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So you'd physically force the woman into surgery?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/26 02:27 PM
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All the men I know cheat.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/26 02:24 PM
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You cannot get out of redpill unless you accept the reality that men cheat just as much as women (and a little more), and women don't 'always cheat'. Women are human, they have flaws just like men. Some cheat, some are loyal. If you are unwilling to hear that reality, and instead, dismiss every single study across thousands as somehow tweaked by feminists in some global conspiracy then I cannot reason with you because you are not in the same reality as everyone else. You might as well argue that…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/26 01:42 PM
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Do you want to actually get out of redpill?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/26 01:35 PM
14

You claim you know the 'truth' about female nature. But can you tell me, according to official statistics, what gender cheats more?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/26 01:29 PM
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I mean there's no doubt that being attractive/tall as a man will make it somewhat easier to date, but the red pill just declares that it's 'impossible' absolute if you're not a certain level of attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/26 08:38 PM
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The redpill runs on absolutes. If you're below a certain height, you'll never get a girlfriend. If you do OF nobody will want to date you. ETC ETC. The grift engine of red-pill is what drives these absolutes. Red-pillers HAVE to believe these absolutes, otherwise they'll have to face another reality. And that reality is that dating and romance are far more fluid then red-pillers want to believe. People will claim preferences, then date the opposite. They'll want a virgin to date, then be happy w…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/26 07:47 PM
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What exactly are men losing with more women gaining opportunities? Feminism hasn't caused a drop in education admission rates for men, there's specific socio-economic factors going on there that have nothing to do with feminism. Let's be real, what men lost with feminism is the ability to basically have a willing servant at home and to essentially force women to have no other choice but other then to marry them. THIS is causing a lot of resentment for men in a LOT of subtle ways.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 09:01 AM
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Idk my experience is those with high body counts in my life are very confident and mentally stable and those with little or no sexual experience tended not to be the most mentally stable. Your mileage is going to vary.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 04:38 AM
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Kill all men was never a feminist slogan. It's an extreme joke at best, that was often a reactionary phrase from women who were either deeply hurt by men or were just insanely radical. It is not a common phrase but because the Internet that churns this stuff at you THINK it's a front line slogan for feminism. For the love of God, be at least a little intelligent about how social media works to inflame everything for views.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 04:34 AM
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And here's the central point of the comment I'm making. You're becoming extremely defensive immediately and start slipping into the red-pill narrative. Suddenly you know me, a normal woman, and I'm dating way above my 'match' level. You can't imagine I'm telling the truth for half a second. Why even bother arguing with you if you're going to tell me everything I'm saying is a delusion?
/r/ExRedPill29/06/26 03:33 PM
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Nope. Not necessarily. Personality attracted me to my husband at first. Frankly he looked like every other guy I was around at the time. Because he's a normal looking guy. Again, this is the insane emphasis on attraction that absolutely wrecks men. Reality is that if you look relatively normal, what's going to sway romance will be your confidence and personality.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/26 02:54 PM
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The argument is not that purely being a good person will allow you to 'bag' a woman. It's that attraction is complicated and men fool themselves into thinking that personality has zero to do with attraction for women when arguably it's most of it.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/26 01:35 PM
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I like how you ignored the rest of my message.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/26 11:59 AM
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Women want to be treated as people from everyone. No the issue is that Redpill thinks there are insane standards for men when what's happening is that men either aren't meeting the bare bare minimum, have literal body dysphoria due to online communities or are stuck thinking that tinder represents the dating pool.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/26 08:48 AM
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Person above is correct. Women generally just want t o be treated as people and have a normal, nice partner. Unfortunately the dating pool for men like this is actually quite limited.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/26 04:52 PM
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I can go to a starbucks and find top-tier men easily. But I am attracted to men. You aren't.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/26 04:43 PM
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I'd argue that a lot of men find average looking women out in public not too attractive and will gravitate towards hyper-attractive women instead.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/26 03:05 PM
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Your argument is that only women voted for conscription in Austria? Prove it.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 07:26 AM
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Have you ever actually asked a feminist this?
/r/MensRights20/03/26 07:22 AM
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I feel as if this is asking what's so bad about rejection on an app. You could just turn it off or not hyperfocus on it. It's just rejection, everyone deals with it. It's not a big deal bro. You'll obviously push back angrily and say 100-1000 rejections are what hurts and that's absolutely true. Yeah, one scary or creepy message is fine. Just delete them and move on with your life. Sifting 100 of then though? That messes with your mind. Especially extreme ones. Can I ask why I'm not allowed say …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:06 PM
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If that's how you personally feel about the situation that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:35 PM
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You: Do women get matches on dating apps? I'd like to have a conversation about the rate of dating for women and I'm curious about how many matches women tend to get. Me: Well you see, some of my friends do, but there is this AWFUL man my friend is dating. Overweight, horrifically ugly. She doesn't say it, but I know it's true, she's just hiding it. You don't get it, he's so horrifically ugly. Such an incel. This is what's wrong with dating today, women can't get anything. It's so bad you guys. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:05 PM
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Okay I'm backing off this conversation because I have what I need and you're now starting to accuse me of an attitude. Men do get matches, but it's just very poor ones. Cool. Good to know. Thanks for answering. I hope it works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:50 AM
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But it wasn't the experience of 10 people. It was one experience you were frustrated about, and you used the chance to vent. You'd be annoyed if you asked a question about how many matches I get personally and I immediately launched into a very specific, scary story about a friend who was stalked for months on the app, and didn't answer the original question, right? I was just frankly trying to field an answer to the question 'do men get any matches' because I constantly see the rhetoric online …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:19 AM
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Much like how you're complaining that I don't get it for men, may I humbly point out that you don't seem to get what scary means for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:46 AM
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Okay. You do understand that I asked a direct question about whether you, specifically you, get matches on a dating website and you used that opportunity to launch into a story about how your friend is dating a fat, ugly woman that you don't like, thus not addressing the original question. So do you get matches or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:23 AM
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Dude getting laid isn't going to make you a real man. You are a man already, you're a human being. If anyone is shitty about you being a virgin that's on them, not you. Therapy and Antidepressants probably won't help in your situation. Sitting down and making a plan of what you want to do in the next five years will. Visualising the solution will help.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 12:39 AM
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If you can access it, therapy or some sort of mental health support group could do wonders. I'll tell you that doomerising isn't going to help.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 12:34 AM
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It sounds like you want me to be mean to you. I'll be agressive at you making giant assumptions about women and me because it is shitty, but I won't be aggressive about your situation. It sucks. I'm sorry.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 12:28 AM
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Did I say that? No. The world sucks. I wish there were programs for people like you to help lift yourself out of poverty. Some sort of UBI, or mental health support. I'm sympathic completely to your situation. You live in an awful country and you've been dealt a shitty hand. But I'm just telling you the solution. And it is, unfortunately, levelling up.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 12:23 AM
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This really isn't a conversation about red-pill. I'm telling you the solution - fix your living situation. Upskill or re-educate and move out. You can whine, you can complain, you can make excuses but that's the solution to all this. Even if you get a girlfriend, it's likely you won't be any happier and to be frank, it sounds like you're not in a place for a relationship anyways if you're bitter enough to say that you're waiting for a relative to 'kick the bucket'.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 12:11 AM
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If you want to take that from my words, sure. Continue to wallow in despair and do nothing to fix it. But if I were you I'd put any thought of dating on the backburner and fix your living situation somehow.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 12:04 AM
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Dude. That's pretty much every human across the planet. Both men and women. They want a partner who can contribute and has their life together. mentally and physically. Most men, sane men anyways, probably wouldn't date a girl in a similiar situation. This isn't a woman issue. It's - you're in a terrible situation - issue. I don't have any advice to fix that but yelling at women online about how they're lying when they say they don't mind being the breadwinner isn't the way to go.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 12:00 AM
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What do you want me to say exactly? I met my husband in my early 20's like pretty much every other human on the planet. He had the same prospects as me but my career just became profitable moreso then his. I don't give a shit another partner is rich or not. I'd like them to contribute in household or at least have a job in some capacity but frankly I love being the breadwinner. I love my job and I love my husband. But you're about to tell me I'm lying because you have 'proof' that women only wan…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:42 PM
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Yeah sure. Tell me how it's okay for you to make giant assumptions, but not me to make giant assumptions.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:29 PM
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No. You're assuming things about women. I get to assume things about men. There's tonnes of proof of it. I've seen it happen all the times with famous people. If you want to assume things about women and argue about it, you have to admit to me that it's equally fair for me to make giant assumptions about men. Like men make terrible fathers right? That's something I can assume.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:18 PM
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Okay it's true. All men are super shallow and only want extremely attractive women, only to dump then when they turn 30 right? It's true right?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:15 PM
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Why are you being aggressive? You made an assumption about what women want, so therefore, all the assumptions must be right, right? My husband is proof of it. He didn't have a job when I met him. I loved him because he was kind, thoughtful and funny.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:10 PM
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So yes, I need to like pink frilly things and baking pies because women all need to be one thing. Seems sort of shitty to assume you're the perfect example.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:04 PM
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Do you think I like pink frilly things, baking pies, and doing nothing but raising babies as well? Bit of a shitty assumption.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:02 PM
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Why are you assuming I care about my partner being rich? Tell me.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 11:00 PM
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Do you think I'm talking about age and attraction or I am criticizing how you are taking an extreme approach to every relationship on here. You assumed I'd be happier with someone richer.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 10:47 PM
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No just pointing out how ludicrous your mindset is.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 10:34 PM
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Yes it's true. It means you'll never be happy because you'll never find the hottest woman
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 10:32 PM
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I mean I won't deny women get way more options, the numbers are so skewed after all. It's like 75% men on these apps. I guess the question is would you rather deal with overwhelming attention, 90% of which is spam, 5% scary and only a few actual options. Or deal with no attention and have to run against a skewed gender ratio. Idk. Both suck. It's just frustrating speaking about it with certain men because it's as if it's specifically women's fault and not a skewed gender ratio combined with pred…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:46 PM
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Okay. This sounds more like ranting about women to me. Maybe he just likes the way she looks? You're really putting your own opinion on this situation. The question I asked and you didn't answer was if 'do these men get zero matches, even from women they don't like' and it seems like they DO get matches. Just not the ones you consider 'right'. Do you see how this issue doesn't get taken seriously by women if you immediately launch into a rant about how women are awful? I absolutely agree it's to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:59 PM
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So if you go onto these apps you literally can't find a single match from any woman? And I don't mean the ones you actually want. Like any single one? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:14 PM
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By your logic you can never marry because you'll find your partner unattractive in 10 years. Stop trying to logic this.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 06:56 PM
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The appeal of my husband being kind, funny and attractive?
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 02:52 PM
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Yes. I am a woman who is the breadwinner in my relationship. Currently married to him. I married him because he is kind, funny and attractive. Not because of money.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 10:42 AM

