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adamalan/r/askMRP19/02/16 03:42 AM
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To the contrary she might like that more. Depends on the situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 01:32 AM
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I would not say they are necessarily different. My wife has abuse in her background and she's no where near as crazy sounding as most of these 'normal' girls. A lot will depend on the experience and her history and how YOU handle things.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 01:28 AM
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I ran across this on deep conversion from Rollo's recent podcast. Seemed salient. Total submission of body and soul in which the woman trusts and admires you so much she presents her whole being to you to do as you please. I havn't followed that rabbit hole yet. Sounds a lot like MRP advise in many ways. Rollo urged cation with it; works too well. The author uses it for pick-up; men might use it for saving families.
/r/askMRP20/02/16 07:43 PM
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Ha! I forgot about that one. It may be a different concept, but related. If your the alpha who would widow her, to whom all others look bad; she's less likely to leave you when you're in a bad way no?
/r/askMRP20/02/16 07:19 PM
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The mental health point is interesting. 1 in 4 American women are on anti-depressants. Semen has known benefits to mental health and can also make her crave you more. Of course that doesn't work if you're using condoms. But a well fucked women is a happy woman. Sometimes when she's acting out its just cause she just needs a good banging.
/r/askMRP20/02/16 07:15 PM
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Who said lonely/dead widows as ideal? I'm simply pointing out the extreme of whats possible to illistrate the ridiculousness of this expectation that women will jump ship so easily. Its what I call the tyranny of low expectations. Some women won't move on even when he's dead and gone. Others move on while he's still kicking and trying to save the marriage. What's the difference?
/r/askMRP20/02/16 07:12 PM
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You want loyalty. The best way to get that is through movement/community/family building. Its a super/sub-set of brand building. For example, Cross-fit is a movement. People put their identity in that. You're just a franchise capitalizing on that movement. No loyalty to you; nothing to compete against others who might capitalize on the same movement. Golds Gymn might be another example, a brand still trading on the glory days of Venice beach 40 years ago. You loose customers when trainers leave …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/16 07:11 PM
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The two hot areas for entreprensurship right now are local food and software startups. So guys like Joel Salatin on one side and Paul Graham on the other. Those are just the big names, there are many many more.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/16 06:59 PM
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I've found people obsessed with discounts don't make good customers. They're looking for something for nothing. Not the kind of person with the discipline to stick to a work out. You want people who recognize value and are willing to reward it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/16 06:57 PM
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My guess, either thats a deficiency in the type of business, or you're not taking in enough new clients to deal with normal churn, or your not doing a good job of cultivating loyalty to your business. Why do they want to leave? What is your advantage that would cause people to want to be there? What is your unfair advantage? Can you develop something that fills a niche, is unique, and develops a clache that people would never want to leave. You know, an identity, a community; something so awesom…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 03:59 AM
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Personally, I get a lot of mileage out of blogs, podcasts and essays by other entrepreneurs. Guys in the trenches with a writing itch to scratch.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 03:55 AM
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This gender neutral garbage is like all the other clap-trap they've dumped on parents the last 60 years along with feminism and all that; designed for nothing more than to destroy the family and through that, our society.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 03:50 AM
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I am asking myself this question all the time "Where is the line between encouraging and forcing?" When it comes to something like sports or band or whatever, sure. But when it comes to gender roles we're into the realm of things like eating your vegies and not stealing; but worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 03:48 AM
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It happens occasionally with her, maybe some un-diagnosed depression issues involved Whenever I hear of depression in women my first thought is 'semen deficiency'. I do believe it is scientifically known to benefit that problem.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 11:57 PM
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increase men's sexual power and options Nothing to argue with there but I wonder, does that mean we now advocate non-monogamy? Afterall, that severely limits both ones sexual options and power within our relationship(s).
