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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:26 AM
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People are freaking out about the whole Charlie Kirk thing as if their lives won’t be normal tomorrow. The husband will still go to work, I’ll still be taking care of the baby and doing chores, life will go on. I’m a conservative voter but I was never a fan of the guy. I’m not surprised it happened. Obviously not good that it happened, but it’s just not something I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:38 AM
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“Why should I get her flowers if other guys cracked before?” I don’t know, maybe because you like the girl and want to make her happy? It’s such a gross mindset that doing nice things for a girl is only to get laid, not because you want to make her happy. Early on, I almost never did things for my husband expecting to get something in return. I did it because I liked him and wanted to do something nice for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:19 AM
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I’m married to a millennial but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:36 PM
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Well, he’s a young Millennial, but yeah. Babies tend to cause young marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:29 PM
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I don’t understand why a lot of Gen Z is super uptight and serious about dating. They forget that it’s supposed to be fun. You don’t need to put pressure on yourself for marriage when you’re 20. You need to actually like your partner’s personality even if they check all of your other boxes. I’m Gen Z. I started dating a guy I had fun with. We’re married now, but we didn’t set that as an expectation going in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:09 PM
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I don’t think my statement is incorrect, though. I’m 100% right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:10 PM
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That’s how the demographic I’m talking about spells it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:50 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:41 PM
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It’s so funny watching a certain demographic in the US do something, put it on social media thinking it’s classy and boujee, but it’s something super basic that the rest of us have done for ages without even thinking about bragging about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:31 PM
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I’ve never seen an Aussie or Kiwi man who cares about body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:53 AM
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No, I think it’s “super cute.” That’s what they tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:05 AM
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It’s been another rough day of being super cute to men over 30 but a fat bitch to men under 30. It takes a lot of energy to be this cute all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:32 AM
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It makes sense from a financial perspective, but for me, it’s not about the money. I think it’s a caring gesture. It shows investment. Saying you’re going to split the bill because of feminism isn’t going to make any woman wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:02 PM
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I wouldn’t consider myself to be a feminist. Women and men have the same rights today. I’m just saying it’s kind of ridiculous that some men don’t want to pay for a date because women have the right to vote or open a credit card without a man’s permission now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:51 PM
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I don’t get how women wanting equal rights means that a man shouldn’t pay for her dinner. When I hear dudes complain about it, I hear “I’m only going to pay for your dinner if you don’t have the right to live an independent life.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:41 PM
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Both of us think it’s a good idea. My older sister went to college in-person but we both think it’s a better idea for me to do it online and stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:39 AM
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I’m thinking about enrolling in online college. I just don’t think it’s a good idea for me to move away, and going to school online is so much cheaper. I’ll get to stay at home which is really nice. I’d even be able to attend graduation with the traditional students at the school’s campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:51 AM
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It’s kind of sad seeing people stressing themselves to death over buying a house. It’s not about being a homeowner for some, it’s that the house is a status symbol for them. They feel like they’re in a higher class now. Some people destroy their financial wellbeing because they just have to have the house. Their lives are now miserable, but at least they bought a house before 35 to flex on everyone. Your toddler isn’t going to care that they live in a luxury McMansion, but they will care that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:06 AM
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I don’t really know what else I’m supposed to do. I can’t live alone and take care of myself. I don’t make enough money and there’s no chance I’d be able to find a job that pays enough to live alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:31 AM
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I certainly still feel like a child. I don’t even like spending a night away from home, unless it’s a really fun vacation. I still need my teddy bear to fall asleep. I can’t just leave and go somewhere. That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:23 AM
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No, it’s just that my dad doesn’t let me go too far without him or my mom with me. Staying in a hostel sounds dangerous. I don’t trust people enough to do that. I haven’t gone to college yet because I don’t roommates. It sounds so sketchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:01 AM
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People always tell me to just “go travel” as if it’s some easy thing to do. I’m almost 21, I have no money. I’m not even allowed to leave the county without one of my parents with me. I can’t just leave and travel Europe. People say stay at hostels, but that sounds super dangerous. I probably won’t even be able to go on vacation until I’m 30, and that’s if I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:55 AM
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Toyota off road guys are a cult. They say anything else, especially Jeeps, are unreliable, but can’t point to a single thing wrong with the Wrangler. You bring up the oil burning problem some Toyotas have and they nearly have a goddamn stroke. Then they try to argue that a stock Tacoma is more capable than a stock Wrangler but then they get high-centered on a slight hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:05 AM
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Young conservative Christian influencers are the worst. They don’t seem genuine about their faith at all. I’m a conservative but I can do without the religious stuff. It seems like young Christians act like they’re better than you for being religious, but also think that being religious makes up for being a shitty person. So many of these people make cringe Reels that say things like “the main priority of our relationship should be Jesus.” I don’t think religion is bad at all, but I don’t like m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:31 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:25 AM
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I’m 20 and with a 30 year old right now. It’s not what anyone expected. I just feel guilty and I don’t know why. I love him. I want to have babies within the next few years so it was probably better for me to end up with an older man. I guess I’m just sad I’m not accepted by people my age. I’ve always wanted so badly to go do fun stuff with a group of friends, like a music festival or road trip. He’s all I have. He’s the only person I spend time with besides my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:34 AM
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I know the feeling. When you’re an outcast and a reject, your perception changes. Those sleazy forty year olds that most girls would ignore become the subjects of your nightly fantasies. Their compliments that creep others out will warm your heart and make you feel special. You constantly daydream and imagine them being loving husbands and fathers. You imagine the little wedding you’ll scrape change together for because neither of you have good jobs. It’s a heartbreaking mindset to have but I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:13 AM
