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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Respect > Lust > LoveGood point. My gf constantly whines to me about not talking about my feelings because she doesn't know what I'm thinking. Little does she know that if I were to open up (which I can't, not my personality) it would send things south. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/13 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you pay on the first date?Thanks to whoever linked my blog earlier - it brought me to this post. I've written about this before: http://www.adarkheart.com/2012/10/13/to-pay-or-not-to-pay/ In general, my opinion is you could go either way, but IF you decide to pay, realize it's an expense with an uncertain return on investment. I've never taken a girl I haven't already slept with a few times for anything other than a drink or two. Some girls will think you're a cheap ass for not buying a drink and won't sleep with you on … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/13 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Finding the root cause of argumentsThanks for the feedback. I edited the post to include the link at the end, as you suggested. I agree the connection is better made this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/13 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Finding the root cause of argumentsNo, I'm not talking about becoming an emotional tampon. I specifically mentioned this AND provided a link to the article about the difference between empathy and sympathy. Here it is again: http://www.adarkheart.com/2013/05/31/just-be-there-part-2-empathy-vs-emotional-tampon/ | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/13 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Finding the root cause of argumentsHow long do women stay with men who continuously tell them to 'shut the hell up in the first place'? It works at first, and for a while, but not in the long run. You missed the 'on top of that part' which I specifically wrote in there to avoid confusion. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/13 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The Frailty Of WomenThe shit tests have never stopped. Once you handle enough and develop the proper mindset however, you deal with them on autopilot. At that point, they become amusing. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The Frailty Of WomenYour post is full of assumptions. I never said a 'cure' or 'the way' or 'the light' as you put it. I've had multiple relationships >1 year. I'm not new to this. The post is not about my particular relationship, on whatever stage it may be. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/13 10:20 PM |
| 8 | Positive Reinforcement To Keep Your Girl SexyAs vzpurp mentioned, they are not one and the same (though you can grow your dick through exercise over time, it's soft muscle tissue, you can learn more at pegym.com). Yes, there's a 'sensitive' way to do it, but I can tell you that IF I ever told my girlfriend she needed to lose weight in a nice way and in return she ate a plate of brownies in my face to spite me, I'd dump her then and there. But anyway, the point of the post is to help maintain your girl's slim figure by supporting her and le… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Positive Reinforcement To Keep Your Girl SexyCorrect, but this is based on the premise that even people who work out often let themselves go to an extent once they get in a relationship. It's something you need to be aware of and handle accordingly. This falls into relationship management - even a well oiled machine needs routine maintenance to keep running smoothly. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How To Be Alpha In A Relationship – Part 2: Don’t Be ControllingRight, and we are in agreement on this. It's simply a matter of what YOUR personal boundaries are - which things are important and which aren't. In your example, if she promised a call at 9 and didn't call til 10 the next day and did NOT apologize, then yes you can cut contact until you feel otherwise or she comes back around. But something like asking you to put the toilet seat down because when she goes to pee at night she falls in - that's not an unreasonable request, even though it may not b… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 01:55 PM |
| 3 | How To Be Alpha In A Relationship – Part 2: Don’t Be ControllingThen you're just casually dating/having sex with women without emotional attachment. Nothing wrong with this, but it doesn't apply to what I wrote. Read the title again: how to be alpha in a relationship. What you're describing is not a relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How To Be Alpha In A Relationship – Part 2: Don’t Be ControllingHow so? The passive form of mate guarding I describe (I can write more on this) works pretty well, I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How To Be Alpha In A Relationship – Part 2: Don’t Be ControllingExactly. Be picky, set your boundaries, and stick to them. If you're banging a girl and she's grinding on other dudes, EVEN IF you're not serious in any regard, that's still disrespectful. But to be exclusive with her while she does this? No thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How To Be Alpha In A Relationship – Part 2: Don’t Be ControllingThe reactive nature of woman should not be underestimated and this is a great point. Thanks for the comments - I'm going to write a piece precisely on this difference between the sexes. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Breakups are always finalFor now, maybe ... | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/13 01:55 PM |
| -2 | Do any of you discuss red pill topics with your girlfriends?I do, all the time. It's my way of screening for relationship potential. Red pill stuff isn't anti-feminine. On the contrary, it's there to restore the natural balance of the masculine attracting the feminine. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 04:27 AM |
| 4 | HOW to 'just be there' for her and WHY it's critical to a developing relationshipBecause: 1) Some things you can't fix. For example, if she's been raped in her past and opens up to you about it and you 'don't judge' her, she's going to be a lot closer. Women want someone they can confide in and if you do it, she'll feel you 'relate' and 'understand' her. Think of it as a relationship building 'game tactic'. 2) To her, you ARE fixing it. You're letting her get over something difficult in her life and move on. You're being the support system - the rock - that she needs. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 04:19 PM |
| 2 | HOW to 'just be there' for her and WHY it's critical to a developing relationshipThat's why I put the caveats in there and said this is more of relationship management and not seduction. This play a minor/no role in initial seduction. I realize this is going to be misunderstood a little, but that's where it's SO critical. Being an emotional tampon and accepting stuff she says to you when she wants to open up are two VERY different things. Women rarely truly open up and you'll learn to recognize when they do, but in the confines of a relationship it's important that you let h… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 06:14 AM |
| 6 | HOW to 'just be there' for her and WHY it's critical to a developing relationshipOn some level, the majority of women are attracted to a man who resembles their father, even if their father was abusive. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 06:11 AM |
| 0 | How to get over your Ex - step by stepCan you elaborate on what you mean by 'outsider friendly'? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 06:50 PM |
| 0 | How to get over your Ex - step by stepThe first step (call to action) is implicit in the breakup itself. I don't know if your friend is lazy; it's more probable that he's not over her (and won't be for a while), so the 'forced' steps (being social, working/working out, talking to cute girls) is going to be of the utmost importance to him. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 06:50 PM |
| 4 | How to get over your Ex - step by stepIn theory yes. In reality, easier said than done for 99% of men. I don't know about you, but I don't have 20 (attractive) girls lined up. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Leagues Exist | A Dark Heart - i.e. Get off your ass and work for what you want.I found some time to read through the comments, and my point in writing the post is to show the existence of leagues. As a follow-up to how leagues play out, you may want to read this piece on sex/success of objectification of women/men, respectively: http://www.adarkheart.com/2013/03/29/objectification-shortcuts-and-love/ To be fair, I'm not in disagreement with CH or anyone saying you should approach every hot girl you want to approach, but you WILL, FOR A FACT, get blown out if you're nowhere… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Leagues Exist | A Dark Heart - i.e. Get off your ass and work for what you want.Thank you for linking this, I appreciate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/13 01:59 AM |
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