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:59 AM
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I figured out that "friendship" is the wrong word and "companionship" is more apt. Can you contrast friendship and companionship? I'm not sure what you mean. I've heard you can't be friends with your wife and have a good sex life; but thats not true in my marriage; maybe I'm misunderstanding the terms.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:51 AM
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'religious characteristics'? Thats rather vague. Depending on the religion, shes got it exactly backwards. Virgins wait until marriage, non-virgins are fair game. IOW, would you buy a used car without a test drive? Oh and she's 32? The only good reason for marriage is kids and she's past the 'good by' date. Next and try 10 years younger.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:28 AM
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to speak truth without wavering In other words, speak like a man, not a spineless wimp whose afraid of what his wife thinks. I can't believe how many times I've heard someone say, 'I wouldn't dare say that in front of my wife' or 'If I said/did that she'd kill me.'. Usually right after I say something shocking/outlandish/digging in public which makes my wife giggle.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:22 AM
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Unless she so tired she's falling asleep while standing, she's not too tired for sex. She'd just rather sleep than have sex with YOU. And I second the other posters on this being a shit test shes asking you to pass on your way to sex; but you failed.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 03:10 AM
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The word 'abuse' as a dog whistle is loosing its affect with me. If you look at what they consider abuse now its just proxy for 'exercising power or leadership'. Someone will be in power and control, its just a question of who. Actions done by a man to lead/control/make decisions in a relationship = abuse. Actions done by a woman to lead/control/make decisions in a relationship = healthy happy marriage. There is no such thing as equality. When two disagree, one must give way. If you read the act…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 07:35 PM
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There are two things going on here. First, her hormones will be changing and potentially getting out of whack. This means more drama, more sensitive, more crazy illogical nuttiness. This will likely be worse for girls than boys. Personally my wife is pretty laid back logical low drama. Pregnancy is about the only time she acts dramatic crazy like many here describe daily. Sometimes she'll just get crazy irrational emotional and I have to ignore her and then a day or two later she's saying to me,…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 07:42 AM
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I think this depends a lot on the wife and on the state of the relationship. However for the average joe, ya.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 07:20 AM
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It didn't 'just happen'. They've broadly touted the event as a good thing and something other women should do to get through to a wayward husband. It also happens to be considered straight up abuse when done by a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 07:15 AM
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Hello Stockholm. You're in a physically abusive relationship; this can end very badly, very fast. As to the question its about boundaries. If you can't handle reading it, don't. If you're going to get all upset and make drama, don't read it. If you can't act like a mature in control adult, don't do things that trigger you. Reminds me of something I heard a parent say to a child, 'If you can't handle being told no, don't ask.'
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 03:10 AM
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Doctor basically told her to enjoy herself until 7 months, then do something beside piv Ya thats bs, born of the silly pregancy is a medical emergency/shes fragile world view. Not on bed rest? Forget that idea then. Unless she's in weak health and on the verge of miscarriage/premature labor you can have PIV right up to the day of labor. And quite frankly at the end there when she just wants it out, the semen helps efface the cervix and naturally progress labor (without the need for all the probl…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 02:59 AM
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That article falsely presumes children are little angels who only cry when it is really justified. That not just wrong, but incredibly illogical and ignorant. Crying is just communication without words. The child isn't struggling alone in the bush, he knows where you are. Sometimes he's trying to tell you somethings wrong, and sometimes he's in the other room trying to manipulate his parents and he knows it. If you're observant, you can tell the different cries and what they mean (easier with bo…
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 08:08 PM
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BPP's right. In todays age either you fight for your marriage or you don't have one. The man is the only one who'll fight for it and really, she needs to know you are Man enough to fight for it and take control.
/r/askMRP21/12/15 05:09 AM
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You are nieve. Children are quite good at manipulating adults with crying and tantrums to get what they want. I'm not saying you don't respond to their cries. I'm saying you look critically at them, learn to understand what they mean and when they matter, and don't be manipulated by them. When you jump, every time they cry, warranted or not, you reward that behavior and become the servant rather than the adult. For example. The kid is learning to walk and falls on his butt. Not hurt at all. But …
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 04:22 AM
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Is she asking for a book or for help dealing with something? Horse water and all that. Sometimes these things go over better if a female friend gives it. It also depends on your frame. Do you have frame of teaching and leading your wife; then a book can fit in your normal routine. Many years ago my wife read Created To Be His Helpmeat by Debi Pearl; it helped her a lot. Though if your wife is not a Christian it'll probably go over like a box of rocks.
