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“Why should I get her flowers if other guys cracked before?” I don’t know, maybe because you like the girl and want to make her happy? It’s such a gross mindset that doing nice things for a girl is only to get laid, not because you want to make her happy. Early on, I almost never did things for my husband expecting to get something in return. I did it because I liked him and wanted to do something nice for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:19 AM
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It’s been another rough day of being super cute to men over 30 but a fat bitch to men under 30. It takes a lot of energy to be this cute all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:32 AM
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Both of us think it’s a good idea. My older sister went to college in-person but we both think it’s a better idea for me to do it online and stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:39 AM
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I’m thinking about enrolling in online college. I just don’t think it’s a good idea for me to move away, and going to school online is so much cheaper. I’ll get to stay at home which is really nice. I’d even be able to attend graduation with the traditional students at the school’s campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:51 AM
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My dad has always told me that I can dress however I want and it’s a man’s responsibility to control himself, not my responsibility to cover up for them. It’s never made sense to me why some men demand that women cover up and dress “modestly.” It’s not my problem a man doesn’t like it. And a man’s gaze doesn’t ruin me. It doesn’t matter if a guy looks at me. It’s not wrong and we’re all human.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:02 PM
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No 😭 You’re probably thinking of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:59 AM
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I want to have a baby so bad. I’d look so cute in my cow print clothes while pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:54 AM
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Overweight women with glasses are always beefing with me so hard out in public. I don’t know why. It’s never overweight women or women with glasses, it’s both things together. It kinda makes me feel better about myself. Do they just hate to see an attractive young woman living her life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:11 PM
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I don’t get the hate the body-positivity movement gets. The only people wanting men to date fat women are fringe internet personalities. Not hating your body is important. It is okay to want to improve your body but you shouldn’t hate yourself right now. I don’t know why that is so controversial for some people. Simply existing as an overweight person is not “promoting obesity.” No one truly cares about an overweight person’s health, they just want to be mean. I finally felt at peace when someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:12 PM
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I can’t believe there are actually people my age who are enthusiastic about voting for Joe Biden. They’re not just voting against Trump, they actually want Biden. People are so fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:29 PM
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It is so disgusting that being cute as a bug isn’t considered by employers in the hiring process.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:08 PM
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It’s crazy how a guy can be into bodybuilding (to make himself more attractive) for his own personal enjoyment, but when a woman wears a nice, attractive outfit, it’s because she’s doing it all for male attention and not possibly just because she likes it. Not everything we do is for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:35 PM
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I think a lot of men here don’t really like women, but they’re willing to tolerate one for sex, which results in women picking up on that vibe and not dating them. Men who like women are attractive. Listening to and having a conversation with a woman is attractive. You can definitely tell when a man is resentful or doesn’t like women and it’s a turn-off. I want to be with a man who loves me, not one who puts up with me for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:33 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:50 PM
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It’s rude and comes off as immature. I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that, because they’d direct those mean words to me someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:21 PM
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I wish guys would understand that being rude to fat girls is a turn-off. I’m not obese but hearing a guy shit on a fat girl unprovoked just makes him come across as an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:08 PM
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I knew that, but I had never really experienced it before I met him. I felt kind of insecure because I’m a little overweight, but I guess my other features overruled that. I think he likes a little chubby anyways, he says it makes me look softer and cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:55 PM
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I finally asked my boyfriend why he thinks I’m so beautiful while trying not to sound too insecure. He said it’s because I look different. I have pale skin, red hair, blue eyes, and be absolutely loves it. He says most other women look the same. My dad overheard our conversation and I think my boyfriend has won him over. They’re really starting to like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:47 PM
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I’d find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:02 PM
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I’m 20 and I haven’t even known him for six months yet. I can’t have a baby right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:44 PM
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I think he is Chad enough. I hate to admit I like the idea of getting pregnant with his baby but I’m not perverted (or stupid) enough to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:37 PM
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20.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:29 PM
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I don’t think it’s a bad idea to be on the same page in case a condom breaks and I end up pregnant. It’s probably a conversation that needs to happen early.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:19 PM
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No, but it’s probably a good idea to have this conversation in case I do end up pregnant at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:18 PM
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I finally had the potential unexpected pregnancy discussion with my boyfriend. He was pretty happy to hear I’d keep the baby and refuse an abortion. I thought that would be expected, given we’re both conservative, but I guess women in his past would have rather had an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:02 PM
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My dad told my boyfriend he has to help him split and stack firewood if he wants to spend the night with me. He’s been out there with my dad for four hours and they’ll be working until dark. He must really like me if he’s willing to do all that just to spend the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:09 PM
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And he wouldn’t have considered me relationship material if he didn’t find me attractive. You need attraction for a romantic relationship. My point is that I’d rather be with an attractive sweetheart than an attractive asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:30 AM
