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How come in movies if a woman leaves her husband and kids for another woman it’s this tragedy or wake-up call for the man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/22 05:17 PM
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Yeah, it's rare, but if he acts lv towards you there is no acting hv towards you. Being with a lvm is validating lv behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:00 AM
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Self reflection, like most guys I respect probably had personalities that made them isolated and gave them time to self reflect and not really care what other men think. So if you are dating an lvm and want him to change: leave him and never go back, then there is a 1% chance he’ll grow up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 10:45 PM
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Watch whe he writes essay after essay to a coworker who said hi to him once
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:06 PM
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She should just block him bc i wanna see that post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:58 PM
126

Men saw cats and were like “oh yeah we don’t stand a chance”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:31 PM
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ohh so men are just empty...i knew it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:26 PM
52

gone from “not having sex at all” to “only being into light spanking and ocasional choking while fully having sex” to be considered a prude thanks pornhub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:55 PM
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“If you’re so empathetic why can’t I exploit that for manipulation huh??”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:51 PM
23

I believe that bc of how loud they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:40 PM
16

Lmao...but like fr I’m kinda curious now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:35 PM
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Men can literally get away with anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:21 PM
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🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:10 AM
3

EWWWWWWWWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:45 PM
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This is gonna sound pretty airheaded on my part in retrospect so pls be nice But I was kinda thinking a general sense of shame, like if not from the action itself, shame from being caught, at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:05 PM
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He supported creepshots and called out feminists for going too far in doxxing the p*do mod of creepshots who...get this...was another mod of feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:14 AM
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Wait...the guy who said creepshots is okay is still mod? How? They literally have articles on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:10 AM
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Still love when libfems say “droptheL” as a joke against certain radfems. Like how could it be more transparent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:08 AM
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Ironic that a dating sub that’s predominantly heterosexual women trying to navigate male spaces and find male partners is seen as more extreme than blanket feminist subs. It’s bc this sub says men need to earn love and respect. Honestly it’s so stupid, feminist subs should be straight up advocating for separatism and fds should be the ones chiming in saying “men aren’t that bad they just need to stop being so entitled and dependent they can be fixed.” Seriously, right now it’s “men can do whatev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:44 AM
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Funny, neither of those exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:34 PM
3

I looked it up and it’s very traumatic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:58 AM
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Find a great girl and leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:53 AM
20