/r/askMRP18/12/15 11:34 PM
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I know I need to talk to her about it but I'm really not sure how to broach the subject without crushing her. She bore 5 kids for me and works her ass off in the gym to take care of herself for me, so I respect her work and don't want to crush her. You still have some mindset work to do. You just say it; matter of factly without judgement. Tact will help but fear of broaching the subject is your problem. You shouldn't be afraid of her emotional response. She is what you make of her. She doesn't …
/r/askMRP18/12/15 11:19 PM
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All of this ignores digestibility and the role of the gut microbiome. Take two normal healthy mice on regular food and maintaining weight. Now orally dose one with bacteria from the gut of an obese human but change nothing else. That one dosed mouse will get obese. The other stays the same. Now re-dose him with bacteria from the gut of a healthy normal weight human; and the mouse will drop the weight off. Yes macros matter. But so does your consumption, or lack there of, of chemicals, pharmaceut…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 10:32 PM
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Yes and no. Anything not full on matriarchal grovelling submission to the mistress is abusive. Its not the action that makes it abusive, but whether or not the man or woman is the one exercising power. But matriarchy is against nature. Since woman were created/evolved to WANT a strong man in charge, she's paradoxically happier in an 'abusive' relationship. Which is why TRP works so well when tried.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:02 PM
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Humor and sexual undertones are great. But a little bit of romantic sappy is ok. You can mix alpha and beta; she wants to be desired by a high value man. I'm assuming you're high value. But anything smelling of desperate/clingly/lame/gama/omega would not be the way to go. Lets not also forget the reason for the season. Bible quotes are appropriate, especially if you can work in Song of Solomon somehow. The sappy part of this advice would not apply to a particular holiday in February. For that I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 07:09 PM
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tool...Speaking of the 12 steps of dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 04:03 AM
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You're saying Kay is hiding dread as a strategy? You've significantly developed out the dread strategy. Before your 12 steps everything I'd seen on it was pretty shallow and quite dark Triad. The 12 steps really put it into context and a lot of the parts of it are things I think Kay has in his work; just without calling it dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:54 AM
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There are a million other ways to nuke a marriage, people don't exactly need help figuring out how to do that. I wouldn't worry about them misusing such a useful tool for saving marriages.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:50 AM
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Because communism, feminism, Marxism, and the long march through the institutions of western civ never happened and had no affect on our every day lives whatsoever.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:44 AM
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This reminds me of the hierarchy of alpha men You could probably plot your relative alphaness against what your wife will tolerate. brothel outside country < … < discrete mistress < rumored affair < open mistress < claiming bastards < having >your wife assist in selection of your harem (as seen on Marco Polo). "Caught cheating" is where he went wrong. You can't get caught doing something you're doing in the open. Are you leading, or sneaking around behind your masters back?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:35 AM
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No, its how we build strong marriages and families and defeat feminism. This war of the sexes is just another class warfare, divide an conquer creation of Marxism for the destruction of our civilization.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:11 AM
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No, western civilization is patriarchal by nature; men created this. Remember, until the late 1800's it was the culture's rule for any woman outside of the most private situations to have her hair covered. Feminism is an attempt by various powers to destroy western civ.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 10:03 PM
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You can be honest, because you no longer fear what others thing. You are not the big man, the top dog who moves reality. Its a demonstration of your status. There are few things I find more, I don't know, pitiful? than the man who says 'I could never say that' in front of the wife; even though he thinks it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 12:09 PM
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Cut out the culture and be a leader. They will pattern themselves off of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 12:02 PM
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You would not believe how few men actually know about how to seduce a woman, never mind Kino her. Most guys have no idea how to touch their own wife in a way to generate sexual tension. I hear you but I can't even comprehend it. How exactly did such men managed to wife up a girl and get her pregnant really? You'd think that means they at least knew how to do a thing or two.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 12:01 PM
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Its about leadership. If you debate and cajole her to do something you're demonstrating that you're under her in the hierarchy. When you're the top dog you just state that we're going to bed as if its a simple inevitable fact, like the sun is setting, and she happily follows you to bed wagging her tail.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 11:47 AM
