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Things that never happened for $1,000, Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:37 AM
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I agree with your post, except that I don't understand what HV is. Is it high value? In any case, it all boils down to the way you look, and OP is a victim-blaming POS who has bought into the just-world fallacy. First of all, he has no idea what this Asian guy looks like because you just can't tell by photos. Some people are very photogenic and then they look 1000 times worse in real life. OP always blames the victim of unfortunate situations. It all boils down to physical appearance and OP want…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:37 AM
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this is pretty stupid because you can't tell how someone truly looks by a fucking photo. You need to meet people in real life and spend time with the to determine how unattractive they are. This is a victim-blaming, just-world fallacy POS post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:28 AM
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are you serious? You have the audacity to tell me the assertion is pulled out of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:32 AM
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this entire story sounds made up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:32 AM
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you couldn't be more wrong and you couldn't be more mistaken. If anything, that is the OPPOSITE of red pill principles. Red pillers think that you can attract women through money and status, and that is a lie, because if you are rich and you have status but you are ugly, you will attract women who are not into you but want to use you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:32 AM
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no, trp tells ugly men to just get rich and go to the gym and that by the time they are middle-aged, women will hit the wall and younger girls will flock to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:30 AM
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why would you want children, though? What if they have a bad fate and suffer? i hate my parents for bringing me here. I didn't sign up for any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:29 AM
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I truly admire you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:29 AM
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hitting the gym won't do anything if you are ugly. It will be useless. What makes you ugly? Is it your face? Then the gym will be useless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:28 AM
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no they don't. they don't know this otherwise there wouldn't be so many useless courses on how to pick women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:27 AM
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that is my point! There is no genuine attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:26 AM
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not true at all. The biggest lie society has told us is that looks don't matter. BS. It all boils down to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:26 AM
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Okay, but all of that will do nothing if you are not physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:27 PM
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Best response in this entire thread. Everything is a massive cope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:14 PM
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You are right. Thanks for the response. As for myself, I prefer to be alone and not to be with someone who is not genuinely attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:11 PM
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and how are these men going to perform sexually? Since a lot of men have erectile dysfunction by 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:10 PM
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Completely missed the point. A woman who is "attracted" to a shortlet, fat, bald, old guy with money, is not truly attracted to him. You need to be a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:10 PM
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Those relationships you are describing are outliers. You would be amazed how common that is. Social status and charism can't buy physical attraction. How do you think a 60-year-old fart with money and charisma is going to outcompete a young stallion in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:09 PM
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All of that is useless if you are a shortlet, are bald, or are physically unattractive. Going to the gym won't change your face or defective bone structure. All the confidence in the world can't buy hot women's attraction if you are ugly. Cope, cope, cope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:07 PM
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This entire response is massive cope. No amount of money can fix bad genes. There is only so much you can do. If you are a shortlet, with all due respect to shortlets, no amount of money can make you taller. If you are ugly, no amount of money can buy physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:05 PM
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You are using obfuscation and deflection. No shit there are many same-age couples who are not attracted to each other. DUH. But that becomes even more common when there is a huge gap. You have written an essay based on a strawman argument. We are not talking about same-age couples. With same-age couples, there might be a risk that the components of the couple are not attracted to each other. Duh. But that risk increases exponentially in the cases of old farts with younger women. I am not present…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:03 PM
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No, it is not relative and it is not really that complicated. I observe carefully, I do not see all of these old farts getting attention. Most men who are invisible in their 20s get even more invisible in their 40s. Money and status can't buy sexual attraction. Best case scenario, an old fart will end up with a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:58 PM
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Yeah, right. Dadbods, wrinkles, nose hair, ear hair, smell of nonenal, erectile dysfunction, moobs. Give me a break. Nobody wants old farts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:57 PM
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Okay, but that is not real attraction. It's prostitution with extra steps. It's gold digging. It's recipe for a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:56 PM
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Women are attracted to physical attributes as much if not more than men. The whole money and status thing is BS. Because women might marry rich and powerful men, that DOES not mean that they are truly attracted to them. Do you GENUINELY believe Melania Trump enjoys kissing her husband? Or performing a fellatio on him? Do you REALLY believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:55 PM
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No, because they need to believe the lie, they need to buy the fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:53 PM
