addictedtoenergy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	I wish that I could find a partner to be an equal who I can emotionally lean on at times and not have to be a constant stoic rock Yes. And changing laws is quicker with two votes. Men need women on board for social change. When a few of us join men's rights forums, don't push us away and ignore us - you're welcome to say shut up / listen - I'm happy to be muted and just read - menslives is a male only group for example - I'm sorry about the odd crazed women who does crazy behaviours of messages bombing etc. I think mens right forum should change to say : women can read but not reply.	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 05:43 AM
3	I wish that I could find a partner to be an equal who I can emotionally lean on at times and not have to be a constant stoic rock Thank you	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 05:38 AM
-3	I wish that I could find a partner to be an equal who I can emotionally lean on at times and not have to be a constant stoic rock I've read through your posts and actually I found out you"re a decent guy who respects women. Your post to me was rude, but your post history is a solid guy. What happened? If you answer - please take time to reply and answer honestly - it's an important talking point	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 12:16 AM
1	I wish that I could find a partner to be an equal who I can emotionally lean on at times and not have to be a constant stoic rock What's divorce rape?	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 12:03 AM
-13	I wish that I could find a partner to be an equal who I can emotionally lean on at times and not have to be a constant stoic rock That's not completely true - hence me messaging the guy above about HER self-improvement.	/r/MensRights	26/04/25 11:56 PM
5	I wish that I could find a partner to be an equal who I can emotionally lean on at times and not have to be a constant stoic rock This is the reason for the forum - partly. I feel I'm failing my husband and want to improve. Is pm okay?	/r/MensRights	26/04/25 11:50 PM
–	Whats wrong with modern women What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 05:15 PM
2	Whats wrong with modern women Actually it's for everyone. I've been on there for 10 years and just become a mother - it's even got a pure mens sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 05:14 PM
2	Whats wrong with modern women Some women feel pity. Haven't you been on websites like Mumsnet - I'm not condoning it - explaining it. But despite the down votes - truth is there is a biological component of attraction - a large one. Height for guys is like age for women and it's a condominium - nothing I can do about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 05:11 PM
–	Whats wrong with modern women Men can't change the fact that they're attracted to younger women,no. Dropping her - not supporting her after she's had his children is his fault - but a decline in attraction is biological	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 05:07 PM
–	Whats wrong with modern women "Yes telling short men they shouldn't be alive isn't vilifying them" - I have never said nor even thought such an extreme crazy thought. I shouldn't be the target of your hate based on what OTHERS have done to you. My ex-husband beat the fucking shit out of me. I have never done, said, or thought bad against short guys. "Can't believe your ex would ever let you leave." He beat the living shit out of me - he didn't let me leave - the police were there to help me pack up. Before that every day was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 04:06 PM
–	Whats wrong with modern women I didn't say I pity	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 03:57 PM
4	Today's culture wants the dating market essentially whittled down Tinder swipes I'm happy with Tinder. I was married to a fairly rich guy who was winding my biological clock down so I politely divorced him (no court - so he kept rich) and a few weeks later turned 35. I'm still sad he did that but I'm happy I divorced. I decided not to stress about not having kids because - well at 35 it's probably too late and life is life. A friend suggested tinder for fun. Met a guy on there who also had no interest in marriage or children - before meeting me. Fast forward LESS than 3 yea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 03:55 PM
–	Whats wrong with modern women Vilify is very extreme language. Pedophile - that's vilified. Short man is pitied	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 03:34 PM
1	An explanation to how red pill works and why men gravitate towards such online ideas I am fascinated by what I should have been provided with. I've been married 3 times and never even had an engagement ring - because it's unnecessary What do I need provided? First husband is a university professor, second a surgeon who now runs his own clinic - gave me nothing. Third is the guy I decided to have my child with - and I still have no idea what "provide" means. The other thing that confuses me is the word protect - from other men? Only time I've been in danger is a few rape attempts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 03:24 PM
–	Whats wrong with modern women Not vilify. I'm 5ft5 and my ex-husband was too. It is my minimum requirement that he's at least same height as me - I can't change that about attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 03:07 PM
2	Men, would you and should you be willing to take care of child who was the product of affair your wife had and kept it secret from you? And you found it later down the line. Yeah not you personally - just internet has some misinformation sometimes. Either way, thanks for that info, genuinely shocked	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 01:56 PM
2	Men, would you and should you be willing to take care of child who was the product of affair your wife had and kept it secret from you? And you found it later down the line. OH MY GOD I did because I didn't believe you! It is! It's fucking illegal unless it's court ordered! It's not allowed for 'family stability' reasons - that's insane!	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 12:30 PM
3	Men need to do better… She does seem unstable	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 09:23 AM
5	Men need to do better… Why are you on this sub??? I'm also a woman but I'm on here to read, listen and learn what's going on and find out how to support men. You're clearly here to cause trouble,it's literally the third post you've done on this thread and you look mental	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 09:10 AM
3	Men need to do better… Yep - the dark triad of traits. It got covered between 40 and 50 mins of this video why women are attracted to it - decent research too: https://youtu.be/8hI0LEkRqXk?si=ZUOqCcRtGo2qSlc8	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 09:05 AM
4	what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing? Yeah that's insane. I think that part of the problem is that women who do listen on here would never do that shit to begin with - it's an echo chamber	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 11:56 AM
