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Dilly Dilly! I agree with it. If you fuck up, recognize it, own it, learn, and move on. Don't be the guy that always says sorry for the smallest thing. I had this recently. I was looking for some tape in a set of office drawers. Found a unopened Christmas present for me. I opened it up and realized that it was a set of BT headphones I already had. I casually told my wife that I found it and she did "Why were you looking in there? What were you looking for?" I replied back "sorry I was looking fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/17 08:20 PM
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Dude, you put a human in her. When you get to that point you need to lay the fuck off. You can be the dirt bag father if you leave, but that's your prerogative. Lighten the fuck up. You are having abandonment issues because now there is someone else within the relationship and you need to understand that. Do hold your ground in getting out and having your time, but be the oak not the dick right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 01:55 PM
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How does it feel not having the balls to mention it after you do it? I haven't told her because we haven't done anything yet. That was more of being in the serene chaos of life than playing it calm. Separated? You're burying the lead and hiding many things from us, and yourself, that you think make you look bad. My bad, I'm currently mobilized in the Navy and been away conducting pre deployment training. Not separated. Why waste your time?Afraid of words on the internet? That was a joke and sarc…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 07:21 PM
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First post go easy- Fitness - 235lbs 6'3 19% BF Shopping for jeans I realized I dropped 2 inches in my waist from a 38 to a 36 and that is still too loose. Starting to see true definition in my arms and chest. Worked out 4 times this week and still have this weekend. Cardio is up and not sweating like a whore in church. Food - I don't think I ate any junk food. I'm doing IFasting and seeing a difference. I like cooking my meals because I decide what's for dinner. Drinking a shit load of water an…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 03:27 AM
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This is exactly what my wife said and is what I need to enact.
/r/askMRP26/11/17 11:05 PM
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Sorry if there was confusion: the "smothering" was prior to me leaving for deployment. I've been reading up a lot since I posted and I have to say I Beta'd bitch years ago. I went from alpha to pretty much victim mindset when I got screwed over at work. I have been thinking that since I didn't respect myself as a man how can I expect her to respect me and our relationship? And how if she doesn't how can I expect other dudes to? That is what it is and I'm accepting I NEED to stop being a victim a…
/r/askMRP17/11/17 09:04 PM
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To clarify: I was still home and we had end of summer parties with a bunch of friends. She told me it started at one of the parties when he was hammered and broke down about custody of his daughter etc. I pussied out when he said something inappropriate to my wife and I stood there expecting her to dismiss it. His wife heard and they left. I NG myself. What gets me is that he is married and honestly not a good looking dude. I recall we would go out as a group and she would just talk shit about h…
/r/askMRP16/11/17 02:22 AM
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Thank you. I activated in October and I won't see them until Christmas. After that it's not until end of summer next year. I have been focusing on eating healthier and reading and working out without the shame guilt that NMMNG talked about.
/r/askMRP16/11/17 02:15 AM
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Not at that level but I have thought about it.
/r/askMRP15/11/17 03:50 PM
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I have a marriage counselor that I can call and I actually met with prior to the start of my mobilization. She has been very helpful and she pretty much is telling me the same thing that mrp is telling me. I am keeping this off the books because the Navy gets iffy about it. Ask me how I know. I have a cush deployment lined up and its pretty much time to get yoke. When I come back, I am quitting my shitty job and pursing what I want in my life. I need to be a better father to my daughter and man.…
/r/askMRP15/11/17 03:49 PM
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She stated emotional affair because the coworker was dealing with custody issues and etc etc. I had been getting a weird feeling about things because she was pushing me away and I was being a beta bitch. Leading up to deployment I do get slightly off because of the time away and such. (Note: NG = external validation required and abandonment issues) I had approached her weeks prior about what I was noticing and she dismissed them prior to me finding the note. I found the note and we had a convers…
/r/askMRP15/11/17 03:42 PM
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Books - NMMNG, ordered the rest of the books, getting into the blogs Lifting - Yes, I am at the gym at 0500-0700 and I am going to add a session in the evenings if my training sked allows it. I had been going to the gym when I was in my civie job (work at a paper mill) and it dropped off due to the shame/guilt wife did and I was a little bitch. Work schedule was 0600-1800, Gym 1800-1900, and then dinner and play with our child (BT 2030). Most of the issues was due to me spending only about 30 mi…
/r/askMRP15/11/17 03:28 PM
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The change from alpha to beta was probably induced by the birth of our daughter. The subconscious idea of abandonment and the fact wife pushed a human out of her body started it.
/r/askMRP15/11/17 12:02 PM
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