adaptor1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	[deleted by user] You didn't "chickened out" you simply didn't know what to do and you were sensible enough to stop yourself in the fear of hurting someone - it just means you're a decent human being (something you should strive for). Test>Escalate>Test>Escalate more - is the mating dance - simply escalate and if you receive positive reactions escalate more, if not, back off but don't give up - sensibly try again later. Don't beat yourself too much, you learn & you'll never make this mistake again. :)	/r/seduction	30/06/22 09:31 PM
3	[deleted by user] I am always very concerned about making other people uncomfortable. If you are a chill person and you smile and pay them compliments you shouldn't be concerned. when we were alone in bed, I very slowly made advances with my hand, as naturally as I could, from just around the shoulder to to her waist If you are in bed with them you shouldn't be concerned about anything ... just slide your dick out... I wasn’t sure if I should make a move during the movie It was ok to make a move, always make a mo…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 09:15 PM
15	On which date should i tell a girl i'm pro life You don't talk about abortions on dates FFS...	/r/seduction	30/06/22 04:55 PM
1	[deleted by user] Yes. Among the girls that show me interest i choose the ones that i like too. In case of emergency i lower my standards.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:02 AM
1	[deleted by user] I don't know. Approaching girls that like you kinda never fails...do you think normal guys hit 100 women and use seduction techniques to get a gf? They could be lying, they maybe see "rejection" in other ways or don't at all.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 12:36 AM
1	[deleted by user] Why don't you ask them? Could it be they kinda know what girl likes them, and approach the girls that find him attractive to begin with? I know this is a radical idea. /s	/r/seduction	30/06/22 12:24 AM
1	Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks. She made you bite and you failed :)) Answering like you, with condescending remarks - "speakin from experience eh?" - told her everything she wanted to know.	/r/seduction	29/06/22 10:30 PM
2	Learn when to quit pursuing 3 strikes is too much. A girl that is attracted to you will never make you try. She may tease you which is a different thing. In that case you have to "try" again. If she does not let me touch her in the first minutes I'm gone, i'll give her a second chance maybe... I have got women to hang with me and have sex after initially declining the first two... I never did, if she does not try to renegotiate the meetup terms (date/hour/location) she does not like you, there's nothing you can do. Keep it…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 10:23 PM
1	Talk less have more success I don't know what dumbass PUA came up with this It stems from PUA's fear of rejection and desire to sell you more stuff (pu lines, techniques, courses, books, magic mindsets), make you feel inadequate.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 03:25 PM
2	Being rejected messes me up You're welcome! Also forget about terms like "game" ," "fake" confidence", shit tests ( no girls that likes you will shit test you, she will jokingly tease you) and other shit like this, they serve you no good! I urge you to read "the flirting bible" and watch some "tay social" videos to up your skills on physical escalation and displaying and interpreting body language, other than this, you don't need anything else imo. Forget about game and gamey stuff, it's pure bullshit! My easiest lay was d…	/r/seduction	31/05/22 09:13 PM
1	Being rejected messes me up I was surprised to see that some women actually wanted me. There is a portion of woman that likes you, as i see you already got a grasp of this. Identify woman that send you signals and approach. That is, until there was a woman who rejected me at a nightclub last week. You shouldn't care about rejection. It does not matter if she didn't like you, maybe she liked you and you did something stupid, maybe you did not escalate sufficiently - next time test her receptivity by touch and sexuality. tes…	/r/seduction	29/05/22 03:07 PM
3	Overcoming sexual insecurity I refused sex because of this or did not take the initiative because there might be sex. Man don't do this anymore it's so stupid, it's better to see a new pussy than not to! Let the girl judge your penis not yourself! We(men) do not have the expertise to assess how our penis tickles a particular girl. You can give orgasms with your pinkie or your tongue, most girls orgasm from clitoral stimulation so let the girl rub herself against your pubic area/bone (lady on top is the best!). There are gro…	/r/seduction	27/05/22 09:04 PM
1	Do y’all consider hearts/kissy emojis over text as showing interest? "I'm free day X & day Y, lets meet at." If no concrete answer, or if your terms do not align with her schedule and she does not try to renegotiate. forget about it. But you should hopefully get a hint cause she didn't try to reschedule when she canceled. (Emojis mean nothing it could be just the way she communicates with anyone)	/r/seduction	25/05/22 04:19 PM
2	I still haven’t had the courage to cold approach women You can disagree, so can I. Looking and waiting for eye contact will just give him more excuses. It should give him more courage and confidence to approach knowing the girl fancies him. Many girls don’t just hold eye contact or smile at guys in public. They do hold eye contact, take multiple short glances and sometimes smile most often give shy/demure smiles, more daring girls flick their hair, pump their chest(tits) up, basically they do positive gestures in order to catch your attention (have …	/r/seduction	23/05/22 10:08 PM
1	Can’t keep erection with new partner. Never had this problem before… Condoms choking your banana , try a bigger size even if it's loose. I had no problem with condoms until my early 20's since then it completely kills the jack.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 09:40 PM
