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13	Came here from the jubilee episode What exactly are men losing with more women gaining opportunities? Feminism hasn't caused a drop in education admission rates for men, there's specific socio-economic factors going on there that have nothing to do with feminism. Let's be real, what men lost with feminism is the ability to basically have a willing servant at home and to essentially force women to have no other choice but other then to marry them. THIS is causing a lot of resentment for men in a LOT of subtle ways.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/26 09:01 AM
12	Came here from the jubilee episode Idk my experience is those with high body counts in my life are very confident and mentally stable and those with little or no sexual experience tended not to be the most mentally stable. Your mileage is going to vary.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/26 04:38 AM
27	Came here from the jubilee episode Kill all men was never a feminist slogan. It's an extreme joke at best, that was often a reactionary phrase from women who were either deeply hurt by men or were just insanely radical. It is not a common phrase but because the Internet that churns this stuff at you THINK it's a front line slogan for feminism. For the love of God, be at least a little intelligent about how social media works to inflame everything for views.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/26 04:34 AM
1	Are attractive men rare for women? Person above is correct. Women generally just want t o be treated as people and have a normal, nice partner. Unfortunately the dating pool for men like this is actually quite limited.	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/26 04:52 PM
7	Are attractive men rare for women? I can go to a starbucks and find top-tier men easily. But I am attracted to men. You aren't.	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/26 04:43 PM
5	Are attractive men rare for women? I'd argue that a lot of men find average looking women out in public not too attractive and will gravitate towards hyper-attractive women instead.	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/26 03:05 PM
3	Why must men fight wars, but women aren’t forced to bear children? Your argument is that only women voted for conscription in Austria? Prove it.	/r/MensRights	20/03/26 07:26 AM
1	Why must men fight wars, but women aren’t forced to bear children? Have you ever actually asked a feminist this?	/r/MensRights	20/03/26 07:22 AM
2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Do you think I'm talking about age and attraction or I am criticizing how you are taking an extreme approach to every relationship on here. You assumed I'd be happier with someone richer.	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/26 10:47 PM
2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? No just pointing out how ludicrous your mindset is.	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/26 10:34 PM
2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Yes it's true. It means you'll never be happy because you'll never find the hottest woman	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/26 10:32 PM
-2	My two female friends say that dating in America is hell on earth for men and go elsewhere. Can you admit that? So if you go onto these apps you literally can't find a single match from any woman? And I don't mean the ones you actually want. Like any single one? Genuinely curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 12:14 PM
4	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? By your logic you can never marry because you'll find your partner unattractive in 10 years. Stop trying to logic this.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 06:56 PM
10	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? The appeal of my husband being kind, funny and attractive?	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 02:52 PM
9	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Yes. I am a woman who is the breadwinner in my relationship. Currently married to him. I married him because he is kind, funny and attractive. Not because of money.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 10:42 AM
–	Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into men I googled all of these. Most are generic names that lead nowhere. Tilley CF wrote an article in 1995 on how gang members are often lured in with the promise of female sexual partners. I have no idea how that relates to your post, unless they say something specific about men and women dating. Are you going to comment on your inability to provide sources?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 12:18 AM
–	Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into men I'm frightened of being in a car crash. By your logic I should never get into a car, even if I need to go work to earn money for food. And if i do get into a car and drive, I'm lying about being afraid of being in a car crash. Correct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 01:10 PM
24	Do you know any women who love their stay-at-home husbands? I'm young, 17, and I'm coming off the red pill. Just to let you know about 16% of women are breadwinners in America. Its tripled in 50 years and still rising.	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/26 10:26 PM
20	Do you know any women who love their stay-at-home husbands? I'm young, 17, and I'm coming off the red pill. Hi, woman who is the breadwinner in my marriage. Husband is currently working part-time. Why are you asking?	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/26 10:10 PM
21	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? We can logically understand problems OP but not emotionally understand them. Your brain has been wired through years of conditioning to believe certain truths about women. There is no easy fix to this. Unfortunately the answer is therapy.	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/25 12:10 AM
12	Being vulnerable is bad You are correct that being vunerable opens you up to being attacked. But not being vunerable equally causes problems, such as not being able to connect with other human beings especially partners. It's a double edged sword for everyone. The best you can do is immediately leave when you're being exploited and try your best to be open when you feel it's necessary.	/r/ExRedPill	22/12/25 09:35 AM
