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Hey if both sides aren't tolerating each other, then the only choice is to stay single or seek others from foreign countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:14 PM
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Western pussy is even more expensive. Especially when she divorces your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:08 PM
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Use condoms? And I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying for her to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:56 PM
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Dude just hit the gym. You would look great if you're jacked. Like at 6ft and about 180-200lbs of lean muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:33 PM
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No one's putting up with western women. Sex and relationships have gone way down in the west. Think of it like cost of living. There's a housing crisis in the west especially in the HCOL cities. Makes people want to be a digital nomad and work remotely in places like Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:24 PM
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What he means is doing it for love, and also to stick it to the haters. Let 30yo women seethe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:49 AM
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Well generally no one calls their sister pretty white girl 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:18 PM
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Would you bang your sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:03 PM
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Ok but would you date any woman? What about some overweight 300lb whale
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:01 AM
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It's more competitive now as a man. But its not a bad thing. Natural selection and Darwinism. Only the strong will be allowed to pass on their genes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:38 AM
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because there's lots of simps who would be paying up dinner. supply demand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:31 PM
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Unfortunately many women think they're too good for coffee dates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:08 PM
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Watch better bachelor on YouTube. He explains it well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:54 PM
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The basic necessities must be met. My gf expected me to have a certain amount of assets given our age gap of 7 years. She was surprised to find out I was worth 6 times her requirement. Love grows over time. Likewise she had to be a level of beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:37 PM
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I've been following your posts for a while. I consider you as someone who's high value and rational thinking :P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:09 PM
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A lot of things were not enforced and swept under the rug. Regardless, I don't date anyone who can't drink legally. I think 19+ is great. If you have money, SEA is your pussy playground. Helps more if you're white lol. Agree, if it's a hot 30yo supermodel, she will beat out the average 19yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:12 PM
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I'm in Canada too, pretty sure that's only within a gap.. like 16 with 20 might be ok... but 16 with 30 might be illegal. I agree with the last points. 19+ is when they can drink. I would much rather date 19-25 as well. Also agreed... I want to enjoy a girl's prime in her early 20s. If they held out their prime for me in their 20s, there's no way I'm dating them at 30. I don't mind growing old if we both started young, but I'm not dating a 30yo today if I'm starting a new relationship. if I'm si…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:52 PM
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Dude 16 is a child 🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:51 PM
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if he's as good as you say he is, then why isn't he pulling attractive women? attractive men date attractive women. none of my attractive guy friends are dating whales, all their girlfriends are gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:45 AM
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I mean you could say that. When they know he's rich they're just whoring themselves out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:53 PM
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yeah it's uncommon for sure. but he's rich so he gets to pay to win
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:10 PM
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I dont think so. There's many girls who go for rebound sex or just one night stands when they're thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:38 PM
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I have an older friend who's 43 who sleeps with 20yos on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:36 PM
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You can have sex with someone and not like ot be attracted to them. There are some chubby girls that I would bang, but wouldn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:21 PM
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Yeah honestly she surprises me haha. She's more than I deserve. Good day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:48 PM
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I cant love her physically? She literally told me I must love her physically more than emotionally 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:08 PM
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But I said that I'm ok with growing old together. if I'm starting a new relationship, I gotta he initially attracted to a novel mate in her prime. I think the age gap is good for us. Not really a gap at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:57 PM
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I never said they weren't, but a healthy relationship must be emotional and physical. My gf would be offended if I didn't find her attractive, and only loved her emotionally and mentally. Likewise, I would feel terrible if my penis did not satisfy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:42 PM
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I can see that happening for sure, and that's why your reaction is justified. Women late 20s+ are more likely to want to settle down and they're more realistic. I live in Canada, my gf is from China (I'm Chinese myself, but I was raised here), so she has eastern values. Very family oriented and extremely filial to parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:11 PM
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Yes on average. however if you do manage to find a gem like I have, then consider yourself extremely lucky. My gf is super mature when I met her. More mature than women 30+ that I've dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:06 PM
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Men sperm quality goes down too with age. It just doesnt hit as hard as it does to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:40 AM
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I mean its both. I have a 7 year age gap with my gf. 32 and 25, dated for 2 years now. Its because I missed out on dating during my 20s and never got to enjoy a woman in her prime, it was 2 birds 1 stone type of scenario. As men, we prefer girls in their early 20s than older. Ofc if we started out as highschool sweet hearts and grew together thats fine too. But if I'm starting from scratch ofc I'm gonna go for younger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:34 AM
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That's your only csrd left eh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:11 PM
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It is biology because younger women are more fertile. Its in our DNA based on fertility. We dont want women our age. Women in their early 20s are physically more beautiful than a woman 30+ I wouldn't mind it if we were the same age and dated from 20s and got married and grew old together. But any guy starting from scratch dating in their 30s is always gonna pick the younger girl, all else equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:48 PM