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Do they at least think I’m cute, or find me somewhat attractive? I know I’m not hot but I want to be cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:02 AM
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I can’t think of anyone I look similar to, but I can give you a description. I’m 5’4”, 160 pounds, size eight, red hair, blue eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:57 AM
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A little bit, but I’m a nice shape. I’m a size eight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:56 AM
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Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:53 AM
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Guys my age have always been rude and cold to me. And older men have become more kind and sweet and interested in the past couple years. I just don’t know why younger people don’t like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:39 AM
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I sat on someone else’s face tonight, sorry 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:22 AM
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I just want to know why guys my age have no interest in me but men around 35 or older want me so bad. In the same day, I had a group of young guys be rude to me while I was working, and then at the grocery store a 40 year old asked me if I want to come sit on his face tonight. I do not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:18 AM
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My dad has always told me that I can dress however I want and it’s a man’s responsibility to control himself, not my responsibility to cover up for them. It’s never made sense to me why some men demand that women cover up and dress “modestly.” It’s not my problem a man doesn’t like it. And a man’s gaze doesn’t ruin me. It doesn’t matter if a guy looks at me. It’s not wrong and we’re all human.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:02 PM
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Yeah. I’m not willing to take out loans because I’m not confident in my ability to even finish a degree or get a good paying job afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:00 PM
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But I imagine by then I’ll have babies to take care of and a bunch of other responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:59 PM
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My dreams are getting too out of reach because they’re just too expensive. I wanted to visit Australia and cross the outback. I wanted to start my own business, or go to college. I think I’m just going to settle for getting married, having babies, and going camping for vacation. It’s probably more fulfilling anyways. I thought 20 was the time to be alive and have adventures but it’s just depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:44 PM
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No 😭 You’re probably thinking of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:59 AM
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I want to have a baby so bad. I’d look so cute in my cow print clothes while pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:54 AM
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It’s been another tough day of being attracted to sleazy men and who are way too old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:55 AM
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I really hate it when religious conservatives shame women for aborting babies with Down syndrome. I consider myself to be a conservative and I would do the exact same thing. I couldn’t bring a child into this world knowing they will never have a good quality of life, especially if I had other children who would end up needing to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:36 AM
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Overweight women with glasses are always beefing with me so hard out in public. I don’t know why. It’s never overweight women or women with glasses, it’s both things together. It kinda makes me feel better about myself. Do they just hate to see an attractive young woman living her life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:11 PM
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I don’t get the hate the body-positivity movement gets. The only people wanting men to date fat women are fringe internet personalities. Not hating your body is important. It is okay to want to improve your body but you shouldn’t hate yourself right now. I don’t know why that is so controversial for some people. Simply existing as an overweight person is not “promoting obesity.” No one truly cares about an overweight person’s health, they just want to be mean. I finally felt at peace when someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:12 PM
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I’m 20 and a republican voter. I find Gen Z/young millennial conservative culture on social media to just be insufferable at this point. I feel myself straying culturally from most other conservatives. I’m not blue collar or country, but I’m not in a city either. I’m not a homesteader who acts better than everyone else for it. I’m not religious. I’d probably drive a Prius, the new ones look pretty sick. I just find that young conservatives are so uptight. They act like you’re a bad person if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:56 AM
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I can’t believe there are actually people my age who are enthusiastic about voting for Joe Biden. They’re not just voting against Trump, they actually want Biden. People are so fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:29 PM
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A few months ago some barrel racer girl called me a buckle bunny and that my hat wasn’t a real cowboy hat. First of all bitch, it’s an Akubra, it’s not a cowboy hat so shut the fuck up. Second of all, I’m at a rodeo, I like to watch it, am I not allowed to be a fan just because I don’t own a horse? Jesus fucking Christ no wonder men get irritated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:22 AM
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A nice untrimmed bush on a man is so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:04 AM
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It is so disgusting that being cute as a bug isn’t considered by employers in the hiring process.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:08 PM
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It’s crazy how a guy can be into bodybuilding (to make himself more attractive) for his own personal enjoyment, but when a woman wears a nice, attractive outfit, it’s because she’s doing it all for male attention and not possibly just because she likes it. Not everything we do is for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:35 PM
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I agreed to cover a shift tomorrow without knowing that it’s with my least favorite coworker who everyone else also hates. Oh well, at least I talked them down to a six hour shift rather than the full eight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:19 AM
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Instagram comments are wild. I read a comment section full of dudes saying an n-count of 1 is too much and makes a girl a slut. Usually the first person you sleep with is someone you love, not a random hookup. You can’t even love someone anymore without dudes calling you a whore. Not every relationship works out and that’s okay. But like, why is it wrong for a girl to lose their virginity to another guy, but it’s fine if they do it with him? How is she not a whore when she does it with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:49 PM
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No, not really. Over six feet seems a little scary to be honest. I think 5’9” is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:53 PM
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Maybe 5’7” but more like 5’6”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:43 PM
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5’4”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:23 PM
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Exactly, I wouldn’t consider a guy short until he’s like, maybe 5’7”, and even then it depends. 5’7” isn’t really “short,” just shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:18 PM