I googled all of these. Most are generic names that lead nowhere. Tilley CF wrote an article in 1995 on how gang members are often lured in with the promise of female sexual partners. I have no idea how that relates to your post, unless they say something specific about men and women dating. Are you going to comment on your inability to provide sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:18 AM

I'm frightened of being in a car crash. By your logic I should never get into a car, even if I need to go work to earn money for food. And if i do get into a car and drive, I'm lying about being afraid of being in a car crash. Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:10 PM
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Yeah. You're meant to realise that you have issues and work on them like a normal healthy adult. You get better, happier and everyone else doesn't have to deal with your bullshit. Stop misterpreting what I'm saying. Nobody's asking you to do shit for other people. They're just asking for a basic line of human decency What you want is a deluded fantasy of being better then everyone else. It's not normal no matter what way you try to frame it through trauma. Stop giving excuses. You're an asshole …
/r/ExRedPill14/01/26 10:51 PM
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You're free to ignore me you know. But you know what normal people do when they go through terrible stuff? Not become an asshole. I know people who have been through stuff ten times worse then you and come out the other end wonderful people. People who had no parents, nobody cared about them growing up and they still go out and do good in the world. Stop giving excuses. Stop pretending. You're an asshole because you're entitled. That's why nobody wants to interact with you. Shrug.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/26 10:43 PM
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Awesome. Good luck being a selfish asshole but blaming society for when people catch on to that.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/26 10:34 PM
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Awesome. How about you keep this just to yourself and not make everyone feel worse by posting, pretending you have a problem and looking for a solution, and yelling at the people who try to offer help. Consider the fact you're just a selfish person.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/26 10:31 PM
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Okay. Frankly this isn't going to be solved by lashing out at women or arguing endlessly on reddit. If you want to be happy you need to work on this through therapy. That's it. Work on it.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/26 10:08 PM
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Just to let you know about 16% of women are breadwinners in America. Its tripled in 50 years and still rising.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/26 10:26 PM
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Hi, woman who is the breadwinner in my marriage. Husband is currently working part-time. Why are you asking?
/r/ExRedPill08/01/26 10:10 PM
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We can logically understand problems OP but not emotionally understand them. Your brain has been wired through years of conditioning to believe certain truths about women. There is no easy fix to this. Unfortunately the answer is therapy.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:10 AM
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You are correct that being vunerable opens you up to being attacked. But not being vunerable equally causes problems, such as not being able to connect with other human beings especially partners. It's a double edged sword for everyone. The best you can do is immediately leave when you're being exploited and try your best to be open when you feel it's necessary.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/25 09:35 AM
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This is such a reductive line of reasoning when trying to argue that just asking certain questions when rape happens is permissible. So by your own metric, its not that humans are animals, but certain social pressures and cultural contexts allow rape to occur. So no. It's not natural, just as murder isn't the norm. So maybe we should be questioning the social presaure and cultural context as to why its permissible to blame a woman for leading a man on with her clothing in court?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:47 AM
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So which is it. Do men naturally want to rape or not? You seem to want to claim both sides here. That if we return to pre civilization men will go back to their naturalistic instincts but also it will only happen in a culture (?) that accepts rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:35 AM
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You asked for help to abandon the red pill. Yet here you are complaining that me and 50 other people are lying. You've done nothing but argue with every person on here. You have shown not for a second that you care about people making kind, empathic suggestions, taking time out of their day to actually care. You call them liars, or stupid or anything else to deflect. And you don't give a shit. You're just continuing to whinge. So you don't want help. You just want to wallow.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 11:13 PM
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You asked for help and you're currently screeching that I'm lying. Okay. Either you want help or you don't. Try to improve your situation or wallow in misery. Pick your poison.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 11:03 PM
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So you're a bozo who doesn't have a clue, can't spell and doesn't know the basic meaning of stuff. Got it. You can reblock me if you like this is boring. Later.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:27 PM
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LOL. What not academic papers?
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:23 PM
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Lol. I've argued with multiple people on this website who have made claims as to something in a document, or a wildly accurate fact based on what AI told them. Turns out when I read the document or fact checked them myself, turned out the AI lied, or in simplier terms, was just wrong. Half the stuff you're saying is incorrect most likely.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:21 PM
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lol. you think AI doesn't lie?
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:19 PM
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I know you're triggered and angry because I'm pointing out your intelligence issue here, but there's really no point in arguing with me. You don't even understand what an axiom or a first principal is and I doubt yours make much sense if you base it all off an AI that lies directly to you to make you feel better.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:12 PM
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I assumed this because everything you've said to me has either been ramblings incoherent thoughts or spelled incorrectly. I actually don't use AI. Everything i've said to you has just been my educated thoughts. I've gone and read books and formed my own conclusions. Crazy I know.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:07 PM
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You can argue with an AI as a human being can argue with a brick wall. It's technically true but you're getting nothing out of it other then nonsense that makes you think you're intelligent.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 04:38 PM
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You don't argue with an Ai.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 04:24 PM
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This guy actually can't string a sentence together becauae he's using AI to construct his arguments. It's why he's using a tonne of buzz words that barely correlate. I wouldn't bother.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 06:06 AM
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Yeah how about you look up the definition and spelling of ideology, reread my comments and come back to me with an actual argument on your own instead of relying on AI. It's boring and makes you sound nonsensical.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 09:53 PM
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You just used AI to lazily describe three extremely vague metal ethical positions, one of which is two that directly. None of these describe why my ideology is bad. They don't even describe my ideology. They aren't even ideologies they are moral ethical positions that can be tangentially applied to my ideology but do not describe it. Why should I have a conversation with a guy who can't spell ideology and doesn’t understand what the word even means?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 09:47 PM