Put it this way if a mailbox has a lot of mail it’s a normal mailbox, if a piece of mail goes into a lot of mailboxes it’s spam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:04 AM
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no your role is to act like you disagree but continue to concede points to make them look more reasonable, which is coddling.
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/20 05:38 AM
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straight women respect us more than men, even gay men, and whoever hurt you she isnt worth coddling men. most female dating advice doesnt account for the reality that there’s a lot of predatory men, it gives advice that would be useful in a perfect gender equality world, also straight women should be allowed to vent about men without it being this huge political thing. just like straight men can vent about women.
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/20 02:21 AM
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Idk I can kinda understand by being “taken” by a dangerous guy but one who is in maximum security...once we start standing up for each other and always take other women’s side and build ourselves up I predict it would be way lower maybe only a couple weirdos here and there that write them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:30 AM
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It’s a call for help framed in a way that she won’t be the next “item” he breaks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:08 AM
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also too many young women watching porn these days too. it’s considered abnormal not to, so they wreck their young brains with info that makes them submissive to men. i see it on social media way too often, young lesbians even identify as top/bottom dom/sub now bc it’s being conditioned that someone is conquering another person and you have to love being conquered. it took me until recently to realize I’m not a “switch” I just have normal sex where two people make love with eachother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:15 AM
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I hate him so much, had a male coworker tell me he and his girlfriend were having their second kid and I was seething all day from hearing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:05 AM
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This may be hugely hypocritical but like I feel like a woman marrying a man just for the green card is okay but it really bothers me when a man does it. I have no idea why, maybe it’s like having a wife should be enough for a man but having a husband should come with certain benefits? Idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:58 AM
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Has a woman ever talked to her partner about going poly mid-relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:27 AM
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“Oh for sure” says the guy who wants us to believe he has a job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:16 AM
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Jesus, it has nothing to do with jealousy it has to do with someone right next to you, alone, frequently engaging in increasingly graphic material that dehumanizes you bc of your gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:36 PM
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I hate they pretend men don’t see women as a monolith, when you’re okay with sexually violent men they think all women are. Instead of attacking women against porn, attack men who hate radfems. Like seriously, stand up for women, all women, as individuals. Let a woman decide she’s against porn, let a woman decide she hates violent sexual imagery. Defend her, if you want to be “kinky” or whatever fine but stand up for women who are grossed out by it. That’s what men do, they’ll stick up for men t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:28 AM
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It’s all good ❤️, they took all the cool terms and left us with a porn category so I can’t blame anyone for making that assumption but don’t worry I’ve gone through hell to avoid having sex with men and never regretted it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:36 AM
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I mean like “lesbian” but I prefer saying gay or homosexual or even dyke over lesbian bc it makes me think of guys watching porn and yelling at me to kiss a woman to turn them on. I’m trying to use “lesbian” more often after I got banned off this sub once for saying I’m gay. Still rubs me the wrong way tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:25 AM
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I used to dream about it until I found out it’s like replacing the oppressiveness of the outside world with oppressiveness in your own home and bedroom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:22 AM
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idk it’s pretty amazing for me, if it’s bad I would just say “honey I’m definitely not gonna have the o can we just do something else” and we just go outside to burn off the energy instead Edit: I am a homosexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:01 PM
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Gay men have hookup apps, lesbians stereotypically move-in on the second date. There’s definitely lesbians, myself included, who are more open to sex on the first night but like it’s really rare and definitely not the main focus of the date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:19 AM
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Those look fun to make...like for me tho. I have it on good authority men can make sandwiches for themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:26 AM
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Why would he even need to talk to you? Couldn’t he just draw a girlfriend if that’s what he’s into?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:22 AM
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A man saw a hot pilot and thought “I’m gonna call her a dumbass” A pilot...you know how many organs women would give to have a hot woman pilot just to look in our direction and men just “hurdur I’m gonna tell you that you have no sense of humor if you don’t help me feel more secure about myself and how much I fail in life”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:17 AM
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Ok...you’re gonna have to tell me what that is Edit: looked it up...when I graduated high school weed was legal here and gay marriage was legal. Also parks and recreation was super popular and Netflix was on everyone’s phones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:52 AM
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a very common disease lmao no it’s straight and bi women, “women who love men”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:20 AM
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Well...my entire personality is made up of traits I copied off of cool women that haven’t been upended by even cooler women yet or been invalidated by pretty women...I spent my formative years in a religious household questioning my sexuality so i blame that for why I’m a shell of a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:06 AM
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I’ve never heard a man talk and thought “this is intellect”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:46 AM
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anyone who could see a woman that pretty shed a tear and not immediately change their whole personality and interests is a sociopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:33 AM
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This is definitely an issue 100% exclusive to wlm proudly in my mid twenties never knowing who joe rogan was until he endorsed bernie sanders last year then forgot about him until something about spotify
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:31 AM
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The jumping into a bed seems weird like a couch would be my first instinct even if I was drunk. Beds are mentally off limits to me idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:40 PM
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This is the most lesbian way I’ve ever seen lesbianism described I know what she technically means but that’s my first thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:55 AM
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2000s trash aesthetic the whole thing, her makeup, her bag just...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:46 AM
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lmao “looking for sex now but willing to hang out to pressure you into it over an extended period of time”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:59 PM
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“You’re too pretty to be gay” “Asian girls are so hot” “You wouldn’t have to be skinny for me” “You look 18”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:53 PM
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I agree so I know when to put my phone on dnd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:31 PM
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That’s hilarious though, like he walks around knowing he’s never gonna get laid all the time. I’ll think about him my next period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:02 PM
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the first one makes sense and not to sound too blunt but i find her just as attractive now as she was twenty years ago? she's just a beautiful woman so it's gonna be hard to find a picture that doesn't show that, so your first point makes sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:03 PM
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i know what you're saying, but imo there's not a single picture of her that isn't so so gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:39 PM
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Your orgasm is more important than his ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:01 AM
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I would block everything and go to private so fast...probably move to Kazakhstan, build a shed on my cousin’s ranch with a gym and come back five years later to beat him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:17 AM
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That’s fine and you can do whatever you want with your mouth, but I’ll die thinking it’s gross. And god forbid Justice Alito gets his way in my country I’ll proudly say it to the courts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:34 PM
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Thank you, and biased again, women are so beautiful like making love is like you’re touching her soul and releasing yours to her to melt into eachother as a single entity deprived of fear or loneliness glowing into the ether. Where like a dick in your mouth is just a bummer, but like technically yeah just consensual adults and whatever makes you happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:27 PM
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Are blowjobs normal? Like all I’m thinking is that can’t be a normal thing, I’m biased but like that seems gross and unnecessary to put that in your mouth. I just can’t get my head around it being so normal that the argument is about what happens after...and that’s another thing why would the cum be in your mouth in the first place? like this is a traumatic post like she already has it and the stuff in her mouth and now he’s mad that she’s spitting it out? Wtf is all this Just no, don’t put any …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:45 PM
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I feel like you have a sexual appetite and a desire for it to be fulfilled by a man, so I would say you’re not asexual at all. But def stop talking to anyone who says you can’t have satisfying sexual experiences unless you “fix yourself”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:30 PM
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Okay...so an idea and I’ve never had sex with a man so I could be way off base...what is the heterosexual opinion on like toys? Bc like I kinda found the type of dildo I feel most satisfied with after a few trials and errors. Coupled with other non-penetrative sexual stimulation it offers something fun a more of a “deep” orgasm. So I feel like men could do something like that, I don’t know if it would work exactly the same way since I’m sure they can’t detach and replace their unit but maybe lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:05 PM
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Isn’t that a uhh sex slave? Like your room and board is contingent on sexual availability?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:56 PM
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I can’t go on there bc they accused me of being abusive bc I wanted my then girlfriend to propose. Like they knew nothing about my relationship other than I wanted commitment and to be complimented more by my partner. So like they’re not very supportive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:41 PM
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Firstly same, and it hurts the most bc you feel the need to correct her behavior instead of just venting about how much of piece of shit she is. My ex was constantly putting me last, putting me down, unwilling to commit or support me, and weirdly despite my problems with women I’ve grown to love women more? Like honestly during my relationship I had male friends and you would think if you have “woman problems” they would be the obvious choice to confide in but it turns out women are far more sup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:38 PM
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Okay, I’ve always wondered why lesbians rarely say we’re “not like other girls” when quite frankly if anyone has more in common with straight men it would be us? It’s bc we’re not competing for male attention, and don’t care enough to convince men to treat us like people and not objects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:28 PM
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Had a friend break up with her boyfriend because she thought he was gay bc of this...so I was like “he kept ogling men?” and nope...weird stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:22 PM
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“Why Being Treated Like an Abused Dog and F****d like a Roll of Paper Towels Makes Me Feel Emotionally Fulfilled and Should be Excluded from the New Domestic Abuse Proposal” next week on Vice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:17 PM
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She’s paying him off so he keeps his abusive comments to himself, the second she doesn’t give him a cut it will be abuse and shaming from him and his friends so essentially extortion. I don’t agree with selling nudes online but I hate how men act like their the ones being “extorted” when they pay women for nudes while they control that entire industry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:25 PM
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Button meme with “woody allen has some of the most elegant, purposeful and aware scripts ever written” and “woody allen has no self control and should be blameless”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:20 PM
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Smiles like that aren’t “I’m so in love and excited” it’s “this can probably workout and I’m so relieved”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:17 PM
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Why would you stop at half aware?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:59 AM
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What’s weird is I know this is kinda a running joke but for real, I didn’t know it was a choice until I found out most my friends had no attraction to women sexually. Like it blew my mind, I know like we project our worldview onto other people but like Also bisexual erasure is real bc I know women who make out with women, even to get male attention, are not purely heterosexual i know straight women are more comfortable around women than straight men are around men but there is a line and that cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:56 AM
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i thought so too but for a different reason bc I was deeply suppressing my homosexuality, but then i was so relieved when i realized i never had to touch a man ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:47 AM
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Just wanted everyone to know, as a lesbian, I don’t have male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:00 AM
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They think the trained professionals surrounded by a crew and agents on a porn set is how sex is gonna happen. Like they’re not aware the woman is faking and the guy has like four suits against him. Sadly even women are getting more aggressive, like gotta push hands away from the neck in a way that doesn’t signal you want to top, no one should have to know how to do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:19 AM
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I don’t think I could date someone who starts to make fun of people when we go out for coffee, seems...embarrassing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:48 PM
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She’s gonna discover retinol cream in 5 years and he’ll be telling people how he thinks contacts are stupid because he could get an eye infection and how he doesn’t need to workout bc he drinks a protein shake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:45 PM
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I ask straight girls if the think a woman would ever say something like that during sex, like I’d walk right out if someone called me a whore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:37 PM
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This is just utter lack of respect for you and just straight intimidation, he finds it funny of course bc he’s projecting power over you. Just leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:29 PM
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Sometimes...like as women we tend to be economically at a disadvantage, as immigrants we have to start new in the united states a country, that yes has the wealth and opportunities here however, doesn’t always want us. Yet here I stare at a grown man, who took a woman to a laundromat, and she fucking enjoyed herself. This isn’t embarrassment for her, this is pure jealousy, I work my ass off to impress a woman oftentimes who I’m not entirely certain if she’s even gay, and if she is if I’m good en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:56 PM
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What does literally any of that mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:38 PM
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Why do men like being angry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:38 PM
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They can never just state their intentions. I’m still pissed everyone was making fun of that girl for texting “I have a boyfriend” when her lab partner just said “hi” Like fr he couldn’t just state “hey, just checking in to see what section you wanted to do” But no we’re all supposed to give the benefit of the doubt just in case the .0001% actually have a reason to talk but isn’t able to communicate normally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:37 PM
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Still she’s dating someone in a relationship with the explicit intent to have sex. Even if she does care for tomi, she doesn’t have healthy boundaries. And it really looks like she knew she could’ve put her in danger with her man and didn’t provide a way out. Also she dated her through the man, like she was borrowing her, this wasn’t a case of meeting her and falling in love. This was a “dude let me spend time with your gf and I’ll fuck you I swear” that’s so toxic. She’s lv for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:48 PM
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If you went on a date and she said she slept with someone’s girlfriend to make a point or dated someone in a relationship just to have sex, how likely would you want to go on a second date? Delilah makes the boys cry which is cool but she’s not hvw and should grow the fuck up before dating anyone in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:43 PM
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Idk in my experience a woman who’s only with you bc of something with her man usually goes back to that man. But honestly Delilah doesn’t seem to have emotions and just used her to compete with a man, so I’m sure she’ll be okay but if a woman told me she did something like this that’ll def be a red flag to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:40 PM
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Idk I just feel like we don’t need to support her but we don’t need to attack her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:57 PM
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Her friends are right, bc like 1. you shouldn’t be so desperate to suck dick 2. that you go to gamers for it 3. that you let them know you are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:46 PM
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Do men just not like hot women? Because that’s hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:14 AM
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No horse girls but wants face ridden 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:09 AM
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Because astrology and tarots aren’t real. It’s supernatural, it provides answers in moments of lacking clarity. It takes awareness and great self perception to be able to find application in the supernatural. Men lack those traits, they see it and go “it’s wrong so it’s not real” we see it and say “this helps clarify or put this aspect of myself and my life into greater perspective and focus.” We’re seeking self improvement and understanding constantly allowing us to pull some meaning out of any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:05 AM
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No one is surprised dogs are more loyal than men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:31 PM
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He couldn’t photoshop his god awful outfit color coordination?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:57 PM
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If a man got punched in the stomach, he’ll be able to go home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:01 PM
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Please look at her and look at him and then please explain to me how heterosexuality became the norm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:59 PM
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Sexism against men doesn’t exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:54 PM
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Gay men just use it as an excuse to call female bodies disgusting, they dont feel physically threatened like lesbians do. Like I hate being like this bc it feels wrong, but they always seem to jump in at any moment to encourage women fighting and call us gross and yell “are the straights ok” when straight women have the courage to be honest abt how they feel abt their husbands instead of being supportive. There’s some that are great, like all other men, the ones with careers and ability to empat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:01 AM
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Dildos come in all sorts of fun shapes and sizes and functions tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:51 PM
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I do love a man who trusts me with scissors 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:12 PM
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The entire lesbian/bi women community is treated like a woman in a toxic relationship by the others. Because precisely we are just that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:07 PM
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I’ll just say what I always think seeing these videos: hvw shouldn’t be straight, this could’ve made someone’s day and that’s what makes me upset about these things. Even non-romantically treat a friend in your life like this, just make women in your life feel loved and supported
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:24 AM
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You can use that $650 to buy the bag cover for your $3000 bag. Think sis! edit: damn they resell for 800$ now 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:05 AM
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Never been to Uzbekistan but can I assume if you are obviously from the West most ppl aren’t gonna care what religion you are like in Kazakhstan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:08 PM
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I’m Kazakh and we don’t but I never heard of it being frowned upon? It’s kinda weird yeah but not like you’re gonna get hate crimed or something. As I said it’s not encouraged but I’ve yet to ever see it discouraged. I’ve always seen it like the Amish or Hasidic Jews here in the US, weird but no one is gonna stop you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:05 PM
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Central Asians have burqas, I mean it’s not common but not discouraged I’ve at times have debated getting one purely for uv protection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:42 AM
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He’ll be emotionally dependent and will likely attempt to guilt you into staying with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:26 AM
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Commenting on the lesbian as a lesbian myself: have fun explaining that you’re pointlessly paying for your daughter’s dates with random dudes to your sexually and romantically unfulfilled SO who won’t feel at all like maybe you could’ve used the money to take her out and made her feel special The fact lesbianism is becoming more accepted right at the time of this total bs pisses me off, no woman should have to pay for a date she was asked to go on, and this is lvw behavior is gonna be ingrained …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:27 AM
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Would love to see how he would pull off Helen Mirren
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:55 PM
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“Unlike girls who wear a ton of makeup, I drive a pickup 😏” idk sounds more like I’m tryna top you than call you out edit: my hair is naturally black and I tried to dye it blonde help me out i hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:43 PM
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Quick point a friend of mine made that shows featuring kids (as in high school setting etc) always have grown ass characters (wise older siblings, cool clerks, drug dealers whatev) but like there’s no kids in shows with adult protagonists. In that if the main characters are in hs they’re treated equal to many adult characters where if a high schooler is in an adult centric show they’re seen as a kid. Because in a show geared towards adults they would for sure call that out. And I mean like adult…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:29 PM
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Definitely, I don’t think there’s an exact poll but a sizable number of us date women and many of us do so exclusively, this would be a straight women only sub if it was abt how to catch a man and not abt self care and finding beneficial relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:19 PM
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If a man ever asks me to cook for him, my body would just shut down and my consciousness would escape searching for the dimension it belongs to because even in my lowest expectations of men I could never have fathomed such audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:43 AM
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😔 ...no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:29 PM
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I was born in 1995 and will have my master’s degree next year, also I’m full lesbian so what now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:52 PM
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I’ve received exactly 0 from women and probably at least 10-15 from guys. I’m obnoxiously openly a lesbian. Also, if every man is honest they too probably have received more accidental pics from dudes than purposeful nudes from women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:47 PM
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It would legit be easier just to eat it yourself without having to say what you want every three seconds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:41 PM
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He’s gonna have body definition sometime real soon, he promises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:41 PM
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I see, if you had sex one you have to have sex with all, you see but also, and this is very important, you can’t have sex with anyone else. It’s simple really. But also no and post everything he texted to the girls so everyone knows to avoid him, he’s somehow managed to be entertaining enough to convince one to hang out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:23 AM
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First statement I was like I kinda agree, like as wlw I look at women all the time if I think they’re pretty. Not that we should “expect” it, but like I don’t think it’s bad necessarily. But oh no the last statement that’s really inappropriate I feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:55 AM
10

