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/r/RPChristians30/09/19 02:42 AM
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Things that are not beta male activities: Trying (and maybe failing) to start a business. Trying to learn a martial art. Trying to be better. Things that ARE beta male activities: Trying to tear down other males around me because I'm insecure! - You Making fun of people who are trying, because I'm a failure. - You Trying to brag to others about my status, because it's the only thing that gives me value. - You You come of as a weak, insecure cuck. If you are so wise and constructive - maybe start…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:47 PM
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Damn man, this comment is really bad. You should try being "for" things, instead of against. Trying to tear down your brother like this is small and petty. How is this helpful or productive? What's next, kicking sand in their face? Do you have any constructive advice other than lifting - which is just hours per week. What about the rest of the time. With your flair on this sub, fucking do better.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:33 PM
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You're thinking, talking, and writing waaaaay too much on this topic. You're living inside of your head, running simulations. Stay in the moment. Some things in life need deep analysis, but approaching isn't one of them. In fact, overthinking ruins it.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:38 AM
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First, see rpchristians (Red Pill Christians) subreddit, you might have better luck there. And I want to put this as respectfully as I can (was raised Catholic too), non-denominational teaches from the Bible. Catholicism starts with the Bible, and then mixes in what human men felt should be added, over the years (e.g. rules, sacraments, doctrine). I'm only suggesting that you be open the non-denominational, because it's arguably a purer source. Good luck
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:24 AM
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You'll get it when you're older. A 20 year old is like a new puppy, running around, pissing and shitting all over the floor. She's adorable but she can't be trusted, she has high drama, and extreme mood swings. When that's not an issue she either: desperately wants to branch-swing from you, now that she's achieved your level and/or she wants a baby (whether she realizes it or not). Sure, the sex is great, but the other 22 hours of the day are exhausting. As you get older, finding a slightly olde…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 11:56 AM
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Yeah, his wife is the best!
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:52 PM
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You need to get her full attention, and don't break eye contact: "Enough. I'm not cheating on you. Don't ever ask me that or accuse me of that again, not even one more time. If I'm cheating on you, I will tell you: 'I fucked a girl.'. If I'm going to break up with you, I will tell you: 'We are breaking up.'. You will not have to guess, and I won't be hiding anything. Right now, I want to be with you, so I'm here with you. If I didn't want to be with you, I'd be gone. Do you have ANY questions?"
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:44 PM
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It's a real thing. They aren't just being vain, taking all of those pictures themselves. They are wearing clothes, accessories, and makeup from affiliate companies and "tag" them, so thier followers can buy those items. When people buy the item, the model gets a commission. Another revenue stream is that people can pay the model to give a formal "shout out" for this brand or website, or they get regular income if they become a "brand ambassador" for a company. The Instagrammer can also contract …
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:25 AM
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Don't ever confront the guy. You didn't enter into any kind of arrangement or deal with him. He didn't promise to loyal to you, and he is in no other way obligated to you - legally, morally, financially or otherwise. Don't confront her because it will only make you look weak, makes her feel strong, and it won't make you feel better. Just walk away. Go back to work on your Mission.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:58 AM
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You feel so much pressure because in that one approach, you expect to: have initial contact -> talk - > impress her -> not mess up -> get her alone -> kiss her -> escalate -> take her home -> not mess up -> be able to Perform -> satisfy her -> create a repeat customer perhaps. Forget all of that. You should approach first as a human being, talking to another human being. You are interviewing her to see if she is high quality enough. If not, no harm done, and you can walk away. If she seems cool,…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:54 PM
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Sounds like you are already doing it. But to answer your question, what it means is: Think about what you are capable of. Think about it! What if you were to put all of your energy into a mission? You devoted all if your time, resources, and thoughts to this mission. There's virtually nothing that can stop a possessed man, like that. A single human is capable of creating enormous change. Now, imagine that your mission is YOU: to live the most amazing, kick-ass, fulfilling, inspiring life you can…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:00 PM
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And if he asks why, that's a question he should ask his daughter. You make it sound like she will do the honorable thing? She is going to say (while crying): "OP used to beat me and I found out he rapes women on the side, so I broke it off!"
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:07 PM
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After the standard techniques, I'd probably snap and nuke the whole set. This kind of behavior can't be tolerated: Me: points to her friend "Is this your friend? Do you know her?" HB7: "Yeah, she's my best friend!" Me: "Wow. She's a really rude, terrible person. You should work on getting higher quality friends. Have a good night." And walk.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:59 AM
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Sounds like you already know what you want to do. Good luck, brother!
