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so what's your point? Why are you telling us this?
/r/seduction31/05/14 03:23 PM
1

she's probably got shit to do besides respond to your constant texting. Keep it to a minimum. try to keep most interaction face to face.
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:37 PM
2

Game is just building attraction. So if you mean you were running some cheesy routines that bombed well that's just you not fitting into the puzzle properly. Smart women want passion, excitement, fun and sex just the same as everyone else. sometimes moreso, I've found. But whether they're attracted to you or not depends on you.
/r/seduction24/05/14 04:53 PM
2

no offense but I don't understand all these "just my thoughts" posts that pop up lately. Can you please explain why anyone would care about this? I don't mean to be rude I would just like to see a point.
/r/seduction24/05/14 01:16 AM
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Dear diary
/r/seduction22/05/14 10:55 PM
2

Basically have emotions and opinions, be aware of them, and express them or defend them in a reasonable mature way. something bothers you either let it go or say something about it but either way don't let it ruffle your feathers. Don't sweat the things that truly don't matter.
/r/seduction22/05/14 01:13 AM
2

Yeah I get what you mean. Be straightforward and honest when/if she directly asks you about relationships. But if it's just an open-ended question like 'how's life?' you don't wanna go there and talk about your brand new ex. One thing I've learned the hard way is just don't talk about your exes, especially if they're still on your mind. For one thing it makes you look kind of hung up on them. And another thing is it's sorta counter to what you should be doing by creating a fun interaction. So if…
/r/seduction17/05/14 04:04 AM
1

No, that sounds really awful.
/r/seduction17/05/14 01:51 AM
2

don't talk about past relationships unless you have to.
/r/seduction17/05/14 01:49 AM
2

"and yet you just can't stop thinking/talking about it." Its really that easy.
/r/seduction12/05/14 07:23 AM
1

Zzz...
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:48 PM
3

Hmm...yes. don't ever let anyone play you like a little bitch, unless that person is your employer.
/r/seduction10/05/14 12:31 AM
2

Lol
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:32 AM
1

Hmm...tell him directly. But it does get weird if you actually hang out a lot and also fuck.
/r/seduction03/05/14 06:00 AM
2

Read books if you want to. But all you gotta do is go out into the world and see what does/doesn't work for you and adapt your game from there. Picture yourself now, then picture yourself 1000 approaces later. it's not something you can learn from a book.
/r/seduction02/05/14 10:05 AM
5

0/10
/r/seduction02/05/14 03:30 AM
31

Boost egos and also farm for IG followers.
/r/seduction01/05/14 11:13 PM
44

can we stop posting about tinder? Starting now? Or...after this one last post...? No one is asking you to use tinder or read posts about it. And no one is claiming it turns you into a suave motherfucker. Not everyone is on here to transform from an ugly duckling into a beautiful butterfly. Self-improvement is only one aspect of this sub, another being getting laid, for which tinder can be useful. live and let live, buddy.
/r/seduction01/05/14 11:11 PM
3

Somehow I doubt drugs had any role in this.
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:55 PM
6

this is like straight out of a nickelodeon tv movie. You will most likely make yourself miserable with this tactic and post again 6 months later asking how to get outta the friendzone. Doesn't seem worth the time and effort when you could just cut the bull and be direct with the girl.
/r/seduction26/04/14 03:31 AM
2

Go to the summer orientation thingies. Or join college message boards. Or just wait for fall....there will be more girls than you can shake a dick at.
/r/seduction25/04/14 03:17 AM
1

I'm no PUA master and I've always been pretty confident but what really helped me was actually going out my front door and doing things that nobody does. like riding around the rim of the bay trail (sf) or backpacking from SF to LA, sleeping on beaches most the way. I also did a tour as a vagabond in long beach (one of the best summers of my life - imagine...a homeless guy picking up girls at parties!). And now I drive a big rig all across america (women love this for some reason). These things …
/r/seduction25/04/14 12:23 AM
5

alcohol too strong. Early on all the guys are trying to get girls and the girls are trying to dance. later at night all the girls are trying to hook up and all the guys wanna do is dance.
/r/seduction24/04/14 11:59 PM
1

