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"Believe all women" has a really interesting motte and bailey strategy. I'm all here for the bailey, which is basically just "accusations of sexual assault should be taken seriously and investigated," but, as usual, the motte gets a little insane. It's basically "women never lie about sexual assault."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 05:55 AM
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Yes, mainly because of the question of falsifiability. It's an interesting debate. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/41609601/ Some theories might be falsifiable, which means the field needs to buckle down and actually test their theories.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 03:47 PM
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I think, to a large extent, you and a lot of the folks here are talking past each other, because you're approaching this primarily as an academic and most of us aren't well-versed enough to engage with you directly on that level even though we are more knowledgeable than most. I tend to see it as similar to trying to discuss relatively and quantum mechanics with someone who may understand the basic concepts but just doesn't have the breadth of exposure or underlying mathematical principles. You …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 12:51 PM
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Check out the 3-part series that the podcast Decoding the Gurus has on him. He's not great.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 01:26 AM
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We must have been reading it wrong this whole time. It's a pariaharchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/23 03:51 AM
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I can't undo the negatives all by myself, but you at least have my upvote. There is no useful comparison here - it's all manipulative or exploitative exaggeration, intentional or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/23 08:17 AM
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Literally zero interest. That's the hole that shit comes from. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:24 PM
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It's also definitely not the well documented, often studied and proven in-group-bias of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:51 PM
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It may not be neurotic, but it's definitely abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:42 PM
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I mean, they have in general terms. It's kinda undisputed that in a typical hetero relationship, women do more household work. But you are absolutely correct that their standards are generally much higher, and I feel that's the missing piece of the puzzle. If a woman insists on a specific standard, and the man has a lower one, whose responsibility is it to meet that standard? In a fair relationship, both of them... but she should pick up more of the work load than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:40 PM
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I would point out that partner availability could be a large part of this. Most people are straight, or at the very least lean pretty hard into straight relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:18 AM
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That's not what I said, but good effort with the straw man. 4/5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:39 PM
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Again, that gives no context to the data aside from "this is bad." Not saying I disagree, but it's hard to take the data and say "Ha! They already don't pay!" without that context. If what you're claiming is 100% a true representation of the facts, then paper abortions practically already exist And we should stop jailing people for something that's so poorly enforced anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:57 PM
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I get $26/week as she was an unemployed full-time college student at the time of the divorce (I was an employed full-time college student) and is now a stay-at-home with her current husband. That's $104, a bit below average. Hard to send back money that's on a card, nor do I feel it's my responsibility to figure out a way to do that when I requested no child support during the divorce, she was a no-show, and the court overruled me. I use it to purchase things that specifically get sent to his mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:53 PM
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You like to quote this a lot. Source? How many seek it, and for those that both seek it and don't receive it, how is the father avoiding it? Just stating this as a fact with no source and no context is extremely unconvincing. As a man that receives child support through no choice of my own (I asked to not get it), I'm solidly pro paper abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:57 PM
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Fascist. Lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/22 08:21 PM
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Aww, someone is trying to condescend at me but failing miserably. pats head I'm sure some shallow man out there loves you because of your immutable physical characteristics. It'll be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:47 PM
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Considering I'm in a successful LTR, and, on top of that, I don't need female attention to feel fulfilled and happy, I'm not worried about missing out on time with people who think their genitals make them worth my time, let alone worth spending money on. What a waste that would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:15 PM
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S'fine, if they are that entitled I'm better off without their company. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:52 PM
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And she's not entitled to me paying for dinner simply because she was presentable... That said, when I was dating I always made it clear we are going Dutch unless it's a treat specifically for my date. Worked well for me, never had a single person back out of a date over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:05 AM
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That's... Fascinating. I personally don't "think" like RPers at all, and never have. I don't think there is a set male way of thinking so much as a set of desires that most males have coupled with a similarly shared set of fears. Some men react to this in a specific way. Some in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:24 AM
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I'd be fine hearing that, and idgaf what that makes you think of me. I know I'm pretty damn standard, why the fuck would that hurt my feelings? I didn't realize you other guys were so goddamn sensitive to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:31 PM
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Very much this. I don't need to feel like I make her wet every time she thinks of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:20 PM
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Making leaps and bounds, not that it's in any way relevant to this specific issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:33 PM
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It's hardly a stretch when that's literally 100% of the precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:14 PM
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We can imagine that, but I tend to base my rights on the factual and not the imaginary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:17 AM
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It was used until 1973.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:13 AM
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The last time a draft was initiated. What, do you think a year will weaken my point? Cause it doesn't. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:11 AM
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The law has not changed since the last time the draft was initiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:53 PM