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If you're going to claim that you're a philosopher, I beg of you, learn to spell ideology correctly. In general check your spelling, you're impossible to follow. Can you define my ideology? You seem to agree that men are defined by an exterior system of power that affects the individual yet you claim my ideology is incorrect.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 09:31 PM
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Part of seeking help my guy is not engaging with these arguments.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 08:47 PM
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Hi in this particular circle we call this 'absolute thinking' and it's poison. I assume you take some sort of transport. A car or bus, or a plane. There is always a chance that it will crash, killing you. Yet I assume you still take transport despite these chances. There is always a small chance that something awful may happen in a relationship simliarly.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 08:35 PM
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You mean a traditional wisdom that causes active harm to men and is unscientitic in its conclusion? Cool so we're in agreement. You acknowledge that there is a system that harms men by promoting violence and restricting feelings. This is actively promoted by men in power and nutures invididual men. Men aren't just slaves to their feelings and aren't inherently violent, they, like women, are victims of a power structure they were born into. And, as promoters as good mental health and living stand…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 08:30 PM
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Insulting me does not help your argument it just shows how weak it is. Patriarchy does not refer to a system of government. If you googled this, you would know. It is instead the over arching system that both makes sure men hold seats of power while also telling them that they should man up and not cry. Whatever you want to call it really, but there is clearly a negative system in place for men, perpetuated by men.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 07:53 PM
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I disagree. I don't think men are inherently biologically inclined to be more violent and I think it's very reductive to say so. The nuture part is literally patriarchy dude.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 07:21 PM
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I haven't really reviewed his entire comment history. I'll take your word for it though. I disagree entirely that men are the 'worst' gender biologically.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 07:18 PM
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This is not on topic and not helpful. Can I ask why you think men cause far more violence then women? Are they just biologically more violent?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 07:14 PM
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Look I don't think men are inherently violent but they do cause the vast majority of violence in our society. I think a lot of that has to do with entrenched issues that promotes violence and toxic views in an overarching, old political system called patriarchy. This does not mean men are evil, or bad, or anything, it just means they exist in a system that promotes certain toxic aspects while benefiting a top few men. If you have another reason as to why men are more violent I'm all ears, but I'…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 06:42 PM
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I don't think you're understanding what this person is saying. They're concluding that men are not evil necessarily, but as a collective there is entrenched issues with men because of patriarchy that are baked into our systems.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 06:22 PM
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I think on an individual case by case basis, men are generally good human beings. But as an entire gender, politically and socially, yes they cause huge issues in comparison to women.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 12:48 PM
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Women are people, just like men. Some of them are bad, some of them are good. Some of them will cheat, others will be the most loving partners possible who will stick by their hubands through every crisis without a second thought. They're just human, diverse and unknowable. If I was to claim all men are terrible, cheat on their wives, are all deadbeat fathers, will immediately do terrible things to women at a drop of a hat, are all abusive etc. based on extremes in specific subreddits, you'd get…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 09:37 AM
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Then why even post here dude. You know the answer has mostly to do with your trash absolute mindset. My friend weighs 300+ and has a beautiful girlfriend who loves him. You know how he did it? He has a fantastic personality and he's funny too. He's a big feminist too, and people gravitate towards him. He obviously has issues like everyone but hes bright, positive and upbeat. You can't even answer a basic question.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 08:02 PM
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Why hasn't therapy helped. Is it because you're more interested in your own ego and little fantasies instead of actually facing who you are, a flawed human being?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 07:59 PM
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Do you want to answer my question about absolutes?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 07:53 PM
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Why hasn't it helped. So you can only be happy if you enact horrible pain on others. Right?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 07:50 PM
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But there literally is evidence. There's a tonne of overweight, happy men with hot girlfriends. I've seen them, I know them. Redpill works on absolutes. Is it less likely to happen? SURE. Is it an absolute? NO. There are things you can do beyond losing weight, getting a better attitude, even switching where you live. Reality is that if you're fit, attractive and wealthy it is easy to get dates. Yes. But it's NOT AN ABSOLUTE. REDPILL IS LYING TO YOU and you are falling for it hook, line and sinke…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 09:45 AM
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I found the other thread. Most of the people on that thread are telling you that you look good while also giving you good advice that you immediately became hostile at. One person said its over but thats frankly a troll post that you get in every subreddit. You literally just read everything in the worst possible way. Its not your weight. I'm a woman and pretty much every comment I've read from you screams insane negativity. You're exhausting to listen to. You're in a pit and at this point the w…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:23 AM
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Yeah I feel like it's more common then the other way around personally? Perhaps your mileage may vary depending on what you notice or your area.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:06 AM
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If it's the thread from 5 days ago I'm calling bull. Unless you want to show me another thread from weeks back. Nobody mentioned your weight. Nobody told you were repulsive. Nobody told you it was over for you. The entire thread was mostly about how frustrating it was to tell friends and coworkers about their virgin status and you being sassy at one or two women. Look I'll hazard a guess and say this isn't so much about your weight as it is about your insane negativity.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:04 AM
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Did they actually tell you that it was 'over'. Like actually used those words? Seems a bit of an overreaction on your part no? I cannot see the thread you made there but I would guess you are confusing genuine advice for absolutes about your situation.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 11:53 PM
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What the hell. No the person was saying that there are elements to every movement that has truth. Just because something is .5% true doesn't confirm the other 95.5%. There were a select few good economic elements to the soviet regime for example but the rest is absolute trash.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 11:48 PM
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Why are you talking absolutes? The commentator is suggesting that to make dating easier, you can lose weight. Not that you have to. It doesn't mean you are completely undateable at a certain weight. I swear the main issue with red pill is the absolutes that are thrown around.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 11:45 PM
1