Any reason you would treat her different from any other girl?
/r/seduction24/04/14 09:22 PM
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Group hangouts are fine as long as your friends are cool and you have good logistics. You can always isolate. Friends can be a good way to dhv especially if some are female. But not if its just a bunch of dorks playing xbox ...
/r/seduction24/04/14 08:31 PM
1

First thing that came to my mind, too.
/r/seduction23/04/14 10:31 PM
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Yeah I'm not doing this.
/r/seduction23/04/14 06:35 PM
2

Why you are full of shit: You still don't understand what "fake it til' you make it" actually means. It doesn't mean pretend to be an asshole/douche/alpha. You should look this up. You don't know what confidence actually is, and you think it can be fake or true. you should also look this up. everything you're saying is phony made-up bullshit based on some vague personal anecdotes involving some assholes you may or may not have actually encountered. It's clear that you are %100 talking directly o…
/r/seduction23/04/14 02:42 PM
2

Jesus h. Christ you are full of shit.
/r/seduction23/04/14 10:04 AM
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Yeah sure whatever. Good luck with that, buddy.
/r/seduction23/04/14 05:41 AM
62

I aint yer buddy, pal.
/r/seduction23/04/14 01:47 AM
1

in college that's pretty common, especially at a jc where people commute. In my experience at a very large community college in CA most people would love to make friends and not wander campus alone they just aren't sure how. So keep on bro. Its just a mostly socially undeveloped crowd.
/r/seduction23/04/14 12:35 AM
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you're wrong. First in that there is no such thing as "fake confidence". Second in that "fake it 'til you make it" has nothing to do with being a fake anything. It's a motivating phrase which basically saying the best way to learn to swim is to jump in the pool and not sit on the deck afraid of drowning. You shouldn't overthink things so much.
/r/seduction23/04/14 12:13 AM
1

Don't get upset, bro.
/r/seduction22/04/14 11:46 AM
1

TIL: tinder is representative of real life.
/r/seduction22/04/14 11:23 AM
3

Wut
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:42 PM
2

I go out solo a lot because travel for work. Easiest way to start meeting people is to pick a good spot at the bar and greet the people around when you belly up and just start a basic conversation. If you're on point it just flows from there. Jukeboxes are also great. I love to play music (fucking expensive nowadays though) so I'll usually put a few songs and the ask some girls if they can help me pick the rest. Maybe say "you ladies look like you have good taste in music" and when they suggest …
/r/seduction20/04/14 04:22 AM
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many of your assumptions are wrong (numbers have inherent value, you can't make friends/girlfriends/attractive girls through approaching, attraction will be superficial, etc). Maybe I missed something through all the rigorous analytical treatment you gave (aka bullshit). But it seems to me you're saying a man (or boy in your case) with the desire to interact with, meet, date and fuck women should...not approach them. because it's a waste of time. I don't know what it's like at your school but in…
/r/seduction19/04/14 05:17 AM
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Best to use colloquial speak peppered with occasional darts of eloquence. Using too many "$10 words" (as my old english professor called them) makes you sound like a tool.
/r/seduction19/04/14 04:52 AM
1

Reading this makes me wonder if you've ever even talked to a female. Like...aloud. aside from studying I mean.
/r/seduction19/04/14 04:47 AM
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it works. Your hand will fit. And If you have escalated well she will likely be soaking wet (varies). This kind of thing just skips past the LMR. For me it's just kind of a natural thing to put my hands on the girls ass when making out. And from there under the pants but still on her ass. Then from there downwards, all the while kissing, teasing and enjoying each other. I think it works partly because it's unexpected and partly because she hasn't committed to removing any clothes yet. But it wil…
/r/seduction19/04/14 12:45 AM
2

I think you need to go play outside a while.
/r/seduction19/04/14 12:26 AM
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/r/seduction17/04/14 05:51 PM
1

