texting when I'm at home sick. I dumped them al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:46 AM
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A lot of men might like tall women, but only as long as they're not taller than them. I know a lot of men who reacted negatively to me wearing heels cause they didn't like that I was taller than them. Not even potential partners but friends and colleagues and even my bffs little brother. Idgaf if a dude I'm dating is smaller than me but I will never stop wearing heels for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:06 PM
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Dump him yesterday You deserve better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:59 PM
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