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It’s wild when a guy says a girl is fat, and then you see her and she’s like a size six.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:06 PM
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I feel like Gen Z/young millennials are drawn to extremes, especially in the dating world. One side seems to be very progressive and sex-positive, and one side is very traditional. I’m somewhere in the middle and it doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of people here. My parents are conservative, but sex-positive, and that’s how I ended up. I don’t thinking sleeping around is for me, but I also don’t want to end up as a doormat of a wife who is borderline abused by her husband. I don’t really care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:40 PM
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I think a lot of men here don’t really like women, but they’re willing to tolerate one for sex, which results in women picking up on that vibe and not dating them. Men who like women are attractive. Listening to and having a conversation with a woman is attractive. You can definitely tell when a man is resentful or doesn’t like women and it’s a turn-off. I want to be with a man who loves me, not one who puts up with me for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:33 PM
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It’s not a bad thing, I said “down bad” because I’m doing something that you do when you really like someone, and I really like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:31 AM
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We’re only a month into the relationship. I’m always told don’t do wife stuff when you’re still a girlfriend but I love doing things like this for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:31 AM
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I’m such a simp. I spent my entire day off making my boyfriend a lasagna and putting pieces into tupperware so that he can bring it with him for lunch at work. Don’t ever be down this bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:00 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:50 PM
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I don’t know why my sister gets bent out of shape when I say I’ll only date white men. I know that’s how she is too, she’s just won’t say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:41 PM
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It’s rude and comes off as immature. I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that, because they’d direct those mean words to me someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:21 PM
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I wish guys would understand that being rude to fat girls is a turn-off. I’m not obese but hearing a guy shit on a fat girl unprovoked just makes him come across as an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:08 PM
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Sometimes I get so annoyed by trashy girls, but then others I think, “yes, continue to act trashy and low-intelligence, it makes me look better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:32 PM
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I think guys my age (20) like hot girls and want a baddie, but older guys like more cutesie types. I’ve only been complimented by older guys, and they’ve always called me cute or adorable, never hot. Maybe being cute is a lot more comforting and approachable, perhaps even more realistic than hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:19 AM
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I’m probably halfway in between? I actually love my boyfriend’s height. Tall guys kind of scare me. I feel so safe and cozy in his arms. I wouldn’t date a guy with a microdick but an inch below average probably wouldn’t bother me. I wouldn’t date a bum with a super shitty job but if he’s in school or working hard towards something better then I’d date him. I guess I’m fine with anything that isn’t in the extremes. Dating the “perfect” guy seems exhausting, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:00 PM
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Men don’t believe me when I say I don’t need a man who is six feet tall with a six-figure salary and a ten inch cock. Like, I’m telling you I’m dating a 5’9” tradesman with an average dick, isn’t that what you want to hear? I don’t fucking get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:03 PM
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He loves me very much and I wouldn’t want to date someone he doesn’t like. If he doesn’t like someone, I don’t like them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:51 AM
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Sorry guys, my dad won’t let me date anyone less than a Chad. I think he’d make me break up with a guy who is too ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:36 AM
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Really? He likes it, so I’ll keep doing it. It always seemed feminine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:21 PM
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I don’t know, I’ve never smelled another redhead, and I’m unaware of what I smell like. My boyfriend thinks I smell good but that’s because I use lavender body wash and products.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:06 PM
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There’s something wrong with saying that people look the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:58 PM
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I know I’m the redhead he wants. I’d probably be cuter than her. He likes a little bit more cushion for the pushin’ anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:58 PM
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And that’s his preference. Some men like blondes and brunettes, but he doesn’t. I do get his point, though, a lot of them do look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:50 PM
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I don’t think liking redheads means he’s part of the Aryan Brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:46 PM
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Yeah. I’ve never been first choice for anything and there’s always been someone better than me. I love it when he makes me feel special. I don’t have to compete with anyone for his attention. He’s all mine and I’m all he wants. I finally feel wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:45 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:37 PM
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I think my boyfriend has really made me realize how beautiful I actually am. He says my features (red hair, blue eyes, pale skin) are so pure and beautiful. He says most other women start to look the same with brown hair, brown eyes, lots of makeup, and a more tan complexion. According to him, I’m very special. We went out to the grocery store yesterday and I felt very beautiful after looking at everyone else. That man has done absolute wonders for my self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:23 PM
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My relatives are visiting for Thanksgiving. Some of them were going to stay at an AirBnB for a couple nights, but they canceled so now they’re staying with us. I’m so pissed. My boyfriend was going to spend the night, but now I’m going to get kicked out of my room, and I don’t exactly feel like sleeping on the living room floor with my boyfriend while my old relatives get up at the ass crack of dawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:11 AM
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I knew that, but I had never really experienced it before I met him. I felt kind of insecure because I’m a little overweight, but I guess my other features overruled that. I think he likes a little chubby anyways, he says it makes me look softer and cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:55 PM
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I finally asked my boyfriend why he thinks I’m so beautiful while trying not to sound too insecure. He said it’s because I look different. I have pale skin, red hair, blue eyes, and be absolutely loves it. He says most other women look the same. My dad overheard our conversation and I think my boyfriend has won him over. They’re really starting to like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:47 PM
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I’d find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:02 PM
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I’m 20 and I haven’t even known him for six months yet. I can’t have a baby right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:44 PM
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I think he is Chad enough. I hate to admit I like the idea of getting pregnant with his baby but I’m not perverted (or stupid) enough to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:37 PM