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Yes, I have seen hot guys who are complete mess, like the bad guys, in relationships with women who were head over heels for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:53 PM
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Massive cope. What kind of women do they get? It all boils down to how attractive you are. A broke man who is hot and tall will get women who are genuinely into him. A senile old fart who makes millions will only get gold diggers who are repulsed by him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:52 PM
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But, if you're a 30+ man who's been blessed genetically No shit. But it will decline soon. There are plenty of posts in the dead bedroom subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:51 PM
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ll the time so a man in his 30's who has a good job, his own place, and resources will be deemed more appealing to those types of women than a man with a customer service job who lives with his parents and has little to no substantial resources. That will not buy real attraction. Why is it so hard to comprehend something so simple? An unattractive man will get rejected and used. I have seen it in real life hundreds of time. Older and ugly men getting married to younger women who only used them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:50 PM
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Cool story. Many women do What kind of women? If you are unattractive now, there will be no comeuppance. You will be even uglier in 20 years. Accept reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:49 PM
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Unless they enjoy being used exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:47 PM
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Hey, don't ever think you can win a debate by throwing around the term "nature", because it won't work on me. I know that nature is cruel and merciless, but young women are repulsed by old farts. Plain and simple. You have been fed a lie. You might come back with your anecdotal experience and say that you know your cousin who is in his 80s and is a billionaire and he is married to a 18-year-old supermodel. That is MEANINGLESS. Because there is no bilateral, genuine, sexual attraction there. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:47 PM
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Competency, confidence, and a lot social skills are learned. useless for true sexual attraction when the man in question has a wizened up body and erectile dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:43 PM
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Yes, but then they end up in dead bedrooms. I seriously cannot believe some men are this naive. Can't they feel that the woman is not attracted to them? Don't they feel gross and disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:43 PM
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Again, you are confusing gold-digging with sexual attraction. I don't have any skin in the game because I have never been beautiful, not even when I was young. But it's delusional to think that a gold-digger who marries you and uses you as a walking wallet is TRULY attracted to you. It's delusional to think that a senile old fart with erectile dysfunction with a decrepit body can satisfy in woman in bed the same way a 20-year-old stallion can. Everybody becomes less desirable with age, especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:41 PM
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No, it is not a false premise. You must have been living under a rock. Even Dr. Grande, a popular figure on YouTube, say that men in their 70s are desirable to young women. That is pure delusion. It's almost common knowledge and I see it every day. Senile old farts hitting on women who are 40 years younger than themselves. Because they have been conditioned by society to believe that you can buy sexual attraction. Also, workout and diet cannot make you taller or fix an ugly face. A lot of this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:36 PM
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It doesn't matter. Sexual attraction. We are talking about attraction. A senile tech billionaire is repulsive to every single young woman. They might marry him for the money, it doesn't mean there is real attraction there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:33 PM
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And you want to have sex with a woman who finds you repulsive and is just using you for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:32 PM
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And where's your data on this ? because there's many sugar babies who earn money but still choose to get with a high earning man You are deflecting. You are trying to divert the attention from the real issue. Does it mean that sugar babies are TRULY attracted to the old farts? Or maybe they are just using them for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:31 PM
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But modern conditions don't get rid of thousands of years of evolution attraction Wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. Years of evolution are far from perfect. Young women are not attracted to senile old farts, no matter how much money they have. They might marry a senile old fart, but she will not be truly attracted to him. You are massively coping. I laugh when people mention "thousands of years of evolution." Yeah, right. What are you talking about? Instagram models would be considered monsters 200 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:30 PM
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No, not at all. Botticelli. Look him up. The women he painted weren't exactly obese, but they would be considered overweight for today's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:27 PM
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I'd take a young high-fashion model over a senile tech billionaire any day. Preach, sister :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:26 PM
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Sugar babies are a perfect example of this And you TRULY believe sugar babies are attracted to their sugar daddies? YOU TRULY THINK THAT? Women are attracted to physical attributes as much if not more than men. The whole money and status thing is BS. Because women might marry rich and powerful men, that DOES not mean that they are truly attracted to them. Do you GENUINELY believe Melania Trump enjoys kissing her husband? Or performing a fellation on him? Do you REALLY believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:25 PM
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Yes, but that's a very naive conception of yours. Silvio Berlusconi (look him up), was an extremely powerful man in Europe. He married someone who was 54 years younger than himself. Does it mean that there was TRUE attraction? Women are attracted to physical attributes as much if not more than men. The whole money and status thing is BS. Because women might marry rich and powerful men, that DOES not mean that they are truly attracted to them. Do you GENUINELY believe Melania Trump enjoys kissing…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:17 PM
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I agree with you, but on YouTube, there are hundreds of videos of men saying that they get sexier with age. It's almost commonplace. And I see a lot of older guys hitting on younger women in real life and being mercilessly rejected. They must believe this lie somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:57 PM