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Except I don't. Not sure who hurt you. Are you envious of younger people? I've noticed girls 30+ are just blaming men for not looking at the same way. Well no shit! Shouldn't have fucked around so much and locked a guy guy down when younger
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:37 PM
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Last I checked 18 is a legal adult. Do you filter porn to only 40+ milfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:14 PM
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We dont want younger because they're mentally not mature enough. I've never met a mature 18 year old ready to settle down. If there's a mature 18yo then absolutely. And not sure why you're projecting. The line was already drawn and yet you wanna go there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:30 AM
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18 is a legal adult. It is absolutely biology to want younger physically. But at 18 women may be unbearable. As a 30 year old, I prefer early to mid 20s for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:53 PM
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You need to post your picture. If you're at least average you should be picking up girls at the club
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:35 PM
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I agree with this, but also if you put in more effort in your 30s and 40s, you could look better than your 20s if you didn't put in work then. But yes biologically, we are at our potential at 20s. However we can look retain it as long as possible if we put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:37 PM
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yeah people don't understanding, making 200k+ in SV is like everybody else. unless you're making 200k+ in the midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:35 PM
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the nofap community welcomes you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:31 PM
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Not in this generation. Half the people are leaning towards no kids, men and women. This is not the 1950s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:30 PM
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If that's the case, then do all men who are under 6ft and under 6 figures not deserve any women? Be the change you want to see in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:28 PM
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Does old dick feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:46 AM
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That's pretty hot, but STUPID! Can't believe people do hookups without condoms these days. 4 different girls... did you jizz in them? you could have 4 children by now
/r/seduction25/10/22 01:36 AM
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Do you have ONS with or without condom? And what race were these girls? They love the BBC 😏
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:35 PM
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instead of being a victim, just delete the app and touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:10 PM
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he goes to their place lol. or car sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:28 AM
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The 30 year old females wil go REEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:48 PM
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This is stupid. Guys and girls should both explore their sexuality and find out what works for them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:54 PM
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I'm just saying as guys and girls, we may be physically attracted to other attractive people and may sleep with them, but doesn't mean we will marry them or date them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:32 AM
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I may sleep with a fat girl but not my preference for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:37 PM
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Goes both ways. A woman has to bring beauty into the relationship. Im not marrying a cow nor do I want to spread my genes with a cow
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:35 PM
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Most women do though. Unless they are child free. Bioclock is real. It's fine, we can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:06 PM
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It's a combination of expectations and my own preference. I also want kids. If I am dating a 34 year old, we would need to have kids like within the next year or 2 which is not really in my timeline. Dating someone younger would give me more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:12 PM
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When I say younger, it would mean like 18-22. Like someone still in undergrad studies. A 23-30 girl to a 30 year old man is around the same age. Guys just tend to date younger. As guys, we generally dont want to date older than us. She will turn 25 early next year. So practically mid 20s now. Again its case by case. Most age gap relationships fail because of power dynamics. We do not have that. She wears the pants 😂 We're really traditional and old school conservative like our grandparents. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:50 PM
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We've been living together for a year now. We moved in quick. So I feel we're really aligned on things. We are both family oriented, share similar values, and enjoy the simple things in life. Girls develop faster than guys. When I was her age I was more immature. But it also depends on the person. I have girl friends her age who are nowhere near her level of maturity. I wanted a partner who could contribute to the relationship mentally, emotionally, financially. Agree that most girls younger wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:31 PM
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Your case is common. In general, age gaps don't work well, but if you so happen to find someone with aligned ideals despite the age gap, then it can work. Everyone talks about the power dynamics in age gap relationships, but despite me owning more assets and higher income, my gf wears the pants in the relationship. Happy wife, happy life is what I go by!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:06 PM
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I'm 31 and my gf is 24. Started dating a year ago. She was on the low end of my age range. Hard cutoff at 22 as I needed someone who was finished university and working full-time. Met on online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:52 PM
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LGBTQ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:15 PM
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no it's just courtesy. like why is the point in telling someone they're ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:56 PM
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I think its ok to have an internal requirement but not be told publicly about it. No one wants to hear it in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:10 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/jun/18/later-in-life-virgins-at-my-age-it-becomes-a-red-flag One of my ex gf was a virgin and had extremely low libido. She also had undiagnosed vaginismus and could never enter her. Having too many partners is a bad thing but so is having 0 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:29 PM
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Its creepy to not want a virgin? Ask the world if a guy wants a young 18 year old virgin, thats not creepy? 🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:25 PM
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Idk what you think is so creepy about it, but the fact of the matter is that being a virgin after a certain age is a major red flag. Like after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:13 AM
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Not my problem most girls think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:54 AM
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Absolutely not. They dont wanna go through the trouble of starting from scratch and teaching when they've already experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:06 AM
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same reason why women prefer non virgin males. guys and girls are opposites