I dunno why you would care about this...try emailing the app developers...
/r/seduction16/04/14 07:32 PM
1

Don't waste time trying to figure out the deeper meaning of text messages. It's mostly your insecurities talking anyway. She said she'd meet you for coffee. if she flakes, oh well. But don't shoot yourself in the foot prematurely by overthinking things. you should just be concerned with whether you want to meet her or not. If yes, do it. And during coffee you will be able to tell if she likes you sober rather than just letting your insecurities get the better of you over texting.
/r/seduction14/04/14 07:40 PM
1

She's probably wondering now what's wrong with her, why didn't you kiss her, etc.
/r/seduction13/04/14 07:47 AM
1

Fear is the mindkiller! A dive bar is basically an "average joe" bar at its core. You can find all types and a lot of people who are out for a raucous good time. As opposed to like swanky dance bars or lounges. its a place where people go to take the edge off.
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:29 AM
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Complimenting her style is much better than her looks. For one thing girls know how pretty or not pretty they are so if you say she's gorgeous but she doesn't think so its not a great start. If she does think so its because people probably tell her all the time so also not a great start. Not sayin it never works, just sayin... another thing is style is a conscious choice that represents her so you are complimenting her personality too in a way. Edit: just to add, one of my favorite style complim…
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:19 AM
1

Well if you wanna start slower just go hang out at a dive bar for a while and strike up convos with anyone who seems friendly enough. Get used to just breaking barriers of social interaction. Soon enough you will forget they exist. This is how I started and still do this when I'm on the road and don't feel like doing how I mentioned above. It takes a lot of energy. Most important though: even if it seems hard that doesn't mean you shouldn't try. Where would we be people never challenged themselv…
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:12 AM
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Oakland is rough solo, haven't tried it in a while though. Lots of people about but very cliquey and lots of cockblocks. Lots of hotties too, it can be a lot of fun. But yes essentially i go out and try to make friends by being kind of outrageous and funny and loud. I try to find someone to jive off of, guy or girl (guy is easier) and now you aren't solo for a while. If you're young enough hit up berkeley bars too. College girls everywhere. Just remember be the most noticeable person in the venu…
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:56 AM
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...
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:17 AM
9

You're so full of shit.
/r/seduction11/04/14 09:20 PM
3

dark hair with blue eyes
/r/seduction11/04/14 09:05 PM
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No question. Shave it. Get buff. Get a tan. I was in your position a while back so I understand. Its a confidence killer. and that is what will turn girls off. They will see how it destroys your self-esteem and avoid you. shave it. Own it.
/r/seduction10/04/14 06:23 AM
1

Go watch "the secret life of walter mitty"
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:14 AM
1

I travel all the time, too. It's often more trouble than it's worth looking for cool spots. So i would definitely give such an app a go. But i feel like it's too much a niche community to get a decent userbase. Sometimes I feel like a lot of the community doesn't actually go out just stays at home reading PUA theory.
/r/seduction08/04/14 07:03 AM
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Haha don't even joke about age with a woman pushing 40, especially one who really cares about her looks! Funny story bro.
/r/seduction07/04/14 08:07 PM
2

nope.
/r/seduction05/04/14 10:53 PM
11

Bullshit.
/r/seduction05/04/14 03:39 AM
1

Sounds like san diego! Quit being a pussy. get to know her and be direct that you like her.
/r/seduction02/04/14 02:47 AM
0

Yes. Severe lack of guts and backbone in this sub.
/r/seduction02/04/14 02:42 AM
1

I would basically tell her to meet me at xyz place around abc time and we'll have fun. I'll be there with some buddies, she bring some friends, etc. I mean the girl seems interested. make plans that don't revolve around her and then tell her to come through. try to include inside jokes or whatever between you. this is what I would do i think. Edit: girls who go to whataburger after the bar with you are awesome.
/r/seduction02/04/14 02:39 AM
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I once got busy in a burger king bathroom.
/r/seduction01/04/14 09:51 AM
0