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Yes, but maturity is just a coping mechanism when men are unattractive. It's unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:55 PM
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Ha ha. Brilliant. High salaries can't buy sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:54 PM
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You put it very well. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:47 PM
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MI? What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:13 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:46 PM
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Thanks, sister <3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:14 PM
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You couldn't be more wrong. We do not even know ourselves well. Like we say we would do such and such in a given situation, and then, when we are in that situation, our reaction is different. You know all these men online who claim they would never ever ever have sex with a trans person? Yet, trans pornography is one of the most watched. So, something doesn't add up. You have not found yourself in the situation. Your speculations are purely theoretical and worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:56 PM
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sexual behavior and sexual orientation are two different things. You do know that men have sex in prison. You do know that, right? And that if a fully heterosexual man is sex-starved for years he will definitely have sex with an effeminate boy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:46 PM
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No, because a gay man is sexually and romantically attracted to other men and will actively seek other men. A fully heterosexual man who has exclusively had sex with cis women and finds himself in prison and occasionally has sex with biological males is in no way comparable to a gay man. That's obtuse. How can you not see that? I mean, even if he lets another man perform oral sex on him. It's like saying that I am vegan just because I tried a vegan restaurant since all of the other restaurants w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:40 PM
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No. You have a very simplistic view of sexuality. Fully heterosexual men will engage in sexual acts with biological males for a myriad of reasons, one of them is lack of sexual partners. Sexuality is not that black or white. You are confusing orientation, sexuality, preference, homosexual behavior. It's much more complex than that, but you are dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:35 PM
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That's completely different, though. Compliments in real life from a man who wants to use you are not the same as nice words from an Internet stranger who is sympathizing with your situation. Different. I do not think this other person wanted to get anything from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:57 AM
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Tell me more about politeness sex. Never heard of it. As I said, pity sex, yes. Politeness sex, never heard of it. Your argument about nuances is right only in theory. I mean, it would work for normal-to-unattractive people. But when you have deformities, all that "nuance" talk is inapplicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:23 PM
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No, thanks. I'd rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:21 PM
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Do men perform oral sex generally on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:20 PM
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I'd fuck an attractive girl who is a neonazi. But I wouldn't like her as a person. That doesn't matter when it comes to sexual attraction. Sorry, no offense, but I don't buy it. At all. It all boils down to looks for men. Come on. Guys say they want a sweet woman and that no matter how beautiful a woman is, they will get turned off if she is rude to the waiter. But that is a lie. Men will forgive anything to a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:20 PM
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Okay, but that is not what you said initially. You said: " Literally nobody thinks that a man should have a modicum of attraction to have sex. " This is dead wrong. Then, your response was more nuanced. I can buy the wide range, but there are definitely people who believe that if a man has sex with you, it means he is sexually attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:18 PM
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I have facial deformities, I am 54, I have had several surgeries, I have survived a tumor, and you think posting a photo on Reddit will give me clarity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:16 PM
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The only worthless thing here are your responses. You have completely missed the point. You are dead wrong. I am glad I have asked that question because a lot of men have women have offered invaluable insights. I kind of already knew certain things, but seeing men verbalize them so well, gave me clarity. Everything about your responses is incorrect. How can you be so obtuse? Most human interactions are ambiguous. When you have two people having sex, it is never clear-cut. That is why so many wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:15 PM
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A lot of guys will keep women they find ugly on their roster simply just to have a pussy to nut in. They will be their last resort before choosing to jerk off You are right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:11 PM
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Released must have gotten you excited ey? (I'm sorry) Yes, very excited. I can't wait for the aliens to land here, so maybe they'll help me become hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:10 PM
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That's what you say. Sure. Trust me, once you get to sleep with these women and you see they are repulsed by you, you'll be singing in a different tune. It makes you feel WORS$E. It makes you feel like you want to completely eradicate your libido
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:09 PM
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She is humblebragging her female privilege. Not at all. Do you think I am proud of it? It's very humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:07 PM
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Yes, I get it. That is the whole point. I am abnormal (even though I have some very good qualities, like blue eyes, long hair, nice skin, fit body, but the face is hideous, my feet are large, my hands are large). So, I am abnormal and there are still guys willing to stick their dick in me. What is your point? Do you think it makes me feel better? Because the sex I get is never real sex. It's a masturbatory act. And that is why I will never have sex ever again,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:07 PM
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I do not think they are bisexual. Like they have no preference for other men, but lack of sex makes them horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:04 PM