Isn't it fun when you get backed into a corner by your own logic. Righto. Night.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 04:08 AM
2

I mean your claim is that inequality of resources on the planet due to the randomness must be logical because otherwise the earth is illogical. Therefore inequality is logical. So now you have to explain to me how randomneness is logical or illlogical by human terms. Becauae randomness by the universe brought the planet together and deposited humans on it. So go on. Explain to me how universal randomness is logical. I mean that is why theres resource inequality on the planet right? Or just admit…
/r/MensRights23/11/25 04:01 AM
2

Could you answer my question. It seems very bad faith for me to attempt to answer yours and you not even attempt mine. It almost seems like you don't want to answer. Shrug.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 03:52 AM
2

Hm. Could you explain how the randomness of the universe is illogical please?
/r/MensRights23/11/25 03:42 AM
2

Cool. Lets get back on topic. Could you explain the logic of not allowing women to vote please?
/r/MensRights23/11/25 03:37 AM
2

Are you asking if the universe is logical because is appears random? I thought we were debating human beings and the logic of inequality. If you want to go on that tangent, we might as well start getting into planetary formation theory, which is miles from this discussion. What logic is there to not allowing women to vote exactly? I asked. Could you explain it to me?
/r/MensRights23/11/25 03:34 AM
-4

Cool thanks for displaying your 'opinion' for all to see on this subreddit. 👍
/r/MensRights23/11/25 02:52 AM
1

Wealth disparity is a fact, but it is not a logical one. You are confusing fact and logic and hilariously broad stroke brushing the concept of a planet. By agreeing that inequality is logical you are agreeing that it is right and just, that it makes sense. Why do you think Andrews stance on the woman's vote logical?
/r/MensRights23/11/25 02:45 AM
1

Andrew Wilson has routinely said women shouldn't vote through one avenue or the other. You claimed he was an amazing debater, but it seems pretty illogical to think his opinions are worth anything when he has such a gaping flaw that promotes a deep inequality for half the population no?
/r/MensRights23/11/25 02:22 AM
0

Why?
/r/MensRights23/11/25 02:14 AM
-9

You're aware you could have just answered my question with a simple response like; 'no, i don't agree with that position and I disagree with Andrew Wilsons position on this matter. Women should be allowrd to vote, obviously.' right? Instead you choose to shoot yourself and your other fellow men's rights activists in the foot by immediately getting aggressive and questioning why women should have the vote because something something draft inequality, immediately making it clear to any non radical…
/r/MensRights23/11/25 02:07 AM
-6