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Of course I had to find him attractive. I’m not saying attraction isn’t important. I’m saying that I want and am with a sweet man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:05 AM
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Someone really wrote a whole post about how women don’t like kind men. Like, why would I want to go out with a man who is a rude and cruel person? I don’t like being around people who are rude or want to treat me poorly. I went out with my boyfriend because he was sweet and complimented me. They somehow think that kind = spineless and rude = strong. He’s a kind person but he’s not a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:33 AM
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PPD men when a woman gets with a guy who she is attracted to: 😡😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:18 PM
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What are the other reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:44 AM
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Why is it funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:35 AM
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Why wouldn’t someone want to be around a person who likes them and is kind and caring? It meant a lot to be complimented by him. It was very flattering. It wasn’t something I got a lot, which is why I got my first boyfriend at 20 and most of my peers did at 13 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:12 AM
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I’m 20 and I wouldn’t want to be with some delinquent jackass who can’t hold a job. It’s not attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:07 AM
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What do you mean “women like me?” I don’t necessarily like him just because he’s older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:06 AM
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He’s got brown hair, blue eyes, he’s a New Zealander so he’s got such an attractive accent. No facial hair, but plenty of body hair. I don’t really know how else to describe him. He doesn’t go to the gym but he’s an electrician so he’s in pretty good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:06 AM
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I think being 5’9” disqualified him from being Chad, at least according to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:56 AM
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That’s what he did to me and it worked. Maybe it worked because I was previously deprived of those things. But it obviously made me want to spend time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:51 AM
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They should. I can’t imagine a girl who doesn’t want to be with a kind man is any good herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:50 AM
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You talk about “bad boy” this, “Chad” that, I let him hit because he was very kind and sweet to me. I don’t know what kind of girl wouldn’t like to be complimented and treated so kindly. It impressed me a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:40 AM
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My day is absolutely ruined when my least favorite supervisor shows up. Utterly demolished.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:28 AM
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30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 AM
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Yeah, I don’t know what else I’m supposed to call him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:25 AM
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My older sister was shitting on me because my boyfriend lives with his parents. His parents are only here for around six months out of the year during summer before they head back to New Zealand to avoid the winter here. When they’re gone he gets the whole house to himself, it’s a pretty sweet deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:18 AM
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I work at a fast-casual restaurant and I’m so sick of women thinking I’m hitting on their boyfriends because I’m polite 😭 like it’s literally my job to be nice to you. I can’t imagine being with a woman like that is an enjoyable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:20 PM
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Pretty bummed to be spending another Halloween without friends, which means there is nothing to do. I even planned a costume before I realized I have nowhere to wear it. My old high school friends partied all weekend at their colleges. Even my younger siblings had more fun than me this weekend. I have no idea how I ended up this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:21 AM
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I’ve already decided I’m kissing him in front of the creep if I get a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:12 AM
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That picture is pretty damn close. But no, this dude is overweight and has thinning hair, and he’s in his early twenties. I’m getting uncomfortable just describing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:06 AM
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There is this guy in my one of my college classes who wants to be a chick. He’s always dressing like a girl and sometimes we have to interact for assignments and it’s just gross. He does things that creep me out big time. He has trans and lesbian pride stickers on his laptop and he stares at me a lot. It makes me so uncomfortable. I told a man I like who comes into my work regularly since we weren’t busy and we like to chat. He said he’d come walk me from my class to my car if it would make me f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:43 AM
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God forbid you go to a golf course while learning how to play golf. After building up enough confidence on the driving range for a few weeks, I went out on the course today. A huge group teed off too early behind me and then harassed me for going too slow for them. I offered to let them pass and they didn’t want to. One of them apologized to me in the parking lot but I didn’t get to slow down and really practice the whole time I was playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:22 PM
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That’s exactly my point. I’m not shooting for traditionally hot guys. I like normal looking guys with normal jobs. There’s a chance one of them will fall in love with me and let me do all that weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:49 PM
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I don’t understand these threads saying that most women are sharing the “top tier” men. I want a man who is absolutely smitten with me and me only. I need him to be so obsessed with me he’ll let me breastfeed him and tie him up with fuzzy handcuffs and other weird shit like that. I don’t think Chad would let me do that to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:44 PM
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It’s white man or no man for me. That makes it harder, but I’m sure the hunt will pay off someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:14 PM
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5’4” 165 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:04 PM
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No, borderline underweight ranch hand is my fantasy. Maybe it’s my fantasy because it could be attainable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:00 PM
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I was just being dramatic. There’s probably one out there for me. He’s probably drinking his problems away at a Mexican restaurant bar after plumbing houses or fixing roofs all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:57 PM
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I’m sure I can find one around here somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:40 PM