3	As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Population So which is it. Do men naturally want to rape or not? You seem to want to claim both sides here. That if we return to pre civilization men will go back to their naturalistic instincts but also it will only happen in a culture (?) that accepts rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 12:35 AM
11	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) Part of seeking help my guy is not engaging with these arguments.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 08:47 PM
14	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) Hi in this particular circle we call this 'absolute thinking' and it's poison. I assume you take some sort of transport. A car or bus, or a plane. There is always a chance that it will crash, killing you. Yet I assume you still take transport despite these chances. There is always a small chance that something awful may happen in a relationship simliarly.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 08:35 PM
3	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) I haven't really reviewed his entire comment history. I'll take your word for it though. I disagree entirely that men are the 'worst' gender biologically.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 07:18 PM
5	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) Look I don't think men are inherently violent but they do cause the vast majority of violence in our society. I think a lot of that has to do with entrenched issues that promotes violence and toxic views in an overarching, old political system called patriarchy. This does not mean men are evil, or bad, or anything, it just means they exist in a system that promotes certain toxic aspects while benefiting a top few men. If you have another reason as to why men are more violent I'm all ears, but I'…	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 06:42 PM
1	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) I don't think you're understanding what this person is saying. They're concluding that men are not evil necessarily, but as a collective there is entrenched issues with men because of patriarchy that are baked into our systems.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 06:22 PM
14	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) I think on an individual case by case basis, men are generally good human beings. But as an entire gender, politically and socially, yes they cause huge issues in comparison to women.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 12:48 PM
55	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) Women are people, just like men. Some of them are bad, some of them are good. Some of them will cheat, others will be the most loving partners possible who will stick by their hubands through every crisis without a second thought. They're just human, diverse and unknowable. If I was to claim all men are terrible, cheat on their wives, are all deadbeat fathers, will immediately do terrible things to women at a drop of a hat, are all abusive etc. based on extremes in specific subreddits, you'd get…	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 09:37 AM
3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Do you want to answer my question about absolutes?	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/25 07:53 PM
3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men But there literally is evidence. There's a tonne of overweight, happy men with hot girlfriends. I've seen them, I know them. Redpill works on absolutes. Is it less likely to happen? SURE. Is it an absolute? NO. There are things you can do beyond losing weight, getting a better attitude, even switching where you live. Reality is that if you're fit, attractive and wealthy it is easy to get dates. Yes. But it's NOT AN ABSOLUTE. REDPILL IS LYING TO YOU and you are falling for it hook, line and sinke…	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/25 09:45 AM
6	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men I found the other thread. Most of the people on that thread are telling you that you look good while also giving you good advice that you immediately became hostile at. One person said its over but thats frankly a troll post that you get in every subreddit. You literally just read everything in the worst possible way. Its not your weight. I'm a woman and pretty much every comment I've read from you screams insane negativity. You're exhausting to listen to. You're in a pit and at this point the w…	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/25 12:23 AM
21	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Yeah I feel like it's more common then the other way around personally? Perhaps your mileage may vary depending on what you notice or your area.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/25 12:06 AM
3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men If it's the thread from 5 days ago I'm calling bull. Unless you want to show me another thread from weeks back. Nobody mentioned your weight. Nobody told you were repulsive. Nobody told you it was over for you. The entire thread was mostly about how frustrating it was to tell friends and coworkers about their virgin status and you being sassy at one or two women. Look I'll hazard a guess and say this isn't so much about your weight as it is about your insane negativity.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/25 12:04 AM
1	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Did they actually tell you that it was 'over'. Like actually used those words? Seems a bit of an overreaction on your part no? I cannot see the thread you made there but I would guess you are confusing genuine advice for absolutes about your situation.	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/25 11:53 PM
3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men What the hell. No the person was saying that there are elements to every movement that has truth. Just because something is .5% true doesn't confirm the other 95.5%. There were a select few good economic elements to the soviet regime for example but the rest is absolute trash.	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/25 11:48 PM