So you agree women shouldn't have the right to vote based on inequality from old laws made and enforced by powerful men? That's certainly an opinion to hold on reddit.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 01:55 AM
-11

You agree women shouldn't have the right to vote?
/r/MensRights23/11/25 01:35 AM
-1

Immediately resorts to demeaning the other gender. Cold hard rationality at play.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 01:33 AM
1

It seems like you don't want to believe her to suit your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:25 AM
1

The study. I read it, not just the article. It pointed out that in Norway it was 50/50 but there were studies in Spain and Scotland that still estimated that women were judged more harshly for more sexual partners. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:39 AM
2

This was in Scotland and Spain...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:13 AM
2

This is a purely Norwegian sample, if you read the study there are other countries where there is a bias towards judging women. Like I said, it's really not 50/50 worldwide. Norway is, unfortunately, not the entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:01 AM
5

Really, do you have anything backing that claim? Because to say it's an assumption when it's a commonly held belief that female virginity is precious in nearly all cultures is a bit wild. Again to underline, I'm sure there are women out there that judge men for not being virgins, or being promiscuous. But this is in no way a 50/50 situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:38 AM
6

While I'm sure you can find specific examples where this is applicable, the general trend is that both genders tend to care a lot more about women's promiscuity, then men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:35 AM
10

There's going to be no better answer then 'get over it'. This will happen sometimes. It sucks. But what else can you do?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/25 10:59 PM
3

Men need to step up smh
/r/ExRedPill22/08/25 10:59 AM
3

I've heard red pill content being described as astrology for men. It doesn't need to be scientific, it's just a good story to base your ideals on.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/25 10:58 AM
1

You're aware that you essentially told misinformation and you ignored the fact that it's misinformation and instead tried to blame someone for having a crime inflicted on them to distract that you had essentially made a jump in logic. Right?
/r/MensRights29/07/25 06:39 PM
1

Because the app had a serious problem with dudes posting nudes of their exes with their faces attached. The owner had to take it down because I assume they were in serious breach of revenge porn laws.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 09:39 AM
26

It is definitely a case of being too online. Men in the red-pill tend to hyper-fixate on height because it's a definite 'measurable' aspect of attractiveness towards women compared to other aspects like facial features and personality.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/25 11:46 PM
5

Is posting generalisations about a gender really the best way to let off steam?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/25 12:39 AM
6

I'm a woman with an emotionally open husband and I'm the breadwinner. If you want to make up fantasies about me and my experience to confirm your narrative be my guest but the reality is that either you misunderstood the context of your failings in your relationships or you dated a stringbof bad women. I hope it improves for you but what won't help you is falling into a pit of assumption about the other gender.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/25 12:26 AM
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All of the successful heterosexual relationships I know have emotionally available men with women. I'm sorry you had poor experiences with women in this manner. I think the reality is that both genders struggle with being emotionally open.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/25 11:49 PM
1

I just have to say this - if a post went up on this subreddit complaining that a group of men caused a friend to kill themselves, and then insinuated that all men are like this and demanded an explanation then there would be anarchy here with likely the same sort of comments deriding the OP. Disappointing to see honestly.
/r/MensRights30/01/25 10:50 PM
3

Your thinking sounds a touch obsessive. If you were to start therapy, start with talk therapy. Basic counselling. You need to identify the problem before tackling it.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/24 11:14 PM
1

I am not talking about the original OP. I'm talking about the comment you just responded to. My personal experience of the egalitarian movement back in the day was that it desperately wanted to ignore women specific issues and said men in those spaces often mocked feminism, calling it unnecessary. Im not sure about now. Seems like it's mostly gone in favour of extreme anti women rhetoric. I'm not sure why you're being very aggressive frankly about this. You've asked a question and numerous peopl…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 01:32 PM
2

Previous poster is trying to explain that the denial of issues that feminists were trying to highlight led to the demonisation of women. The egalitarian movement that often downplayed women's issues and made fun of feminism was the forebearer to the extreme rhetoric we see today. Aka if you make fun of an equality movement for decades and do nothing to challenge rising extreme voices you eventually end up with the final opinion that women aren't actually people. You're asking why the redpill mov…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 12:27 PM
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Nope. Not what I said. You deserve the best of the best. But someone who has slept with a lot of people also deserves the best of the best. Just like you hate to be judged for something in your past, you might think about applying that basic empathy to someone who's slept with a lot of people. You seem to think they're all diseased and worth so little and it's really something you should reflect on. You're going to be going into all these relationships with 'baggage' everyone will at 30. It woul…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 12:36 AM
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Slipping back into addiction, hiding debt to hide addiction, serious mental health problems, reputation, constant fear that your partner will slip, death, complications from addiction... Going to be honest, I'd much rather date someone with a body count of 300+ then date someone who was a previous addict and my body count is hella low. I'm not attempting to be judgey but you're going to have to realise that most people take a bigger risk dating an addict then dating someone who had a slut era.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 12:16 AM
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OP I get that but honestly I just wouldn't sleep with a prostitute the first time. Not only will it skew your view of what's normal but it can also turn away potential partners in the future. You're going to be insecure either way. You might as well just bite the bullet and just accept you're going to be awkward and that's fine. Everyone is. Even if you've slept with a 100 people, the first time with someone is often awkward anyways.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 02:01 PM
5

Can I ask if you're getting the elation of getting girlfriend and actually liking someone confused?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 01:32 AM
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I think women are human and some humans grow up with a lot of drama in their childhood and reflexively seek it out as a result. I know plenty of men who love to stir the pot just as much as women.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 02:27 PM
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Fair. For now can I recommend meditation and mindfulness thinking? I know it sounds like bunk and trust me I have to really focus on it myself, but some of the exercises are actually really helpful. I use the app Calm, it's very helpful for me and it may be for you - tho everyeone's experience is different. Good luck :)
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 11:05 AM
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I mean this in the best way possible, but have you considered therapy? Just from reading your comments i feel like this is a confidence issue and it may be helpful for you to get an outside professional perspective on how you view yourself.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 11:01 AM
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I think the point that the poster was trying to make was being mindful of how the other person feels and being respectful if they turn you down. A tale as old as time is a guy with low social awareness asking out a woman who has zero interest and taking offence when she says no. It's very easy to get caught in this cycle start loathing the opposite gender. Some rules of thumb that might be helpful; The not dating co-workers is just a general rule for everyone, no matter the gender. Relationships…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 10:48 AM
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I mean yes those are bad but I've also read stories from men who attribute those disorder labels to very real and valid reactions that women have to say 'I went on a trip after my wife gave birth and she flipped like a crazy person, clearly she has a personality disorder'. I'm not saying this is in every case - plenty of men have had to deal with difficult women who cheat/lie etc - but my experience in the RP spaces is that a lot of men don't view women's emotional inner lives as valid and thus …
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 03:36 AM
4