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I'm sure some of the common posters could fall into that category. That doesn't change that you undermined your own message by projecting it too broadly and composing the language in a way that comes off as demeaning and pretentious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:51 PM
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Answer: men (in the US).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:40 PM
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I'm not the one who started with the unsupported overarching comment about men based on my own experiences - that was you. Hint: that's called projecting. ...which has literally been my point from the beginning - that you're projecting. There's a totally valid way to communicate what you wanted to say without projecting, which would be to make it you-centric and offer it as advice instead of making broad unsupported and condescending claims about men with no evidence beyond the anecdotal. I admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:35 PM
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Wait wait wait... Better question, what possible reason, aside from being an insufferable self-centered prick, would motivate you to believe it IS true? Cause it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:22 PM
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Not only am I saying that, I'm doubling down by maintaining that even if every man you personally know is like that, it is still an anecdotal blip barely worth considering, let alone an accurate reflection of men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:11 PM
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I pointed out that you projected your issues on to men at large - which says everything about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:01 PM
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It's very clear why you chose to respond to what I wrote. You know it applies to you so well that you can't help but deny it. Damn, that's a universal bullshit response. It even works on your own shit with zero modification! I'm impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:55 PM
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Tbf, I did genuinely enjoy your half-assed psycho analysis - those things usually say more about the person writing them than the target. Try to project yourself on others less, eh? Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:51 PM
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Nah I'm genuinely content. Better luck next time, maybe you'll hook a sucker who will fall for your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:45 PM
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It's an overt statement that the government has the right to conscript every man. Just because there is no war currently doesn't make it a non issue. That's like saying a woman with no legal access to abortion has the same rights as a man... As long as she never gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:42 PM
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Oh my God someone in 2022 debated someone on Reddit. What a loser! Go on your merry little way, your prattling becomes less and less coherent the more you respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:38 PM
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It is being used - every man has to sign up for it or be in penalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:36 PM
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Why would you think that I'm lost? You've literally just thrown shit at me praying it'll stick for this entire conversation, with zero actual response to anything I've said. It's very obvious who is lost, and it's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:31 PM
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I receive child support. So yes. Again, you're really bad at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:24 PM
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And what reality am I in then? Happy fulfilling relationship. Career I enjoy. Children I love. You're really bad at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:21 PM
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You're always welcome to believe whatever you wish, no matter how wrong it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:19 PM
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Bahahahaha! I'm plenty far in life, thanks. Got here by realizing when people are full of shit - like you for instance. Yeah, go check my post history. That's not what's happening. Enjoy thinking you're special and wise . You aren't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:13 PM
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I just said my peice about your peice. Get over it? Not my problem you're wrong, and your thinly veiled insults aren't stinging like you hope they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:38 PM
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Maybe stop trying to psychoanalyze someone over the internet? It just makes you look dumb and petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:35 PM
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You are welcome to imagine something imaginary any time you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:30 PM
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I find your projection to be... Projection. That's not a grievance, lol. That's just pointing and laughing at something laughable. I'm not your friend - you come off as both self-righteous and stuck up. That shits just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:27 PM
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What did I come to grieve about again? Right. Nothing. Try a little harder, your troll is damn weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:20 PM
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Nope, just seems like you really think your personal problems are a reflection of men at large. Truly laughable, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:10 PM
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There's that projection again rofl. Once again, issue you have is not necessarily an issue others have. Try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:08 PM
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Who is you guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:02 PM
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It doesn't do nothing - it literally is there for the draft. Just because the draft has not been used in some time doesn't mean that men and women are on equal legal footing. We aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:00 PM
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Issue you have /= an issue men as a group have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:58 PM
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The Selective Service is where you sign up so you can be drafted when there is a draft. Men have to sign up, with severe legal penalties if they don't. Women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:15 PM
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Hows that projection going for ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:09 PM
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Ah. The attempted sarcasm. Try harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:35 AM
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??? I did exactly what you implied men who oppose the current child support system should do. I am the primary parent. I get paid child support. I believe the system is broken and should be discarded. It seems like you don't really have a response that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:10 PM
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She stays at home with her kids, not our kid. She sees ours every other weekend. Try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:21 PM
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Already do. Get a whopping $26 per week for my trouble, cause she has the luxury of being a stay at home. The system is broken, sexist, and should be demolished.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:08 PM
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As someone who gave up on OLD, it was really bad. Obviously you never get to see the other side. Being overwhelmed with sex-based attention has got to be horrible. On the other hand, when you're searching through profiles for people who seem compatible and maaaaaybe 1 in 10 that you reach out even respond (and most of those ghost after the first conversation) it's difficult to keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:26 PM