6	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Why are you talking absolutes? The commentator is suggesting that to make dating easier, you can lose weight. Not that you have to. It doesn't mean you are completely undateable at a certain weight. I swear the main issue with red pill is the absolutes that are thrown around.	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/25 11:45 PM
-4	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... Cool thanks for displaying your 'opinion' for all to see on this subreddit. 👍	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 02:52 AM
1	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... Wealth disparity is a fact, but it is not a logical one. You are confusing fact and logic and hilariously broad stroke brushing the concept of a planet. By agreeing that inequality is logical you are agreeing that it is right and just, that it makes sense. Why do you think Andrews stance on the woman's vote logical?	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 02:45 AM
1	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... Andrew Wilson has routinely said women shouldn't vote through one avenue or the other. You claimed he was an amazing debater, but it seems pretty illogical to think his opinions are worth anything when he has such a gaping flaw that promotes a deep inequality for half the population no?	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 02:22 AM
0	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... Why?	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 02:14 AM
-9	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... You're aware you could have just answered my question with a simple response like; 'no, i don't agree with that position and I disagree with Andrew Wilsons position on this matter. Women should be allowrd to vote, obviously.' right? Instead you choose to shoot yourself and your other fellow men's rights activists in the foot by immediately getting aggressive and questioning why women should have the vote because something something draft inequality, immediately making it clear to any non radical…	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 02:07 AM
-6	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... So you agree women shouldn't have the right to vote based on inequality from old laws made and enforced by powerful men? That's certainly an opinion to hold on reddit.	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 01:55 AM
-11	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... You agree women shouldn't have the right to vote?	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 01:35 AM
-1	Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights... Immediately resorts to demeaning the other gender. Cold hard rationality at play.	/r/MensRights	23/11/25 01:33 AM
2	Women judge men for promiscuity! This was in Scotland and Spain...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:13 AM
2	Women judge men for promiscuity! This is a purely Norwegian sample, if you read the study there are other countries where there is a bias towards judging women. Like I said, it's really not 50/50 worldwide. Norway is, unfortunately, not the entire world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:01 AM
5	Women judge men for promiscuity! Really, do you have anything backing that claim? Because to say it's an assumption when it's a commonly held belief that female virginity is precious in nearly all cultures is a bit wild. Again to underline, I'm sure there are women out there that judge men for not being virgins, or being promiscuous. But this is in no way a 50/50 situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 12:38 AM
6	Women judge men for promiscuity! While I'm sure you can find specific examples where this is applicable, the general trend is that both genders tend to care a lot more about women's promiscuity, then men's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 12:35 AM
10	How do I move on without getting angry at women everyday ? There's going to be no better answer then 'get over it'. This will happen sometimes. It sucks. But what else can you do?	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/25 10:59 PM
3	Animal behavior Men need to step up smh	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/25 10:59 AM
3	Animal behavior I've heard red pill content being described as astrology for men. It doesn't need to be scientific, it's just a good story to base your ideals on.	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/25 10:58 AM
26	Is it true that the whole “height thing”, especially about men, isn’t really a thing in real life? Or, not as much of a thing as on the internet? It is definitely a case of being too online. Men in the red-pill tend to hyper-fixate on height because it's a definite 'measurable' aspect of attractiveness towards women compared to other aspects like facial features and personality.	/r/ExRedPill	08/07/25 11:46 PM
5	TRP unfortunately has truths to it Is posting generalisations about a gender really the best way to let off steam?	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/25 12:39 AM
6	TRP unfortunately has truths to it I'm a woman with an emotionally open husband and I'm the breadwinner. If you want to make up fantasies about me and my experience to confirm your narrative be my guest but the reality is that either you misunderstood the context of your failings in your relationships or you dated a stringbof bad women. I hope it improves for you but what won't help you is falling into a pit of assumption about the other gender.	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/25 12:26 AM
7	TRP unfortunately has truths to it All of the successful heterosexual relationships I know have emotionally available men with women. I'm sorry you had poor experiences with women in this manner. I think the reality is that both genders struggle with being emotionally open.	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/25 11:49 PM
1	You guys are gonna LOVE this one. I just have to say this - if a post went up on this subreddit complaining that a group of men caused a friend to kill themselves, and then insinuated that all men are like this and demanded an explanation then there would be anarchy here with likely the same sort of comments deriding the OP. Disappointing to see honestly.	/r/MensRights	30/01/25 10:50 PM