Stop getting high all the time, genius. get off reddit. Go hiking, lift weights, read books and write too. Do healthy stuff.
/r/seduction01/04/14 08:27 AM
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I like this guy.
/r/seduction01/04/14 08:18 AM
1

I don't talk about work unless directly asked. I travel a lot for work so girls always ask me why I'm there and I just make up something playful and make sure she knows its a joke. And turn the conversation back on her. As far as my job helping me with pickup, the travel and adventure aspect can be easily romanticized. Tons of stories about strange exotic lands such as cleveland, ohio as well as danger and intrigue and romance and shit. It has really helped me relate to pretty much any person I …
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:53 AM
2

Waste of time.
/r/seduction26/03/14 09:17 AM
2

Sounds pretty normal to me. most guys these days are messed up in one way or another. Actually what you described is a lot like trying to meet women around the late 20s age. I think confidence is sexy as all hell on a woman. Not sure about female game though, there used to be a separate subreddit for it but I can't find it now. From what I saw there it was mostly the same kind of stuff here, be assertive, kino, openers etc. Where are you meeting these guys at? If you're only meeting weirdos you …
/r/seduction26/03/14 09:11 AM
1

Waited too long to kiss. Asked her if you could kiss instead of just going in for it. Just guessing but probably didn't escalate enough.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:36 AM
1

Well. Just want to let you know this reading this post sealed my decision to unsub from seddit. Good luck, bro.
/r/seduction16/11/13 06:30 PM
1

I'm fond of the freehand mammogram.
/r/seduction16/11/13 06:21 PM
2

I would say this ranks high on the desperation scale. Very undude.
/r/seduction16/11/13 06:20 PM
3

You: "High five!". Girl goes for high five. You: "Sike! Got you good, fucker!"
/r/seduction25/09/13 01:49 AM
1

Then don't make sexual advances. Not worth ruining your trip. You can always just be indirect and wait to see if she shows any indicators of interest. If you're being a strong confident fun man and creating memories she will never forget, she'll definitely be showing IOIs if she's into you. Can almost guarantee most girls will think about or even plan/hope to get laid on a trip like this. Whether it's with some euro stud or with you depends on you.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:36 AM
2

If you're asking her out, she knows. Girls are very keen on this kind of stuff. As long as it's not a non-date type thing like a party or group thing.
/r/seduction20/09/13 02:31 AM
0

Cut her out completely. Find something new to take your mind off her (hobbies, sports, etc.) And give it time. Most important is to cut her out though.
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:57 AM
1

I haven't noticed anything like this. Most of my LTRs started with sex on the first meet. I feel it's because of personal chemistry combined with building really strong attraction off the bat. But I have had some LTR that didn't rush into sex but I would consider those the exceptions not the rule. What you're describing seems kind of like an avoidance of other issues that might be the real reason certain girls don't want to LTR with you. Hormones play a part but not as much as a lot of other fac…
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:54 AM
1

I wish more people understood this before posting.
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:45 AM
1

I wish more people understood this before posting.
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:44 AM
1

What is it you think op is talking about? Less is more, wally.
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:05 AM
2

I think it's pretty much as close to a hard rule as it gets. Don't buy a girl a drink just because she asks you to without having earned it in some way.
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:02 AM
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Yup.
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:00 AM
2

Don't be disappointed in yourself, bro. Progress comes one step at a time. People don't transform from ubernerd to don Juan overnight. Th best thing you can do is try to learn something every time you go out. Success will come with time. The worst thing you can do is get down on yourself. personally I almost never get AA. But I went out to a dance bar last night and man there were so many young happy primed girls there. And I froze up. It happens. Just gotta shrug it off and say next time I'll d…
/r/seduction14/09/13 08:35 AM
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Kind of depends on your social circle, basically you tell your friends and hopefully they tell their cool friends and etc. It helps to have some form of fun whether it be a keg or booze ice fountain or a live band. At the very least snacks and good music.
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:53 AM
0