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Sure I agree, so repeating, yet again AWALT doesn't really help. Its more a question of just how deep does AWALT go? Practically speaking, when looking for a mother and wife, is any sorting of females pointless (beyond superficial personal preferences in looks and personality)? Or is there a continuum? I'm not looking for an ideal love they can't provide, just to avoid financial rape. Theoretically speaking, are all women literally pathological liars? If so then the Christian theological conclus…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 11:28 AM
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Lawyers are a decidedly mixed bag. They will run the gamete from awesome to incompetent or even working against your interests. Talk to many and ask very detailed questions. Be knowledgeable enough in the law to speak at their level, so you can dig into their views and knowledge and figure out which are worth pursuing and which must be avoided.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 08:59 PM
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The ability of female pathological liars (or is that a redundant statement?) to put on a fake persona that can all come off in an instant is I suspect a larger hazard than can be overcome with game. I'm more interested in how to avoid that sort, as the deception can run deep and convincing.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 08:56 PM
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Well going from a 20 to 50% divorce risk with the first prior partner (for the wife) is a huge jump. However all of this is data on the general population. I'm not sure if it breaks things out by race and this is for marriages with a range of gaming abilities in husbands. What would the divorce risk vs. partner count look like if the man has game? We really don't know at this point. But given the number of marriages made better it is reasonable to assume it improves. But how much? That is the ke…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 02:00 AM
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Remember that to a woman love = tingles. She has no conception of love outside of lust. So if you're ignoring her to work on yourself and not gaming her that lack of pursuit can come off as not loving her. A woman wants to be wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 01:46 AM
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There is IMMENSE benefit to the wife being a celibate virgin. The only benefit to the husband is he has trained himself for being able to have a celibate marriage too!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:49 PM
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The roots of today go back to the middle ages, if not farther. We're at the bottom of a long slippery slope.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:46 PM
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IOW, there is no contract, there is only you. And so if you're good enough, you can set the terms at any time.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:34 PM
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My faith in God and the scriptures has never been stronger. Faith in American Churchianity? Women? Feminist society? Not so much. Remember, fornication probably doesn't mean what they tell us it means. And the Old Testament is decidedly polygamous. Monogamy was a Greco-Roman introduction. Marriage is a suicide mission. But since I don't want our future to look like Saudi Arabia, its a necessary one. If you go in, stack the deck in your favor. Make sure you go in as the Alpha in complete control …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 05:01 AM
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I don't think life is quite as black and white as you paint it. And besides, 'but they failed in some way.' is just another way of pinning all the blame on the man; its the female feminist perspective. When an industry collapses costing a man his job, and the economy is in the dumps meaning there is no job for him, its not the man's fault; he was the victim of events out of his control. What IS in his control is how he handles his shit when that happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 04:43 AM
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Not true for a majority of the potential brides out there. Even among the ones whose families have no history of divorce, how many consistently honor their spouses in sickness or under times of stress? Few to none upheld the honor and obey portion. However there are many parts of the country where it is still yet common to find many families not wrecked by divorce. Though it is becoming less common.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 04:34 AM
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a contract/word/law is only as valuable as it's enforcement. The current legal setting of the marriage contract (with no fault divorce and such) doesn't work for the majority of men, precisely because the vows are just fluff. This is key. Marriage is fundamentally broken.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 04:30 AM
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I agree with what you're saying. My point wasn't that vows keep a marriage together but that in many cases it was an entirely reasonable expecation that marriage was forever. But we're living through a fundamental change in the fabric of human society here. Its the two sets of books problem Rollo speaks of. When reading the second set of books, its crazy to think marriage will last. But as a young man immersed in a world that seemed to be governed by the first set of books, it was a reasonable e…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 04:25 AM
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Thats the 'for better or worse' part. Not every guy who gets frivorced got fat and nasty.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 03:18 AM
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Sometimes the economy nullifies all your leadership. And they don't expect a roof and a chicken; they want steak in a McMansion.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 04:30 PM
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Its a lie. They vow to death do us part all the while knowing that if someone better comes along they'll jump ship in a heartbeat.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 04:28 PM
