adlibitum Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	The new poster campaign on campus They are all about preventing male-on-female vaginal rape. That is their singular issue and they have license from the administration to talk to every male on campus. In fact, every male is required to talk to them or they don't receive grades first semester. My group was all female ~1992, and is now gender-neutral (but actually only has one male), talks about all kinds of things (it's your responsibility to communicate boundaries! homosexual assaults! female-on-male assaults! these are the memb…	/r/MensRights	23/08/12 01:39 AM
8	The new poster campaign on campus This is why I volunteer with the gender-neutral sexual assault awareness group on my campus, instead of the women's rape prevention group (well, okay, all the members are male, but they only address heterosexual male-on-female vaginal rape). Words matter.	/r/MensRights	22/08/12 04:50 PM
3	Judge William Adams beats daughter for using the internet : videos Fuck. This. Judge. [cross post from r/videos] Yes. Many black kids, many asian kids, many indian kids...and many white kids, too. It's less racial than you think. In America, there's a pretty strong correlation with education level (and then income level) of parents. In other cultures (East Asian and Indian, for example), it's more pervasive.	/r/MensRights	02/11/11 07:22 AM
7	Judge William Adams beats daughter for using the internet : videos Fuck. This. Judge. [cross post from r/videos] Also intent. A spanking is intended to discipline a child when they have shown repeated resistance to understanding that there are negative consequences of their actions. A beating is intended to bring a victim (of any age) into submission, to establish a power dynamic, and to express the abuser's rage.	/r/MensRights	02/11/11 07:19 AM
6	Family law judge beats own daughter for using the internet, please spread (this video will absolutely make you sick) Denying that victims of emotional abuse act in irrational and often horrible ways out of terror from their own abuse is not standing up for men's rights, it is standing against those who have themselves been abused.	/r/MensRights	02/11/11 07:15 AM
1	"The basic difference between men and women is that as we get older, our erotic capital wanes. Men’s erotic capital – providing they achieve power and success – only grows." Depending on how the man ages. If he fattens, balds, or stoops, he's definitely reducing his "erotic capital".	/r/MensRights	03/10/11 03:28 AM
0	Mens rea, a reason to give more credibility to the story of the accused than the accuser in rape accusations? I don't understand what's keeping an accused perpetrator from saying that they honestly and completely believed that the concerned party consented, since polygraphs aren't admissible in court.	/r/MensRights	11/09/11 04:00 AM
13	Register-her.com hitting the mark - listing false rape accusers at top of Google returns Except...just because a woman's case was thrown out of court doesn't mean that the accused was innocent. Like, that's the whole point of our justice system. We're supposed to err on the side of caution, right? And accept that a certain number of lawbreakers will go free, but it's better for all involved because if the standard for conviction is higher, we respect those convictions more? Right? There is absolutely no way to guarantee that these cases are all false accusations, just that there was…	/r/MensRights	09/09/11 02:28 AM
5	Front page right now: woman asking reddit if she was raped. Decideds yes. Just as a note, and I know that I'm guaranteed to be hated around here, but I work with girls who are sexually assaulted and I just want to say that I have never met one who didn't question it in some way. It's part of trying to regain control--thinking that this happened because you did something, not because someone took complete control away from you and ignored that you didn't want this. Even if you guys want to say that 60% of the girls I help are falsely accusing their rapists (which is st…	/r/MensRights	05/09/11 11:51 PM
5	6%: Please Learn to Math- I am surprised. I thought this side was men's issues for women or appropriation but this was unexpected. There also needs to be a way to distinguish between rapes that are reported and convictions sought. Police discourage women from pursuing convictions in cases that are old, lack physical evidence, have no eyewitnesses, etc., because "he-said-she-said" cases are are notoriously difficult to prosecute. They're also just absurdly emotionally taxing on victims who were actually assaulted, but have to face the reality that there's just not enough evidence for them to get justice, and so they watch th…	/r/MensRights	11/07/11 06:01 PM
5	6%: Please Learn to Math- I am surprised. I thought this side was men's issues for women or appropriation but this was unexpected. As a woman who was actually really raped, I wish I'd known that the odds were more in my favor than against it. Even the police told me that my odds of getting a conviction were low enough that they didn't recommend pursuing it.	/r/MensRights	11/07/11 04:16 PM
23	The "joys" of being a single dad, thank you feminists [true] [xpost from F7U12] Women are evil bitches who steal your money--men are evil rapists who molest your children. The Muslims want to kill everybody, the Mexicans have something to do with drugs, the Americans will invade you eventually (or set up a dictatorship), the blacks will all wind up in jail, the Indians want your job, the Asians...well, fuck, they eat dogs. And yet, if you speak out for any one demographic, you're making a mountain out of a molehill and need to get your head down.	/r/MensRights	13/04/11 02:23 AM
10	The "joys" of being a single dad, thank you feminists [true] [xpost from F7U12] My comment was specifically in response to the "thank you feminists" thing, because I interpreted it as the feminist was on a rage instead of feminists paint all men as predators.	/r/MensRights	13/04/11 01:44 AM
49	The "joys" of being a single dad, thank you feminists [true] [xpost from F7U12] Is this a feminist thing or a dumbass thing? When I was younger, two different men did this when my dad and I were on daddy/daughter dates, but no women did...	/r/MensRights	13/04/11 01:31 AM