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20.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:29 PM
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I don’t think it’s a bad idea to be on the same page in case a condom breaks and I end up pregnant. It’s probably a conversation that needs to happen early.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:19 PM
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No, but it’s probably a good idea to have this conversation in case I do end up pregnant at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:18 PM
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I finally had the potential unexpected pregnancy discussion with my boyfriend. He was pretty happy to hear I’d keep the baby and refuse an abortion. I thought that would be expected, given we’re both conservative, but I guess women in his past would have rather had an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:02 PM
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I’m dating a Kiwi and I love his accent so much. It’s my favorite accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:50 AM
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A hot accent bumps a man up at least two or three points. A Kiwi or Aussie accent makes a 4/10 a 7+/10 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:19 AM
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My dad told my boyfriend he has to help him split and stack firewood if he wants to spend the night with me. He’s been out there with my dad for four hours and they’ll be working until dark. He must really like me if he’s willing to do all that just to spend the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:09 PM
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I’d say most of my compliments are from men I don’t find attractive. My boyfriend was one of the first I would actually want to date. I didn’t find most of them attractive because they’re typically in their forties and it just felt weird. He’s probably the closest in age with me out of all the men who have complimented me, he’s 30 and I’m 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:35 AM
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I’ve got compliments from men I don’t find attractive, but I still value what they say. Maybe more men will like me once I grow into my features more and get my braces off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:28 AM
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Yes, and I love his big New Zealand deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:26 AM
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There are girls out there who will really value kind words. I’m one of them. I value it so much because it’s not a common occurrence. I’m glad I have the ability to cherish them. Not every woman has a mile-long line of men waiting to be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:08 AM
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That’s not what happened to all of us. I never received male attention through my school years. I never went to a school dance because I was too embarrassed to go without a date. I only started getting occasional compliments after I had been working for a while, and it was from men 35+. I remember so many of them and they really would make me feel good. I’d think about them for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:32 AM
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I think that at the very least, you’d make a girl’s day by saying something nice. I remember almost every compliment I’ve received by a man, because it’s not a common occurrence. When I’m feeling down about my appearance I think about what they have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:16 AM
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I never thought I’d have to explicitly write that I think he’s attractive, I thought that would be inferred. I’ve always said he’s attractive. I referred to him as the Hot Kiwi before calling him my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:15 AM
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It worked on me. That’s what happens when you don’t get noticed by anyone who is age-appropriate for you. Being the subject of his attention really made me feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:02 AM
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I never said it was only that. But him showing interest and being kind is what made me want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:59 AM
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MFers really think that a woman being with a man she finds attractive is a war crime. I need to be with someone who I want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:25 AM
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And he wouldn’t have considered me relationship material if he didn’t find me attractive. You need attraction for a romantic relationship. My point is that I’d rather be with an attractive sweetheart than an attractive asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:30 AM
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Of course I had to find him attractive. I’m not saying attraction isn’t important. I’m saying that I want and am with a sweet man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:05 AM
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Someone really wrote a whole post about how women don’t like kind men. Like, why would I want to go out with a man who is a rude and cruel person? I don’t like being around people who are rude or want to treat me poorly. I went out with my boyfriend because he was sweet and complimented me. They somehow think that kind = spineless and rude = strong. He’s a kind person but he’s not a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:33 AM
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PPD men when a woman gets with a guy who she is attracted to: 😡😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:18 PM
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What are the other reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:44 AM
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Why is it funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:35 AM
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Why wouldn’t someone want to be around a person who likes them and is kind and caring? It meant a lot to be complimented by him. It was very flattering. It wasn’t something I got a lot, which is why I got my first boyfriend at 20 and most of my peers did at 13 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:12 AM
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I’m 20 and I wouldn’t want to be with some delinquent jackass who can’t hold a job. It’s not attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:07 AM
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What do you mean “women like me?” I don’t necessarily like him just because he’s older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:06 AM
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He’s got brown hair, blue eyes, he’s a New Zealander so he’s got such an attractive accent. No facial hair, but plenty of body hair. I don’t really know how else to describe him. He doesn’t go to the gym but he’s an electrician so he’s in pretty good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:06 AM
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I think being 5’9” disqualified him from being Chad, at least according to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:56 AM
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That’s what he did to me and it worked. Maybe it worked because I was previously deprived of those things. But it obviously made me want to spend time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:51 AM
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They should. I can’t imagine a girl who doesn’t want to be with a kind man is any good herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:50 AM
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You talk about “bad boy” this, “Chad” that, I let him hit because he was very kind and sweet to me. I don’t know what kind of girl wouldn’t like to be complimented and treated so kindly. It impressed me a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:40 AM
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I can’t tell if that’s sarcastic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:46 PM
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I guess that means I’m not attractive? I just got my first boyfriend and I’m 20. Maybe he just thinks I’m really sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:07 PM
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I guess I am to some men, and not others. I have a 30 year old boyfriend now. He’s the youngest man to find me attractive and compliment me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:57 PM