I use and have always used (before I started reading this stuff) the techniques you'll find here in every relationship to some degree. No matter if it's SNL or long term or just guys at the bar you're talking to. A lot of it is universal. In relationships it still applies and helps keep things fresh. You can and should game your gf of three years she'll probably enjoy it. I like to show my gf off to other people when we go out. I'll make new friends at the bar and introduce them to the sexy lady…
/r/seduction02/09/13 04:48 AM
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I've had bad experiences adding girls on facebook so I just don't do it any more before a couple dates. A few images and witty comments can't really reflect who I am in person. I feel it makes me look boring compared how I am. oh and to answer your question I'm 28 and I would never lie about my age. it really doesn't matter to me.
/r/seduction31/08/13 11:54 PM
1

Haha that's a tough one. I would personally make general group approach and give most attention to HB6 and somewhat less to guys and offhandedly tease HB9. After a bit turn to HB9 with your attention. If all goes well and you're bringing high energy and high value everyone loves you and HB9 wants to prove herself to you. I should say though that there is no true solution to this scenario imho. You can just do your best.
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:23 AM
5

This applies to everyone, not just students. But it's more romantic and could stall your escalation. Great if you want a relationship.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:47 AM
7

Why don't you want to take her out. You should take her out.
/r/seduction28/08/13 09:53 AM
6

You could try Hookers.
/r/seduction28/08/13 02:27 AM
2

Sounds like she was just playing games. Great FR, wish more were like this.
/r/seduction28/08/13 12:34 AM
1

Don't be a dancefloor molester. pay attention to the signals she's giving you. I'm surprised she didn't yell out no means no.
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:22 PM
1

Yeah I would agree with the pedestal comment. Because you like her a lot you seem to be internalizing a feeling that she is too good for you. Also sounds like you're putting too much pressure on yourself to do well with her. Try to relax man! And don't get down over failure. I'm 29 and man I'm looking forward to the next 10 years of women. There are so many great 30+ women who have their shit together. Lots of loonies too but that's beside the point.
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:51 PM
1

It's important to start with a solid base (inner game) because it will provide you a platform for displaying confidence. Good inner game will make you feel like an attractive man and that makes it easier to believe that women will find you attractive. Plus inner game stuff is done well before you even meet a girl so there's no excuse not to make yourself more attractive. As far as building attraction in person there are a lot of factors and it really depends on the girl and what works for you. b…
/r/seduction27/08/13 04:19 PM
2

Hey I'm going topside to watch all the crazy old people party, you should totally come with me.
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:54 AM
1

Wow I remember reading that post about the grading text thing and thinking it wouldn't come across well. Glad to see it worked maybe I'll try it some day.
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:50 AM
1

I wouldn't bother texting her again. If you only talked about where she's from and what she does and only for five minutes then you didn't build any attraction. Everyone asks her these questions. The good news though is you already know what's up. Sounds like you just got a little excited because she was cute. Happens to me a lot with girls that have great eye contact it's like a battle. In my experience getting a #close is easier than a text reply. Some girls will give their number go get rid o…
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:40 AM
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As a guy you must have noticed that ALL females who depend on tips do this. Cuz it works.
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:20 AM
3

You sound young so I'm assuming girl is also young. A lot of younger females often prefer texting to phone convos. But really your best playing field is meeting in person. Sooo so much of building attraction is based on body language and Kino that it's pretty pointless to try otherwise. Plus texting a lot comes across as very beta. For this girl I'd say you don't have any other option than wait and see. You already invited her so no need to text again. Maybe after your beach trip if she doesn't …
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:47 PM
1

Be honest but play it cool. Be confident and act like it's no big deal because it's not. "nope never had an ltr but I've had my eye on this one smart sexy babe lately." grin + wink. Or whatever. It's part of who you are up to now. own it.
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:27 PM
4

Go search for Kino escalation ladder. The answer is basically any Kino that isn't overtly sexual and has you leading the interaction.
/r/seduction26/08/13 06:32 PM
1

But jerk and nice guy are polar opposites and it's important to use sensational headlines when trying to market your blog.
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:01 AM
6

