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Maybe the way we pair off will change again? We had arranged marriages, now we have romantic relationships which obviously aren't working anymore. There does need to be a change, a level playing field.
/r/MGTOW07/08/17 12:16 PM
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It's weird looking back how such glaringly obvious red flags can be brushed under the rug and give them another chance for a few months. I try to trust my gut on most things now as it has pointed me towards sexting dudes and other problems with ex's
/r/MGTOW07/08/17 12:13 PM
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No worries, I prefer honest opinion harsh or not
/r/MGTOW07/08/17 09:01 AM
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I have come to terms with being alone in life, we come in to this life alone and go out alone. When I am alone most of the time I am great, just after a while I end up wanting some contact then end up taking to someone and falling into the relationship trap. One societal norm I find stupid is the whole sleeping in the same bed together, we wake each other up in the night from movement, and I overheat easily and have to get up in the night and sit infront of a fan for an hour to cool down. So log…
/r/MGTOW07/08/17 08:52 AM
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That's my main worry. Changing because she realises she has all the control.
/r/MGTOW07/08/17 08:39 AM
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Think this is what I'll have to do, I am more aware of her actions after lurking this subreddit and anything unacceptable I'm calling her out on. I mean the other day I was cementing between the fence and slabs where weeds keep growing and she came over asking me too smooth it out more after saying I was doing a good job. Now on previous occasions when I receive some criticism before I've finished a job, I'd say "well you do better" and put the tools down, she would make an attempt out of defian…
/r/MGTOW07/08/17 08:12 AM
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Thanks for this response, I just needed to know if I'm in the shit already and don't realise, I need a slap and a blue pill shoved down my throat. It seems like from your response I am already being used.
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 03:41 PM
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I love being alone in fact, its only maybe now and again when I was alone that I wanted companionship. At the time I initiated the first contact I was still wanting the whole wife, kids, house, happily ever after fantasy. Now I'm not sure it's attainable. She makes more money than me, 25% more to be exact so I'm not too concerned with her taking my money (she pays her own way on everything atm) and she is happy with me taking a pay cut to pursue a less stressful job, her words which I think is f…
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 03:27 PM
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It's not the situation I want to be in that's the problem. And I would like to believe I found a Unicorn but chances are I've not, gonna have to have a good hard think over this, should be the woman proposing to the man. The man essentially becomes the woman's property so why would I walk knowingly into that? I guess it hinges on trust.
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 01:23 PM
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I was alone for a good year or so before my gf and I achieved some great things, I do miss the free time and total freedom. Like I was at my parents for 30 minutes more than she expected and so was pissed when I got home, I just told her there was no time agreed and why does it really matter anyway? I always say at the beginning of any argument, is this going to matter in a years time? If not why are we arguing over this? If I was unable to have sex with her anymore I wouldn't care. If her looks…
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 12:57 PM
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I'm not sure about that one, my gf is a physiologist so often I'm sure she can get in my head and I've observed gaslighting more than once (which super pisses me off). But she is right about my mum. My mum is defo nuts though, being a women herself (obviously) I didn't get on with her though my teens and cannot live under the same roof as her (I essentially got home from school and shut myself in my bedroom with my computer, probably why I have some social anxiety). My dad said she was like this…
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 12:32 PM
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Yes my impression of her (relationship for 3.5 years) is she is a genuinely nice and just has her bad days, but I'm a huge skeptic and would rather it fall apart now than after marriage and potential children. I'm indecisive, probably due to anxiety. Do I stay or do I go? The honeymoon period of the relationship is truly gone and I am in it for the benefits it allows me, I'm just trying to weigh up those benefits as a risk/reward. If I get home and she has a face like thunder my night is ruined,…
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 12:22 PM
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Yeah I just find the whole cookie cutter thing stupid. Even the rooms in the house, she wanted a dining room, we never eat at the table though! so I'd rather have had another seating room or an office. Spare bedroom too, we never have guests over but we had to have one of the rooms upstairs a guest bedroom, just because its the norm? She thinks its not normal to have a man cave room, when I think its very necessary to get away from her bullshit now and again. I know if this relationship doesn't …
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 12:12 PM
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I'm not looking for confirmation, I'm looking for your opinion on my current situation, am I setting myself up for inevitable failure? Or are there a few women who are the exception? I am fairly new to MGTOW and don't know all the terms, I am not 100% sure with what I'm doing at the moment and need some advice, I just don't want to be making a BIG mistake over the coming months.
/r/MGTOW04/08/17 12:05 PM
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