3	Do you think I need therapy because I can't get a GF and I'm scared of the possibility of not finding one forever? Your thinking sounds a touch obsessive. If you were to start therapy, start with talk therapy. Basic counselling. You need to identify the problem before tackling it.	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/24 11:14 PM
1	Has hatred of women increased in the past couple of years? I am not talking about the original OP. I'm talking about the comment you just responded to. My personal experience of the egalitarian movement back in the day was that it desperately wanted to ignore women specific issues and said men in those spaces often mocked feminism, calling it unnecessary. Im not sure about now. Seems like it's mostly gone in favour of extreme anti women rhetoric. I'm not sure why you're being very aggressive frankly about this. You've asked a question and numerous peopl…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/24 01:32 PM
2	Has hatred of women increased in the past couple of years? Previous poster is trying to explain that the denial of issues that feminists were trying to highlight led to the demonisation of women. The egalitarian movement that often downplayed women's issues and made fun of feminism was the forebearer to the extreme rhetoric we see today. Aka if you make fun of an equality movement for decades and do nothing to challenge rising extreme voices you eventually end up with the final opinion that women aren't actually people. You're asking why the redpill mov…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/24 12:27 PM
23	Approaching 30 and scared of the modern woman’s body count Slipping back into addiction, hiding debt to hide addiction, serious mental health problems, reputation, constant fear that your partner will slip, death, complications from addiction... Going to be honest, I'd much rather date someone with a body count of 300+ then date someone who was a previous addict and my body count is hella low. I'm not attempting to be judgey but you're going to have to realise that most people take a bigger risk dating an addict then dating someone who had a slut era.	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/24 12:16 AM
16	Going to sex workers. OP I get that but honestly I just wouldn't sleep with a prostitute the first time. Not only will it skew your view of what's normal but it can also turn away potential partners in the future. You're going to be insecure either way. You might as well just bite the bullet and just accept you're going to be awkward and that's fine. Everyone is. Even if you've slept with a 100 people, the first time with someone is often awkward anyways.	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/24 02:01 PM
5	Suddenly feeling empty about my partner after leaving TRP. Can I ask if you're getting the elation of getting girlfriend and actually liking someone confused?	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 01:32 AM
7	Is is true that women are drama seekers? I think women are human and some humans grow up with a lot of drama in their childhood and reflexively seek it out as a result. I know plenty of men who love to stir the pot just as much as women.	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/24 02:27 PM
7	I feel like women will be offended if I ask them out Fair. For now can I recommend meditation and mindfulness thinking? I know it sounds like bunk and trust me I have to really focus on it myself, but some of the exercises are actually really helpful. I use the app Calm, it's very helpful for me and it may be for you - tho everyeone's experience is different. Good luck :)	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/24 11:05 AM
6	I feel like women will be offended if I ask them out I mean this in the best way possible, but have you considered therapy? Just from reading your comments i feel like this is a confidence issue and it may be helpful for you to get an outside professional perspective on how you view yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/24 11:01 AM
22	I feel like women will be offended if I ask them out I think the point that the poster was trying to make was being mindful of how the other person feels and being respectful if they turn you down. A tale as old as time is a guy with low social awareness asking out a woman who has zero interest and taking offence when she says no. It's very easy to get caught in this cycle start loathing the opposite gender. Some rules of thumb that might be helpful; The not dating co-workers is just a general rule for everyone, no matter the gender. Relationships…	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/24 10:48 AM
16	How many of you dated cluster B women? I mean yes those are bad but I've also read stories from men who attribute those disorder labels to very real and valid reactions that women have to say 'I went on a trip after my wife gave birth and she flipped like a crazy person, clearly she has a personality disorder'. I'm not saying this is in every case - plenty of men have had to deal with difficult women who cheat/lie etc - but my experience in the RP spaces is that a lot of men don't view women's emotional inner lives as valid and thus …	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 03:36 AM
4	My Dating experience has red pilled me I think the poster was making the point that in straight relationships women tend to be worse off in happiness due to men not pulling emotional loads being abusive etc. Not to say women can't be that but it seems to tend towards that given the stats. And tbh dude, no shade, but you are an example of it. I'm not saying you need to get better but you basically got so triggered by one interaction with a woman that you were willing to go full red pill over it. I've had so many bad interactions with …	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/23 02:09 AM
8	Been single for three years, how do I stop my frustration turning into redpill rage? I'm confused as you are. For real OP, just make an active effort to avoid these spaces and pick up a new hobby. Going into redpill will just make you actively hate yourself. No point in going down that path.	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/23 09:43 AM