1	what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing? I am so downvoted on this - guys I'm sorry you're going through this.	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 11:54 AM
7	what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing? Found it! https://youtu.be/Q9gg6wVlbPg?si=K5Dm1nwAzUyV2ryN	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 09:31 AM
7	what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing? Brilliant man, my uncle. Because women and men think differently, he taught me how men think. And it blew my mind. Like a lot of my family have done military and he gave only 1 reason why he was against women in the military. Not strength or skill or anything like that, he said this: "If a man gets injured I can leave him behind to die. If a woman gets injured....men have a lot more difficulty leaving her." Another nugget was "A man will forgive your past far quicker than what you do while with …	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 09:26 AM
8	what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing? I can't remember which sketch - quite far back now - it was his girlfriends birthday. He put himself down like he'd caused the aggression - he said how she kept shouting in his face after hitting, not expecting to be hit back and that's what surprised me. I grew up in South London - UK. It was my uncle who said it to me. He said that as men are stronger they shouldn't hit first, but if she hits him she's forfeited that privilege.	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 09:09 AM
7	what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing? Then they shouldn't be part of the mating pool. I'll include Bill Burr on this as he did a sketch on getting hit by women in a way that he took the blame. I usually love his material but I took issue with that. I grew up with "men should never hit a woman FIRST" - if she hits him, hit her back hard enough she doesn't do it a second time.	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 08:53 AM
-47	what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing? No one thinks a woman hitting a man is okay...	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 08:40 AM
-1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future I pretty much agree with you tbh	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 08:13 AM
-6	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future I think a lot of women like me would have loved to do the tran wife thing, but finding a husband that would accept that is rare. Reasons commonly said by a lot of men are: Need 2 financial incomes (that's socio-situational). Don't want a woman to live off them - refuse to share income. The woman becomes too boring to stay with as she doesn't look aspirational. A lot of men simply don't want children.	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 07:55 AM
3	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future Are you lonely? Happy to chat x	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 07:36 AM
2	Feminists: I'm tired of having to carry keys between my knuckles when I'm walking home at night!!! Men: We don't feel safe either walking at night. Feminists: Slightly off topic but I'm thinking of going back into martial arts, any advice?	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 10:04 AM
2	Feminists: I'm tired of having to carry keys between my knuckles when I'm walking home at night!!! Men: We don't feel safe either walking at night. Feminists: Well I'm your internet girlfriend lol. Always gonna jump in.	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 10:03 AM
3	Feminists: I'm tired of having to carry keys between my knuckles when I'm walking home at night!!! Men: We don't feel safe either walking at night. Feminists: You mean if she'd helped? If your're saying she should have jumped in then I'm 100% on board mate	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 09:57 AM
3	Feminists: I'm tired of having to carry keys between my knuckles when I'm walking home at night!!! Men: We don't feel safe either walking at night. Feminists: Thanks! I don't know why that woman stood around and let her boyfriend get stabbed. I once worked with a girl from Glasgow and a guy tried to rape her on her way home - by the time the police arrived she'd taken her heels off and was battering him with them. That's what this girl should have done	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 09:37 AM
23	Men need to start advocating for their rights more There should be male only gyms and events like marathons. Wanting your own space isn't misogynistic at all	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 07:35 AM
19	Feminists: I'm tired of having to carry keys between my knuckles when I'm walking home at night!!! Men: We don't feel safe either walking at night. Feminists: It's insane! When I was 19 me and my boyfriend were surrounded by a gang and they robbed him - not me bizarrely because one of the guys felt bad about hitting a girl - robbers with morals haha But the guys that went for my boyfriend were violent as I fought to get his phone back for him I'm quite proud that when they made off my boyfriend said "They got my wallet and my phone" and I could give him his phone back. And since he had no wallet I paid for dinner	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 07:16 AM
3	Feminists: I'm tired of having to carry keys between my knuckles when I'm walking home at night!!! Men: We don't feel safe either walking at night. Feminists: Lol	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 07:10 AM
1	The male creation cycle QI - back in the days noted that female comedians usually failed because women didn't laugh. Facts are subject to change but I, as a woman only like male comedians except Sarah Millican	/r/MensRights	19/04/25 05:27 PM
5	'She has left a family grieving, their joyful reality was in fact a wicked lie' I agree. And the damage to this child too, and robbing another man of his relationship with that child.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 02:08 PM
1	Give new dads the same job rights as mums, British MP Lola McEvoy (Labour, Darlington) says I'm a British woman in Japan and men are allowed up to a year's paternity leave here. My husband took 3 months - regret we didn't do 6 actually. I've not heard this view from feminists but it certainly didn't happen like that in Japan where men are still the breadwinners. What's your personal view on it?	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:57 PM
1	Can't take it any more Another woman here, well said. I'm reading through this subreddit for the first time and it's really insightful.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 11:02 AM
3	Feminist Equal Pay Laws Cause Garbage Piled up in Streets and Rats Infestation, Disease Feminism was about equality. Equality doesn't mean fairness. They should have kept the salaries as they are and if female cleaners wanted the higher salary, then switch jobs to become a binman.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 10:31 AM