She made a male friend who’s actually like a friend, damn she’s incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:01 AM
81

One time I saw a beautiful man, like gorgeous face, and I couldn’t believe he didn’t just work out, like seriously that’s all he needed to do was fix his posture and workout but like he just doesn’t, it’s weird to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:14 AM
32

I dont think they are they just like control, they like watching men get beat up and women being fucked because it feeds into their dominance fantasy. Women are pretty for other women, usually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:11 AM
2

Ohhhh...hey are there any tv shows that feature absolutely no males?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:17 PM
3

The plus side is you’ll never get caught on a website that tells you what your kids will look like with a classmate who up until then probably had no idea who you were, totally covered it with a great lie and the rumors were around way before this so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:14 PM
4

wait what is it? was he supposed to fill something much earlier? I’m confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:18 PM
22

Men hate anything remotely threatening on a woman, pockets that can have knives or spray, nails, muscles, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:17 PM
4

I would recommend you avoid these men usually but I just wouldnt personally say they’re low value, it’s a situation where the ones who are healthy aren’t looking to date and the ones who are looking to date aren’t healthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:41 PM
3

I’ll take your word I’m not going back there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:35 PM
10

I dont know what that is but I’m weirdly jealous bc i swear i could get married and have sex right in front of people and they would still think the woman I was with is nothing more than my friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:30 PM
6

I had a straight guy ask me sex advice then he texted me a few weeks later about how he was jerking off thinking about me doing it so...don’t talk about sex with straight men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:24 PM
0

I feel like men with mental illnesses are better than “normal” men, for the same reason ppl who had acne growing up have the best skin as adults. Assuming they’re treating it, and have more insight into why they do things it extends beyond the typical “cure this” it’s a lifestyle of health maintenance. Edit: I should disclose i never dated a man, only talking about how every man who treated me normally, like not “a cool chick” or “one of the guys,” just friendly and attentive and never questione…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:17 PM
52

They think they’ll live longer by stealing years from women i believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:36 AM
15

What’s wrong with the latter ones? I love strong older demanding women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:32 AM
3

thank you! boys are so weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:59 PM
12

i legit dont except f**d
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:28 AM
13

what are the last thing he say mean? the c and s, it must mean something bad bc i can’t even say it on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:24 AM
3

She just...that thing you do with fruit when you make jam but the fruit is pickmeisha philosophy and that liquid is this tweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:21 AM
6

Why can’t she be her tho? What does she know that everyone else should?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:15 AM
22

I think men are just narcissistic, I’m gay and never tried to eat myself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:11 AM
58

Being completely honest, I never understood what the battle is with stretch marks theyre just there, it’s not ugly or beautiful in my wlw opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:00 AM
7

:( oh no, i was thinking he didnt have any pictures of women’s faces bc he’d have to pay a lot more if they are gonna be seen w him but i feel maybe it’s a possibility that is could be so the courts dont have concrete evidence he’s ever met them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:09 AM
35

Yet still continued to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:25 AM
72

All tryna get that 15 year old girl they couldn’t get when they were 15
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:22 AM
17

No, no, please dont tell me that he’s had sex w a woman, or is dating a real woman,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:20 AM
2

Yeah like fr that only kinda works if we already like the person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:16 AM
2

😊 more lesbians need to be on here tbh feel like we need to prioritize our shared womanhood over our sexual minority status bc i sadly see so many lesbians attack other women in support of gay men or even 🤢 straight men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:36 PM
5

I mean try it, just be honest you’re not 100%, it’s not a completely foreign concept for us that someone isn’t so sure. I think a big thing is there’s more to attraction than wanting sex, so there’s women who slept with women and still weren’t sure bc they just did a hook up without the full experience, it’s frustrating how encouraged dating men is and how looking for a connection with a man is normalized but with women it’s not, for some reason we’re told we have to feel it right away. Only adv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:43 PM
11

Im not a therapist or you, and can’t tell you for certain what you feel or what words you should use to describe those feelings. So take this w a grain of salt: that sounds gay af lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:32 PM
4

I should share that it wasn’t bc I’m butch or ppl assumed I was gay, ppl are always shocked by it still in this year 2020. I’m just horny a lot more than the average woman, so if you don’t know for sure it doesn’t mean you should assume your anything or feel bad that you don’t know, you probably just haven’t had the interest in exploring it until recently which is honestly most non-straight women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:25 PM
11

Yes ma’am encourage that feeling!! Actually fr idk how to help i always knew i was gay, i lost my virginity to a woman I never been w a man. Honestly my confused stage was more “as I doing this bc i hate my parents or bc i actually like women” However many women who came out said the first sign was they thought women were objectively more attractive to men, which leads to wishing they were lesbians to realizing they’re probably already lesbians
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:33 PM
20

Aesthetically they’re kinda meh it’s the wanting to put that in my area that makes me cringe and need a blanket. something about the ability to feel inside me and get more pleasure from MY vagina than I do really creeps me tf out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:12 PM
77

Despite a child literally being harmed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:48 PM
79

I’m literally a homosexual, so seeing a dick ruins my whole day. I’m not a fan of women sending me nudes though either but the difference is they don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:35 PM
1