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I used to be more outgoing, but I’ve grown more reserved and shy after social rejections and embarrassment. It’s hard to talk to people because in the past I would just be ignored or they wouldn’t want to talk to me. I have a boyfriend now, he’s 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:53 PM
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No. Most of the older guys who are kind and compliment me are just out and about in public, or they’re customers where I work. When I still had more friends we’d come across younger guys in more social settings and that’s where I was ignored. Sometimes when groups of young guys come to where I work and are almost rude to me but nicer to other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:17 PM
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When I used to approach they would. Sometimes I’d be hanging out with friends and encounter a group of guys in a social setting. They’d love to talk to my friends but not me. I’d say something and they just wouldn’t acknowledge me. It even happens at work. I make a minor mess-up and get treated like crap but another girl does and it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:13 PM
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I still don’t understand why men under the age of 30 ignore me, but men over that age will compliment me and want to chat and be kind. Guys my age would always treat me like some sort of joke. I’ve been laughed at and mocked, but I’ve never received that treatment from an older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:09 PM
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My day is absolutely ruined when my least favorite supervisor shows up. Utterly demolished.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:28 AM
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I’ve always had interest in becoming a doctor but school takes so long that I’m worried I’d run out of time to have children. I’d be like 32-35 when done with school and residency. I’d rather have a family than be a doctor. My father’s mother had Alzheimer’s so there’s a greater chance he’ll get it. I want to spend as much time with my parents as possible because they won’t be here forever. I don’t want to be away at school for a decade. It’s so hard to think about all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:12 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:19 PM
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Neither of us have any STDs so it’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:14 PM
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I had no idea lambskin condoms were a thing until my boyfriend pulled one out last night. It felt much better than a normal condom, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:41 PM
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I generally like where I live, but the worst part about it is how many old people live here. I work part-time at a fast-casual restaurant and I swear boomers are out to make my days as miserable as possible. Old people above a certain age are usually so sweet but like age 60-77 is the worst, especially for women. It’s also really hard to make connections with people my age or find activities with people younger than 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:59 PM
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30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 AM
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Yeah, I don’t know what else I’m supposed to call him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:25 AM
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My older sister was shitting on me because my boyfriend lives with his parents. His parents are only here for around six months out of the year during summer before they head back to New Zealand to avoid the winter here. When they’re gone he gets the whole house to himself, it’s a pretty sweet deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:18 AM
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It wasn’t easy. I’ve lost a lot of weight. He’s the first man I’ve dated. If it were easy I would be like my sister who has always had a boyfriend since the age of fifteen. My point is that there’s not really a solution to men’s loneliness. It is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:06 PM
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I don’t think it CAN be fixed. You can’t force someone to find another person attractive. It’s just not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:00 PM
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I didn’t want to use a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:52 PM
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It’s so strange seeing people talk about the male loneliness/sexlessness issue as if it’s a political subject that we as a country need to fix. I’m a woman. When no one wanted to fuck me or have a relationship, that was on ME. I didn’t have a good appearance or good socialization skills. It was all my fault. I take full responsibility because you can’t force someone to like someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:41 PM
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I work at a fast-casual restaurant and I’m so sick of women thinking I’m hitting on their boyfriends because I’m polite 😭 like it’s literally my job to be nice to you. I can’t imagine being with a woman like that is an enjoyable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:20 PM
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I don’t know what else to call him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:24 PM
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It wasn’t that easy. He’s my first boyfriend and I’m 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:35 AM
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Yes, it was as good as it could be. Very intimate and not as embarrassing as I thought it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:19 AM
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Currently mortified because I accidentally pulled some of my boyfriend’s chest hair out during sex. It was only my second time ever and he put me on top. I was gripping his chest hair and afterwards he told me it hurt because I was holding on so hard. He thought it was funny but I died of embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:18 AM
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I don’t know if he’s a Chad. I think he’s very attractive. He’s 5’9”, 30 years old. He’s in pretty good shape, no visible abs but I like it that way. He’s from New Zealand so I really like his accent. I don’t know how much he makes but he’s been out of his electrician apprenticeship for a year. He’s very sweet to me. I don’t know if he’s taken anyone else’s virginity, I’ve never even thought to ask that. I’m sure he did years ago when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah, I told him before we did it a few days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:44 PM
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I’m no longer an adult virgin and I don’t know how to feel about it. I’m still sort of embarrassed to have sexual thoughts and desires. The hot Kiwi is coming over again this evening and he wants to take me to an adult store before we settle in for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:30 PM
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Yeah, a few days ago I told him I wanted to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:13 AM
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I’m probably losing my virginity within the hour and I’m terrified. The hot Kiwi is currently in the shower and I’m laying in my bed. My heart is pounding. He went to the grocery store before coming over and set the bag on my nightstand. I took a peek inside and it’s just a big box of condoms, lube, and a Gatorade. I almost threw up I’m so nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:10 AM
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I just had a stroke trying to read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:00 PM
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I absolutely hate it when I’m trying to read someone’s online comment and they type phrases like “den” instead of “then”, or “allat” instead of “all that.” Don’t even ask me what “ian” means. I can’t even understand it and it’s just such a sign of low intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:45 PM
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Pretty bummed to be spending another Halloween without friends, which means there is nothing to do. I even planned a costume before I realized I have nowhere to wear it. My old high school friends partied all weekend at their colleges. Even my younger siblings had more fun than me this weekend. I have no idea how I ended up this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:21 AM