8	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy? What do you mean leave and get your shit together? Self improvement isn't a dirty word. If you're having trouble dating then find different avenues for finding women, maybe get a haircut, work on your conversation skills. Same goes for women just as much as men. You're honestly not making much sense. Different people are going to want different things. It sounds like you like the idea of being attractive to 100 women over the reality of being that way.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 11:47 AM
9	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy? Because it's not a hard and fast rule. Will a well put together handsome guy have an easier time dating? Of course, humans in general tend to be attracted to good looking humans who have their shit together. Nothing unusual about that. Will the second guy have a more difficult time? Maybe. Its going to depend. Statistically, probably, yes, but also statistically, he's going to date. He may date more then the first guy. Who knows. Broad trends amongst humans does not mean [insert broad trend here…	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 10:16 AM
3	Women want to control men. 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/23 01:05 AM
10	A lot of women are writing off perfectly good men because they do not have a college degree. And there are plenty of people who have degrees and got a lot out of it. Personally I think not dating someone without a college degree is quite shallow but I do think that people are allowed to have standards.	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/23 11:03 PM
6	Is it being tall THAT important for women? This is it, personality wins over everything everytime. There will always be the outliers who say specifically 6'5 or bust, but that exists across every spectrum.	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/23 12:24 AM
2	red pill claims that women should give sex to men in a marriage as a trade off As a HL woman, with friends who are the same and who has also seen plenty of research on women having the same levels of libido as men that's a nah from me. Women's sexuality is just a poorly understood and I do think a lot of men like to think it's lower as it feeds into a lot of older narratives about women being chaste/or knowing their place.	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/23 12:12 AM
3	red pill claims that women should give sex to men in a marriage as a trade off Lol. Do you have any evidence of that or is just a feeling you have?	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/23 11:30 PM
8	red pill claims that women should give sex to men in a marriage as a trade off Just to add, what's funny is that on subreddits like deadbedrooms it actually skews more female then male from what i believe. Plenty of couples struggle with poor communication and a lack of sex especially later on, its definitely not some weird RP theory.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/23 10:48 AM
13	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. While I agree OP that men do suffer from loneliness more I think you are really confusing potential hookups on dating apps as a valid support system. What you're getting angry about in your head - not getting dates and being lonely are really two different things. Valid support systems means friends, groups of them, family and people you can rely on. Not romantic relationships that can come and go easily.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 02:53 AM
10	How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one? They will be creeped out. I think the gap you have here isn't your understanding about female anatomy. It's your social skills.	/r/ExRedPill	15/02/23 10:45 PM
20	How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one? Is there though? What like the random friend I have who won't stop hitting on me narrative or the gentle guy I've known for years that's good with his hands, has never been creepy and who I'm sexually attracted to narrative. Which is more likely for a lot of women in your estimation? You're aware that there is a huge, huge hidden industry of porn for women in written erotica works right?	/r/ExRedPill	15/02/23 06:43 PM
18	How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one? Frankly women tend to not seek out sex as much because of the inherent dangers, social expectations and the fact that a lot of men suck at it. It takes nothing really for men to get off. It's more complicated for people with vaginas. You need to be more picky because it's likely going to suck if you randomly pick a guy off the street. On top of that I feel attraction for women is different. Women prefer narratives around sex not necessarily just on sight arousal. You're attempting to put your ow…	/r/ExRedPill	15/02/23 06:25 PM
2	Losing the love of your life to The Red Pill My concern is that you trust these doctors over a 100 year, well proven journal. Why?	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/23 02:43 PM
3	Losing the love of your life to The Red Pill Where do you get your information about covid vaccines? Peer reviewed journals? Online? Please give details. You know. I didn't mention covid in my original comment. Do you think you might have a negative narrative bias if you immediately jump to that topic in such an aggressive manner? I can feel a huge amount of denial and ego in your post that may not be coming from a reasonable place. For example you may feel a huge amount of distrust towards the government so information you consume that is…	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/23 12:28 PM
3	Losing the love of your life to The Red Pill People do question things mate but also they also have an awareness of what can be real or not. For example. Can you tell me if an academic paper is legitimate or not. What are the signs? This is something basic taught at Higher education levels.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/23 11:44 AM
