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1	So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"? I don't think we really disagree on anything. My point was that experience or inexperience isn't a guarantee for anything and that "better/worse" isn't as simple or basic as red pill men seem to think. My body count isn't massive by any means but I've had great sex with someone who had only had sex with one guy before and terrible sex with a very experienced woman, and vice versa. My ex and I had an ok sex life at best in the beginning but eventually as the relationship progressed she ended up b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 03:48 PM
1	So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"? I agree, but obsessive thoughts don't really go away by using logic. But even if you're massively more inexperienced than your partner, you don't need to have sex with different people in order to "get better". Are you not her best at this point? Well, in 2 years you could be! Plus, a virgin could be the best sex you've ever had because their inexperience made them more willing to learn and listen, while someone who's had 50 partners previously could be terrible because they simply thought that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 03:35 PM
1	So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"? This is exactly it. Those guys will constantly keep asking the question "How do I stack up against all those other men?" in their minds to sometimes obsessive degrees. They may outright ask or they may not, but regardless of whether they do it's going to end badly. They don't want to hear "Oh, they might've been better when it comes to physical pleasure but I love you" or whatever since the only thing they will hear is that she enjoyed sex with them more (which isn't how it works, but to them it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 03:20 PM
5	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. Not OP but I like to define it as "If you feel the need to hide it from your partner, then you shouldn't be doing it". Like, I personally wouldn't mind if my wife or girlfriend casually flirts with other guys as long as 1. She doesn't care if I do it as well, and 2. She's open about it. If you aren't sure whether or not your partner considers something to be over the line then you shouldn't do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 09:58 AM
2	The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendships So basically, you can't seperate finding someone attractive from actually wanting to fuck them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 06:38 AM
3	The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendships Every healthy friendship is a give and take, but not a single one will be an equal 50/50 of both at all times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 06:28 AM
0	The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendships Exactly. I get paying for things like movie tickets, food or drinks at times but that's because it's still something you do together and you trust that the other person will do the same for you another time. I'm pretty sure my closest female friend has paid for me a lot more than I have for her simply because she started working earlier than I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 06:24 AM
3	What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy? I agree with that. There is no suitable-for-every-situation kind of advice when it comes to love, sex and relationships. I think it can also be very beneficial at times for people who do suffer from retroactive jealousy to hear it directly from their partner. The brain is a fucking bitch and pretty often you'll end up making everything a lot worse in your head. Getting to hear the reality of it all might hopefully make you realize that it wasn't as bad as you were making it out to be in your min…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 05:32 PM
5	What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy? That's why I wholeheartedly follow the "Don't ask questions you don't want an honest answer to" rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 01:46 PM
0	What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy? Yupp. If you feel insecure about something, learn to discuss it with your partner without blame or hostility. If they still take it personally or brush it off without trying to reassure you, they're not worth it and it won't work out in the end anyway. Regardless of what the insecurity or jealousy stems from, irrational feelings are still feelings!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 01:43 PM
3	This is the reason why shouldn't date multiple people at the same time and use the other one as an option. I respectfully disagree with this. As someone who's grown up with plenty of female friends, I can say for sure that this is definitely not the case. Then again, I'm also autistic so maybe it's just to do with my discomfort with physical contact. But what about bisexuals? Are they not allowed to have ANY friends then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:59 PM
2	Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters. It's all about why you broke up. If it was ONE of you who wanted to end it but the other didn't, then it's most likely going to lead to some issues down the line, especially if the breakup is relatively recent. But if it was simply the case that you both realized it wasn't working out anymore (for whatever reason) and you both decided to end it on good terms before things started getting too bad, then staying friends with them shouldn't be much of a problem at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 09:31 AM