I think the poster was making the point that in straight relationships women tend to be worse off in happiness due to men not pulling emotional loads being abusive etc. Not to say women can't be that but it seems to tend towards that given the stats. And tbh dude, no shade, but you are an example of it. I'm not saying you need to get better but you basically got so triggered by one interaction with a woman that you were willing to go full red pill over it. I've had so many bad interactions with …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 02:09 AM
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I'm confused as you are. For real OP, just make an active effort to avoid these spaces and pick up a new hobby. Going into redpill will just make you actively hate yourself. No point in going down that path.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:43 AM
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What do you mean leave and get your shit together? Self improvement isn't a dirty word. If you're having trouble dating then find different avenues for finding women, maybe get a haircut, work on your conversation skills. Same goes for women just as much as men. You're honestly not making much sense. Different people are going to want different things. It sounds like you like the idea of being attractive to 100 women over the reality of being that way.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 11:47 AM
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Because it's not a hard and fast rule. Will a well put together handsome guy have an easier time dating? Of course, humans in general tend to be attracted to good looking humans who have their shit together. Nothing unusual about that. Will the second guy have a more difficult time? Maybe. Its going to depend. Statistically, probably, yes, but also statistically, he's going to date. He may date more then the first guy. Who knows. Broad trends amongst humans does not mean [insert broad trend here…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 10:16 AM
3

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:05 AM
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And there are plenty of people who have degrees and got a lot out of it. Personally I think not dating someone without a college degree is quite shallow but I do think that people are allowed to have standards.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 11:03 PM
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This is it, personality wins over everything everytime. There will always be the outliers who say specifically 6'5 or bust, but that exists across every spectrum.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 12:24 AM
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As a HL woman, with friends who are the same and who has also seen plenty of research on women having the same levels of libido as men that's a nah from me. Women's sexuality is just a poorly understood and I do think a lot of men like to think it's lower as it feeds into a lot of older narratives about women being chaste/or knowing their place.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 12:12 AM
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Lol. Do you have any evidence of that or is just a feeling you have?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 11:30 PM
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Just to add, what's funny is that on subreddits like deadbedrooms it actually skews more female then male from what i believe. Plenty of couples struggle with poor communication and a lack of sex especially later on, its definitely not some weird RP theory.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 10:48 AM
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I pointed out that you posting this ridiculous thread that used baseless ancesotes to insintuate that women like sex less is inherently creepy. You ignored that. I pointed out that you seem to lack social skills and an ability to read nuance probably leading to difficulties understanding women. You ignored that. I pointed out that you seem to want some cheat code that made you seem safe so that you could find friends to fuck insinuating that you're not really a safe person but want the illusion …
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 03:43 AM
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Yeah I kinda want to end this conversation because I'm not terribly comfortable educating a guy to get better at manipulating his female friends to sleep with him by seeming more 'safe'. You frankly sound pretty creepy and unopen to criticism. Not interested anymore if you're not listening to the fundamentals of what I'm saying.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 06:16 PM
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You came onto this thread claiming it was possibly 10% of men's. Why dont you respond to the people who gave you data that entirely refutes that instead of responding to me. You frankly come off as unempathic and argumentative to me. You think you're unattractive and you're angry about that. I get the sense you're stuck in life and you think more sex is going to help with that. Things are unfair in your mind and you've taken to coming up with baseless ideas that fill in that uneven gap in your m…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:52 PM
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I'm pretty much out of paitence for this.You literally made a thread about how women have a small percentage of the sex drive based on anecdotes that you had tested. A theory that goes completely against the general data available. Then when women and other people told you that you were wrong you pretty much doubled down on the comments. You were repeatedly told the reasons that women tend be more picky. You kept doubling down again and again putting out anecdotes like you wanted it to be true. …
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:15 PM
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When I say treat them like a human being I'm referring to the fact that a lot of guys don't treat women as fully actualized people. And I think you're probably one of them. You've been up and down this thread making very generalized statements about women and their sexuality with broad strokes. I don't think you know many women honestly. I think the women you do know you've either creeped out by asking to be FWB or you're just not that friendly. You keep KEEP claiming that women should have sex …
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 03:21 PM
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While I agree OP that men do suffer from loneliness more I think you are really confusing potential hookups on dating apps as a valid support system. What you're getting angry about in your head - not getting dates and being lonely are really two different things. Valid support systems means friends, groups of them, family and people you can rely on. Not romantic relationships that can come and go easily.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 02:53 AM
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They will be creeped out. I think the gap you have here isn't your understanding about female anatomy. It's your social skills.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 10:45 PM
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That's really complicated and like men, it's going to depend on woman to woman. But the rule of thumb for all women is to really really treat them as human beings. Don't be desperate, don't make the focus about you getting your dick wet, LISTEN to them when they say no. Understand that they are human and they have desires just like you. I have to ask a fundamental question here though first. Are you aiming for FWBs just to have sex?
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 10:44 PM
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A dude you've known for a long time suddenly asking to be FWBs is not sexy. I get the sense you don't really understand what women find sexy and you're assuming because they don't want to fuck all their friends therefore they have low sex drives. Actually a guy who you've known a long time suddenly asking to be FWB out of the blue, no flirting, no signals is actually a huge red flag. I'd find that creepy and dangerous tbh. It'd tell me the dude doesn't view me as fully human. Have you ever consi…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 07:10 PM
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Is there though? What like the random friend I have who won't stop hitting on me narrative or the gentle guy I've known for years that's good with his hands, has never been creepy and who I'm sexually attracted to narrative. Which is more likely for a lot of women in your estimation? You're aware that there is a huge, huge hidden industry of porn for women in written erotica works right?
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 06:43 PM
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Frankly women tend to not seek out sex as much because of the inherent dangers, social expectations and the fact that a lot of men suck at it. It takes nothing really for men to get off. It's more complicated for people with vaginas. You need to be more picky because it's likely going to suck if you randomly pick a guy off the street. On top of that I feel attraction for women is different. Women prefer narratives around sex not necessarily just on sight arousal. You're attempting to put your ow…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 06:25 PM
2

