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| -2 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.Dude I failed on your first step. My job requires me to remain where I'm. Plus, the girls in my country never swipes right, only the foreigners do, and that happened only when I went to a major city once. So tough luck for me. | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | What you seek from porn will be what you are ultimately robbed of.So no Big tiddy goth gf for me? | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 11:42 AM |
| 0 | She Comes First - Male Seductive MindsetAh yes the seks, I do it everyday with a female. Besides, this sub exists to advise on how to seduce opposite sex in the first place. This book is a mains exams stuff, and we here are stuck in preliminaries. | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it firstWhy are you entering into a staring competition with a guy in the first place? | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | 100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gainTell us how you open and close. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?What is OP talking about "playing games with their rules" here? I thought Instagram was made for viewing photos. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Never made one in the first place. Is it worth making? | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 09:34 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]No nonsense direct approach is what I think is the best. If she's interested, it's a yes, or else you're free to approach other. God job I'd say. | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationshipPoint #4 is trash. Texting and "getting to know more" kills attraction faster than Usain Bolt completing his dash. Avoid chat sessions if you can. | /r/seduction | 06/10/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationshipWhy do you want to marry kids? | /r/seduction | 06/10/20 05:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm reading "No more Mr. Nice Guy" and I am deeply offended.Well I'm not a nice guy, neither do I pretend to be one. I have women staring towards me, in bakery stores, shops and streets, but I don't know or rather don't have courage to talk up to them. Do you recommend this book after knowing my affliction? | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome]Who asked you to go overboard with your jokes? If your not aware of the boundries, where to stop being a joker then you'll end up being a dancing monkey. | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for girls to lose interest quickly if you don't make a move?One thing I wanna know: if you were able to pick up her hint, then why did you not go for it? Many guys don't seem to understand such subtle hints, but you seem to understand the game. Was there some kind of anxiety/fear/something else that made you pull out? | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I look too young.Looking younger than what you actually are is a big bonus. What's your ethnicity? If you're Asian, then 5'6" is their average height so you can have your luck with Asian/Indian girls, also, you can hit the gym, get some shape: that'll boost your attractiveness with the opposite sex. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 10:42 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 6 Progress ReportSo basically cold approach tends to be successful in 1st world countries. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 01:43 PM |
| 5 | How do I get over the stigma of being a older virgin and attract women?Unless he's telling them himself. Why is he being his own enemy, I wonder? | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while.Why are you talking philosophy with her on phone? Even more, why are you even talking this much to her on the phone? You let her learn everything about you, that's why her interest plummeted and now she's not interested in you. You should always maintain an air of mystery around yourself. Use phone only to ask her out. If she declines, but doesn't counter offer some other date, move on. Also, don't be too available all the time. Learn to turn her down once in a while too. Good luck on your next … | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 09:13 AM |
| 5 | Why talking to strangers (including beautiful ones :) ) is so hard...Seconded | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Best Life lesson I've learned in the past year is the power of walking away.In this recession, it isn't feasible to walk away from a job though. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Shoot your shotWell don't think too much about her now, that'll be detrimental. Focus your energy somewhere else, or on someone else where it'll be worthwhile. Good luck | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Guys what is the first thing you notice on a girl?As a male, IDC if she got good ass, or whatever, but I do feel good when a girl approaches me. Makes me wanna know her more. You don't have to do much, just make some casual talk (this is easier if he's an acquaintance, or someone in same class as me) and give him your number if you feel like doing it. I don't know what your personality is though, maybe approachable, maybe too uptight. You can ask your friends you can rely on to know what kind of personality you project on others, and try workin… | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Guys what is the first thing you notice on a girl?I'm confused. Are you a guy who's asking other guys what they look for in a girl, as you're the female in a gay relationship, or you're a girl asking for a male perspective? | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | The ultimate goal to confidence is not being able to give a fuck. No matter how many rejections you get, no many how times you get turned down you do not let it determine you. Because results comes when you stop giving a fuck and getting outside of your comfort zone.You didn't give a fuck, but only in your mind. It'd be more effective when she also knows this. | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 07:08 AM |
| -1 | Get a load of this 💩Shut up and take my money lmao | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How I succeeded in datingWell I'm in a job so I'm basically busy all the day. I have a uniform so forget about dressing. Fitness: now this is where I have to focus. I've always wanted to join gym, but the job itself takes whole of my day. Will have to look for a way somehow. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.Tsundere | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | If a White Girl is a "Snow Bunny", then an Asian Girl is a...Bugs Bunny | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 03:56 AM |
| 0 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.What about friends who just post toxic religious purge kinda stuff online, and become sweet AF IRL? | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Does not having social media make me appear creepy?I'm from the time of Orkut, Facebook explosion. These things were rad then, not much now. Now Facebook's more like breeding grounds of all sorts of political propaganda, tiktok videos, sentimentalist videos, hate mongers, etc. I only see my friends bickering among themselves over politics who I believe never would do if they'd come face to face. After I quit, I used to search for the Facebook app like an addict search his pockets for cigarettes. But now I don't care. Then I tried Instagram in Ja… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Confidence = knowing that whatever happens, it will be alrightHave these new qualities made you any more successful with the opposite sex? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Told a girl no todayThat's good, but give her the reason for turning her down only if she asks. If she's smart enough, your simple "no" would've made her realise her mistake. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 11:10 AM |
| 3 | How do you know of a girl is into you and not just being nice to you?Try to hang out with her one in one, like take her to a movie (assuming you can do that and your area isn't affected by covid). If she hesitates, friend zone her. Don't be a "nice guy" and start spewing venom on chat. You've already heard she talks to a lot of guys, and you just tried one step further. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 12:04 AM |