7	society always talks about nice guys? but never nice girls.... Thats super anecdotal though. With everyone in my own circles, personality and general compatibility with life goals and views always comes first. Attractiveness and finance do play a part but it really depends on how big it plays into. Generally people pick partners based on a complicated set of reasons that intersect and can be true all at once.	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/22 04:15 AM
15	What if You Agree with Some Redpill BUT... As a woman with a partner who makes less and knows plenty of women in the same situation I simply don't understand hypergamy. Yes a small subsection of women may specifically think that way but I feel as if it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Woman breaks up with a man for a myriad of reasons and he tries to point to hypergamy as a 'natural' explanation as to why its actually the woman's fault. Sometimes it just doesn't work out and it's nobody's fault.	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/22 11:28 AM
7	Andrew Tate got banned from Facebook and Instagram He can still speak his opinion freely. People/companies are just showing him the door because of his behavior. Nobody is arresting Tate because of his terrible opinions. They will probably arrest him from sex trafficking.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/22 03:08 AM
2	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill HAHHA. WHAT. What data do you have to back this up.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 06:57 AM
4	Is porn actually that bad? Do some research into more sex friendly porn websites. Keep in mind random videos on pornhub might not always have consenting people. I actually pay for some porn myself and I can see the content is more sex positive.	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/22 03:04 PM
9	Is porn actually that bad? I think it's more accurate to say that a lot of porn is damaging because it shows a lot of inaccurate and harmful ideas about sex, which can be especially damaging to young men and teens who get unrealistic ideas and expectations. Such as women naturally enjoy nonconsensual acts or men should expect their partners to look like teens. Not to mention that the porn industry itself is inherently abusive in many aspects. I'm pro-porn but use responsibly and carefully.	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/22 02:22 PM
6	Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety? You're specifically a sugar daddy. Of course there's women in your life not as rich as you. That's like getting mad that's there's Italians in Italy.	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/22 08:15 AM
3	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. This opinion is wild to me. You are literally shooting the messenger. Do you get really mad at the employee who hands you a poor paycheck too instead of attacking the structural issue? Do you scream at bank employees because something happened with your taxes? Why would you get mad at your mother? Should she have researched it more closely? Sure. Is she completely in the wrong! No! She chose to do a thing completely accepted in the states when it shouldn't be. I'm sure in your lifetime you have …	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/22 03:32 AM
62	Redpill ruined the perfect relationship I'm sorry this happened. I'm glad you're realising your mistakes. In the future, I'd treat any partners the way you want to be treated. I think for a lot of men overcomplicate what the opposite gender want which is just basic respect and love.	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/22 05:17 PM
1	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? So I saw your comment about how redpill and blackpill is here to stay because women won't do what you want them to do and take their time and energy into making sure men don't get radicalized. You deleted it, and other comments in talking to me because you probably realised you came off as a bit of an asshole. I can tell you're still in the redpill sphere or state of mind because you're hyperfocusing on what you think is the solution; that women tell you and others exactly what you need to fix y…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/22 12:06 AM
1	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? And I'm telling you, AND MULTIPLE PEOPLE ON THIS THREAD. That many women are not willing to do that because it opens them up to danger and it's also unprofitable. Why don't you get this?	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/22 08:04 PM
1	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? Why don't you give seminars about how the redpill is toxic. Do it for free. Why aren't you organizing it right now. What do you not want to help your fellow humans? Don't have the time? Feel nobody will listen to you? That's how you sound.	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/22 06:58 PM
2	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? This is where you're getting mixed up. I think people like to think attraction is all just physical qualities but there's a lot that goes into it. Even here you're just saying what I assume is 'typical white women in porn' but do you want to date that specifically? You can't even describe the faces. Why do you expect women to give you detailed plans when you can't do it? To the second point. Because you are in this thread basically saying that 'women do not care about redpilled men because they …	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 06:15 PM
5	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? The reality is OP, and every person could tell you on this thread is, that if such a thing existed and was created by women, it would unmarketable because nobody in that ideology would listen to women. Furthermore, even if it did become popular I can immediately see those women immediately becoming a target. People who fall into these ideologies are not looking for solutions. They want something to blame and the markets of red pill form around blaming women. Which honestly are doing yourself by …	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 04:29 PM
3	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? Yes people should have better communication skills. Yes they should be more upfront. We should invest way more into mental health services. But keep in mind a lot of women struggle with communication with men because they're taught either from others or physically that it can be dangerous to be truthful to men. To be upfront can cost a life. Furthermore if I was to ask you right now what attracts you to other people you probably couldn't answer properly. It's a complicated issue that requires a …	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 04:19 PM