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Husbands think life follows the rules that exist in Disney movies....she’ll always be there. This used to not be a fantasy, but a reasonable expectation. When she pledges till death do us part in sickness and in health for richer or poorer in front of her's and your parents and grandparents who all fulfilled that vow to the end, it is reasonable to expect it to be true. If her vow is meaningless than the entire edifice is invalid. No one told us the culture and legal system stacked the deck agai…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 04:27 PM
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Well thats something else. They won't feel dumb, they'll just pull out the same old tired out arguments to justify why they don't have to wear it, despite the clear English and 2000 years of history to the contrary. We were all but kicked out of one church over the covering. The chief women couldn't stand the Holy Spirit pricking their hearts with the example and the chief men didn't like it when visitors would refuse to come back over it. At another one the women all thought 'I made her wear it…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 06:08 AM
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You're missing something here. Safe, predictable, comfortable...these are all synonyms for boring, and we should all know what that does to tingles. Woman want a strong man who can protect them, who calms their emotional storms. But they also want excitement, unpredictability and mystery. Someone to kick off the emotional storms even. Another thing, too often men interpret safety and security as FINANCIAL security. Which is exactly wrong. They care more about your strong presence. In most cases …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 05:53 AM
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Given the importance given to a wife obeying her husband in scripture as you quoted above, I have a hard time thinking that a husband with a rebellious frigid wife be prohibited from divorcing her. Yet, I can't see how that would be allowed under Christ's prohibition of divorce. Thoughts? Of course a wife that bad, I don't see her sticking around after you introduce her to #2!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 12:33 AM
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Well the Roman's allowed woman to divorce. But that didn't turn out so well for them and we went back to the prohibition.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 12:25 AM
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Feminism is, from its very foundation, a rebellion against God. Paul made it quite clear in 1 Cor 7 that the hierarchy of creation was God -> Jesus -> Man -> Woman. Feminism seeks to reverse Man and woman in the hierarchy, or even put her at the top considering her personal Jesus allows her to do whatever she pleases at that moment and feminist views are used to toss out scripture. That you call it satanic is keen for 'For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft'.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 12:19 AM
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My wife is quite similar. However wearing a headcovering in a church was like dropping a nuke on the place. You'd think she was a occult satan worshipper for all the vitriol and hate it engendered; even among groups where other women wear it. Are you in a sect that endorses coverings? How has it gone for you? From your prior posts, given you'd done speaking, it sounds like you're accepted there. I have a hard time that being the case in most churches for someone who believes in the practice of w…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 12:12 AM
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The feminist perspective of modern Churchians clouds our view of the scriptures. Red Pill observations of the true created nature of humans has granted me clarity on the meaning and import of many passages of scripture which had been clouded by feminist 'Christianity'. Modern Christians take an equalist perspective of the Bible. They take the NT discussions of marriage and divorce to apply equally to husband and wife, without even realizing they do it. But Paul, Christ and Moses all clearly give…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 07:33 AM
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I second the praise for the OP. We get it, some immature folks have an emotional reaction against anything smacking of religion, esp. Christianity. They need to grow up. Posts like these are very valuable for Christians working to break out of the blue pill worldview. The Bible is very red pill, but the truths of the scriptures have long been veiled by matriarchal teachings Really, there are many valuable insights in the book for anyone; but its hard to see them if you go by standard feminist ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 07:03 AM
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The toolbox, so to speak, seems a bit simplistic and sex centric. For example: Wife nice: clean house, submissive attitude, good home cooked food, sexy outfit, etc. Wife mean: pig sty, shitty attitude, yesterdays take-out, sweats, etc. Or am I missing something? So say you played the mean card to her nice, or more accurately you turn into a beta bitch. I don't think she'll necessarily go from perfect wife to frigid overnight it you quit paying attention to her. Things will just slowly start slip…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 12:17 AM
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Said she promised him sex if the Mets won. That means she has him on a drip feed of sex. Just enough, not too much, dangling it out there to string him along. In a healthy marriage sex would be such a nearly every day event such a promise would be meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 10:21 PM
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There are so many variables depending on age, who is was and what happened and more that its impossible to say how it will affect things. It may have next to no affect or it may make it impossible for you to be married to her. Just don't let her use it as an excuse for bad behavior. They'll use ANYTHING as an excuse, this one just works so well cause its such third rail.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 10:09 PM
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Has anyone considered that contrived institutional fidelity is NOT the "Primal Blueprint" for a lasting, happy relationship/marriage. Indeed you are correct. the 'primal blueprint', the marriage 1.0, was polygyny. Now, fidelity in the sense that you don't divorce your wife, that is original. She can only trade that v-card once. But the concept of that a man must be limited to one girl is not. And this is why we see people so successful with multiple plates. Women WANT it. But you can only pull i…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 03:07 PM