They should do this for other women, edit: unless the woman is their partner then it’s almost as unhealthy. to avoid loopholes here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:23 PM
6

i feel like it would go back to what it was regardless of frequency of penetration, all a dildo would do is get her used to the size mentally and give her a private space to explore her options
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:40 PM
7

I feel like if you don’t feel like being penetrated then tell him to stick with oral and hand stuff, idk how men work tbh but if he’s someone who does care abt your orgasm I really feel you should just be able to let him know that it’s going to ruin the whole experience. Again i don’t know how important penetration is to straight sex but in my life only 1 out of every 4 or so of my sexual encounters involve penetration, i love it i just don’t want it every time bc I’m just not feeling it most of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:19 PM
48

that’s valid, men demand a consensus that doesnt exist bc we all like what we like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:28 PM
26

I’d say cum before insertion for anyone, a clitoral orgasm heightens the sensitivity of the vagina and it feels like... having a cramp..untied ig...it feels incredible i used to hate penetration bc my ex would start off with the strap and end with oral so I’m glad my most recent partner walked me through a new way of doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:27 PM
17

Feel like yeah she should just text “leave his ass” and block them both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:18 PM
96

strong woman who knows what she likes but im kinda interested in knowing what her cute butch friend likes 😏 yeah i know she’s just a cartoon 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:15 PM
1

That never works for me, men will just send nudes before they tell you how you know them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:57 AM
7

Sis...please don’t google it, I envy you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:11 AM
9

9 and 10 cant relate 😔 but yeah even as a woman who dates women exclusively men have tried to pressure me into sex, sending nudes, get drunk, get high, make out with my girlfriend, have sex in front of them, get me to sexualize other women in grotesque ways that even though i do find women, even straight women sorry, sexually appealing to me and have fantasies it’s nothing like how they want me to talk about women for some reason. And I don’t carry around two cans of pepper spray bc I’m scared h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:07 AM
3

True, I think mine is only going to ever consider beginning a relationship with me if I find the perfect girlfriend who never makes me sad and is with me for long enough I can convince my mom she's good for me, otherwise she'll view continue to view me haram and choosing a life of pain. Or if I find any boyfriend like literally any random dude she'll be ecstatic but Robert Pattinson looks like he sells weed at a gas station now so that's never going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:49 PM
35

Lol sometimes I forget, I'll correct it: Yet they demand so much from women when all that they really need to be satisfied is the existence of a chicken sandwich from mcdonalds somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:18 PM
5

Sorry, and I think it's really cool you can maintain a good relationship with your mom and respect her enough to take her seriously, I didn't mean to assume otherwise that was disrespectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:12 PM
7

I’m talking about my mom, sorry if I offended yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:03 PM
184

Yet they demand so much from women when all that they really need to be satisfied is the existence of vagina somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:38 PM
15

"you can talk to him but first try to find out why porn bothers you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:54 AM
5

I would say yes but if you don’t respect a woman rejecting you on the basis of looks, you can’t be. Looks are important to some women but keep in mind you’re probably not as unattractive as you think you are. Women, despite the accusations placed against us, have extremely personal and diverse tastes. It’s obvious if you see the many different male body types as Hollywood leads, and why there’s just so many subcultures of lesbians. You’re probably attractive to a few women
/r/askFDS02/09/20 03:41 AM
10

resisting my entire attachment issues lesbian being not to offer myself...master’s in geology, financial independence, equal relationship workload, one queen rules two queens conquer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:16 AM
4

She’s gorgeous but she broke my heart when I found out Keri Lewis was a man 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:07 PM
2

I know multidating isn’t sleeping around, I just don’t want the major difference to be reduced to “men want sex and women want to settle down” bc it’s deeper than that, I’m sorry I sort of implied that you were “sleeping around” by not ever addressing that it’s not the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:05 PM
4

Thank you :) I didn't even consider that! Women are to be pursued, men pursue. It makes more sense for multiple pursuers to attempt to impress you than having a man pursue many women. No one should trust a man who pursues many women, that's suspect as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:26 AM
0

Exactly! And personally I even think women sleep around is more okay than men doing it, not that I encourage validating random men like that. I think when dating a woman they need to prove themselves as well. So like a man trying to prove himself to multiple women makes no sense, where multiple men proving themselves to a woman makes sense. As I date women I don't multi-date and was always like "are straights okay?" when I saw women doing it with men but getting mad at men who did it, until I ed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:11 PM
23

If it’s for the same reason which 9/10 times it’s not. They’re building a rotation with so they don’t have to settle down where women tend to do it to find someone to settle down with. Also women who just want to sleep around usually just say that outright where men tend to lie abt just wanting that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:47 PM
1

Yes!! Absolutely women are like absolutely better in every way and I’m happy to see anyone who could go either prioritize dating women! That’s much rarer than I feel it should be like when I have bad breakups and dish w my straight friends and they share their bad breakup stories it makes me feel extremely privileged. To me it’s always important to not take yelling personally if it’s from a woman, we don’t yell to create fear we yell bc we don’t feel respected or heard. So having her yell at me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:46 PM
17

Men have such a hard time understanding the difference btwn plural dating men and plural dating women, it’s gotten to the point where I just “bc fuck you that’s why,” bc I’m tired of explaining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:33 PM
2

Sorry to hear that :( And we eventually went into a cvs to buy some but she was completely not at fault, if we both left our stuff it would be a different story of being both forgetting things but I was prepared for me and I didn’t consider her. It’s one thing to forget something but another to not consider it at all, so I was low value but learned from it. And I don’t think it’s pissy to expect your partner to consider you constantly, if it’s not like you want a 10k watch or something and are t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:56 AM
3

Im not saying this particular male is lv, he looks well dressed, he’s pretty attractive, in shape and his clothes look expensive and current just he’s being praised for the wrong thing here. You should take that for granted, and your ex didn’t impress you other men disappointed you imo. I agree that it’s for brownie points, and I really feel like I’m getting downvoted bc i dont give guys leeway when they’re not gross looking, as I’m fortunately not attracted to them. I by no means am against hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:07 AM
3

damn i should grow a dick so women will praise me for something that’s just expected of me right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:39 PM
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it’s the implication that this is more than the bare requirement of human decency edit: for real, if i went to my other lesbian friends and said “she’s so sweet she let me wear her sweater, etc” they would think something is wrong bc im over romanticizing basic human empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:54 PM
-1

he’s showing off to other women who might not know better bc all the men they been with wouldnt even do this, if she had flip flops no one would know he did anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:40 PM
32

despite my issues with my ex, she always brought tennis shoes when i wore heels when I forgot to and always had like extra sweaters, facial wipes, sanitizer and tissues on hand. What’s sad is this is a woman who literally could care less abt me and my feelings which is why I’m single and she still had like basics on hand for anyone, i feel lesbians should teach men ground level human decency ffs this is pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:36 PM
2

this is real encouragement to level up! we need more stories like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:12 AM
4

I got this: Stop sexualizing female abusers Stop making jokes about how you wish she was your teacher Stop encouraging pickmes who crave an entire nation of men telling her how hot she is and how they wish she was their teacher Stop giving pickmes attention in general Encourage women to find validation from other women and not rely on men for attention These aren't women looking for sex, they're pickmes looking for attention by giving newsanchors a chance to indulge their hot teacher fantasies f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:32 PM
15

every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:34 AM
3

Valid, older women are attractive, they're wise, cultured, talented, and know how to have a conversation. Older men are egotistical, entitled, whereas older women have learned from their youth, older men have missed opportunities they regret. Older women would date younger women they respect and can teach and learn from, to give wisdom while still improving themselves. Older men see you as that one girl that hit on him when he was 21 and was oblivious to, realizing a few years later he could've …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:56 PM
5

stalker with a foot fetish glad she leveled up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:42 PM
75

yeah like the guy is still alive which is a huge bummer...i hope im allowed to say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:41 PM
1

I’m not gonna lie, I’ve had days I just spend hours touching myself like I make a whole day of it and I read like a romance novel (several bc it takes a while to find a lesbian novel not clearly written by a dude) or sometimes I watch like a movie w an actress I find very attractive and picture my life with that character, idk if that’s healthy but like you know, maybe I should stop idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:27 PM
13

oh no girl, you just offered yourself to fragile men who don't want to pay for therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:04 PM
13

stop spending money on men, give the watch to one of your female friends as a just because gift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:47 PM
2

honestly the only thing i would want is it to be "normal" like i wish women would assume they could be into women until proven otherwise bc like i genuinely believe, even tho it's not perfect, wlw couples communicate healthier on average, and also i notice lesbians who had sex with a man are more traumatized by that experience than straight women who had sex with a woman are. idk, i could be projecting what a better world for me personally would be but like yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:35 PM
57

why dont men have like personality? they always seem hollow, women are full rounded human beings that have so much to share and so many ideas and interests, i never understood what's stopping men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:23 PM
38

ignore her but still always take her side against a man, always, even if she wont do the same back or is the biggest pickme ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:18 PM
15

