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Inner Game achievingWinner/r/seduction23/12/20 11:20 PM
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Fuckong einstein bro here i was thinking he was an autistic geek, homie was slinging his dingaling keft and right
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:30 PM
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Woahhhh woahhhhh. Its not testable? Ive trsted for hpv they told me if it doesnt show you dont have it The f, did they lie? Can you have it as a guy but be have test show clean?
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah as a man i definatly second this - in my experience it only throws up mental doubts that block them from just the experience of getting to know you and noticing how they feel about you. Its not like lying about your age, thats an important thing Inexperience with sex is something that disappears after a few sessions youl have the hang of it and youl grow at a fast pace well beyond that You tell her later in the dating process En huge respect for you putting your food down and committing to …
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:59 PM
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Men need guy friends you can discuss man issues sbout If need be a good therapist to work shit through woth Some kind of mentor male figure Many of is dont do have most or even any
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:09 AM
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Not if your being honest
/r/seduction11/01/21 12:54 PM
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Uhh no its not, wtf shes right, being man is far more empowering
/r/seduction07/01/21 07:01 PM
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Why do people always say this, reddit is super usefull to me for almost all my reaearch on so many topics
/r/seduction05/01/21 04:32 PM
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Shittests dont automaticly get you laid Again these huge misconceptions, nobody says that. You insist on knocking over strawmen Arguments that nobody is making, and only live in your head. Nobody said that Your friend is right, they either do it to flirt, or because they are disrespecting you, And sometimes thats because theyre unattracted, other times because they are princesses If they are hyper attracted to you in that moment, they definatly wont be doing it, theyl be un their finest behaviou…
/r/seduction05/01/21 04:31 PM
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Shittests are how people naturally ping eachother, how can it be fake? Its moddeled off of real people doing it naturally Its literally everywhere, some huge misconceptions about what it is if you think its “fake”
/r/seduction05/01/21 04:22 PM
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Mystery method is not the pillar of puaing There is alot of stuff in there, thats performance based And wouldnt really recommend it You also got pumped full of theories way to young, 13 is to early for that Anyway ghis is not usefull conversation I wish you all the best! I hope you find your way via whatever path will suit you All the best
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:32 PM
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You seem to misunderstand lots, lol Seen people kiss a girl from the start?, yes, Multiple times. Though thats not something that should be pursued. Lol Not a single serious pua ever claims to fuck all number closes. Not even close . Thats mot at all how it works I especially liked your “im sorry dude the truth is harsh, its all fake” uhm to clear some things up: the people i know that do pua are all fucking, doing pua. this is not theory, Bro the retarded opening over the shoulders is not a pil…
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:26 PM
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Pick up is dead bromi They dont know what it is anymore, have weird misconceptions And untill they see it properly done They dont have any sense of what the words referr to Then thers also tons of misguided stuff wriite. On it to
/r/seduction02/01/21 11:04 AM
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Lol why do you engage in this His opinions are mostly the result of his very poor understanding of pickup Hes respomding to mirages The moment you need to explain that ahittests are real. Shittests the basis of any respect negotiating interaction with all genders Then its time to tap out Its status pinging, Other way of saying its people either: -sizing you up -being a spoiled entitled brat (male or female) that kind of oversteps by default, untill and unless boundaries are asserted and negotiat…
/r/seduction02/01/21 11:01 AM
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Well you should aim to generate the confidence, and right behaviours, through deep understanding of the why so it can naturally come out Just initating doing fake outergame doesnt get you there But you probably didnt mean thar Pickup is dead dude, the real generation is mostky gone I see guys doing coaching that just rehash Some of it was creepy (as fuck) because it was weird guys doing whatever to overcome their fears n inner atruggles, And alot of women hate to be honest. But the heart of it w…
/r/seduction02/01/21 10:53 AM
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Yeah you have a very poor understanding of what puaing is Most fuck boys do alot of it only it comesout of a different attitude, what you describe isceeepy but isnt at fhe heart of puaing Very over simplistic examples Fuck boys pulling away attention when she starts acting high class, Thats a shit test, it happens all the time And almost exclusively gets overcome by punishing it, by teasing, by making it ridiculous, just ignoring it and continuing You dont Actually set out to punish, its just ab…