Depends on the girl. Just today I had a lunch date planned with a girl and at the last minute she said she had to take her mom shopping. I said ok that's cool do what you gotta do. because I know the girl is really into me and kind of get the feeling she has a very tight family. Five minutes later she texted again asking if she could stop by for just a minute and it turned around into a quickie. But if a girl is blowing you off because she has to wash her hair or her cat is feeling sad and needs…
/r/seduction26/08/13 07:25 AM
4

This is my general rule. add a kiss on the cheek with the hug, especially if you smell nice.
/r/seduction25/08/13 01:28 AM
1

I would add learn to cook rice and pasta properly. Basic cooking like this is so easy and you can pretty much just throw shit together and it's hard to mess up.
/r/seduction24/08/13 12:53 AM
1

You didn't do anything wrong that girl lost her shit. I had a woman do this to me once. She was trying to tease me sexually all night (pulling out her tits, randomly coming up and kissing me, grabbing my dick) but then she would pretend like she didn't so anything if I tried to reciprocate. I didn't chase her at all and started gaming a blonde girl who was her friend. Going well, dancing, Kino off the charts, etc. After a while the first girl comes up and just goes apeshit in my face about how I…
/r/seduction24/08/13 12:27 AM
3

"It's more than a forehead, baby. It's a fivehead."
/r/seduction23/08/13 09:34 PM
2

Two words: two step.
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:37 PM
2

Girls in the club are dancing to it. That's all you need to know
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:35 PM
1

In my experience most shy people are only shy at first. If you are really being entertaining they usually open up and start having fun after they get a feel for you. you probably aren't being as entertaining as you think, but it's hard to say without seeing you work. Just remember that even if they aren't saying much it doesn't mean they don't enjoy your conversation (although it is possible). I think basic conversational are all you need. But I would suggest not being overbearing. Come in with …
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:12 PM
1

The reason there is so much content is because there is no universal method. Beyond the basics it really all comes down to trial and error. You have to figure out what works for you and build up and refine your own game. then you can write an ebook and tell everyone what works or doesn't. I could go on forever. Basically... I feel like once it comes down to meeting women, it's going to all fall apart because I won't have all of that organized and ready to go. What is a good STARTING POINT? I wou…
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:18 AM
1

This was the biggest thing for me. I'm naturally funny, clever, charismatic. can talk to anyone about anything and they'll enjoy it. But man it was rarely enough to get past #close or k-close. Kino is so important.
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:10 AM
1

Acquire beer and snacks. Invite people over for beer and snacks. Remember the other people moving in for college are in the same boat as you. Move-in day is a great time to introduce yourself. You'll also probably see a lot of your neighbors around. I met a lot of people just because we shared the same route to the bus stop or to class or whatever. One important thing to keep in mind. If you see someone often (waiting for class, at a cafe, whatever) you have reason to just say "hi, blah blah bla…
/r/seduction23/08/13 12:16 AM
7

Fill as much of your spare time as you can being sociable. Clubs, sports, parties, coffee houses, join a frat, whatever. My best piece of advice is to (almost) never sit at home browsing the internet or watching tv or whatever. College game is easy because it's the first time most girls will be really open to exploring their sexuality. And most of your male classmates are still basically high school kids so if you step up like a confident boss girls will be into you.
/r/seduction22/08/13 11:15 PM
1

Proud of ya, bro.
/r/seduction22/08/13 10:24 PM
2

This is actually a good way to NOT kiss her. It's not going to just happen. It's something you usually have to actively pursue.
/r/seduction22/08/13 09:52 PM
1