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I think he cooks enough to survive. I’d probably do the cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:24 AM
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Things have been going great with the hot Kiwi electrician, but I think he wants to make me chubbier than I already am. He’s taken me out for ice cream and breakfast at a pancake place. Today he brought me a sandwich during my lunch break. I haven’t eaten this bad in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:02 AM
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My little lunch date with the 30 year old Kiwi electrician went very well. We talked for nearly two hours, and he snuck me a little kiss in the parking lot before we parted ways. Our conversation made me realize that I don’t really want to be a nurse. I only wanted to do it because it pays well. I don’t think I could stick people with needles all day and I hate blood. I feel so lost now. I don’t really know where to go from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:53 PM
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I’ve already decided I’m kissing him in front of the creep if I get a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:12 AM
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That picture is pretty damn close. But no, this dude is overweight and has thinning hair, and he’s in his early twenties. I’m getting uncomfortable just describing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:06 AM
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There is this guy in my one of my college classes who wants to be a chick. He’s always dressing like a girl and sometimes we have to interact for assignments and it’s just gross. He does things that creep me out big time. He has trans and lesbian pride stickers on his laptop and he stares at me a lot. It makes me so uncomfortable. I told a man I like who comes into my work regularly since we weren’t busy and we like to chat. He said he’d come walk me from my class to my car if it would make me f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:43 AM
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I fucking hate being an adult virgin with braces. They told me it would be two years of braces and it’s going to be three soon. I just want them to take them off, I don’t care that my teeth aren’t perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:57 AM
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I’m 20. It’s even worse because my state has an early college program where high schoolers can take college classes instead of high school for free. I feel like I’m in a weird age group here. There’s a lot of students in their 30s and a lot of teenagers. Most people my age have finished up an associate’s and transferred by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:44 PM
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Seeing nursing students who are younger than me (20) at the community college makes me want to kill myself because I feel so behind. But at the same time I’d be terrified if I were in the hospital and a 20 year old was my nurse administering medication and taking care of me. So maybe becoming a nurse at an older age is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:33 PM
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I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:59 PM
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Literally going to kill myself if I don’t have a baby in the next year with this guy who regularly comes to my work. He looks 35/36, he’s the perfect age for a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:54 PM
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I want to have a baby so bad 🥺 I need a boyfriend first. Our first date should be picking out baby clothes and blankets at Target.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:49 PM
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Sometimes I feel really guilty and embarrassed to have sexual thoughts or desires. Since I’m a little overweight, I feel like I’m not attractive enough to have those desires. It’s the same reason I don’t wear makeup or wear skirts or dresses. It would be like putting lipstick on a pig. I feel like I’m still a child. Sometimes I wish I had no sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:01 AM
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I’m absolutely obsessed with a man who comes into my workplace about twice a week. He’s from the south and unintentionally looks like a relic of the sixties and seventies. He’s so sweet to me and yesterday he called me beautiful. The only problem is I think he’s around 36/37 years old. I don’t really care though. I love it when he comes in. Maybe he’ll end up taking me out to dinner sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:26 AM
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It seems like everyone 18-30 uses it. I don’t understand. I’d rather spend my money on something useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:52 PM
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I just find it trashy and I’ve never liked the people who consume it. I want to be with someone who would rather spend their money on something more productive. It also fucking reeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:51 PM
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I think I’m going to die before finding an age-appropriate male companion who doesn’t smoke pot or consume cannabis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:28 PM
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God forbid you go to a golf course while learning how to play golf. After building up enough confidence on the driving range for a few weeks, I went out on the course today. A huge group teed off too early behind me and then harassed me for going too slow for them. I offered to let them pass and they didn’t want to. One of them apologized to me in the parking lot but I didn’t get to slow down and really practice the whole time I was playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:22 PM
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That’s exactly my point. I’m not shooting for traditionally hot guys. I like normal looking guys with normal jobs. There’s a chance one of them will fall in love with me and let me do all that weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:49 PM
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I don’t understand these threads saying that most women are sharing the “top tier” men. I want a man who is absolutely smitten with me and me only. I need him to be so obsessed with me he’ll let me breastfeed him and tie him up with fuzzy handcuffs and other weird shit like that. I don’t think Chad would let me do that to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:44 PM
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Down so bad I just dry humped my pillow for the first time in a year. Women can definitely get post nut clarity because I feel like a depraved pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:24 PM
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It’s white man or no man for me. That makes it harder, but I’m sure the hunt will pay off someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:14 PM
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5’4” 165 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:04 PM
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No, borderline underweight ranch hand is my fantasy. Maybe it’s my fantasy because it could be attainable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:00 PM
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I was just being dramatic. There’s probably one out there for me. He’s probably drinking his problems away at a Mexican restaurant bar after plumbing houses or fixing roofs all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:57 PM
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I’m sure I can find one around here somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:40 PM
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I’ve already lost a lot. I’ve hit a plateau and I’m trying to mentally treat myself gently now instead of giving myself a hard time for not losing any more. I’ve been trying to get the last little bit off, but it may be here for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:38 PM
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I like borderline underweight men 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:32 PM
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So do guys that like chubby girls only exist on Reddit or what. I’m going to die of lack-of-cowboy-boyfriend disease here soon. I may not be the thinnest, but I make good turkey sandwiches and give foot massages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:28 PM