19	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? Why is it on women to lay out a three point explanation on what they find attractive? How would that even work? Do you demand every person you meet clearly explain their motivations, past and everything else so you can have the full picture? Women are humans with varied tastes. There are generalisations yes but it'll be different from person to person. I could not tell you what men like and I'm not our here demanding it either.	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 01:05 PM
4	Sadly, this is from the shooter in UK. Please, please, please take care of your fellow Red Pill/MGTOW homies. Come on, we can do better. 💪❤ Yes while looks, height etc are factors the absolute main problem I find is that these dude's think they're the only factor they don't get women. The reality is that confidence and high self esteem are far bigger factors. I wish people would understand that. Also it's not censorship to try and maintain bad communities, is banning nazi salutes in Germany censorship for example. There's a fine line between censorship of information and trying to manage bad faith communities from literally killing …	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/21 02:20 PM
2	What Hypocrisy in the Red Pill Annoy You the Most? "When I get downvotes for stating facts, it's pretty clear that equality is not the goal of feminism. They want to get retribution too." You stated the 'goal' of feminism, the entire movement, was retribution. I'm assuming you meant all feminists if that's the goal of the movement. Instead of equal rights i guess.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/21 06:47 PM
3	What Hypocrisy in the Red Pill Annoy You the Most? So we've gone from 'all feminists' to a select few on tik tok, a place well known to be mostly teenagers. I was actually curious and went on a few feminist tik-tok accounts and they had some general stuff about feminism, nothing too extreme. Again buddy, I think you're seeing some very fringe stuff taken out of context and it's frustrating to see you broad stroke brush an entire movement that is the basis for all the women in your life having basic rights.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/21 06:44 PM
1	What Hypocrisy in the Red Pill Annoy You the Most? Like where? On specific boards that take specific extreme people out of context? Because I'm guessing you browse some subreddits or twitter posts that make fun of feminists and you've taken 3-4 quotes as representative of the entirety of feminism. Normally when I go onto feminist subreddits or just even general conversations with feminists the topics are mostly actual real things. Like healthcare being ripped from women, workplace inequality. You know actual things happening. Hell I went on a fe…	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/21 06:37 PM
8	What Hypocrisy in the Red Pill Annoy You the Most? I think 99.9% of feminists just want equality. Either you are looking at a tiny fringe few or you are viewing wanting equality through a lens that interprets it as some kind of revenge. I see so many jokes or suggestions on here and on Twitter get instantly twisted in mens minds because they coke at this problem with feminists are evil...	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/21 07:49 AM
0	Why do so many liberal feminist women discourage so many under 30 women from getting married and having kids in their 20s ? Whatever you need to tell yourself. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 12:13 PM
0	Why do so many liberal feminist women discourage so many under 30 women from getting married and having kids in their 20s ? Hilariously transparent. You spend too much time on the internet cherry picking information because your own life is a bit of a broken mess and you want blame everything on currently wrong and your own personal inability to succeed on women. We'll be fine as a species. Your ego won't be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 12:03 PM
-3	Haha soo damn true! Tiny tiny bubble	/r/AntiFeminists	20/01/21 11:12 AM
3	Redpill Breakdown of ridiculous gynocentric show that is the epitome of modern men's internalised misandry and females' solipsism and hypergamy that wants to eat all the pies and keep em too. For someone who hates women so much you sure post a lot of them though.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 04:45 PM
2	Redpill Breakdown of ridiculous gynocentric show that is the epitome of modern men's internalised misandry and females' solipsism and hypergamy that wants to eat all the pies and keep em too. I'm a woman and I think you're wrong and hilariously ill informed about everything you're saying here. Why do you think I'm wrong. Do you think you're above me and have a better grasp on what I, a functioning human being, want? You're a sad loon who's in a cult. Go get help.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 04:33 PM
5	Redpill Breakdown of ridiculous gynocentric show that is the epitome of modern men's internalised misandry and females' solipsism and hypergamy that wants to eat all the pies and keep em too. So that's a yes to my question lol. I think your truth is that you're posting here to validate yourself about your views about how women are lesser beings that will just break your heart and pride all because you had a couple of bad experiences with the opposite gender so you latched onto the first worldview that told you it was okay to call an entire gender bitches. You are just a hurt individual. Nothing more, nothing less.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 12:48 PM
5	Redpill Breakdown of ridiculous gynocentric show that is the epitome of modern men's internalised misandry and females' solipsism and hypergamy that wants to eat all the pies and keep em too. I love your zero rationality about the world. Its hilariously inept. So which woman broke up with you for you to adopt your toxic views? Did she break your heart?	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 12:27 PM