I do not want to have an argument on whether the covid vaccine is good or not. I have listened to enough medical professionals and read enough to believe that on the whole, the covid vaccines have been a serious net positive to world. Yes there are finer details to argue about it, potential long term studies. But every doctor, every paper I have read has made it emphatically clear on the positivity of the vaccines. It stops you from catching covid mostly, and while it does have some small side e…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 04:25 PM
2

My concern is that you trust these doctors over a 100 year, well proven journal. Why?
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 02:43 PM
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Where do you get your information about covid vaccines? Peer reviewed journals? Online? Please give details. You know. I didn't mention covid in my original comment. Do you think you might have a negative narrative bias if you immediately jump to that topic in such an aggressive manner? I can feel a huge amount of denial and ego in your post that may not be coming from a reasonable place. For example you may feel a huge amount of distrust towards the government so information you consume that is…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 12:28 PM
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People do question things mate but also they also have an awareness of what can be real or not. For example. Can you tell me if an academic paper is legitimate or not. What are the signs? This is something basic taught at Higher education levels.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 11:44 AM
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Thats super anecdotal though. With everyone in my own circles, personality and general compatibility with life goals and views always comes first. Attractiveness and finance do play a part but it really depends on how big it plays into. Generally people pick partners based on a complicated set of reasons that intersect and can be true all at once.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 04:15 AM
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As a woman with a partner who makes less and knows plenty of women in the same situation I simply don't understand hypergamy. Yes a small subsection of women may specifically think that way but I feel as if it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Woman breaks up with a man for a myriad of reasons and he tries to point to hypergamy as a 'natural' explanation as to why its actually the woman's fault. Sometimes it just doesn't work out and it's nobody's fault.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 11:28 AM
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He can still speak his opinion freely. People/companies are just showing him the door because of his behavior. Nobody is arresting Tate because of his terrible opinions. They will probably arrest him from sex trafficking.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 03:08 AM
2

HAHHA. WHAT. What data do you have to back this up.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 06:57 AM
4

Do some research into more sex friendly porn websites. Keep in mind random videos on pornhub might not always have consenting people. I actually pay for some porn myself and I can see the content is more sex positive.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 03:04 PM
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I think it's more accurate to say that a lot of porn is damaging because it shows a lot of inaccurate and harmful ideas about sex, which can be especially damaging to young men and teens who get unrealistic ideas and expectations. Such as women naturally enjoy nonconsensual acts or men should expect their partners to look like teens. Not to mention that the porn industry itself is inherently abusive in many aspects. I'm pro-porn but use responsibly and carefully.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 02:22 PM
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You're specifically a sugar daddy. Of course there's women in your life not as rich as you. That's like getting mad that's there's Italians in Italy.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 08:15 AM
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This opinion is wild to me. You are literally shooting the messenger. Do you get really mad at the employee who hands you a poor paycheck too instead of attacking the structural issue? Do you scream at bank employees because something happened with your taxes? Why would you get mad at your mother? Should she have researched it more closely? Sure. Is she completely in the wrong! No! She chose to do a thing completely accepted in the states when it shouldn't be. I'm sure in your lifetime you have …
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 03:32 AM
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I'm sorry this happened. I'm glad you're realising your mistakes. In the future, I'd treat any partners the way you want to be treated. I think for a lot of men overcomplicate what the opposite gender want which is just basic respect and love.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/22 05:17 PM
1

So I saw your comment about how redpill and blackpill is here to stay because women won't do what you want them to do and take their time and energy into making sure men don't get radicalized. You deleted it, and other comments in talking to me because you probably realised you came off as a bit of an asshole. I can tell you're still in the redpill sphere or state of mind because you're hyperfocusing on what you think is the solution; that women tell you and others exactly what you need to fix y…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 12:06 AM
1

And I'm telling you, AND MULTIPLE PEOPLE ON THIS THREAD. That many women are not willing to do that because it opens them up to danger and it's also unprofitable. Why don't you get this?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 08:04 PM
1

Why don't you give seminars about how the redpill is toxic. Do it for free. Why aren't you organizing it right now. What do you not want to help your fellow humans? Don't have the time? Feel nobody will listen to you? That's how you sound.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 06:58 PM
2

This is where you're getting mixed up. I think people like to think attraction is all just physical qualities but there's a lot that goes into it. Even here you're just saying what I assume is 'typical white women in porn' but do you want to date that specifically? You can't even describe the faces. Why do you expect women to give you detailed plans when you can't do it? To the second point. Because you are in this thread basically saying that 'women do not care about redpilled men because they …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 06:15 PM
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The reality is OP, and every person could tell you on this thread is, that if such a thing existed and was created by women, it would unmarketable because nobody in that ideology would listen to women. Furthermore, even if it did become popular I can immediately see those women immediately becoming a target. People who fall into these ideologies are not looking for solutions. They want something to blame and the markets of red pill form around blaming women. Which honestly are doing yourself by …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 04:29 PM
3

Yes people should have better communication skills. Yes they should be more upfront. We should invest way more into mental health services. But keep in mind a lot of women struggle with communication with men because they're taught either from others or physically that it can be dangerous to be truthful to men. To be upfront can cost a life. Furthermore if I was to ask you right now what attracts you to other people you probably couldn't answer properly. It's a complicated issue that requires a …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 04:19 PM
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Why is it on women to lay out a three point explanation on what they find attractive? How would that even work? Do you demand every person you meet clearly explain their motivations, past and everything else so you can have the full picture? Women are humans with varied tastes. There are generalisations yes but it'll be different from person to person. I could not tell you what men like and I'm not our here demanding it either.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 01:05 PM
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Yes while looks, height etc are factors the absolute main problem I find is that these dude's think they're the only factor they don't get women. The reality is that confidence and high self esteem are far bigger factors. I wish people would understand that. Also it's not censorship to try and maintain bad communities, is banning nazi salutes in Germany censorship for example. There's a fine line between censorship of information and trying to manage bad faith communities from literally killing …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:20 PM
2