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I take it as similar to saying that men are violent (rapists, murderers, etc). Like, sure, there exists a tiny subset of men who do these things. With that in mind, women should employ caution. Men should, too, in different ways for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:20 PM
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Tbh, I can't really get in the mind space of men who "upgrade," so these are just thoughts based on when I started to feel discontent in a relationship in the past: Keep drama you bring into the relationship to a minimum. That shit is just exhausting. Be open. The more open you are, the more he knows and the more likely he is to share. Be someone he continues to respect and desire. This should be foundational to your relationship anyway imo, in both directions. Don't spend your time trying to "c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:11 AM
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I'm pro-Choice. Nice try though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 01:11 AM
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I would say they care enough to support laws that make murdering them illegal, which is exactly how they see the abortion issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/21 11:50 PM
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I mean, it's a bit of an escalation - but not much of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:57 PM
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The person extolling it literally self classifies as "friendly misandrist," so of course it's trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:49 PM
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Actually, it's every time a woman engages in sex with a man, a man is also engaging in sex with a woman. That does not necessarily mean that the number of men and women having sex is equal - you could have a very small number of men having sex with a very large number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:26 PM
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In a straight one-to-one? You're definitely right. But when actively making the choice - spend time with this person given the rather small chance she will have sex with me or do something I find inherently more fun and entertaining - a great many will choose the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:42 AM
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Can't tell if /s or not... But it's not a loophole - it's working as intended.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 01:05 PM
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I'm sorry, I can't hear you over the sound of you beating that strawman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 11:06 PM
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Food insecurity /= starving. Try again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 01:01 AM
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Considering practically zero children in the western world starve, pretty sure they're stoked for that whether or not there's some wage slave providing the mother pregnancy wages.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/20 11:56 PM
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I think acknowledging the differences is important, but just looking at society we can see that these genetic advantages don't always correlate with success. There are brilliant people who achieve fuck-all in their lives, and relatively slow people who work hard and do well. The tip-top will almost always be the people who have all the advantages (intelligence, opportunity, family, education, drive, etc) and the very bottom will often be the reverse, but the middle is a hodgepodge of all of the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/19 07:35 PM
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I don't take issue with the idea that abusive bigotry is privilege + power; but the idea that you only evaluate society as a whole to find a power differential is dumb. There is a baseline power differential between various groups, that's true - but the difference is dwarfed by individual power differences. I don't care about the racist who lives alone out in the country and never interacts with those he hates. But I SHOULD be able to point out the powerful woman who demeans harasses her male su…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/19 04:25 PM
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Uh... I'm not responsible for holding any arbitrary group I happen to be a part of "accountable." Cause guess what? I might be a man, but I've never committed violent crime. I'm not a part of that group. Might as well just say people should hold people accountable instead of trying to relate non-violent men to violent men, as if we have a say in their behavior...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/19 05:10 AM
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Hmm. I think the statistics themselves are accurate, but being misrepresented. It's not "x number of y group committed z percent of crime," it's "x number of y group was caught and successfully prosecuted in z percent of successful criminal prosecutions." This isn't the a bias of the statistics or the statisticians per se, but the system they describe and how the data is used.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/19 05:07 AM
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Having grown up in a rural, Bible thumping, hyper conservative area, it DEFINITELY happens in real life. Nevertheless, even there many treated it more as a joke, or a half joke, but it's also an area where abstinence is the expectation more often then not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/19 03:50 AM
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My point is that he's projecting his own behaviors onto others. I dont believe that the average person sees the world that way at all - and I'm not going to just take his word for it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/19 03:59 PM
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Hmm. Well I'm definitely no biology essentialist, but I do think there are links between social behaviors and biology. But we can agree to disagree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/19 03:56 PM
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I see the person whose article you posted is very good at speaking for himself in plural.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/19 12:30 AM
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Thank you for the exhaustive response! I think the dynamics are a bit beyond my ken, tbh. I don't hold heavily onto stereptypical male/female roles, though I'm sure I line up fairly normally across them (though low, I think, on aggressive tendencies and high on empathy for a man). I can acknowledge the pressure society puts on me as a man while ignoring it, and see the harassment and infantalizing of females and not participate. As to power dynamics and gendered success statistics as a whole, I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/19 12:28 AM
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How does what you see here compare to the image you had before? Genuinely curious, not necessarily endorsing all or any of the above post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/19 02:17 AM
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Notions of race are still so strong in our minds that we cannot help but think through the lens of them. I see you're very good at speaking for yourself in plural.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/19 02:10 AM
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Came here for this post. Was not disappointed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/19 06:44 PM
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That one time when I, father of 3, late-twenties at the time, was told if I wouldn't leave the park the police would be called. I told her to call the police, and if they came I'd make sure to point out the woman who wanted me to leave my toddler and her two older brothers unsupervised in a public park, where dangerous men could be lurking about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/19 06:43 PM
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