1	Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters. You really think women don't casually flirt with men? Maybe it's because they often tend to do it in a very different way (as in, a lot more subtle) but they for sure do. I pretty much never get hit on by women when I'm single, but as soon as I was in a relationship it happened MUCH more often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 09:26 AM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? Not necessarily. Any motivation you can find to improve yourself is something you should value, whether it's because of mental or physical health, or because of external factors. In the end, the positive results of doing so will be the same regardless of the reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 08:41 AM
1	Are “blue pill” men open to being a breadwinner for a woman who prefers to adopt rather than bear children? Obviously, for me, the ideal situation would be if my partner didn't have anything against pregnancy in that way, but if needed, then I would definitely be willing to pay that. After all, I'm not considering starting a family anytime soon. Let's imagine a hypothetical scenario in which I get involved with a single mother. I would do my best to take care of the kid she already has but I would still want my own biological kids. If that happens, then I would definitely still value my stepchild just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 07:22 PM
2	N-Count: How high is too high and how low is too low? Furthermore, how does age factor in? I have struggled a bit with retroactive jealousy in previous relationships and when that it the case, it doesn't really matter much if her n-count is 1 or 50. All that would make a difference is how understanding she is and how much she's willing to help me deal with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 01:06 PM
5	Men and women can be friends, but the woman has to be a specific type of woman Isn't this pretty universal for forming friendships in general? That you share hobbies which you can connect through and you have compatible personalities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 01:02 PM
1	If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's? Maybe this is just a personal thing but it does seem to be at least SOMEWHAT universal, in that simple kindness is hugely important. There's nothing more unappealing than a woman who's cold and unnecessarily rude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 01:01 PM
2	Are “blue pill” men open to being a breadwinner for a woman who prefers to adopt rather than bear children? I don't really know what your perception of "red-pill vs. blue-pill" is (heck, at this point, I myself don't even know for sure) but it will have a lot less to do with that and more to do with his general attitude towards it. A man who is self-less, caring and respectful can still see not having biological kids as a deal-breaking without it necessarily being dismissive of your needs and choices, and a man who would be perfectly fine with adopting a child can still be someone who sees women as no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 12:59 PM
1	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? I don't really get the whole argument surrounding "Would an independent or a dependent partner be preferable?" It's a big no for both. There's a middle ground that seems to be forgotten. I wouldn't want a partner who relied on me for everything but I also wouldn't want someone who never does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 08:49 PM
1	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? There are many things we want even though we don't need it, and relationships with other people, both romantic and platonic, is just one of them. I agree that being career-oriented is going to lead to issues when it comes to establishing a romantic relationship that wouldn't otherwise be a problem, but that has mainly to do with the fact that you're going to have less time and energy to put into the relationship in question. That's probably a much bigger reason as to why "successful women" might…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 08:43 PM
2	Can men and women really be friends, or will there always be sexual/romantic attraction? Does AF/BB play into this? If you're straight, there might certainly be sexual attraction, but that doesn't mean that you can't have a platonic relationship with them. Sexual or physical attraction does not automatically mean romantic attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 09:39 PM
1	Why is a woman’s income to the household not given a lot of value ? It all depends on what it's in relation to. When you're asking why a womans income "doesn't matter" to us, I'm assuming that you're referring to why it doesn't change any attraction we may already have towards her? That's simply the case. If a woman we like makes a lot of money, then great, but if she doesn't then it won't minimize any of the feelings we have. The only scenario in which it would make a difference would be if I had two completely identical clones of the same woman, equal in every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 05:52 PM
3	Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction? Hanlon's razor: Never assume malice when simple stupidity could be an explanation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 01:20 PM
3	Women aren't wrong or shallow for wanting a tall partner This seems, to me at least, to be a "problem" that is blown massively out of proportion. I'm 5'7 and I've never had a girl reject me because of my height, I've never encountered someone in real life who puts THAT level of importance in a mans height that they would reject a guy they otherwise liked because he wasn't 6 feet. Am I saying it doesn't happen? No, it does. Am I saying men don't get ridiculed or bullied because of their height? No, that happens too. It just seems that the idea of women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 01:16 PM