Imagine if instead he said this to those “boys” instead of using a legitimate complaint as a soapbox to get attention from women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:28 PM
36

and in case there’s lurkers here, it’s a dating subreddit for women, there’s gay women here too like myself, it’s not all complaining abt men it’s being honest with who you want as a partner and refusing to settle for less, and if men have an issue being laughed at when they attempt to get with a woman despite being nothing close to what she wants...just self analyze idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:39 AM
40

it’s her top video by far which means she’ll probably be more focused on this topic attracting angry men like flies and when she realizes her role is to validate male anger and they dont actually respect her opinions on equality especially if she ever criticizes misogynistic subreddits, she’ll be here in secret to vent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:35 AM
3

😞 oh i thought it was some new lesbian dating site, but yeah I hate online dating it’s either girls who think a gf will solve all their problems and don’t do anything to improve and spend all day watching tv, or girls who just want to hook up but don’t want to admit that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:57 AM
0

👀 what’s OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:54 AM
20

if you dont have an intention to make a woman have an orgasm, dont have sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:25 PM
4

You have such a diverse talent for painting! It’s a space that contributes to humanity now instead of a space for consumption and time wasting, it’s really beautiful to see!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:18 PM
-1

i dont like when women give men head :( i get it if that’s your thing I respect but it just makes me sad when I hear about it. So tell him you can’t give anything in return bc it will hurt an internet stranger’s feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:03 PM
9

bc they used to be “nice girls” frustrated that they werent getting laid so they started acting like assholes and mistook straight girls being nice out of awkwardness with being a bit interested and possibly able to be turned feeding into an unending ego loop edit: and theyre great if you never want to be called back after putting out the first night and referred to as “some crazy straight girl” when you actually thought you were going on an actual date sometime and then stand up for yourself af…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:44 PM
16

w all due respect, how would women make love to eachother wo oral?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:19 PM
67

swear half this sub is trying to bait me into proselytizing lesbianism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:50 AM
20

“what an aggressively confident woman who wants me out of all girls swoon” -me every time 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:53 AM
11

He let his friend cheat before the wedding? Glad you dropped that pos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:00 PM
5

when you mindlessly swing around a baseball bat you also hit yourself sometimes, we need to work together to eliminate baseball bats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:48 PM
47

Also he’s lying for validation from women that won’t make him look like a “simp” to his bros The amount of times men brag abt sexual conquests to me and eachother (while in relationships) and how many of my friends bfs have asked for sex thinking they can lmk they see me a sex object but still respect the “bro code” and not immediately snitch bc I’m gay is appalling He lets his boy cheat and when the gf suspects something he tells her they got her back bc she makes them food that’s what is actua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:23 PM
11

I’m so sorry you had to deal w this clown and glad to see you never will again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:12 AM
46

eww he shut down your accomplishments real fast to plan a date, why does he want to go on a date if he doesnt want to talk to you in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:47 AM
1

exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:12 AM
3

I’m in LA and number 2 is kinda accurate hah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:42 PM
6

I don't take that as a dig! I'm definitely in therapy and have committed myself to being single for a year! Also, I do appreciate you taking the time tho, I understand I don't have it as bad as heterosexual/bisexual women in relationships so I feel bad asking advice (like I legit never felt scared of a partner or taken advantage by them just hurt and frustrated emotionally) I 'd love a woman who takes care of me but also respects that I have more to offer than just being her girlfriend, and I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:03 PM
7

dang it, i really want to be more adult, because i noticed a trend in my relationships that i'm always submissive and i do love powerful women but like i also like being treated like a woman and not a child. i dont know if my unresolved issues with my parents and like over dependency on the person im dating is kinda putting me in a situation where i'm not respected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:50 PM
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that’s where I hear, personally, the tea tho, being the weird probably gay (totally gay) girl back then paid off but the girls didn’t want to hear it most of the time unless they were already mad at a boy, but i agree if you’re dating someone always snitch to their friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:58 AM
10

everyone be honest, is me not having a driver’s license impeding my ability to attract a hv girlfriend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:53 AM
86

proudly been snitching to the girls since 6th grade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:41 AM
12

everytime a man says something like this every queer woman on the planet involuntarily rolls our eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:10 AM
5

but ultimately we're not better, like girls are swooning today over king princess worshiping their pussy and aisha not cheating on them in the club like we can do soo much better it's a big frustration with the fact a woman can literally say "i'm toxic and will complicate your life, and will probably never leave it and you have to act cool when you constantly see me after our relationship ends disastrously" and even my stupid ass will still go "omg i think she likes me!!" bc we don't have a lot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:31 PM
51

An actual attention grabbing sexy song would be like a tall soft butch singing about how she wants to move to the countryside with me, but the mainstream feminists aren't ready for that :( like she's a city girl who has only ever dreamt of leaving the city but somehow also knows how to ride horses and archery, that's pretty hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:35 PM
15

being a lesbian hasn't stopped men from trying, so im not sure pretending to be married will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:19 PM
4

they love a challenge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:19 AM
47

I hope that’s mocking and not a threat tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:57 PM
3

I wouldn’t know ig when I see a gaggle of men I dart in the other direction as fast as I can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:48 AM
3

This isn't even personal lol. Proudly never dated, had sex with, or been attracted (ok well robert pattinson can have a chance to convert me) to men. This is me as an outside observer informing you, men are really insecure. The HVM are just better at using it as motivation to improve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:36 AM
9

he shouldn't rely on his dick for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:27 AM
6

I hate that isn't common knowledge, like absolutely lucked out with being gay bc I would be so pissed all the time if I didn't get a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm during sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:26 AM
39

I have a list but you're not gonna like it: Is a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:06 AM
6

I would just say "it's your life, dear stranger"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:05 AM
4

lmao!! the men on r/menwritingwomen when the conversation goes off the author and onto the culture that produced the author
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:28 PM
16

"women," "goals," "dreams"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:07 PM
2

I mean, I can't really risk getting evicted, I'm sure someone will let me stay with them but like with a lot of lay offs and uncertainty no one seems to be willing to take in a new person, but idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:24 AM
2

Facts. But like my company went out to Benihana for some fucked up reason, I didnt want to go but then I couldnt be a part of the meeting :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:36 AM
1

Burner app if you live in the US? Or maybe you're not so i would see if you maybe have an app like that. Super useful when a guy calls the number he forced out of you which is a thing they love to do for some reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:32 AM
16

Women: "i just want a nice girl who texts me back :)" Men: "here's my 8 page list on how a woman should be if she wants my cheese crusted veiny skin stick"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:06 AM
3

I would never date a woman if I was living with my parents rn in my 20s, and I'm gay so the rules of what's acceptable are way more lenient and yeah that would be a definite I have better things to worry about than a relationship if I'm at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:23 PM
4

If you live by yourself, then yes. But for what it's worth for anyone else imo if you didn't live by yourself I would say no, but please be aware that means you should take it more slow as the next obvious move would be to move in together from living with roommates. Also if it gets to the point where you are thinking of moving in together, please make sure he can afford to live on his own. As in, he's not living with roommate bc he's unable to afford a place otherwise but bc he's saving or inve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:20 PM
61

why is this picture is telling me i cant leave until i make out with my date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:12 PM
3

any female youtuber recommendations? i also like want to do woodworking, i want to gift birdhouses to my friends, that would be fun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:56 PM
2

haha it's not that bad, i'm just you know bad breakup and hearing anything that reminds me that i was dumped for a man hurts but i know what a philips head is now so i'm going to be like the coolest girl in all of la county
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:53 PM
3

I want to join like a beginners course for home repair, and honestly I would call it butch? Idk this thread is the first time I've seen handy used and like i know what it means but also it sounds too sexual for my innocent sensibilities idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:23 PM
67

damn he's a keeper, you can tell bc the girls who he walked, like one would a dog, kept him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:18 PM
16

That's so cool you know things about tools...i legit didnt know there were different kinds of screwdrivers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:13 PM
9

imagine having so much disrespect for your girlfriend you purposefully ignore the obvious popular joke format of what she was saying to maintain the belief she is stupid and tell the world about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:02 PM
1