Talk about anything that either one of you is passionate about. I hit it off with an hb8 last night by letting her talk about fishing which she loves. Knowing almost nothing about it all I had to do was sort of encourage her excitement by showing genuine interest in what she was saying. Another time I f-closed a girl by just asking her what song I could play for her on the jukebox. She said deftones "be quiet and drive" and I almost died. Told her I'm a huge deftones fan and we talked about how …
/r/seduction22/08/13 09:44 PM
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Yup I transferred to UC Santa Cruz at 23. Pretty much on a daily basis I just wanted to tell my classmates "stop, man. Just be cool." It didn't help I was in astrophysics where everyone was not only young and dumb but also awkward and nerdy.
/r/seduction22/08/13 05:15 AM
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College students have a lot in common with 14 year olds.
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:49 AM
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The best part is it really doesn't get any harder than that. next time get her number.
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:04 PM
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I feel like a lot of people on this sub just want a quick and easy foolproof way to get girls and don't realize that there is no such thing. Becoming an actual real life attractive male is far too much work I guess. I see a lot of step-by-step methods and cheat sheet lists of what to do or not do and a lot of it means well but I feel like they are missing the point and encourage guys to rely on gimmicks instead of on their own personality and manliness. Personally when I go out I have no prepara…
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:09 PM
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"Boo". Works so damn well. But I also use darling or dear and it works because I use it sarcastically. Sweet tits has worked for me on one occasion but failed on probably about ten. YMMV.
/r/seduction20/08/13 08:39 AM
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This is very disingenuous and I think any girl with a normal brain will see it as unnecessarily dramatic. but if it works for you, great! Personally i feel there are much stronger ways to deal with a woman giving you shit. Ways where you project confidence and don't seem overly dramatic. If a girl you like puts some obstacles in your way is it better to squash them and keep going forward or to avoid them and walk away? You say this trick is DHV but you aren't demonstrating anything but your will…
/r/seduction20/08/13 04:08 AM
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I almost stopped reading at "haven't field-tested but it works 90% of the time".
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:44 AM
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You should coordinate with your friend more so you can wing for eachother without worrying about cockblocking.
/r/seduction18/08/13 07:39 PM
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For smalltalk I often ask if they know of any cool movie theaters or music venues in the area. you can learn a lot about a person by how they answer and just calibrate from there. As for that ARE method I find things like that to be counterproductive. anything involving steps or routines is really unnatural to me plus you have to be able to play it by ear anyway since everyone will respond uniquely to you. Plus the method you mentioned is just basically describing an absolutely normal conversati…
/r/seduction18/08/13 05:25 PM
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I guess this is ok if you really just can't go up and say hello. But it seems like something high school kids would do.
/r/seduction18/08/13 04:47 AM
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Cold reading is more like educated guessing that blind guessing. You make assumptions based on something you notice about a person like chewed fingernails or a pizza stain on their shirt.
/r/seduction18/08/13 04:44 AM
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Love your friends and accept them for what they are. This is pretty high value.
/r/seduction17/08/13 01:23 AM
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No offense but he's right. You are being unsure of yourself when a girl is giving you obvious IOIs. Just gotta plunge right in man.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:56 AM
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You're missing the point because you're overthinking it. If she's not interested she will make it clear to you by ignoring you, getting her fat friend to block for her or maybe run away screaming. Or shell tell you flatout. Red lights are very obvious if you pay attention. If she's giving you attention and being friendly that's a green light to keep going. Always. Even if she's seeming neutral keep going. She will let you know when to stop if shes not feelin it. It's really that simple. Don't ov…
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:52 AM
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Seems like you're doing alright you just need to be more picky. don't fall into the rebound guy slot. Personally if I'm talking to a girl and start to suspect she has some relationship baggage like from your list I'll usually tactfully move on. If you're just having trouble gaming some girls because you're too "safe" I would recommend just trying to increase you're energy level by a lot. Be genuine and be yourself, just crank it up to 11. Be more ridiculous and give fewer fucks. Good luck man.
/r/seduction14/08/13 05:14 AM
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"Alright I'll pick you up at 9" etc
/r/seduction12/08/13 04:32 AM