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I have done ALL of that. I have a good education, I have two jobs, a career, a car, two properties (one is rented) and have had countless surgical procedures. There is nothing else left.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:58 PM
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No problem, and thanks for clarifying. I accept your apologies. I want to explain to you that life has dealt me a shitty hand. Thank god I have this personality because I have been taken advantage of. Positive thinking has only created problems for me. Let's suppose I get a better personality, what good will it do to me? Guys will still find me unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:43 PM
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Sorry, one last thing, then I leave you alone. Do you tell these women you are not attracted to that they are pretty or beautiful? Do you give them compliments? Or you call them "cute" (which is code for ugly)? Thanks again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:41 PM
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Your responses have helped me a lot. I mean, I already knew these things, but seeing a guy verbalize them so well just puts things into perspective. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:30 PM
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Okay, you might be an exception. So, as usual, you are blaming my personality and not my looks? Good luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:29 PM
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you are very sweet, whoever you are. Your message touched me. You deserve the best. I can tell, just by these few lines, that you have a heart of gold
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:27 PM
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Really? Tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:24 PM
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Unfortunately when many people compromise and settle they punish you because THEY can't do better. The world is backwards Yes, you are so damn right. And it's the truth. We need to realize that being alone is better off than being with someone who is not attracted to you. You can't force things. It never works. My brother fell in love with a woman who friendzoned him, strung him along, used him. He was her slave. And then she married an athletic and taller guy. I tried to open my brother's eyes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:23 PM
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You do not need to read between the lines. I get it. That is what I thought. But I wanted him to elaborate on that because there is a big difference between being seen in public with an average woman who might not be stunning, and being seen in public with a woman who is ugly. You know, there is a spectrum. I do not want to read between the lines to be honest. And he has answered, so I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:18 PM
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No, I want the truth. Period. I think attractive women might feel the same way about some men. It's a perverse game of cat-and-mouse because I also see men bending backwards for women who are clearly unattracted to them. I absolutely love how honest you are. What do you usually tell these women? Do they take a hint? Because I think most women might believe that a guy is into them if they have sex. And you are confirming that it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:17 PM
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I thank everybody who has responded, but I have to agree with modidlee. He actually explained things very well and they make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:14 PM
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Yes, your response and his response were excellent,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:09 PM
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Thank you for being brutally honest. I appreciate it. May I ask you why you wouldn't be caught dead in public with these women? Please? If you don't feel comfortable saying it here, you can DM, but I am very curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:09 PM
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You are right. I have to do the things I like. But I just need to stay away from men. Because I have interacted with very kind men and I have developed feelings for them and they have friendzoned me. And that's horrible. I will never go there again. Pining over a man who sees you as a friend, through no fault of his own, because you are ugly. Never anymore. So, for my own peace of mind, I have to stay away from men I might develop an attraction to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:13 PM
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You are not harsh at all. I actually agreed with your post until you mentioned that there are people attracted to weird stuff. I do not want to be fetishized. That's being bluepilled, actually. People might have a fetish for amputees, but that's a kink, it's not real sexual attraction. And the media tries to have us believe that there is your soulmate, no matter how disabled or deformed you are. THAT IS A LIE. Some people will never have a partner, no matter what. Society needs to change and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:11 PM
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As far as I know, mind reading technology hasn't been invented yet. This is a useless hyperbole. You do not need mind-reading technology to interpret human interactions. There is a lot of non-verbal communication. For example, an attractive woman who gets ogled by man can safely assume that these men are attracted to her. You do not need to be a psychic, you do not need to be a medium, you do not need mind-reading capabilities. I am appalled I have to state the obvious. A lot of things in human …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:02 PM
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Ha! Just be young and gorgeous. If that were that easy. I have done everything in my power to become more attractive. I have even had plastic surgery. I can't shrink myself. I can become anorexic and I would still look bigger than most women because of my disease
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:56 PM
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I agree that women can be horny, but it is not true at all that people don't believe that a man should have a modicum of attraction to have sex. Read all the comments in this thread saying that if a man has sex with me, that means he is physically attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:54 PM
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Okay, thank you both for your encouragement, but there are different degrees of acromegaly, from mild to severe. Two severe cases are Tanya Angus and Mary Ann Bevan. Please google them both. I have some good physical qualities, but everything is larger and I look uncanny. Even my tongue is larger than usual which makes me feel disgusting. I don't want to be anybody's fetish, though. That's a kink and not pure sexual attraction. I have had guys fetishizing me because I looked like a freak, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:53 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Men who have a high libido will have sex with a lot of things they are not attracted to. Having sex and being sexually attracted are two different things. Pity sex is real. I have had a few men have sex with me just because they felt bad for me. And it made me feel even worse. Never anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:49 PM