If true that's the only thing anyone should be outraged about, and now im more upset ppl feel for Depp more than a woman. However, I feel like she was paid by Depp to say that. Plus, Amber Heard has constantly been falsely accused of being abusive by men, she was arrested for hitting he ex-wife at an airport and even her ex said that it was just men trying to assume power over her. Which makes sense bc Amber Heard is absolutely stunning and seeing her with a woman would piss some ppl off includi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:36 PM
3

Amber Heard just knows how to stand up for herself. Depp knew he was recording so he switched to the calm man just trying not to get hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:31 PM
1

all i learned is being horny must be my default mindset bc when i'm out of it or exhausted im v horny, so that's prob not healthy but idk what to do abt that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:21 PM
1

how does that work? exercise makes me so much more horny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:32 AM
4

the idea she was thinking about you while making it but was really proud of what she accomplished and couldnt resist eating most of it herself before anyone got a chance, that's just some 10/10 cute gf energy but honestly it's a desert better unprofessionally made bc like i love it soggy and when you buy it. it's like "perfect" texture and not a fan personally...so i agree pretty hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:26 AM
3

men want a top but not willing to be topped smdh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:06 AM
20

It is! My ex used to be sooo sweet when we started dating. She would smile as I told her about my degree, my thoughts on astrology, she made me feel so heard, and she would hold me tight when we took the train downtown when guys were around, i felt so safe and loved when she was with me like the world around me just melted away. Then when we started having sex, she would hit me and make me gag and I kept begging for more bc i liked it and she started to get more controlling outside of our relati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:39 AM
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Finding pleasure in abuse and degradation is a mental illness that i unfortunately suffer. Associating intimacy with women as being hurt is a product to homophobic attacks and allowing it to happen is satisfying my partner's pent up frustration with women for the same reason. It's a different response to the same reality and it takes work to get over it. I used to think it was okay until I noticed that gay women older than me were more likely to be into bdsm than gay women younger than me. It re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:26 AM
11

it's your mind trying to purge him like when you start a new skin care regiment and you breakout bc it's purging the pollution and bacteria from your pores
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:02 AM
3

that is not to say it couldnt be a jealous white pickme. i just think it's more plausible that the mob wants to give off the impression russian women want to be and take pride in being courted by westerners than some jealous russian girl going on a rampage against vietnamese women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:50 AM
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Vietnamese women are trafficked into the US, East Asia and Europe and in LA itself there's a lot of Vietnamese message places even in Ktown. I took a look and there's a lot of Vietnam Bride sites. I'm not a journalist but I feel like someone should look into that. All I know is the mafia is very good at social media and very interested in talking about how great russia and russian women are. So if I see someone praising anything russia I immediately think it's either the kremlin, the mob, or bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:43 AM
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probably mafia social media campaign to increase demand for russian and ukrainian women tbh. fucked up but hey, it gets more fucked up. i knew a lot russian girls adopted by american families growing up and like i know they were kidnapped and sold to the us by the mafia in the 90s but like i dont want to tell them that ​ edit for more background: it's also this completely ignored reality of how much russians and other ex-Soviets in the us are victims to the mafia, financially or even violently i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:36 AM
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i dont think this is a woman, however this is a problem in russia. My family is Kazakh from Vladistok, Russia. Russia is a huge country with a history of race-mixing that disgusted western Europeans (fun fact Belarus means "white Russia" as Europeans viewed them as actual Russians as opposed to the "Asiatic barbarians of the East") Russia has many native ethnic groups that can fit comfortably into two Western racial groups of "White" and "Asian" There is still a sort of desire, tho fading with t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:26 AM
18

idk i feel like making a tiramisu and eating it right away is really a cute thing to do tho lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:06 AM
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omg hope you fled!! men get freaked out when they see i dont shave my armpits lmaooo even had a man on the train tell me that it's only hot on white girls and asians need surgery to remove hair....i did nothing to initiate this except wear a loose tshirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:57 PM
12

i'm sorry if this is a bad way to think but i hate seeing HVW being straight this would have made some girl's entire life right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:53 PM
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thank god im 26. also older women are fucking gorgeous honestly my preferred age for dating is 35-50, but also older women tend not to date younger women so idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:19 PM
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i'm just not interested rn in wasting time entertaining a fantasy men perpetuate as a "gotcha" to keep women from discussing our safety. if it actually does happen, men can work on that themselves. we don't have a norm of abusing men we need to address amongst ourselves or a responsibility to empathize with men when women are in need of help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:37 PM
23

women can't always leave their abusers or are so emotionally strained they dont feel the need to until they snap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:00 PM
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also i dont know if this is the right thing to say, and i tend to keep this deep in the back of my head. women hitting men is usually her getting fed up with his bs, and is never life threatening. i would get it if she legit has a psychotic disorder and obtains a weapon but there's already a system in place to handle extreme cases like that which don't involve a man needing to flee his residence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:35 PM
3

from one female attracted person to another dude...if she has abs you compromise everything else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:28 PM
9

This shouldn't be in "seeking advice" this should be in "audacity of scrotes" that's all i have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:22 PM
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women need to support women, he can start his own shit if he wants to help men out. women have no responsibility to help men, especially considering the massive wealth gap men are more than capable of helping eachother. every cent a woman donates should help women first and foremost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:18 PM
9

wow. attempting to take advantage of a desperate woman in need of a place to live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:12 PM
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yes! this place really helped me understand that's what it was! like i know it doesnt compare to some of the much more severe abuse, and my mom has hit me and kicked me out so like being a victim of that and hearing some really bad stories here, makes like my relationship issues seem petty, but no one here ever let me think like that. it doesnt matter that the issues were just my gf made promises on my behalf to other ppl, would bring up arguments i thought were resolved up again but in front of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:56 PM
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connecting and helping women in a cultural sense, i've always supported women's healthcare and political rights but never in a cultural sense of supporting women everywhere at all times understanding the layers of abuse and manipulation, which is helpful bc i date women so i honestly didnt know a lot of my relationships in the past were abusive and maintained friendships with exes without a second though bc i viewed abuse as physical and sexual. i viewed manipulation as gaslighting, never though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:52 AM
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i genuinely believe it's worth the time and effort to help women grow up no matter where they found themselves. like sometimes they'll personally hurt you and you need to take a mental break (great thing about women, breaks are always an option) but ultimately i feel we should find out how we can raise up these women without having them getting hurt first and providing first aid. prevention ig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:43 AM
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Lesbians take note of this!!! This is by far the thing i hate most abt our community the "we can still be friends, we can still live together, we can still sleep together, we can still hang out, we're not like those straight couples that hate eachother" bs. It's a fucking plague, she's not mature, she wants you as an option if she can't find someone better ​ Also who the fuck emails you abt personal shit, the second you need to block an email address is the second you need to file a restraining …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:05 AM
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She definitely has something personal going on. I think when we approach pickmes it's important to remember women have redeeming qualities and we need to look at what's going on that's influencing this behavior and remind them that they're born queens. Idk, ive just been thinking how many homophobic attacks and bs women have put me through, even moreso than men, and why i continue to believe women are better and it's bc women can be redeemed, where men can't or won't try. Like this old classmate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:25 PM
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theyre not much better imho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:22 PM
28

this is beyond disgusting... i want to hit his face with a pan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:05 PM
8

being single is the best and i'm saying this as a proud homosexual woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:02 PM
4

pls ma'am i'm too femme and have not one drop of top energy to handle this absolute audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:42 PM
11

"he smells so nice" = "he smells like parmesan and oak"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:21 PM
3

holy shit she's bi :))))) not like i have a shot but i don't not have a shot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:39 PM
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the technology and products exist to look this angelic and badass yet men still look and smell like they took a shower in parmesan cheese, im v sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:42 PM
56

why am i so gay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:36 PM
50

he's sexist. he hates when women tell him what to do. that's all. like everyone bickers when we're upset, but he admits he has a history of saying no for some reason. like once in a while sure but having a pattern means he thinks it's somehow immoral for him to help. he's not tired, it's an extreme political statement to the point even other men think he's being ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:33 PM
27

did he buy the restaurant before this proposal or like what's happening?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:17 PM
83

damn i was born too late for electric chairs, too early for male extinction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:41 AM
5

who's that woman is in the "say anything" pictures, she's so beautiful 😍😍 and yeah hollywood is toxic men pushing and normalizing toxic men to young developing minds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:38 AM
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The only time a woman should propose is to the woman she wants to spend eternity with imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:32 PM
4