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:39 PM
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I'll be the opposing viewpoint: let it go. First, it's going to cost you another couple thousand in attys fees. Then let's say you win in court (without a contract, will be tough). Even if you win, she doesn't have this money. So after not paying you'll have to sue again (with attys and court fees), and the court puts her on a payment plan. This is all your BEST case scenario and assuming that she stays employed this whole time. The result is either: She pays you $50/week for what, the next 8 ye…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:26 PM
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You really need to read the side bar. IOI = indication of Attraction. As for what to say - you need to get comfortable talking to ANY stranger. Start with old people, they are going to be nice, and the easiest. Then approaching an attractive female won't be much different. They should be treated like regular humans anyhow, not like some majestic queen to be put on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 11:58 AM
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Nexting her is not an option until I graduate What? That's a completely unacceptable answer. This sounds like either A) you see her as your possession, B) you are too insecure to be on your own or C) you are afraid to lose her because you live in scarcity. All of those are not ok. Listen, you had your turn. Now, she's getting the tingles from the new guy, and according to you, he's a good dude? So help them hook up. You won't have to worry about a crazy ex, and you'll be helping out a fellow dud…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:38 PM
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Oneitis is about you putting her on a pedestal and thinking that she, is better than YOU. That's completely upside-down. YOU are the prize and she was lucky you shared your attention and resources with her for a short time. Not only is she not grateful for that, by her breaking up with you, she ALSO thinks that she is better than you! The power dynamic is all wrong, here. You are either not "the prize", or you don't realize that you are. Oneitis is primarily a self esteem problem. It's not that …
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:09 PM
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In addition to other comments, cut down your talking by 50% or more. Don't vent your emotions to people, don't give your opinion on every small thing, don't constantly tell everyone around you every little thing you like and dislike. Put a filter between your brain and your mouth. Just stop talking unless it contributes to the conversation. As a reference, think of every badass in every movie you've seen. Think: John Wick, The Rock, etc - they generally keep thier mouth shut. This does a few thi…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 02:06 PM
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This should be added to the side bar: If your question includes "Should I confront her?" The answer is no. The answer is always no, 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:27 PM
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This is super frustrating to read. Brother, listen, what you have in your mind about her - the Disney^TM princess, romantic love stuff is not real. You are projecting onto her, what you think she is and what things could be. This is the bedrock of the red pill. The human body that are you in is pre-programmed to be attracted to certain female traits. She is NOT some noble creature to be worshipped and put on a pedestal. She's just a person who happens to have been born in a pretty outer shell. S…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:30 PM
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Similar to the Utopia Mouse Experiment, the human species (if not, at least non-Muslim men) are in thier final days. Live it up! By final, I mean the last few generations. Muslim families AVERAGE 8 offspring per household whereas Western men, if they even do get married, average 1.8 children, not even enough to replace the parents. There's not much point to planning for the future, we are well, well beyond the point of no return. So, go out and you do you, brother!
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:02 PM
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Women don't process "attractiveness" in thier brains, the same way men do. Physical attributes can play a role, but so do confidence, and your access to resources.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 02:25 PM
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Can't just make up new words. Dafuq is "bin"? It's not in the glossary.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:26 AM
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Would you even want any of that? Maintaining those relationships is a full-time job! Plus it pays nothing. What's the point?? Instead, go start or grow your business, work out, get smarter, travel, etc. You should be FAR too busy building a kick-ass life than to try to "keep up with the Jones". YOU be the Jones, let them be in awe of you, brother!
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:17 AM
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Upbeat guy, this guy.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 07:35 PM
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I dunno man, any subreddit that is run by mods THAT insane, maybe it's a good thing you leave. Let that place collapse in on itself.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:40 AM
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Most dudes talk waaaay too much. Just keep your mouth shut. The fact that they already have you all figured out, means you likely have no frame, and you talk aloud about how you feel about things. Your worldview and how people view you, changes when you just don't talk as much.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 08:52 AM
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Being alone: this should every man's default state. Not only should you be ok with it, you should prefer it. Anything less and I'd say you're either pussy-whipped or maybe codependent. Humans were meant to pairbond for the success of an offspring. That means probably two 7-year stints. Note that many things, and including an academic "sabbatical" or the "7 year itch" acknowledge there is a natural 7-year cycle to how we process the world. Raising a child takes two+ of those. So unless you plan o…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:37 AM
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This place does crack me up! There is such a fine line, a sweet spot that nearly no one hits. Either OP plays it too soft and he's called a beta cuck. Or he plays it too hard and everyone is like "wtf, are you some kind of asshole? She just wanted some comfort. You MONSTER!!" LOL Good luck OP, you can probably patch this up by softening up - but only a tiny bit!! :-)
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:03 AM
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How sure are you that it's your child? I'm just asking.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:01 PM
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