/r/seduction02/01/21 10:46 AM
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Ohh i just have a harsh way with words sometimes when im in a hurry, dont mean anything by it. Dont take it to serious. I think i Based that off the examples. Also as a Sidenote regardless of your ability i dont think theres anything wrong with poor online skills either, its a ridiculous skillset to need in the first place, to deal with internet women with strange behaviours You to! Have a good one tonight! Happy new year
/r/seduction31/12/20 01:16 PM
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Yeah fair enough, I get what your saying dont get me wrong, definatly have boundaries But at the same time some of it comes w/ the online game territory n expecting all tinder matches to fly wide open instantly would be silly Akin to expecting every open in real life to be wildly enthousiastic Never the less alot of stale opens turn into good number closes , good date n good dating That was more my point, i definatly agree theres a point you choose to invest your time better. Its a middle ground…
/r/seduction31/12/20 12:43 PM
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Yeah know when to cut your losses And know when your kidding yourself Op is kidding himself, he just has no skill in getting online reaponsiveness. Im pretty rusty myself Your just not a high priority at the start doing online Its all about the date Cant be cutting out any low effort responders, most offen are likethat in the beginning
/r/seduction31/12/20 10:15 AM
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Exactly, only goal is to get a meeting - where the actial meeting a person happens, thats the date the seeing whats up All before is nonsense Shitty ditsy dumb texters will turn out to be legit cool girls, not just attractive
/r/seduction31/12/20 10:10 AM
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Yup this isnt a boundaries post, yhis is a im clueless how to get responsiveness online posts. Im pretty damn rusty online , been to long,lost most what i learned But getting back in the saddle
/r/seduction31/12/20 10:06 AM
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Yeah offcource, but also understand that with online dating it wont always start off like that Obviously have boundaries But the 90/ 10 rule 60/40. Followed by 40/50 ratios of talking are there for a reason Yes for sure you need boundaries and standards for reciprocation But this just looks like giving up, out due to lack of skill in how to engage Akin to opening in the real wod and (r)ejecting yourself because she didnt immediatly gave a huge smile and atarted hugging you n kissing you Yes boun…
/r/seduction31/12/20 10:01 AM
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I havem, found them yeah This was more ment as a topic for everybody to post there favorite “life changing” resources in Im not actually gonna read all this start to end, im looking for refreshers on many points So i was planning on browsing through many books Was looking the most for things on frame, risk taking , courage, intent And on masculinity n the attitudes that come w/ it
/r/seduction28/12/20 08:07 PM
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How you gonn call 911 then when they robbing the gas station?
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:38 AM
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Did he numberclose bro?
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:37 AM
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Rofl, asking the time Yeah that one is not “normal , safe,” social request anymore I mean your phone could be off i guess, its definatly not a normal request anymorw
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:35 AM
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No i agree, stalking can definatly horribly thing. Om not toting an all woman are attention whores type if deal. I just know from experience and extensive socialising and having female friends there are plenty i mean alot that allow their orbiters Wether it be as a backup As a source of attention Alot of women admit it if you dig into it. And ive had tons of personal experiences Guys do it to
/r/seduction17/12/20 07:11 PM
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Lets be real seriously setiously telling them you arebt having it she can actually do Unless real stalker they will get the hint Usually its somewhat allowing it, somewhat liking it Even if she may not be full on talkng to them
/r/seduction16/12/20 12:22 PM
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Yeah i just lead, nothing outlandish but if the girl has weird nervous kiss, its time for me to take controll Im not gonna get lead into her crazy domain of the weird, where kissing is retarded But i guess yeah you do feel out the vibe Mostly the vibe Kissing on high arousal level is different from more chill npt there yet
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:32 PM
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Dude how old are you for you to say that? Since novody was thinking it Imagining a whitehaired 68 year old with a cane Whats this tongue not getting passed the teeth stuff Thats just a horney thing It will definatly go passed durinh sex Depending on the sex
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:29 PM