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I think most people do this at times. I know I'm always trying to find a reason not to workout. Like I'm too tired or I don't have enough time. But I do it anyway because I know I'll feel good about it afterwards.
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:58 AM
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You need to improve your inner game. You're lacking confidence which basically means you don't value yourself enough as a person. Read the sidebar for starters. Basically straighten out your priorities: spend more time doing things that make you feel badass (pumping iron, hiking, drag racing, painting self-portraits, whatever) and less time doing things that really are only purely entertaining (reddit, tv, video games other than pokemon, etc). Oh and don't ever even so much as think the phrase "…
/r/seduction05/08/13 01:36 PM
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High school sounds a lot like prison.
/r/seduction04/08/13 07:34 PM
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Nice FR, sounds like you had a fun night. I would suggest be more aloof. It sounds like this girl had you hooked around her little finger for fun. She was controlling a good amount of the interaction (she approached, decided shots, dancing, ejected from YOU to smoke and found you where she left you I assume). Try to involve more random people in conversations, dances, games, teasing, etc. Show the girl you like that you are into her but pull away a bit to show you're also a man who just enjoys h…
/r/seduction04/08/13 02:30 PM
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She likes you. ask her out. it ain't supernatural.
/r/seduction04/08/13 09:14 AM
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Go for a walk. Look at the stars. find a safe place to hang out for a bit, playgrounds are golden assuming you aren't old. Sit on the roof. Play truth or dare. Read her palm.
/r/seduction04/08/13 07:58 AM
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If you're running out of things to say you're probably talking too much and should let her say something. Lol. Seriously though if you know you only have five topics you can talk anything about you should let her do a lot of the talking. You do this by asking relevant/poignant questions and making comments. Find something she enjoys talking about ("so what are you into?" works for me). On the flipside of the coin if you're struggling with knowing what to say you should cultivate your interests m…
/r/seduction04/08/13 07:24 AM
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haha thanks. Everyone who spends too much time on the internet knows that they're spending too much time on the internet. I used to be that way. It's just so easy. Meanwhile doing cool stuff means like...going outside and planning things and spending money it's all very terrible. but then someone stole my laptop. I knew who took it and where he lived hut instead of busting down his door and punchisizing his face I just let it go. Started lifting weights and running, took my guitar way more serio…
/r/seduction04/08/13 04:01 AM
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Why do you need accessories? Honestly curious. I've never really considered it I don't even wear a watch usually. Piercings are a good option depending on your style. Urban can get the double bling earrings, good with a gold chain or two (preferably with a wutang insignia on it). eyebrow piercing is rebellious sexy. Etc.
/r/seduction04/08/13 03:30 AM
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Movies are good for making out or cuddling. If you aren't that intimate it's not a good idea. I used to take girls to the park and just walk and talk, play on the swings and shit. Good place to make out. As far as the girl in your class, just talk to her. About anything. It's that easy. high school girls are generally so insecure if you take an interest in them and pay them some honest sincere attention they will appreciate it. Think about it. All that anxiety you have about talking to her? she'…
/r/seduction04/08/13 03:22 AM
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Direct game all the way.
/r/seduction04/08/13 03:07 AM
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If you want it go get it. Don't let your "social sense" fuck you over. If it's not meant to be you will know because she'll tell you to stop.
/r/seduction04/08/13 03:05 AM
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I realized that most people have no idea what they're doing. They're just trying their best and making adjustments to life's situations. I realized that most people are just as (or more) insecure than me. When you start to understand that other people are in the same boat and do in fact go through all the same shit you do, you start to value yourself more in relation to others. Also it really helps to experience life. Like take risks, go on adventures, get dirty and live dangerously. also Get of…
/r/seduction04/08/13 02:45 AM
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I think first you have to remember that you can't force a conversation. Sometimes convos just die. Sometimes, like you said, the other person isn't making an effort, which usually indicates that they aren't in the mood to chat with you. Bummer, dude. it happens. Then you have to remember that you don't even have to say anything at all! Silence is just as much a part of conversation as words are. especially since you're communicating with your body language anyways. If I'm chatting up hb and it's…
/r/seduction04/08/13 01:56 AM
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Silence is only awkward when you make it awkward.
/r/seduction03/08/13 08:56 PM
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No it isn't. Except for the fact it's easier.
/r/seduction31/07/13 09:10 AM
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