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:15 AM
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Men are free to not want to date women with high body count. Women are also free to not have sex with or date inexperienced virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:50 PM
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Isnt that what this sub is? Guys judge girls by body count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:59 PM
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Those nice guys are simply not attractive. There needs to be a baseline level of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:57 PM
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Just wanna say. I was 30 when I started dating my gf who was 23. I make slightly more than her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:20 PM
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if body count is under 5 then that's fine with me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:14 PM
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I think it's because people try to punch above their weight class instead of trying to look within their own league. Guys and girls both think they're better than they are. Both need to lower their standards. And if they think they lowered it enough, lower it more because chances are they're not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:31 PM
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I would say statistically I am a HVM so... yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:47 AM
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Personally its up to the individual. I do prefer early 20s but Im only 31. If I'm 40+ I probably would want late 20s at the youngest. Too big of a gap is bad when you're headed towards your next phase of life. Like if a man is 90 and wife is 60 he's gonna die earlier and she will be alone longer. Things to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:13 PM
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I literally just said that. For the majority of men they will settle for women their age. Separate desire from reality. But for those HVM they can pull a young 18-25 girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:06 PM
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I dont know any man who wants to marry a woman over 40. Unless they're also 40. But if you look at this research, women in their early 20s are the preference. If they choose older than 30 its because they're settling and its more realistic https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:57 PM
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We're all gonna get older. But her being younger gives me more time. I wanna wait 3 years before having kids. But most girls my age want them now. I mean all else equal, I would prefer a younger girl. Think from a womans perspective, all else equal, they want a man has more wealth. Personality is important obviously. We should all strive to be good will. My ex was the same age as me. I would've married her if things worked out and age would not have been an issue. But when I became single, why n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:25 PM
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Yep! Definitely 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:13 PM
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My gf didnt know my wealth until like 6 months in. Its invisible because i live a low key lifestyle. All in investments
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:40 PM
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Whats her age and ethnicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:20 AM
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Aim younger. I was always unsuccessful but now I have accumulated wealth, I am in a happy 1 year relationship with a 24 year old. I'm 31. Always wanted to enjoy a woman's youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:16 AM
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curious this too. if he has a count of 10 but he married a virgin girl who found out about his count who then divorces him, how would he feel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:04 PM
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Oh ok cuz I've gotten my dick sucked by 3 more girls but I haven't counted it as sex. Making out will be more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:12 AM
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I have a friend who's had a count of 29 when I last saw him 2 years ago. He was 27 then. I think he's decent looking , not sure top 20% but thats all he has going for him. He is broke, lives with parents, but smooth with the ladies. Meanwhile I have a body count of 3 but in a long term relationship and in the top 1% of wealth in my age. Btw do blowjobs count as n count or does it have to be sexual intercourse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:01 AM
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When I first dated my gf we both disclosed our finances, I told her I had over at least 100k in savings, so she assumed I was in the 100k range. Reality I was closer to 1m, which she found out 6 months later. Was a pleasant surprise, but she didn't date me because of money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:25 PM
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I need to live vicariously through you. I'm not single now :D
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:58 PM
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when you do PU, do you ever go bareback or condoms? also what positions do you cum in?
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:45 AM
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You ever feel empty that you're just having meaningless sex?
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:32 PM
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I make similar income with my gf. But I'm almost a millionaire (stocks) whereas she doesnt have much savings since she just graduated and is quite younger than me. Im also 30 so I had more time to accumulate wealth. I dont see it that I sacrificed too much. She makes me happy and thats all I need
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:07 PM
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You must be fun to date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:01 PM
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Sounds like the middle class getting squeezed out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:09 PM
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Im going by this subs definition. I'm also a LVM myself. If you aint top 10 or 20% which I dont think I am. But I'm in the 1% for wealth in my age group for sure. Although PPD dont count wealth as part of what makes HVM or LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:04 PM
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If people say relationships are not needed and sex is all thats important. So why not say sex is not needed, just masturbate? You just need to ejaculate anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:50 PM
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I would say I'm average. But it only happened once so definitely got lucky. The girl was horny as hell. Trying to hook up these days require actual effort and money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:39 PM
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I think red pill is a small minority. I know a lot of my nerdy friends who are LVM. But they're super nice and adjusted individuals who aren't red pill or mygonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:37 PM
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Lost my virginity on tinder. Literally asked the girl for sex and within 2 hours I was at her place smashing her. I was 25 and she was 20
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:58 PM
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You are correct. People hating on leo are just coping. Wealth and power is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:52 AM
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If asking for body count is ok, is asking for income and networth also ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:47 AM
1

I always understate my assets. Weeds out golddiggers and freeloading friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:13 PM
0

I rather be rich and sad than poor and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:26 PM
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He makes my annual salary in a few seconds
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