Pissed, women will propose to men but not me like wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:33 PM
8

if men have pickmes around don't hangout with them is my only advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:30 PM
31

A good note for the "not like other girls" camp: If youre the only girl in a group or place you'll find out why soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:25 PM
12

there is none, but sometimes girls try to be the "cool gf" and enable this. it's the reason us lesbians dont use tinder anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:59 PM
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you need to move!! like i want to go on about men sucking but tbqh i've had male roommates in the past and no one has ever hit on me. i thought they were gross but they seemed to leave the women they lived with alone at least. this is a toxic environment and i have a hunch amy is in on it too. look out for yourself, find new roommates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:43 PM
31

not the ones actual lesbians make (not encouraging it,) just uncomfortable straight girls touching each other, so i can see why he would think we would want men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:20 PM
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i want to look it up but i believe we even have more orgasms with masturbation as well, but yeah more than one straight friend have told me they've never had an orgasm before, also they dont talk about sex as much as we do either, like they talk about guys but not like how we talk about women. i used to think this was bc sexualizing women was more accepted but now i kinda think it's bc straight women have found a way to express sexual desires in the only way they have any satisfaction (ie valida…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:09 PM
10

jealous of all the future gays in northern ireland who get to see those goddesses in the history books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:03 PM
53

ugly guys use their ugliness as justification for their sick desires and misogyny, whereas attractive men are just more honest to themselves about it. which honestly just makes them a different kinds of dangerous, the violent tantrum vs the self aware psychopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:50 PM
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it's like those "owns" where she goes "i have a boyfriend" but it turns out the guy was just trying to do their project like yeah maybe start off by saying what you need to about the project wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:47 PM
7

i assume they see my thin frame as flexible, but by far the most common comment i get from men is something about being slender and bendable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:34 PM
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Fucking hell why is it always asians?? Like seriously, i fucking hate all the "bendy" comments I get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:47 PM
15

men who seek women are suspicious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:43 PM
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Damn same, there were already rumors going around so i stared straight into the locker after gym and raced out of there, honestly hated straight people until like recently, girls like 5 years younger than me are way more okay with it. Also ngl im kinda more sexual than most girls (opressive muslim upbringing ig) so like i never denied it just tried to avoid it or change the topic, idk why i guess my logic was if anyone wanted to do anything i wanted them to know i was totally down, did not work …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:25 PM
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i remember this book i was reading and her ofc "sassy gay friend" bc 90s lesbians needed one to get laid, but like yeah he was all like "youre not afraid of making her uncomfortable youre afraid of rejection and homophobia" or somthing i dont entirely remember or what book it was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:57 PM
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the world is about to end yet still men only think about sex like lmaoo that's low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:52 PM
15

i will pray for you sweetie <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:05 PM
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straight women in my experience seem more flattered than uncomfortable which makes me uncomfortable bc theyll always like continually reinforce a crush that cant happen until it's part of my personality for like that month or so. ​ but it could also be that I'm very easy to read which is part of the problem, so like maybe it's not that they arent uncomfortable just they can clearly tell way before hand that i like them and then the ones who find it validating encourage it until i say or do somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:09 PM
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he is, men always get turned off when they discover more about our genitalia, like it makes me think homosexuality in men is higher than they claim bc honestly i have a vagina, and am very aware of all the fluids and parts that come with it and never once not go down on a woman im with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:31 PM
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I love this sub!! even as a gay woman bc like this is an obvious dream I have but like can't share it outside this sub, like obviously I wish all women were attracted to women, I feel like any lesbian who says she doesn't is lying, but if we said that out loud pickmes will be mad lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:05 PM
1

I don't but like, I feel like I'm too timid and try to act "cool" and that attracts women who think they can treat me like an after thought as long as they know the right thing to say, being more comfortable with loneliness is making me stronger tho i feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:57 PM
7

Omfg! I love women so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:39 PM
24

My future tall hot butch girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:03 AM
28

Ewww women in porn don’t make you feel desired and loved and safe like real women do, fucking straight guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:53 AM
39

then leave him heartbroken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:51 AM
20

In high school I had a crush on a girl and she was straight and a little pick me but I loved how dominant she was in making herself heard even though she was laughed at and just took it to be the “cool chick.” I saw her true self in the absence of men and I pones so hard for her. She got more aggressive with her opinions and started playing soccer her senior year and one time she told me she didn’t want to be the girl that guys liked but the girl that girls admired (she didn’t know I was like cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:39 AM
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men sexualize wlw bc they cant comprehend how beautiful women are and the women who see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:10 AM
5

im attracted to women sexually and have yet to see a woman who i didn’t find hot posted on this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:33 PM
20

thinking travel is escorting shows he’s lvm it means he’s both not adventurous enough to go out there or important enough to be called out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:23 PM
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gross hope he gets a heart attack from inactivity and she has life insurance on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:17 PM
12

i just want to point out how objectively hot every woman who tell you to dump him is and everyone should take note
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:16 PM
18

dont want a bf and this makes me question if i even want a gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:14 PM
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She would’ve gave him different instructions if he was colorblind to accommodate it, she’s not a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:07 AM
78

he looks like that and still thinks he can fuck up? 🤢 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:06 AM
15

I’m scared
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:41 AM
43

I bet my entire paycheck he talks about Europe on the first date and learns nothing about you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:32 AM
3

Okay I need this sub bc the only difference between me and a pickme is who I find attractive, bc she could tell me anything and do anything to me and I’ll be honored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:27 AM
4

Would anyone consider different if the target is women? Like I feel like sexualizing myself in a somewhat degrading way gives her confidence to uhhh top (sorry) but if it’s all around dehumanizing to all of us I will think of different ways to do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:21 AM
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Didn’t notice this was a mirror and became overly excited at what I thought was the confirmation, that heterosexuality in women didn’t exist and we’ll all be openly gay and happy, I’ve been waiting for since 15 I will be self reflecting on why later when I’m trying to sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:40 AM
37

As someone people would describe as a “homosexual” I’m frustrated that a lot of men get to see the most beautiful sight on earth that is the naked female body then just cum and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:04 AM
91

It sounds like if you said you were hungry and he was like “me too” then went to get food, and when he comes back with food he asks “where are you planning on going to get food?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:47 AM
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If you have to ask, he was being inconsiderate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:20 AM
43

My mom still doesn’t get why I’d rather have a woman clinging to me and whispering my name after sex as opposed to being murdered by man after sex but hey my dad picked her ig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:44 PM
2

There’s not a single picture of her that doesnt make me swoon tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:28 PM
35

I grew up Muslim so even tho I was the youngest i was the only girl so i had to do all the chores around while my brothers did jack shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:32 PM
2

👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:09 PM
4

This is a hate crime, any man who’s looking to have sex with women knows West Hollywood is not their best bet. There’s no way he didn’t know that when targeting that area
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:39 AM
2

stop i blushing 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:31 AM
37

imagine a queen loving, cherishing and supporting you while you boss up to her level 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:55 PM
10

Why would income be more important than looks on a hookup app tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:22 PM
14

😞 i know, you dont become a queen by wasting your time with a girl like me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:16 PM
17

Idk if she’s signaling to men or she’s trying to meet queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:37 PM
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Don’t know if I want to be her or be with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:27 PM
2

It’s really hard to, I’m hoping to find a genuine feminist, preferably lesbian, therapist but my insurance only covers so many. I think abstaining long enough from any sexual thought would help me begin to see a woman as beautiful for who she is and not what she can do to me. Most antiporn books seem geared towards men so if anyone has good sites or literature I would love to check it out I am sorry for bringing this to the sub, I’m here to bash on lvm but I also want to level up and love that t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:54 AM
2

I’ve convinced myself, and had those beliefs reinforced, that being abused is pleasurable. When I fantasize it’s usually having a woman spit on me and take her aggression out on me. Sometimes I try to hit my cervix to feel used and uncared for 😔 sorry if tmi but therapists these days encourage it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:12 AM
2

It’s bad when your therapist tells you it’s healthy to view yourself as someone to be spat on and hit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 11:45 PM
1

Like just stop all sexual activity? Or just stop watching it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 11:21 PM
1

Is it centered for women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 08:32 PM
7

Porn has definitely damaged my brain 😔 how do I reverse it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:17 PM
89

yet he still thinks he has a right to touch a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:00 PM
5