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Theres a reason people and esp men used to get shaped by their strong masc fathers, through what realy was a nonstop education plus in field in real time coaching. Plus a non stop living breatjing example Thats how the right structures get forned
/r/seduction19/11/20 07:18 PM
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I think what people are always forgetting when they say this(and im a fan of this belief). That being able to do that has underpinning it a complex series of skills, abilities, internal processes, beliefs, perspectives and ways of focussing That can be developed, but when people are not, and are in victim mentality. Those things are missing So saying dont be a victim usually wont get them magicly all the learnings that develop how to do that. Most people will say yeah but i was like that at some…
/r/seduction19/11/20 07:11 PM
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Yeah but also so you got to look at the full picture of starting point different people are coming from Alot really need a specific development tract on feveloping man - to woman type of way of being Theyre often deeply stiffled, layers of this created a kind of castrated persomality towards women They need it What you say valid But plenty of dudes get that n thrn stil are nowhere So its yes and no
/r/seduction06/11/20 08:59 PM
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Yup i agree Its one of those dumb things, General social skill is a big issue for many yes As well as low key n not so low key social anxiety Those 2 are real issues n need to be adressed Especially the sa and showing yourself to the world issueS But, actually relating to girls is not just being social like you said The man to woman, masculinr energy, intent Flirting Pukking thr trigger Escalating Daring Thats a big piece of important development
/r/seduction06/11/20 08:56 PM
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I was about to say exactly this, I wouldnt take it so far were not living in small tribes anymore but its something to take into account Theres a reason people used to go to the next city to do their worst chrash and burning and really press to fears Offcource in a huge city theres alot more space especially in huge clubs, but even there it comes up If your in a small city its a very real issue Approach anxiety has different facets to it they used to never talk about it Theres fear of actually t…
/r/seduction24/10/20 05:30 PM
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From your questions n things you say: You really just need to get out, be in a place where you can socialise more n better n tons of things will begin to into place Get in line with your purpose n things will begin to work. And you need to be able to take shots, But in a place where you cant even text n is a small village you constantly need to watch your back thats not a place you can expand immensely Good luck dude!
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:11 PM
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Wrote it on the mobile Basicly said when you can, you probably want to expand your horizon and move to a bigger city In the mean time stay alive, im from europe so dying over a text is a crazy to me. I wouldnt text either haha thats crazy
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:07 PM
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Yeah man, When you can time to expand your horizon dude, also stay alive in the meantime No shame death you hear!
/r/seduction11/10/20 08:14 PM
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Ahh i see, maybe time to move to a bigger city with more space to make moves in?
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:41 PM
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No its not touching takes place in most social interactions, its a crucial part of how humans interact i think maybe you just have some creepy movie, faulty image of it in your head Because most interactions take place in that way By both women and guys
/r/seduction11/10/20 01:09 AM
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It is a success if he was scared shitless to ask it or do anything else that has the potential to be “disliked” disapproved or rejected Im not talking being rapey Im talking about things like disagreeing, saying something polarising putting your personality on the line that will either be super loved or not received well Leading a conversation Basicly taking (healthy) social risks A big part of the beginning phase is actually just daring to really engage, dare to make mistakes, risk rejection do…
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:56 AM
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Im pretty sure foundation isnt there Theyr giving numbers but not very committed Either attraction or comfirt isnt properly there Or your text game us ridiculously bad If you have 50 numbers of girks reasonably into you- a bigger percentage will be open to at least meeting up with you deoending on the scene though but more then 2 😂 So most likely something is hape ing in ine of thise 2 ereas Im on mobile typing isnt working properly But describe exactly how you open n the interaction goes Ww nee…
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:23 AM
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So your advice is?
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:19 AM
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Definatly dont do this, the give numbers
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:16 AM
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Huh what kinds of town are you in?