2	In many cases, the interaction must come PRIOR to the creation of any attraction, not vice versa. The is no such thing as "creating attraction" Attraction either is or isn't from second one, no matter what you say or do. Conversely attraction can not be created but most certainly can be destroyed by acting like fool. Acting like a fool: not expressing your attraction and interest, not being playful, not flirting, not touching, not taking the interaction further.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 03:56 PM
19	I still haven’t had the courage to cold approach women I never do "cold approach". I only approach people who seem open for my approach, girls that smile at me, hold longer eye contact & other inviting gestures. Learn to spot these signals, it'll be easier this way. but the moment I see someone that I find attractive, I freeze up.. Look for those that find you attractive! Am I being too hard on myself? Is this normal? Yeah you are too hard on yourself, you try to do something that's unnatural, your brain knows it and reacts.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 03:21 PM
3	Do girls just not give a fuck about you? Some don't care, or are too afraid to ask questions, it doesn't matter, you got sex, why do you give a fuck? Most girls want sex and that's it.... You can call out this behavior but I don't think it will serve you better.	/r/seduction	22/05/22 04:57 PM
1	[deleted by user] I may be wrong but: You should have been more physical and dominant. ..past weekend I ran into her again and the same thing she couldn’t help herself. Was she alone? I would have said: grab your stuff and lets go...(optionally give her a stupid reason) then later in the parking lot of her place. She wouldn’t let me in for some reason. In the car you could have touched her more sexually grabbed her hand and put it on your hard little friend...put your hand on her... even have sex in the car. Does…	/r/seduction	22/05/22 03:46 AM
2	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? I've had women who were obviously extremely interested on date 1, and then after the 2nd date they're done... So what did you do if they were "extremely interested", did you touch them, did you kiss, did you invited her at your place?	/r/seduction	21/05/22 05:50 PM
3	Have women always had a shit ton of options? Or is this just a recent thing from Online Dating? but you know you're just one of 100 different guys at her finger tips. That's defeatism and negative thinking, you will fcuk up your interactions carrying this mentality. This is also not true, you generalize exceptions. She can drop your ass in a split second and date some dentist she's matched with on Hinge. And that is gonna make you cry? Again bad mentality. There are plenty girls out there who like you and send you signals to approach and meet them, work on these, learn to spot them.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 04:57 PM
-9	Why confidence and neediness are signals of your sexual value as a man (explained) Me lucky? Multiple times? This must be a joke! See girl smile at me - me smiles back - me say hi - me mumbling and saying in cohesive shit while "shitting in my pants with a red face of embarrassment" - ask her to hang out and done. I guess I'm fcuking lucky yay!	/r/seduction	20/05/22 09:08 PM
2	Why confidence and neediness are signals of your sexual value as a man (explained) This is bunk logic. I was needy, shy - cringe actually and still got many lays. I'm an average guy by all standards. You don't have to be confident to tell a girl you wanna fcuk her. (You have to be desperate) My conclusion: If the girl likes you none of this matters.	/r/seduction	20/05/22 08:27 PM
0	What Drives Me Furious Is Not The Rejection Itself, But The Ridiculous And Often Absurd Excuses Women Will Make Up To Blow You Off. You know what, I'll keep my dick in my hand while you spend money on uncertain pussy. The point is, if she's not willing to come home with me after a walk or a coffee it ain't worth my time and effort. If she coming with me or i go at hers, of course I'll grab a bottle of something/order some food. Appreciate your down vote, very civil, you angry?	/r/seduction	20/05/22 06:30 PM
-1	What Drives Me Furious Is Not The Rejection Itself, But The Ridiculous And Often Absurd Excuses Women Will Make Up To Blow You Off. If she likes you she'll be happy with a "50c" ice-cream, or even without any financial spending. You don't know what offers she gets, you don't know if she likes the guy who makes offers. It's low class and weak to buy dinners for sex.	/r/seduction	20/05/22 09:43 AM
1	[deleted by user] ...real makes any eye contact with you. Or anything significant really. It's very subtle, those that fancy you at first, look at you for 2-3 sec. and let their head down with a demure smile, learn to spot subtle positive signals. It's rare when a girl blatantly stares at you. I feel like some say you should just approach regardless and others say you should wait for her to signal to you to head over. If you wanna collect rejections, approach indiscriminately.	/r/seduction	20/05/22 07:41 AM
1	What Drives Me Furious Is Not The Rejection Itself, But The Ridiculous And Often Absurd Excuses Women Will Make Up To Blow You Off. Don't get mad. Don't take it seriously and move on. Next please! "UH! Girls tend to get sickly in love with me all the time!"	/r/seduction	20/05/22 07:00 AM
0	[deleted by user] After a few approaches most of the anxiety should fade. You can't get rid of it completely. Learn to spot people who seem open for your approach, girls show signals if it's ok to approach all the time. Spotting those that are should lower your anxiety.	/r/seduction	18/05/22 11:01 AM
5	Is it normal to be sexually attracted to older women? Who cares what's normal or not, it's your show! People can find it however they like, you shouldn't care, it's your desire, your wellbeing - you should only care for you and people you "love" and "love" you back. Find one that's attracted to you too and treat her like you treat any other woman.	/r/seduction	18/05/22 10:43 AM