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adambombchannel/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:30 PM
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Look, gurl, you this dudes back up option. I see it happen to female friends all the damn time. If he really wanted to put in the effort, pull his emotional shit together for 5 minutes and come make you a priority, he would. We all have people we msg when we’re lonely. I do, I’m sure you do. If you want the advice you need to hear, then drop this dude. From your mental rental space, probably contacts and social media too. You got you a little crush and it’s holding you back. Just give him the si…
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:23 PM
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Well then he was never really a 10. Same for this girl. Never would say “ah I see why they cheated on her@ just that no one’s perfect. Sounds like ya’ll never know. Closures a B. Knowing guys he found another option or wanted to be less serious I self sabotage too. I do things ironically romantic or a tad off just to entertain myself, or worse, seem to go all in. And if not that, I might accidentally overcompensate and seem like a fuckboy. Communication is so f ing bad these days. People are afr…
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:01 PM
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None of the warning signs hit me at the time. But god damn it seemed like a blast for both of us. We shared A LOT I didn’t mention. Didn’t feel the need to hold back besides usually anxiety/sarcastic bravado from anxiety. Each time she brought up her insecurities I countered joking or seriously like with “it’s ok, I like your sweaty hands - grab them and trace circles and don’t let go. I really tried, anonymous Anna, to respect her boundaries and the vibes I got she was scared about liking someo…
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:31 AM
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Dont beat yourself up, there will be more opportunities to try with other girls. I’ve made that mistake more times than I can count
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:13 PM
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This is no longer an issue when you are talking to more than 1 girl man. Get out there and start talking to other girls. I used to be exactly like you. Way worse actually, I moved to a country for a girl who didn't give a shit about me. And once I started dating multiple girls, I realized she was less than special, a terrible fit actually. Lower than my standards and I was being a bitch. I promise you, once you get some internal peace, confidence, maybe work on your money/muscles - it will feel …
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:41 AM
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I recommend l’erbolario ginepro Nero Italian brand available widely) or bois de Portugal by creed for a few scents that no one else will have. sauvage by dior is apparently a fuckboy scent now but I like it
/r/seduction26/02/22 02:23 AM
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For a lot of girls, if the chemistry isn’t there and there’s no kiss or more etc, it’s game over. Especially since she’s leaving she was probably in a rush of sorts. She may have just been looking to hook up and you had a small window to be very aggressive.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:13 PM
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Jesus dude just take a damn step in the right direction and ask her to teach you some stretches. When you get on the topic of conversation, like “hey do you hike” or something, ask her for her number and say “maybe we can go sometime” or “I’m doing X thing this weekend wanna come”
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:23 AM
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Yeah just take it slow mate. When you’re walking around, just put your arm around her. don’t overthink it, she clearly likes you. Not like you can’t withdraw if there are weird vibes. Easiest way to kiss is just to tell her you want to go sit down at the park or whatever, face her and joke around/tease her. Create a time limit, like 5 minutes of talking and then 5 seconds to make the move before you talk yourself out of it. Wait for a lull in the conversation after laughing etc, stare at her lip…
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:36 AM
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At least someone is doing well out here! Haha that’s awesome, happy for ya. just be careful with all that excitement. Not fun to build up a bunch of expectations and not meet them. Plus girls can pick up on those vibes. Just treat her like a bro, be playful and joke at her. Enjoy it and make sure if you are feeling it that you escalate physically on the date with touching, comment on her clothes/hands etc and build up to kiss. Idk how experienced you already are but for me it still feels somewha…
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:46 AM
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Go for it! But have something already planned. Like “hey, im going for a walk and to get some food/drinks at X place tomorrow, wanna tag along with me?” good luck! Don’t text too much, limit to only making plans. if she can’t hang out then, ask when she’s free next. don’t overhype here and get inside your head about her “beautiful” status
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:19 PM
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we’ll never know if she might have been down, I think you should have escalated/made a move earlier and she thought it wasn’t gonna happen, u/jousting_jaguar that’s the case for the majority of my date bails
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:04 PM
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Please do not text her that man. Never put words in her mouth. It sounds like she is a bit wishy washy, but the simplest advice I can give is to just pull back. You’re never gonna get true closure about why a date didn’t go to plan from a girl. Just excuses. Pick up and move on. And she is bouncin’ anyways. Work on your escalation, inner game, confidence for the next one.
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:49 AM
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IME its over bro. Maybe you’ll run into each other in the future but find another. In the future, don’t apologize, always convey a nonchalant/easy going and carefree tone over text or none at all. Imagine how it sounds from their end.