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:15 AM
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No hes asking as part of daring to ask In the early phases you need to do that Then youl progress to taking numbers of the girls you really hit it off with n you know will text bsck From that foundation more then enough can happen to still not get a respomce back
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:13 AM
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Honestly he needs an outside view
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:09 AM
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Yeah this is where the rhetoric becomes fantasy Do you usually ask a person before casually non sexually touching an arm or a shoulder? Do you go like excuse me sir im now touching your arm for 0,5 second to emphasise joke Ive never done that l and no women has ever done so with me before doing so. Is this how youve ever witnessed social interaction to naturally take place? My tone is a but sarcastic because your being ridiculous But i really am curious how would you imagine this would take plac…
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:07 AM
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You get killed over a text?
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:00 AM
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Mehh often not so much - the situational confidence of able to approach and be direct - but then not really having a vibe a personality to offer beyond thatvus how puas usually get stuck their for a whe Its basicky a trick set to open n number close they built over that gap Thats why theres alot of dudes that smash like crazy only their cold approach game is pretty wack- everything after that is gold Drop them in a social circle and they take over Or even just properly introduce them to a set al…
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:59 PM
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Because you and them come in contact with other people that you will infect who will infect other people n people die, its not very complicated stuff.
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:52 PM
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How is it offputting He basicly just send you a message on insta n he tirbed out to be a cool guy
/r/seduction19/06/20 04:35 PM
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Yup its crazy Pickup is a personal development endavour at the point where all your different issues meet - women Unless your taking the full on routine manipulation road. But who does that still these days? And did it ever really work unless a fulltime committment to being a very good con man Good stuff
/r/seduction18/06/20 09:09 PM
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Yup exactly this very well said Like i said in my reply Yeah But if you have clear boundaries you can b kind all you want N also tell a person when he oversteps And also tell a person when its no And also state when you have a demand that you insist on (based on your fair values). And have no trouble with that Most of what is called “nice” is disguised psychological issues, people pleasing and no tolerance for tension Ie when u have to say no, bevause well.. its no. Based on your reasoning - you…
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:25 PM
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Yeah But if you have ckear boundaries you can b kind all you want N also tell a person when he oversteps And also tell a person when its no And also state when you have a demand that you insist on (based on your fair values). And have no trouble with that Most of what is called “nice” is disguised psychological issues, people pleasing and no tolerance for tension Ie when u have to say no, bevause well.. its no. Based on your reasoning - you need to be fine with that to. If its based on a reason …
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:20 PM
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Yup Those are not good people, theyare some kind of over empatic or traumatised people that can not offend anybody or have anybody feel any discomfort ever That causes people to not state what you want, negotiate, set boundaries etc Those are overly nice people n it ususlly the resukt of issues
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:15 PM
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Yeah but still domt use that as an excuse to wuss out, just be nice n not step up
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:12 PM
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Cognitive behavioural therapy Seek out a person that has experience with your kind of issues Combined with hypnotherapy killer combo Inportant to find a proper one, qualitie varies slot - that also has clear ideas for your situation Defnatly alot is possible committ to doing some deep work Also hop over to tye hypnosis sub, theyl be able to andwer questions theee
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:07 PM
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Still though, every now and then there are 1 or 2 posters worth it that have a need expressing n discussing it online Its worth a shiot, plus the discussion can be interesting sometimes Any pua blog or dating coach blogs you would recommend? Open to suggestions
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:31 AM
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To be sure i dont say no outergame Just what is your main focus? You gotta develop what makes you naturally be attractive - but you gotta map that out to some extent. N just hope youl someday be it When i say develop yourself i mean proactively undertake developing attributes in yourself That you have set goals for (official or unofficially) Basicky im saying focus more on actually becoming it But not saying do the hope and love conquers all thing with a finger up your ass deluding yourself Its …
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:06 AM
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I think you need to put the focus on developing yourself in a general direction of more masculine strong, proactive etc becoming an interesting person play the long game overtime And youl properly grow and develop into it youve got plenty of time Amd your gonna have to take some punches and make mistakes To much “gaming” gaming leaves out proper development of actually being it. And youl be the equivelant of girls after makeup. - wtf happened to him Not to be a dick, but You may lose the girl, n…
/r/seduction09/06/20 07:58 AM
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