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I love almost-underweight tradies aged 20-35. My parents had some framers come out to frame the second floor of the garage and I thought one of them was really cute. I made them sandwiches for lunch. I’m pretty sure you have to be a felon to become a framer, but they look like they know how to treat a woman well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:44 PM
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My mom is an Aussie, so I grew up watching footy on the weekends in the middle of the night with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:39 AM
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But then I’d have to live in a place where I can see my neighbors or even live in the same building as them and that’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:37 AM
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I’m in the States.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:32 AM
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I don’t understand Reddit’s obsession with “walkable cities.” I want to live far enough away from people that I HAVE to drive. I want to be cozy sipping Dutch Bros iced coffee in my hand-me-down Land Cruiser with heated seats, not on a bus with fentanyl addicts for four hours until I finally get to my destination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:26 AM
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Aussie rules, so… real football?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:50 AM
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When I go to the casino alone to bet on footy, it’s pathetic, but if I were to go with friends, it’s a social event. God I hate doing things alone. I feel like a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:00 AM
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I’m 20. We’re really close and I don’t want him to dislike whoever I end up with. I live with him and probably will be until I get married, and even then I’ll live within a couple minutes of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:15 PM
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I have a dirt bike and I just bought an old Nissan Patrol to restore with my dad. I like old 4WDs but honestly I’m afraid to talk about it because girls will call me a pick-me and guys will just shit on me for not knowing everything about it or having the “wrong” vehicle. I don’t have these interests to attract men, it’s just what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:21 PM
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If he’s chubby but otherwise attractive with interests that I like, I probably would. I’m chubby, not ugly, so I’d like a guy who is at least not ugly. A lot of the guys I find attractive aren’t very objectively attractive, but I just really like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:09 PM
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The only men who seem to like me are in the age demographic that I’m not allowed to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:01 PM
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I mean, no one IRL has shown that they want me, so why am I crazy for thinking no one likes me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:01 PM
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I live with him, and even if I didn’t I wouldn’t want to make him mad. I wouldn’t want to be with a man he doesn’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:59 PM
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I’m not really allowed to have the guys I want. My dad wouldn’t be very happy if I brought home a 38 year old tradesman, because those are typically the guys I see in public and fall in love with without speaking a word to. I’m sure those guys would want me, and I want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:32 PM
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Well, I’m too big for men my age. The older they get, the more pleasant they are to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:15 PM
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No, I haven’t started the process yet. But I know it’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:11 PM
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No one wants me yet, I guess. Maybe it’s because I’m a size ten. I’ll probably attract some sleazeball with a chubby redhead fetish, but as long as he loves me, that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:04 PM
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It’s possible to induce lactation by pumping and massaging the breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:01 PM
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When I get a boyfriend someday I want to breastfeed him but I’m afraid that will scare him off. But I’ll probably end up attracting some sort of pervert to begin with so maybe he’ll be really into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:55 PM
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No, but why would they? I’m a size ten/168 pounds at 5’4”, there’s plenty of prettier girls out there. I like old guys because they like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:09 AM
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My dad says I need to stop flirting with older guys, but I’m not flirting with them. They’re just the only guys who are nice to me. I never get compliments, so I can’t help but blush and giggle when a guy in his forties says he likes my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:02 AM
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I don’t have daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:57 PM
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Because maybe he’ll be more accepting of my appearance and he happy to have someone in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:55 PM
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Well then what are they about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:53 PM
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I love my dad. We don’t have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:29 PM
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I don’t have daddy issues. I have issues with people my age, and that’s why I want an older man. Especially since I’m a little chubby and more conservative and don’t have many friends. An older man could be more accepting and want me way more than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:49 PM
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What does my conservative upbringing have to do with this? And I think the right older guy will listen to me. If he’s an older conservative in my area he probably won’t have many options and will be with me. I think he’ll listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:47 PM
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35+ is my range. I just think an older guy would be much more comforting and accepting and accommodating than a guy my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:39 PM
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I’m trying to identify the reasons I want to be with an older guy. I think a lot of it is that I don’t want to be ignored, and I want someone to give me attention. I’m ignored by most people and they don’t listen to me or tolerate me. They’d rather pay attention to someone else and it makes me feel like I’m not good enough. But if an older guy were to listen to me I’d feel much more secure. I just want someone to care about what I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:35 PM
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They’re out there, but most of them are chasing the few attractive conservative girls, or putting up with a liberal because she’s hot. Maybe a guy who is a little bit older will appreciate me, because he’ll be closer to wanting marriage and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:03 PM
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Then maybe I’ll have a better chance of finding someone I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:00 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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I mean, I’m very open to it. It’s a fresh start with people my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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Because I’ll find a man who shares similar values, and maybe they’ll be a little bit older and appreciate me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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They look like they have interests that I don’t like, like anime and video games. A lot of them are just unkempt. I understand that it’s school and not some event, but they could put in a little more effort into not looking like a slob. Some of them are massively overweight. The ponytail and neckbeard combo doesn’t look good on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:44 PM