| 11 | [Field Report] I walked a girl out of my place: my recent experienceI agree. OP should have let the ball in his court. But that's okay too. We all learn from each other. I hope OP meets someone better next time. | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Sexual Attraction Must Be Mutual In Order To WorkThe game is good | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | I’m new at this and don’t wanna screw things up.Watch Netflix.... And chill | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfOr turn it into a funny conversation. Something like if she doesn't like my beard, I'll ask her to grow one better than me (something sounding out of dumb and dumber) | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfYou mean to not take everything she says seriously. She may be testing us, looking for what reactions we'll give when taken out of our comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfWhat's point 6? | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Preferred Methods Of ClosingWho the hell texts over instagram? Indians. My friend made his girlfriend through Instagram. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Intimidatingly attractiveI once went out with my school friends, and they had a female friend come with them. I didn't find her looking at me, or give any signals. So I started behaving my natural self (read dorky). Later, like a week or two, those guys told me she was asking about me, calling me handsome. So I think women suppress their feelings unlike us, for the fear of giving up the control over accepting or rejecting the person. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Intimidatingly attractiveThis is so true. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | How To Stop Thinking About Her - Get Her Off Your MindI need tips on how to actually meet one. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity at 33yo!!Being thin will make you appear taller than your more healthy friends, assuming they're also 5'6". | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity at 33yo!!5'6" is quite average height. I won't say that's short, unless you live in Netherlands. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Strategic friend zoningAm I asking for the update too soon? | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 01:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Maybe they've never seen such a weird looking guy. Just kidding man. If you are self conscious, hit a gym. Try practicing in front of mirror. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 12:20 PM |
| 6 | 26 years on this earth and a lifetime of dealing with social anxiety and not giving my appearance the best it can be, I have finally gone to an expensive barber who has given me the perfect haircut and I can’t take in all the attention, looks and engaged interestAnd 1 on the top? | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 10:25 AM |
| 1 | 26 years on this earth and a lifetime of dealing with social anxiety and not giving my appearance the best it can be, I have finally gone to an expensive barber who has given me the perfect haircut and I can’t take in all the attention, looks and engaged interestWhat's 1 on the side and 2 on the top? | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Is there a better feeling than women making the first move?People need to look away from their phone. I've seen groups of people instantly submerging their heads into their phones the moment there's a pause for 10 seconds, or one of them gets a call. That just kills the mood entirely, and as someone looking from outside, it seems the bonding in the group is superficial. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Finally got my first sexual activity at 23From the very start please. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 28 | It's interesting to see how some girls can act totally different depending on the person !Agreed. She just didn't want relationship with you, didn't want you to even try so that she didn't have to turn you down and ruin the relationship. My advice? Forget you even liked her. Think of her as your other male friends, and go for other girls. | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 34 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?So basically we're putting ourselves on an even higher pedestal. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 10 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveI'm good looking, but I have zero conversational skills with strangers. Girls look at me and expect me to say something, but I just keep quiet. (I'll attribute this to a rejection I got when I was a teen). | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Be careful with being vulnerable on reddit. Some redditors may or will use it against you.Normally, I avoid the negative stuff when I'm doing something of importance. You should avoid it too, it clouds our judgement, and makes us seem or respond in a way that we normally aren't. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 4 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?Whoever told you looks doesn't matter must be a good looking person. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Social dating code as understood by an autistic person who gets aroundAny tips on approaching girls? | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 05:55 AM |
| 0 | I did it!Because she may be approached by at least 5 guys in a day who handed out their phone numbers and are willing to go to the Moon for her. We have to be different than those 5 guys. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 04:57 AM |
| 0 | I did it!If she's not interested, she'll give you a garbage number. Also, if she gives her real number under pressure, she'll just turn down the invitation without and follow up. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 04:52 AM |
| -6 | I did it!Getting her number gives you the control over the situation. And if she's really into you, she'll be thinking about when you'll call her. And the more she thinks about you, the more she'll be making a positive report of you (we all do it subconsciously). | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 09:04 PM |
| -9 | I did it!Give her your number, but take hers too. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest?Don't think too much over it man. Keeping yourself busy with something is the best remedy for this situation. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 11 | I did it!That's great man. Just one little advice: ask her number instead of giving yours, and say you'll call sometime. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Messaging a cute girl on IGDo you know her personally? Then start by a simple hello and ask what she's up to now a days. Ask to meet sometime, and ask her number so you can give her a rendezvous. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Remember, if someone wants you in their life, they will make both the space and put in the effort.Would you want a dumb person in your life? | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Holy Shit She Said Yes (update)Why don't you add some backstory? That would be nice. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 11:03 AM |
| 3 | How to Tell if She is DTF or a Time Waster (The Four Types of Girls Online)LMAO that cracked me up. Gotta get up from roadside. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 08:29 AM |
| 45 | How to Tell if She is DTF or a Time Waster (The Four Types of Girls Online)India | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 06:29 AM |
| 59 | How to Tell if She is DTF or a Time Waster (The Four Types of Girls Online)Here, all of them are time wasters. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sTell me about the pickup/seduction game | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Reminder: Reddit is not RealityDo people hang out here all day? | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 05:36 PM |
| 36 | I approached a girl, and I'm okayLittle correction here: He didn't ask her if she has a boyfriend. He asked for her number. | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 03:56 AM |
| 3 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.You got matches from the ones you weren't attracted to, so why did you right swipe them in the first place? | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 04:44 AM |
| 2 | The tinder date cheat codeGirls here either don't swipe, or doesn't reply. Why are they even on tinder then? | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 12:19 PM |
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