6	Redpill Breakdown of ridiculous gynocentric show that is the epitome of modern men's internalised misandry and females' solipsism and hypergamy that wants to eat all the pies and keep em too. Women are not at fault for that. Class issues, capitalism and poor mental health paired with toxic masculinity is why men struggle today.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 12:17 PM
9	Someone please help me... I don’t wanna be “incel” anymore Completely. It's very easy to tell when the person in front of you doesn't think you're human. He probably thinks that he hides it well but it probably comes across in all aspects of his interactions with women. Even if he somehow managed to get a date I'd be surprised if it lasted any amount of time. All women I know would jump ship immediately if he even alluded to the shit he posted here.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/20 05:38 PM
50	Someone please help me... I don’t wanna be “incel” anymore Hi woman here. Not going to hate on you for this but those views are atrocious. You are right to try and make a change and I'm glad you are. Your views clearly draw from some dark places on the internet. I know me saying this won't mean much but really none of this is true for any large percentage of women. Women are human like men. They have normal fears and anxieties. They can also sometimes be terrible humans, just like men. I tend to find that men like you will read these views on the net an…	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/20 09:21 AM
1	Response to "essential readings to detox from redpill" Interesting.	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/20 04:48 AM
1	Response to "essential readings to detox from redpill" How do they benefit from it? I dont remember reading books about sexual attraction being purely socially constructed. I think some of it is socially constructed, such as beauty standards like no hair on legs but the basics are obviously physical. Or else our ancestors wouldn't fuck. Did I claim you were an incel? I mean I read this post and you claimed that all women are looking for a man above their station. But all the women I know just marry those that they love so I feel you're wrong, or jad…	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/20 03:33 AM
2	Response to "essential readings to detox from redpill" Cool. I'll look at it. So in your opinion, all women are hypergamous?	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/20 03:20 AM
3	Response to "essential readings to detox from redpill" I'm actually curious what these are so sure. You didnt answer my question tho.	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/20 03:11 AM
2	Response to "essential readings to detox from redpill" I actually just wanted to talk about how you think all women are hypergamous. Because I know I'm not. But I'm curious on how quick you are to defend yourself on how many women you know.	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/20 03:06 AM
3	Response to "essential readings to detox from redpill" Why did you think I thought you were an incel?	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/20 03:02 AM
1	Response to "essential readings to detox from redpill" Hey I'm a woman. Dating a man. Happy to answer any questions.	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/20 02:53 AM
5	I am never going to be in a relationship red pill or not. I'm sorry. That must really suck. Changing your way of thinking is really hard. I think it's really strong of you to try and change though.	/r/ExRedPill	29/12/19 07:08 PM
3	I am never going to be in a relationship red pill or not. Why are you on this forum?	/r/ExRedPill	29/12/19 07:02 PM
3	I am never going to be in a relationship red pill or not. Okay all that's my best and only suggestion. Sex or a relationship isn't going to fix this problem dude.	/r/ExRedPill	29/12/19 06:52 PM
5	I am never going to be in a relationship red pill or not. Hi I just want to say that you really need to try therapy again. I don't think you're a monster but if you come across so self loathing IRL as you do here, even by like 10% everyone is going to avoid you.	/r/ExRedPill	29/12/19 06:11 PM
7	Where are the succesful stories of me who got out of RedPill/BlackPill mindset? I can't find any in this sub That's alright you don't have to tell me. I honestly don't know your situation. But given your rebuttal to my question I'm guessing you're very insecure about about how your emotions have been rejected in front of the people you love. It's really difficult to be emotionally vulnerable with people for the first time and have that rejected so forcefully puts you into a corner where you can't be open at all emotionally. That's really hard and those women were wrong to do that. Men have a really tou…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 05:47 PM
1	Where are the succesful stories of me who got out of RedPill/BlackPill mindset? I can't find any in this sub Have you dated just two women? Not judging! Just curious.	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 01:32 PM
6	I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't change How is this a helpful comment to this dude? You're making a lot of assumptions about what I'm saying. I'm described exactly that he needs not to project and compare his dating life with a woman's dating life. I gave examples of how dating is difficult in different ways for women instead of just stating 'women don't get dates either' because that can be misconstrued. I do understand him. Because this isn't an issue of empathy when it comes to not getting dates. It's a deeper understanding that if…	/r/ExRedPill	10/07/19 01:56 AM
13	I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't change First off I think you're looking at a small portion of the population to base your world view on. Plenty of women don't get dates. But you also have to remember that the dating scene is different for young women. There's so much emphasis for men to sleep around that the dating pool for men is huge in current western society. Just because I HAVE someone hounding after me does not mean though that I want that attention as. To put this in perspective for you imagine someone, man or woman, who you'r…	/r/ExRedPill	09/07/19 10:38 PM