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:23 AM
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Ok, gotcha. Just please be careful when dealing with men online and in person. There are some scumbags out there who won’t respect you looking to them just for X and not sex. Hopefully you can get to a point where your enjoyment is the most important motivator, as it should be. I’m one to talk, have trouble with that myself.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:55 PM
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OP it seems like you’re really young and really anxious about being chosen for sex. I can guarantee you that the moment you are approached by someone at a bar, it’s not gonna be Prince Charming and chances are the sex will be disappointing at best and traumatic at worst. Highly recommend that you just be patient with yourself and take things slow instead of putting yourself in sketchy situations with men way older than you. Just trust me, as a late bloomer, sex changed almost nothing and honestl…
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:47 PM
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I think one of the most important ingredients of this plan is reducing how much you text her. Get off the phone. Get some hobbies. Take a day or two away. Make it apparent you’re talking to other girls. This worked for me personally, had a few friends asking to come over and hang with me rather than the other way around.
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:33 PM
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It sounds like she’s not interested, dude. A girl who likes you won’t make excuses and will do anything she can to spend time with you. I’d start distancing yourself from her.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:59 PM
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It's something that my ego worries about - but logically, I hope it's something I won't ruminate on in the future. I think it would be best to be able to completely disregard it if all other factors like emotional and sexual compatibility were in line. I think you'll miss good opportunities dwelling on it like this.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:19 PM
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Didn't mean any hate, if it's what makes you happy than that's what matters. I myself used to be the type that would be used dinners and always came off as too much of a provider with little mystery or danger. It's just so easy for nice dates to attract the type of girl I'm not looking for, and that many young redditors will not be able to afford to keep happy. I'm a minimalist and need to vet her for low-maintenance etc. Also, for me, it's easier to establish sexual chemistry outside of a resta…
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:23 AM
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I recommend a much lower investment date next time…coffee, park. What you have planned would do better as a second or 3rd date IMO
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:03 PM
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Please don’t do this. Guys have a totally different experience out there, and I got burned enough times to know to stay (relatively) unavailable.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:01 PM
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Hey man I’m just not really sure what the point of this post is, it’s a bit banale to just tell someone to do something. Maybe it would be better to talk about the pomodoro method, 10 second rule, or 5 minute rule?
/r/becomeaman11/04/21 04:47 PM
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Yeah you’ve got it covered. I lost 120lbs and to do so I had to snap out of the pleasure I got from eating. Just like I get pleasure from doing blue pill shit, weirdly enough, but not getting results. Sometimes you have to realize one of your reward circuits is broken and pivot. I sort of consider myself an alcoholic/addict but for the way I approached food and women too.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 02:23 PM
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I’ve been struggling with outcome independence and expectations myself, I logically know what to do to keep myself grounded but it’s like a have another voice on my head spitting vitriol at the rest of me. Being like “look at how this other person let you down, how disappointing people are”, etc. Maybe it’s just part of acceptance on this journey, I am getting better and more patient but that voice requires active discipline to ignore. Went off on my own rant there, but you should be proud dude.…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 12:58 PM
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Well shit, opportune post for me
/r/seduction07/01/21 12:58 AM
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Yeah sorry about your girl too man. Seems the catalyst girl always falls by the wayside. I’m still trying, or rather, not trying as hard as before with her if that makes sense. Of course we smother people when we don’t think we are good enough. Lot of cringe behavior from the past to “pave over” though.
/r/seduction24/12/20 11:03 PM
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Man this comment is so good, this is exactly what I realized. I didn’t give a shit about myself at first. I just wanted companionship; then I realized how nice it was to not feel like a piece of worthless shit all the time after losing 100lbs etc.
/r/seduction24/12/20 06:46 AM
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grazie fra (spero fra non sia troppo giovanile) What are you yourself doing right now? There’s just no one on tinder in Como right now. The main problem I’ve had is almost every girl is with their family. And it’s Christmas. Hard to make plans when everyone is about to disappear. I’d imagine como is probably one of the worst cities in the world for cold approach generally even without a pandemic.
/r/seduction22/12/20 11:29 AM
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Ive talked to 3 girls. I’m awkward as hell, speak in broken Italian. I had heard people would be nicer here if your Italian wasn’t great. And that many people would be able to communicate in English Haven’t found that to be the case. I mean maybe I’m not the best looking guy, but I’m not ugly. slightly overweight but have been told I have a look people like here, by Italian friends, light eyes and hair.
/r/seduction22/12/20 07:14 AM
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Not ugly, just awkward as hell. I’d never approached anyone before these few, so I’m swallowing the lump in my throat the whole time.
/r/seduction22/12/20 07:12 AM
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People forget that that human intelligence is a normal distribution. I know a few girls that thank god they are pretty because otherwise life would be cruel.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 02:22 AM
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Most importantly, get outside and meet people (girls). It’s like expecting to shoot a deer from your living room when you can go set up a blind
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:36 AM
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I’ve been on a pretty strict deficit and am definitely getting bigger muscles. Some muscle memory, some noob gains. Of course it’s not going to be as good as someone with a surplus, but the human body is pretty adaptable.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 06:07 PM
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