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Okay, but I genuinely believe that men will have sex with a person they are not attracted to. The sensory experience to them is better than masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:48 PM
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Yeah, well, I respect your perspective, but when you have sex with someone who finds you repulsive, it feels even worse. Trust me. That is why I will no longer have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:47 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for sharing your perspective. To me, a guy who has sex with the eyes closed is a clear indicator that he doesn't like me. I feel so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:46 PM
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Thank you for your kind message and for your words of encouragement. Unfortunately, I will never find a guy who loves me. I have to make peace with that instead of fueling my life with false hopes. Yes, having sex with men who are not attracted to me does impact my self-esteem. I prefer to be alone at this point. I could find a hobosexual man, but I don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:45 PM
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Yes, you are right. I have said it many times: compliments are meaningless. Don't get me wrong. Women give fake compliments too, either out of pity or cattiness, but men compliments? Forget it. I see a lot of women online who say, "I am told I am beautiful all the time, how come I can't have a partner?" I don't want to say that maybe they are not beautiful. I am not beautiful at all, in fact I am abnormal, but I have been called pretty, stunning, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy. And I feel stupid for …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:44 PM
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You are right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:16 PM
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I had acromegaly. I have also had plastic surgery, but there is only so much that surgery can do. What do you mean that it's rare for a female to know her self worth? Do you think that most women think they are hotter than what they really are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:14 PM
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I have had several surgical procedures. There is only so much that you can do when you are deformed. Plastic surgery is not as miraculous as people make it out to be. You need to have a good foundation, which I don't have. I need alien technology to look pretty. As for dating a blind guy, I have reached a point where I prefer to be alone. I refuse to be with someone who is not attracted to me and is using me as a stepping stone. Dating a blind man would feel like I am deceiving myself. It would …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:13 PM
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Interesting. So you thought the text sent by mistake was deliberate? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:12 PM
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Thanks! Big hug. Also, you may be right that he sent that text on purpose. He pretended it was meant for his buddy, and he profusely apologized, but he probably just wanted to hurt me. And he was short, bald, and hunchback himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:11 PM
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Guys can be "truly attracted" to women, and still not want to be seen in public with them. Are they really attracted if they don't want to be seen in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:09 PM
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I agree that men talk shit. I have sat in a corner, invisible, and have heard men talking about women. It was a brutal wakeup call. They were talking about the same women whom they had called "beautiful."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:09 PM
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What if he wants to see me like once a month or less and in private?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:08 PM
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Reading this made me very angry because similar things happened to me. This one guy wanted to see me in a motel, told me to wear a hijab to disguise myself. Honestly? I prefer to be alone. I would rather be a cat lady (I love cats), than being with men who are disgusted by me and only use me to ejaculate. No, thank you. I am very sorry you experienced that. I know it hurts. I send you a hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:07 PM
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I don't buy it at all. Heterosexual men will have sex with men in prison. I do not think these men are sexually attracted to me despite having sex with me. Anything will do when they are horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:05 PM
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You mean they don't want the lights on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:04 PM
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Yes, really infantile and disgusting behavior. Agreed. But they are not sexually attracted to me. No kissing, no cuddling afterwards, eyes closed. They are not attracted to me. They just want to bust a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:04 PM
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I totally agree with you. You are right. Men will have sex with literal monsters. Men will have sex with other men in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:03 PM
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I wish you were right, but you are not. Men will even have sex with men in prison. And I am talking about fully heterosexual men. That's called situational homosexuality. So, it is no surprise that men will have sex with women they deem repulsive. They will close their eyes, they won't kiss, but they will still have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:02 PM
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Thank you so much. This is actually the best response I have seen so far. I really enjoyed reading it, because it resonated with me. I do not understand why a man would be embarrassed to be seen in public with an ugly woman. Can't she just be his friend? But yes, it has happened to me. So, to recap: No affection (like no cuddling after sex) Being ashamed to be seen in public with you Eyes closed Not pleasuring me No kissing Lights off Positions that allow him to avoid seeing your face No affecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:00 PM
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What the hell does this have to do with anything? Are you just trolling? Yes, I am 54 and I have never had a relationship. But I have had sexual encounters with men and men still show sexual interest in me. It doesn't mean that I am attractive. Duh. How can you be so naive? You are the one who should get real. I asked this question because a lot of younger women find themselves in these situations. They have sex with men and these men are not attracted to them. Women are touch-starved and lower …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:58 PM
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Please do not invalidate my experience. This is far from funny. One day you might be in my situation and you'll be singing in a different tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:56 PM
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