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I’ve already lost a lot. I’ve hit a plateau and I’m trying to mentally treat myself gently now instead of giving myself a hard time for not losing any more. I’ve been trying to get the last little bit off, but it may be here for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:38 PM
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I like borderline underweight men 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:32 PM
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So do guys that like chubby girls only exist on Reddit or what. I’m going to die of lack-of-cowboy-boyfriend disease here soon. I may not be the thinnest, but I make good turkey sandwiches and give foot massages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:28 PM
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My mom is an Aussie, so I grew up watching footy on the weekends in the middle of the night with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:39 AM
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But then I’d have to live in a place where I can see my neighbors or even live in the same building as them and that’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:37 AM
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I’m in the States.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:32 AM
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I don’t understand Reddit’s obsession with “walkable cities.” I want to live far enough away from people that I HAVE to drive. I want to be cozy sipping Dutch Bros iced coffee in my hand-me-down Land Cruiser with heated seats, not on a bus with fentanyl addicts for four hours until I finally get to my destination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:26 AM
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I’m 20. We’re really close and I don’t want him to dislike whoever I end up with. I live with him and probably will be until I get married, and even then I’ll live within a couple minutes of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:15 PM
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If he’s chubby but otherwise attractive with interests that I like, I probably would. I’m chubby, not ugly, so I’d like a guy who is at least not ugly. A lot of the guys I find attractive aren’t very objectively attractive, but I just really like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:09 PM
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The only men who seem to like me are in the age demographic that I’m not allowed to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:01 PM
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I mean, no one IRL has shown that they want me, so why am I crazy for thinking no one likes me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:01 PM
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I live with him, and even if I didn’t I wouldn’t want to make him mad. I wouldn’t want to be with a man he doesn’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:59 PM
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I’m not really allowed to have the guys I want. My dad wouldn’t be very happy if I brought home a 38 year old tradesman, because those are typically the guys I see in public and fall in love with without speaking a word to. I’m sure those guys would want me, and I want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:32 PM
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Well, I’m too big for men my age. The older they get, the more pleasant they are to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:15 PM
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No, I haven’t started the process yet. But I know it’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:11 PM
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No one wants me yet, I guess. Maybe it’s because I’m a size ten. I’ll probably attract some sleazeball with a chubby redhead fetish, but as long as he loves me, that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:04 PM
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It’s possible to induce lactation by pumping and massaging the breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:01 PM
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When I get a boyfriend someday I want to breastfeed him but I’m afraid that will scare him off. But I’ll probably end up attracting some sort of pervert to begin with so maybe he’ll be really into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:55 PM
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They’re out there, but most of them are chasing the few attractive conservative girls, or putting up with a liberal because she’s hot. Maybe a guy who is a little bit older will appreciate me, because he’ll be closer to wanting marriage and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:03 PM
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Then maybe I’ll have a better chance of finding someone I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:00 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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I mean, I’m very open to it. It’s a fresh start with people my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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Because I’ll find a man who shares similar values, and maybe they’ll be a little bit older and appreciate me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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They look like they have interests that I don’t like, like anime and video games. A lot of them are just unkempt. I understand that it’s school and not some event, but they could put in a little more effort into not looking like a slob. Some of them are massively overweight. The ponytail and neckbeard combo doesn’t look good on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:44 PM
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I started my first community college class today and I think half of my classmates are high schoolers in an accelerated program. Most of the men an appropriate age for me are not very appealing. I’m making a profile on a conservative dating website tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:39 PM
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I went to a community college open house/meet and greet type thing last night and it just destroyed my confidence. I don’t know how I’m supposed to compete with these girls. It’s so weird watching guys flirt with those girls because it has never happened to me, even when I put myself out there. They’re treated so much better by everyone. I don’t know what I’m missing. Maybe some guy later on will like the fact that I don’t get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:49 PM
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I don’t really have anyone meaningful in my life who I’m not related to. I’d really like a companion. There’s not a whole lot of people my age here and those that are here are in social groups that don’t like new people. I’m starting community college but there probably won’t be a whole lot of people my age there. I figure an older guy will probably be more welcoming to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:04 PM
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A man like that could probably solve my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:06 PM
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I need a slightly-sleazy, yet attractive 40-year-old man to come up behind me while I’m sitting at my vanity and passionately make out with me before telling me I’m special and there’s no one else out there like me. That would solve my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:48 PM
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I’m 20F and starting community college in the fall. I didn’t go to a big college because I don’t think I’m ready to be on my own yet. I’m worried that I’ll be too old to connect with people and make friends if I do transfer to a four-year later on. I’d be 22/23 going into school with a bunch of kids who were just in high school. Everyone looks like they’re having so much fun at the big schools and I’m afraid I’ll miss it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:27 PM
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