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The kitchen one isn't a covert contract, but advanced by society and wives alike.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 02:46 PM
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An addition to this...it starts when they are infants. Don't run to them every time they cry! Learn the meanings of their different cries. They are intelligent, communicating beings; just with a limited vocabulary. Just because they fell on their bum and let out a wail doesn't mean you need to come running to comfort them. Same when they are older, every minor scratch and boobo doesn't need to elicite a big response. This trains them not to manipulate you and to not make a big deal out of minor …
/r/RedPillParenting20/10/15 02:29 PM
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Lack of change = boredom = no tingles Its not much different with men, we prefer variety. Its all 'familiarity breeds contempt'.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 01:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 11:20 PM
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It is not very long before they can sleep through the night without feeding. Before 5 months and certainly before 7 months and once they no longer need to eat at night there is no reason not to sleep in a different room. And 'sleep training' need only consist of ignoring their cries. If they are dry, fed, and not sick, let them alone. Once they learn that crying won't work to get you to get them up cuddle or take them to your warm bed, they'll have no problem going to sleep. The first night or s…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 11:12 PM
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AWALT is a statement that all women have the same nature. The details of that nature ARE a set of believes. The praxeology is the practical suggestions about how to handle that. Yes we should call women to rise above their nature. The problem is most husbands are not in command. They are not the leader, the chief, the captain. And so they can only focus on themselves, to make them the kind of man she will follow. To mount an insurgency if you will. AWALT. One of those things is they are like wat…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 09:01 PM
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She doesn't care if you ignore her, she's too busy getting railed by Chad to notice. She has checked out. OP needs to go read Athol Kay on breaking up an affair. There ain't no pussy footing around about it. If you're not willing to fight for your marriage you won't have one for long. However you choose to do it, enforce your boundaries or loose them.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 08:46 PM
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Grown woman No, she's just the 'most responsible' (oldest?) teenager in the house. And just like children they are happier when they have boundaries. Control is an inherant part of being a captain. Boundaries and consequences go together. It is voluntary compliance, as you say, she won't just give it up unless she's willing to submit to your leadership. You're controlling her by removing yourself/your attention, that just happens to be a covert method that may work better in certain situations. …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:53 PM
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Yes, thats all that you can do when you are not the leader in the relationship and the wife is.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:35 PM
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There will come a time you are man enough to enforce reasonable boundaries in marriage and install consequences for wrong behaviour, like taking away phone privileges for messaging an ex. But it doesn't sound like you're there yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 02:19 PM
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'Faction' puts it lightly. Faction #1 will happily try and blow up your marriage/LTR by seducing your woman, consequences for you, her or your children be damned.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 11:04 PM
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'STFU, lift and OI' in the face of a developing affair works fine if you don't want to save the marriage. Marriage means boundaries; ones she's crossing. Boundaries unless enforced are lost. STFU is to get folks to stop digging holes. To be more mysterious. To start communicating covertly. But some things need addressing overtly. But don't interpret STFU to mean avoid addressing overtly what needs addressing overtly. Thats just an beta excuse for conflict avoidance. You still need OI; you can't …
/r/askMRP12/10/15 04:04 AM
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The same. Although that culture was pretty late stage by the time Christians came on the scene; as evidenced by their view of marriage as a necessary evil at best. That's an odd thing from a Biblical perspective. But sounds rather familiar now.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 03:32 PM
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Indeed, some notables such as Dalrock argues from a Christian perspective that Dread is not necessary at all and increasing SMV should be the exclusive strategy in all cases. That's just gut level Christian niceness meets the FI. This is the Greek influence on Christianity showing through; it was they who put women up on pedestals after all. It was perfectly legitimate, even desirable, for a a Godly man under the OT to take a second wife. Thats Dread level 12 for you; so no reason to shrink back…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/15 07:26 PM
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Or is it polygamy?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 09:50 PM
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I'm not surprised, the vitriol against marriage over there is deafening. They seem to be full out anti-marriage; especially in that it the official line seems to be there is nothing wrong with sleeping with another mans wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 09:27 PM
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