| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 216 | Focus on yourself, always! | FDS MEMES | actlikeabitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 11:36 PM |
| 104 | Love is Blind on Netflix | FDS MOVIES & TV | actlikeabitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 11:12 PM |
| 12 | LADIES, this is why we never stop vetting. No matter how interested in you the guy may seem, he may be playing mind games. So don’t let your guard down. I hate seeing content like this on twitter. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | actlikeabitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:45 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | LADIES, this is why we never stop vetting. No matter how interested in you the guy may seem, he may be playing mind games. So don’t let your guard down. I hate seeing content like this on twitter.It’s always the dusties that got the most to say 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.In a previous comment, OP said she didn’t have any of those | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 12:51 AM |
| 8 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.Omg I’m so sorry you’re going through this! My heart is in pieces to read what you’re going through. I’m praying for your safety. Is there any way we can send you money to help you escape? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 10 | Reminder NOT to listen to dating advice from SCROTESHe’d probably straight up ask you. I remember when I was getting to meet my ex, he asked me if I used Reddit. At that time, I didn’t. But I found it odd that he’d just ask me that out of nowhere. He told me he used Reddit frequently. Now thinking about it, he prob knew of FDS and was wondering if I followed the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:09 PM |
| 80 | ThisGirl...you better take off that clown make up and realize you deserve better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:15 PM |
| 23 | What’s with the obsession with splitting everything 50/50?My ex was like this. We were 8 years apart. I cringe every time I think about the stingy shit he did. Like Venmo request me. Don’t worry, I ended things a week after he did that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 06:45 PM |
| 21 | Never again, mom, I promise!Honestly, any m*n for that matter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:41 PM |
| 2 | For those who still think of their past relationshipsThis is incredibly helpful, thank you for sharing it! It inspired me to write it on my journal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 03:46 PM |
| 30 | Focus on yourself, always!I’m framing this so I never forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Learn to be your own witness, learn to be the woman you need for yourself and not to get a man. Anyone else have any thoughts on Mark Groves?I enjoy Mark Groves’ podcast honestly. He has even mentioned in previous episodes how, in the past, he has posted content he wasn’t truly passionate about because he knew it would get him the engagement online. He does claim that he isn’t like that anymore. I do believe that he gets amazing guests and the topics are really intriguing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:53 PM |
| 28 | Fuck MenPlease break up with him. For your own sanity, do it. One day, when my now ex was showing me something on his phone, I saw that he had all these dating apps on his phone. I confronted him about it and he said he didn’t use them (LOL). The pickmeisha in me continued the relationship because this was before we officially started dating so I made excuses for myself even though I wholeheartedly knew I should have walked out away right then and there. Needless to say, I was never able to trust him af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:34 AM |
| 23 | Talking on the phone with a man for hoursI just finished reading “Why Men Love Bitches” and if there’s something I can add from that insightful book that relates to this is to NOT have long phone calls with the guy you’re dating, even if he’s your LT boyfriend. Keep it short and sweet. If he wants to talk more, you can do that in person when he takes you out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 12 | It’s basic stuff reallyThe amount of breadcrumbing I received in my past relationship is revolting. And I’m gluten free, I’m sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:26 PM |
| 18 | A reminder it’s okay to have standards when women have always been expected to look good all the time and guys expecting to have a 10/10 girl when they’re ugly goblins.From NJ over here, too! And yes, I can confirm to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:17 PM |
| 19 | Love is Blind on NetflixI was so proud of Mark when Messica tried to come back and he’s like “I know my worth I’m not a second choice” and I was like GOOD! But then he said some BS like, my mom told me “if you love someone, let them go, if they come back, they were always yours” I was like dude!! Pick a struggle !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:09 PM |
| 6 | Love is Blind on NetflixThe baby voice is so aggravating!! When Messica came back to Mark after being rejected by Barnett and she kept using that baby voice and just kept calling him “babe”, I might have thrown up actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:03 PM |
| 31 | Love is Blind on NetflixHonestly I love Lauren but I’m still considering if she is not a pickmeisha. She literally said I love you first to Cameron. THATS A NO NO. Also, from the beginning of the show, she’s mentioning how her mother keeps pressuring her to get married, so she seems desperate and saying how she’s been looking all her life for the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:35 AM |
| 22 | Love is Blind on NetflixOmg yes! Cameron and Lauren are my favorite. I think Cam can be an HVM? I’m only on episode two so I still have to see how they treat each other outside of the “pod”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 15 | Love is Blind on NetflixSeriously 😂💀!! I keep rolling my eyes at everything these couples say to each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:30 AM |
| 29 | Love is Blind on NetflixCarlton? Omg seriously. Someone get him out! I actually really like Diamond and I was hoping she would reject him when she saw him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:29 AM |
| 14 | Love is Blind on NetflixIt’s so sad how I can actually smell her desperation. When she tried to come back to Mark and he didn’t buy any of her excuses, I was so embarrassed for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:27 AM |
| 48 | Love is Blind on NetflixYes, Barnett is the biggest LVM in that show. I want to throw up every time he has the chance to speak. Also, it’s so sad to see how these girls fall for his BS. Only Diamond called him out for his BS when he started making sexual jokes ON THE FIRST DATE. The other girls just laughed it off and continue to entertain him. UGH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:25 AM |
| 30 | I'm so sad right nowAs Eddie Murphy once said “the best advice I ever heard is, don’t take anyone else’s advice”. I’ve been in your position where I already know what I want out of a situation, but I’ll ask my friends or anyone for the validation of the choice I already made in my head. You control your life. You know what you want in a partner. Don’t settle. Even if it seems “superficial”. It’s not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Limit how long you will be bothered by somethingI NEEDED TO SEE THIS, thank you for sharing. I keep thinking about all the shit my ex lied about to the point it kills my day and I feel nauseous. I won’t let it affect me anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Dollface on Hulu for those looking for another FDS film/series.I started watching this show this past weekend and I finished within a day lol it was so good! Love the story line. Always have your tribe. They’ll always be there for you unlike men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 24 | Where’s the lie? But seriously, don’t be the woman that allows this... 🤡Back in my pickmeisha days, I asked my bf then (ex now) why he didn’t post pictures of us (we had been going out for 7 months at that point), he said he wasn’t a social media guy (even though we sent memes on IG constantly). Two days later, he posted a video of himself. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:32 PM |
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