actualMattD Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Proven facts that will help you efficiently pick up women. Lol	/r/seduction	07/03/19 11:56 PM
2	How important are physical looks in attraction? I'm not physically attractive. I'm basically average in every way. But i dress really well and groom nicely and i pay a lot of attention to women's pleasure. I do quite nicely	/r/seduction	09/02/19 03:20 AM
-1	I'm improving!! Some of us prefer to limit our seduction to arenas where women actually want to be approached. For every random woman that likes being approached, there are probably ten that don't like it. I'm not ok with the idea of annoying or otherwise creeping out 9 women just to find the one that likes it. Women don't leave the house so that you can practice building your confidence on them. Better to practice building confidence on women who want to be approached and have deliberately chosen to go somepla…	/r/seduction	08/02/19 01:50 AM
2	Advice for positive, ethical, natural, non manipulative and non selfish game. This is a great question and it's exactly how i operate, and I'm very successful at it. There are many women in my life who think I'm awesome and like to have sex with me. Part of why they like me is because i am simultaneously very respectful but also sexy and seductive. To me, this starts with being genuinely interested in the women you meet, and listening to them about their interests and desires. That means asking them about what they are looking for. Even asking them about their fantasies. …	/r/seduction	08/02/19 01:36 AM
0	I'm improving!! Yes exactly. It depends on the person you are talking to. And if you don't want any of the women you talk to to feel creeped out, then a good strategy is to limit these kind of approaches to women who want to be approached. And the only way to be sure that a woman wants to be approached is to only approach women who you have a legitimate reason to talk to, such as in a location where they have deliberately come to socialize with men (such as a club or bar or mixer) or if they are a classmate tha…	/r/seduction	07/02/19 11:34 PM
3	I'm very empathic and often act like a nice guy. I think it's very good to show empathy and to be nice. But you can also do it in a way that you are not denying or hiding that you are a man and that you find women attractive. I'm a very loving empathetic guy, and I'm also very much a nice guy (but not a Nice Guy™️.) But I'm also very masculine and all the women in my life know it if I'm attracted to them. It's kind of a combination of being flirtatious and also very respectful and gentlemanly at the same time. Whatever you do, don't try to be …	/r/seduction	07/02/19 10:27 PM
1	I'm improving!! I dunno if you're description is just off or what, but the way you describe it sounds kinda creepy. Like you're going from floor to floor and walking up to random girls to tell them they're cute. Aren't there any girls you have a real reason to interact with? Maybe in one of your classes or in a social group? I think it's great that you are feeling confident though!	/r/seduction	07/02/19 09:59 PM
1	Have any if you ever gotten the "as friends" text and still ended up hooking up/dating the girl who sent it? If a woman says that to me, I take it to mean she doesn't want me to initiate, so I back off and don't initiate. But it doesn't mean she won't initiate. If we enjoy each other's company, I'll stick around and make sure she knows I'm available for fun if she wants it. But that I'm also having fun with plenty of other women. Sometimes being available for some fun when she wants it is all it takes, if she knows you and trusts you. That's my experience so far. I tend to be very patient. I've had gre…	/r/seduction	04/02/19 03:54 AM
6	Went to a party Well done! I love your attitude of just having fun.	/r/seduction	04/02/19 03:30 AM
2	Approach Anxiety struck this morning! Here are 5 things I did to overcome it... What was the standard day game opener in this case?	/r/seduction	02/02/19 11:35 PM
4	Guys, should I just fucking give up with everything? Maybe your problem isn't your face.	/r/seduction	27/01/19 03:19 PM
2	Dating apps destroying my self-esteem Um... Don't shoot yourself!	/r/seduction	27/01/19 03:10 PM
1	How to ask a girl out? Start with a large offer and if she says no then offer something a bit smaller until she eventually says yes or you run out of things to offer. The key is to have fun with it. You: Hey you want to go out to dinner and a movie next Friday? Her: hmm I'm really busy You: how about just a quick bite to eat then? Everyone needs to eat! Her: yeah but i have to study You: how about coffee? Her: i don't drink coffee You: tea? Her: i am way behind with my studying You: how about i bring you a bottle of w…	/r/seduction	27/01/19 02:32 PM
3	Social media purge is hindering my game Sounds perfect! Now you will know who's really interested.	/r/seduction	27/01/19 04:47 AM
2	Maintaining the conversation in bars Be genuinely interested in her as a person. Ask interested questions. Be like an interviewer on a talk show and she is the most interesting person on Earth and you want to learn about her and what makes her so interesting.	/r/seduction	26/01/19 11:05 PM
1	How to remove self-consciousness of moving to women at a club? [SOBER] Just have fun! Make that your goal.	/r/seduction	26/01/19 03:08 PM
1	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk If he's suggesting grabbing women you don't know then that's a dick move. I do just fine with women and i never ever touch them if I don't already know them well or have overt consent. If you get consent in the right way it can be a turn on. But if you don't know how to do it then it's a mood killer. The whole numbers game thing is bullshit as far as I'm concerned. Sure if you grab enough women eventually you'll find one that likes it, but along the way you're going to end up touching women who …	/r/seduction	24/01/19 03:31 AM