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I started my first community college class today and I think half of my classmates are high schoolers in an accelerated program. Most of the men an appropriate age for me are not very appealing. I’m making a profile on a conservative dating website tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:39 PM
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Sometimes I’m afraid to share my interests because I don’t want to get called a pick-me by women and shit on or condescendingly talked to by men. I don’t ride dirt bikes or have an interest in old 4WDs because I want the attention of men, it’s just what I like. But women will call me a pick-me. Some men will interrogate me about it and try to get me stuck in some “gotcha” situation. Or they say I know nothing and I’m not really into it. And shit on my vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:54 PM
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Is there a market for plain looking girls? I want a man to truly want me the way that men want hot girls. Maybe some men like girls that don’t get too much attention. Maybe men will have enough bad experiences with hot girls that they’ll date someone who is not hot? I wouldn’t know, I don’t get the chance to talk to men all that often. I’d just imagine that there’s gotta be a few men out there who really want a plain/not hot girl. I can’t turn myself into a hot girl, my facial structure does not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:56 AM
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I went to a community college open house/meet and greet type thing last night and it just destroyed my confidence. I don’t know how I’m supposed to compete with these girls. It’s so weird watching guys flirt with those girls because it has never happened to me, even when I put myself out there. They’re treated so much better by everyone. I don’t know what I’m missing. Maybe some guy later on will like the fact that I don’t get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:49 PM
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Oh, I agree, I think tradesmen are sexy. I was just joking around about the Applebees date part. I’ll probably end up with a tradie someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:50 AM
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It’s community college, so there probably won’t be very many people my age there. And they’re probably not exactly what I’m looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:26 AM
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I think I’m about to cave and get on a conservative dating site. Boy, I can’t wait until a recently divorced 40 year old welder named Dale/Wayne/Kyle with a Dodge Ram pickup takes me on a classy date to Applebees, maybe even Texas Roadhouse if we’re feeling extra fancy. It’ll be the night of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:12 AM
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I didn’t know what I wanted to do and figured it would be best to not get into debt without a plan. I worked and saved up instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:07 AM
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Yes, maybe in the future. I’m going to community college in a couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:31 AM
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I’m not in college so I don’t have those opportunities to meet people. As for my friends, I’m sure their college friends are better. They have more freedom to do what they want with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:54 AM
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My high school friends have been away at college for two years, and I don’t know how to explain the heartbreak of them forgetting about me. I make an effort to stay in touch but it seems like they’re having the times of their lives. It’s so hard to make connections here. I really want someone meaningful in my life who isn’t related to me. I just want to know what the touch of a man feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:46 AM
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Why is it cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:32 AM
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For some reason I find myself more attracted to losers of situations than the winners. When I imagine a guy who loses a fight or a big game, I want to be there and comfort them. I want to tell them it will be okay. They’re still great men and worthy of love. I want to make them feel better. Their ego needs to be stroked and I can do that. Maybe this says more about me. Maybe on a deeper level I want a loser because winners get to pick the prettiest girl they want, but a loser will take any girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:02 AM
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I don’t really have anyone meaningful in my life who I’m not related to. I’d really like a companion. There’s not a whole lot of people my age here and those that are here are in social groups that don’t like new people. I’m starting community college but there probably won’t be a whole lot of people my age there. I figure an older guy will probably be more welcoming to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:04 PM
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A man like that could probably solve my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:06 PM
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I need a slightly-sleazy, yet attractive 40-year-old man to come up behind me while I’m sitting at my vanity and passionately make out with me before telling me I’m special and there’s no one else out there like me. That would solve my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:48 PM
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I had my community college orientation yesterday and there were some cute guys there. I’m hoping that some of them will be in my classes. I’m really eager to be around people my age again. My problem is that I look at a guy once and start to plan our first date in my head. I’ve never been on a date so it’s fun to daydream about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:17 PM
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I should become a PassportGal and go find a hot Aussie husband in the outback to bring back home with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:16 PM
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I’m 20F and starting community college in the fall. I didn’t go to a big college because I don’t think I’m ready to be on my own yet. I’m worried that I’ll be too old to connect with people and make friends if I do transfer to a four-year later on. I’d be 22/23 going into school with a bunch of kids who were just in high school. Everyone looks like they’re having so much fun at the big schools and I’m afraid I’ll miss it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:27 PM
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How are people supposed to become not-strangers if I don’t talk to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:11 PM
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I live in a halfway rural/suburban area near a small city. I’m going to start community college either next month or in January, depending on if my application steps get done in time. I feel some anxiety starting college at my age. I’m already late and I’m worried I’ll run out of time to meet a man and have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:38 PM
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I go to the gym almost every day. I saved up enough to buy an old Nissan Patrol that I’ve been working on with my dad. I ride my dirt bike and take my Jeep off-roading. I’ve been learning how to do makeup but I never wear it out, I’m not good enough at it yet. I’m afraid I look like a “pick-me” girl that does activities that appeal to men, or be “one of the guys”. I’m not doing it for men, it’s just what I enjoy doing. Sometimes I’m afraid to talk about everything I do because I don’t want that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:14 PM
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I went to the county fair rodeo last night and I was hoping to maybe socialize with some people my age. I’m 20F, never had a boyfriend, and don’t have that many friends anymore. Groups of guys laugh me off, groups of girls don’t want to talk to me, and the girls in mixed-gender friend groups get defensive if they think the guys like me too much. I was wearing cowboy boots and one of the girls asked me if I even have a horse. No, I don’t, I don’t have enough money for one but I love everything ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:00 PM
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