I was gonna say they just need the right women in their lives but i realized that’s wrong and I need to level up from my lesbian version of a pickme, If they can change they’ll do it on their own I’m not the “right woman” who can “show them the way”/“fix them”. I’m just justifying my fascination to a woman who needs to level up that stems ultimately from my attraction to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:31 PM
28

she’ll turn around, she just needs to discover her worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 02:26 AM
3

That’s also not how you’re supposed to do it, he wants to crush her windpipe. A thing why my girlfriend, who is bi, says she’ll only let women do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:55 AM
26

Errrghhh how has a veiny infectious stick that sneezes out bleached mucus convinced so many attractive and otherwise intelligent women to submit???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:15 PM
2

But you’re not requiring all women do that and blaming these queens who refuse to for why lvm cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:24 PM
3

Why is a woman that attractive reducing herself like this to babysit low value scrotes who’ll just treat her like shit and cheat anyway???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:20 PM
7

Question: why do men say they’ve had a stunted childhood or have had trouble dating in their youth as a justification for wanting younger girls when lesbians legit have had like real childhood problems and trouble dating, due to rampant homophobia and misogyny, and don’t case after young girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:49 PM
34

What’s really fucked up is this was in West Berlin during the Cold War and neither East Germany or the Soviet Union ever propaganda’d the shit out of this Implying both sides saw nothing as extremely wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:47 AM
21

No bb not a tattoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:10 AM
2

Marrying just for organ harvesting, somehow men have found something worse than marrying just for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:01 AM
86

Women are superior in every way. Facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:24 PM
5

Nope I’ve yet to meet a real one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:44 PM
12

My straight friend’s “porn-free” boyfriend sent me a video of a girl deep throating another girl’s strap on unsolicited
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:32 PM
38

I just wanna ⚾️🦇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:00 PM
22

It’s called emotional abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:58 PM
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Imagine holding a man’s hand while he goes through the “struggle” of erectile dysfunction only for him to cheat when you get cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:56 PM
5

Absolutely not, just petty over something personal but he’s definitely cheating and should be divorced and destitute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 06:12 PM
18

Men are even super demanding of other men, and I get attacked and called controlling bc I don’t want me or my gf to hang out with men anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:10 PM
3

I don’t wanna fight but like I could’ve said “not to sound too gay” but that would only work if everyone knew I was, in fact, super into exclusively having sex w women. I felt this was quick, implied I wasn’t straight, and felt less like an attack and more advice from a lesbian You as a heterosexual (presumably) queen need to know youre not your attraction to men. You are a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:07 PM
25

Needs to be just blank checks tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:15 AM
30

I wanted the disgust to come off as a me problem to make my point less attacking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:02 AM
14

No more getting off your throne to kneel to a garbage bin ladies!! Keep those legs relaxed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:21 AM
14

Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:02 AM
83

Getting myself into shape, attention isn’t worth giving up my throne 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:00 AM
757

im sorry but dick cannot be that good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:36 PM
48

Funny how men think theyre the ones who get to decide who is “alpha” lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:20 PM
4

And the pickmes, wlm who want to impress their bfs, wlw who want to be “just like one of the guys,” and girls like me, too horny and desperate to care that some scrotes are jacking off to stories about me 🤮 i feel like everyone on this sub feels i have some sort of superpower or that I’ve achieved the ultimate goal. But being a queen is work for all of us and I hope with enough work I can be a no nonsense lesbian queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:05 PM
37

It’s the 5% who can afford it that are the worst offenders on average imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:50 PM
8

I will continue to believe this until there’s information where it’s proven he happens to have a background in psychology and developmental health, and honestly I would feel much better if he did it for a tv show or a blog or something at least we would know his motivation is attention which is far better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:49 PM
10

Oh believe me, you’d still have to deal with men, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:58 PM
5

Only girls can say “bruh” bc that means she’s gonna top...usually. Guys only say it when they’re trying to do the text equivalent of when the put their arm on the wall over you making it physically hard to escape the convo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:48 AM
19

Just tell him straight up he’s ugly and if he doesn’t leave you alone you’ll talk to HR, and if HR won’t do anything, tell HR you’ll file for a restraining order against him. They’ll be nervous you’ll have that on record if you choose to sue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:38 AM
9

Entitled. That’s it. Pure entitlement. Try the reverse sometime or better yet: say yes and ghost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:34 AM
13

My ex-gf called this the “lesbian angel myth” where frustrated wlm project onto us who they think they would be without the attraction to men and requirement to deal with them. Truth is most of us are just as vulnerable, yearning and sexual as the next girl and it often leads to situations where you sexualize yourself to men bc a cute girl told you you’re pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:56 AM
17

I personally don’t like my sexuality questioned, I’m femme and get hit on by guys a lot who try to tell me I’m not gay and it’s v frustrating, like 25% why I’m here. Never had sex with a man in my life, and it’s definitely not because they’re hard to catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:38 AM
18

Im legit not attracted to men, I just used to not care about the male gaze until men started harassing me and my gf more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:43 PM
7

I can’t know it’s stupid logic until I say it out loud and feel ashamed and thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:56 PM
-4

but...she’s 😔 pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:11 PM
15

barely leveled up tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:16 PM
9

This is going to sound messed up but whenever i dont feel like eating or feel like purging, i think about guys who call me bendy. And also realizing the girls who compliment me aren’t into me, they’re into the guys that come around them when they hangout with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:25 PM
70

“thought twice” hwlp i swooning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:07 PM
1

Gay men are just as bad as straight men, misogyny isn’t about sex it’s about entitlement. It’s a lesson I continue to forget until my interactions with them force me to immediately relearn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:04 PM
38

Men are trash. This is disgusting 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:00 PM
5

Deep vaginal cramping that you would say or do any stupid thing to relieve But ultimately it can be controlled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:59 PM
7

No entitled creeper vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:34 PM
40

That’s so gross, and I bet that same scrote uses lack of women is space sciences as evidence that men are smarter and more scientific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:27 PM
2

I’m so sorry that happened to you 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:58 AM
44

The interest on our side is there, their’s needs to go thru a huge culture shift on theirs The question should be “will men ever accept women as people” whatever the answer is to that, is the answer to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:27 AM
2

Misled is all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:36 AM
4

Whooo the fuuuck would want more of whatever the fuck that is on this planet that has waterfalls and Yosemite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:05 AM
9

How?? They’re both so pretty and should build themselves up instead of tearing themselves down for a cheater
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:04 AM
30

70 yo man wants a young sugar mommy is the sign men can’t be fixed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:20 AM
54

I agree women look way better but for gay reasons tho Although straight young dudes have been taking interest in older women so oldboy needs to evaluate his self worth a little more and be thankful he’s not alone jerking it while she’s off with a 20-something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:16 AM
67

It’s weird how like a chubby man takes like 6 months of regular running and girls start taking an interest in him but like there’s so many able-body men who just don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:55 AM
75

Name one thing in the universe men haven’t tried to fuck, even abstract concepts. Economic prosperity for working women? Men fucked it. The environment? Men fucked it. Some random sheep in Iowa? Men...you get the picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:19 AM
10

Point and laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:15 PM
119

Self aware and unwilling to change, nothing new under the sun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:07 AM
22

women’s standards should be much higher not enough rejects in this world imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:20 PM
13

Yeah, and I like it when it makes fun of straight guys being homophobic but it’s been devolving into attacking straight girls for not wanting shitty guys or guys they find unattractive hitting on them, complete bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:23 PM
15

Another lesbian accused me of pining for straight girls bc i said it’s okay to make jokes about men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:18 PM
13

ewww what a fucking ego on this scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:34 AM
18

and not to get “sexual” (aparently) but straight girls ability to express themselves and their preferences in men is way more important than constantly coddling men’s insecurities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:26 AM
3

any man who doesn’t have an iPhone goes off about their phone in my experience and I’m bad at a reading men so they take my taking them at face value for wanting to escalate this phone talk to sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:10 AM
29

Mostly gay/bi men (i would assume) who shocked side with straight men at every opportunity to tell a woman to shut up and she isn’t funny Idk what her deal is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:32 AM
24

Mostly yeah but they show up amongst us too...somehow like i can kinda understand why straight girls do it but this girl like how
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:29 AM
6

It goes from “cool a guy friend” to “he’s gonna talk about his phone and somehow make it about fucking me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:24 AM
48

My straight friends tell me it’s a fun performance that their partners happen to enjoy, if he stops making it fun for her, he shouldn’t really be surprised that she decides to leave him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:19 AM
21

Not to be this girl but I hate seeing green on iMessage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:10 AM
3

Beautiful 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:40 AM
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