"When I get downvotes for stating facts, it's pretty clear that equality is not the goal of feminism. They want to get retribution too." You stated the 'goal' of feminism, the entire movement, was retribution. I'm assuming you meant all feminists if that's the goal of the movement. Instead of equal rights i guess.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 06:47 PM
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So we've gone from 'all feminists' to a select few on tik tok, a place well known to be mostly teenagers. I was actually curious and went on a few feminist tik-tok accounts and they had some general stuff about feminism, nothing too extreme. Again buddy, I think you're seeing some very fringe stuff taken out of context and it's frustrating to see you broad stroke brush an entire movement that is the basis for all the women in your life having basic rights.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 06:44 PM
1

Like where? On specific boards that take specific extreme people out of context? Because I'm guessing you browse some subreddits or twitter posts that make fun of feminists and you've taken 3-4 quotes as representative of the entirety of feminism. Normally when I go onto feminist subreddits or just even general conversations with feminists the topics are mostly actual real things. Like healthcare being ripped from women, workplace inequality. You know actual things happening. Hell I went on a fe…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 06:37 PM
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I think 99.9% of feminists just want equality. Either you are looking at a tiny fringe few or you are viewing wanting equality through a lens that interprets it as some kind of revenge. I see so many jokes or suggestions on here and on Twitter get instantly twisted in mens minds because they coke at this problem with feminists are evil...
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 07:49 AM
0

Whatever you need to tell yourself. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:13 PM
0

Hilariously transparent. You spend too much time on the internet cherry picking information because your own life is a bit of a broken mess and you want blame everything on currently wrong and your own personal inability to succeed on women. We'll be fine as a species. Your ego won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:03 PM
-3

Tiny tiny bubble
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/21 11:12 AM
3

For someone who hates women so much you sure post a lot of them though.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 04:45 PM
2

I'm a woman and I think you're wrong and hilariously ill informed about everything you're saying here. Why do you think I'm wrong. Do you think you're above me and have a better grasp on what I, a functioning human being, want? You're a sad loon who's in a cult. Go get help.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 04:33 PM
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So that's a yes to my question lol. I think your truth is that you're posting here to validate yourself about your views about how women are lesser beings that will just break your heart and pride all because you had a couple of bad experiences with the opposite gender so you latched onto the first worldview that told you it was okay to call an entire gender bitches. You are just a hurt individual. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 12:48 PM
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I love your zero rationality about the world. Its hilariously inept. So which woman broke up with you for you to adopt your toxic views? Did she break your heart?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 12:27 PM
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Women are not at fault for that. Class issues, capitalism and poor mental health paired with toxic masculinity is why men struggle today.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 12:17 PM
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Completely. It's very easy to tell when the person in front of you doesn't think you're human. He probably thinks that he hides it well but it probably comes across in all aspects of his interactions with women. Even if he somehow managed to get a date I'd be surprised if it lasted any amount of time. All women I know would jump ship immediately if he even alluded to the shit he posted here.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 05:38 PM
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Hi woman here. Not going to hate on you for this but those views are atrocious. You are right to try and make a change and I'm glad you are. Your views clearly draw from some dark places on the internet. I know me saying this won't mean much but really none of this is true for any large percentage of women. Women are human like men. They have normal fears and anxieties. They can also sometimes be terrible humans, just like men. I tend to find that men like you will read these views on the net an…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 09:21 AM
1

Interesting.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 04:48 AM
1

How do they benefit from it? I dont remember reading books about sexual attraction being purely socially constructed. I think some of it is socially constructed, such as beauty standards like no hair on legs but the basics are obviously physical. Or else our ancestors wouldn't fuck. Did I claim you were an incel? I mean I read this post and you claimed that all women are looking for a man above their station. But all the women I know just marry those that they love so I feel you're wrong, or jad…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 03:33 AM
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Cool. I'll look at it. So in your opinion, all women are hypergamous?
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 03:20 AM
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I'm actually curious what these are so sure. You didnt answer my question tho.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 03:11 AM
2

I actually just wanted to talk about how you think all women are hypergamous. Because I know I'm not. But I'm curious on how quick you are to defend yourself on how many women you know.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 03:06 AM
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Why did you think I thought you were an incel?
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 03:02 AM
1

Hey I'm a woman. Dating a man. Happy to answer any questions.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 02:53 AM
5

I'm sorry. That must really suck. Changing your way of thinking is really hard. I think it's really strong of you to try and change though.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 07:08 PM
3

Why are you on this forum?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 07:02 PM
3

Okay all that's my best and only suggestion. Sex or a relationship isn't going to fix this problem dude.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 06:52 PM
5

Hi I just want to say that you really need to try therapy again. I don't think you're a monster but if you come across so self loathing IRL as you do here, even by like 10% everyone is going to avoid you.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 06:11 PM
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That's alright you don't have to tell me. I honestly don't know your situation. But given your rebuttal to my question I'm guessing you're very insecure about about how your emotions have been rejected in front of the people you love. It's really difficult to be emotionally vulnerable with people for the first time and have that rejected so forcefully puts you into a corner where you can't be open at all emotionally. That's really hard and those women were wrong to do that. Men have a really tou…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/19 05:47 PM
1

Have you dated just two women? Not judging! Just curious.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/19 01:32 PM
6

How is this a helpful comment to this dude? You're making a lot of assumptions about what I'm saying. I'm described exactly that he needs not to project and compare his dating life with a woman's dating life. I gave examples of how dating is difficult in different ways for women instead of just stating 'women don't get dates either' because that can be misconstrued. I do understand him. Because this isn't an issue of empathy when it comes to not getting dates. It's a deeper understanding that if…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 01:56 AM
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First off I think you're looking at a small portion of the population to base your world view on. Plenty of women don't get dates. But you also have to remember that the dating scene is different for young women. There's so much emphasis for men to sleep around that the dating pool for men is huge in current western society. Just because I HAVE someone hounding after me does not mean though that I want that attention as. To put this in perspective for you imagine someone, man or woman, who you'r…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 10:38 PM
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