1	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk Sorry did i miss some sarcasm?	/r/seduction	23/01/19 03:56 PM
2	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk Why not be forthcoming with women about your views from the start? Talk to them about what you think of feminism and women's equality before you ask them if they wanna fuck.	/r/seduction	22/01/19 05:43 PM
4	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk Is that one of your pickup lines? After you grab a woman you don't know, do you tell her that the reason she didn't like it is because she's fallen for feminazi bullshit propaganda? Maybe you should try it and see how it goes. I don't touch women that i don't already know well, or from whom i haven't received overt consent. And i am very successful with women. It's not me that's fallen for bullshit propaganda. The idea that you have to grab women you don't know and generally treat them like trop…	/r/seduction	22/01/19 01:27 PM
1	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk I don't know you and i don't know what you're about. I just know that I've had a lot of success with women and i don't operate the way you do at all. Sure I'm confident and I'll approach and talk to any woman, no matter how hot. But what they like about me is basically that I'm not at all like you. I'm respectful, I'm verbal, I'm focused on them and their desires. I'm not focused on me and my desires, i don't see women as interchangeable trophies in a man's game, and i would never touch women in…	/r/seduction	22/01/19 06:13 AM
2	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk It's possible I misunderstood him but if he's talking about grabbing women in clubs who you aren't already very friendly with then that's what i consider a dick move. I'd never do that. If i meet a woman at a club or a bar and we're flirting i might make some verbal offers for fun, (and i can tell you more about my methods of getting verbal consent,) but I'd never put my hands on a woman without a clear indication that she wants that. He also seems to take a numbers game approach to interacting …	/r/seduction	22/01/19 05:53 AM
1	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk Yes. Sex positive, poly, but not kink.	/r/seduction	21/01/19 11:50 PM
2	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk I'm average height, 5'9", not at all muscular, but not out of shape either. I'm of Mediterranean descent so I'm not Caucasian white but I'm slightly ethnic but pretty white by most standards. I'm also in my forties but a lot of my girlfriends are in their twenties. I make a good living that allows me to take women on nice dates but I'm definitely not the kind of guy that could pick up a woman in a car or club. All the women i date have met me through mutual friends.	/r/seduction	21/01/19 11:47 PM
2	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk I spend a lot of time around women, I'm very respectful, and many of them are bisexual. I also know my way around the female body, and they know that i know, so a lot of my women friends like to have casual sex with me because i put all my attention on their pleasure and I'm not trying to fuck them unless that's what they want. The threesomes are mostly initiated by them, basically including me in something that they were going to do anyway. Also there's a few women who like to show me a good ti…	/r/seduction	21/01/19 11:41 PM
3	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk I guess you failed to read the first few lines of my post. I've had plenty of threesomes and i have a lot of casual sex. Yet i don't conform to your ideas of how to get girls. And yes i love sluts. Just not the kind of slut who is ok with being sexually harassed. I prefer the kind of slut who punches a guy in the face for acting the way op describes. That's my kind of woman!	/r/seduction	21/01/19 11:33 PM
3	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk I am very average. Not attractive but not overweight. I do my best to dress nicely though.	/r/seduction	21/01/19 08:01 PM
54	The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To Walk Speaking as a guy that has had plenty of threesomes and lots of casual sex, (although I'm not interested in one night stands) i don't do any of these dick moves you describe. Sure i say outrageous things and i don't always agree with women, but that's about it. I treat women with an immense amount of respect and i don't make any moves without enthusiastic consent on their part. While it may be true that if you sexually harass enough women, eventually you will find one that doesn't mind it, some …	/r/seduction	21/01/19 05:59 PM
1	How do I define my boundaries and not just be a SUPER nice and accommodating guy? How do I change myself? Great question! I don't really see this being about boundaries. This seems more about interpersonal skills. The key here is to take your attention off of yourself and put it on others. Be genuinely interested in other people and ask them questions about themselves. If you notice that you are focusing on yourself, just pause, look up at whoever is around you, and day something like... "So what else is going on?" There's really no way to "stop" doing the things you don't want to be doing. But if y…	/r/seduction	13/01/19 11:55 PM
1	Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ? Depends on the woman. I know some women who never like to initiate. I know other women who initiate when they want it and if they didn't initiate, it means they're not up for it. And i know other women who initiate about half the time.	/r/seduction	13/01/19 11:50 PM
2	By the time she's 20, how many times will an average girl have had sex? Why do you want to know?	/r/seduction	06/01/19 04:43 AM