actionabz Archive

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3	Oneitis, neediness and forgiveness. How did you forgive yourself for it? You're just going through the last motions of oneitis, you've obviously went from neediness to wallowing in self pity and now it's blaming yourself. The only cure really is to realise it's neither your own fault or hers, you were just at two different points in life. From the look of things it's normal to be angry with yourself but don't suppress it cos it will only build up and neglect other aspects of your life. Last july I had a serious bout of oneitis and felt angry cos I had no control or i…	/r/seduction	10/05/16 02:16 PM
8	[deleted by user] I definitely agree there has to be a level of physical attraction, I always say "give them a reason to look but also a reason to stay". Looking good makes you feel good and women pick up on this initially cos it stems back to a primal instinct in us to want and be attracted to the hottest of the pack. All those pity posts about not finding any girl in college won't make you feel better about your situation unless you head down to the gym once in a while and pledge to become better than yesterday…	/r/seduction	09/05/16 07:50 PM
1	Have you ever been in the same situation? Attention seeking at its finest. She has no intention to have sex with you or to even become romantically involved let alone be a "friend" to you. She's playing a game with you so you can either be assertive to her or pull the plug on this.	/r/seduction	17/03/16 09:53 PM
1	Need advice on direct game The reason for your hesitation is because you're in unchartered terrorities and you don't know where to go on from here because there is no heuristics or process you can abide by. The only way is by practice, practice with strangers whether they be male or female cos you need to learn how to make conversation naturally so you can exhibit your real personality. Another tip is get sex off your mind, it eases off the pressure, think about the girls in a platonic sense. There's a reason why guys are…	/r/seduction	17/03/16 09:50 PM
7	Best way to reinitiate after flaking? She will probably thinks you're a douche and you think that you can get another date with her out of thin air without considering how she might have felt on the matter ? Sorry bro but that makes you a douche. Whether or not you had plans you could have told her prior even if it was 1 hour before and tell her you can't make it let's reschedule. Even if she said no or yes then you would have known for sure that you made a conscientious effort to be a good guy.	/r/seduction	13/03/16 09:40 PM
2	I'm insecure because I'm not good-looking enough. Bro have some hubris about yourself, you gotta believe that you're the best looking guy in the town, for your own sake at least. It doesn't matter how many likes you get on your instagram pictures or how many girls find you attractive. Don't go into that thought pattern or you'll start deluding yourself into thinking you're not perfect or never will be.	/r/seduction	08/03/16 10:21 AM
6	I suck at talking to women. This tip changed my life so read carefully, talk to women like you would talk to a friend. If you are trying to have sex with them this places a lot of pressure on you. Say whatever comes to your mind that you would say to a friend and relay this to a girl and they can sense that natural vibe.	/r/seduction	13/02/16 08:16 PM
4	Who can be approached? In my experience, I wouldn't approach women who work in retail or sales because their interaction with you is encouraged because they're paid to. Also it makes their day feel longer if you just try to ask them for their number or chat them up. They get hundreds of customers a day who try to pull the same shit. Women in the mall or the library are usually bored and looking for a stimuli, its a good to approach them because more often they're up for a talk. A rule of thumb is to not approach peopl…	/r/seduction	29/01/16 11:14 AM
3	Who can be approached? Bro listen, the only people you shouldn't approach is those you wouldn't like to be approached if you was their partner. e.g. married people, those already in a relationship, going through a divorce. Some people would look to date these kind of people but hey, that's their preference but unless you really want them for an earnest reason then that should be a conditional. If you mean people who you think are too "pretty" for you to go for then by all means GO FOR THEM. The only way you can become…	/r/seduction	29/01/16 10:01 AM