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Everyone will have at least a bit of traits from each section, acknowledge them and work on them. This is well thought out and well written. Wish it existed 10 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/21 08:13 AM
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If we all mentored 1-2 boys the same way, society will be in a much better shape within a generation or 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 07:11 AM
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The book is a good read. Recommend you get to it asap.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 10:19 AM
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Great idea sir. Many thanks. May I ask how you aggregate these links?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 03:28 AM
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Basically nobody wants Christmas cakes after the 25th
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 04:01 AM
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Magnesium is very important to actin function. Also, ATP hydrolysis by many kinases use magnesium to coordinate and bind ATP and the water for hydrolysis to the active site.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 03:29 AM
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Fellow molecular biologist, I salute the work you've done here.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 08:36 AM
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80/20 Herbs are the bottom 20 of the 80. Not as common as people outside of Japan think. AWALT. Source: worked in Japan and gamed the SMP to good success.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 01:14 PM
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Find something you want get really good in and do it. The failure and suffering along the way will help you grow and you'll get a skill along the way.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:23 AM
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If you have a source to back that up, I'd be interested to read more.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:58 AM
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She's manipulating you with her tears. Hold frame. You know you can do better.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:47 AM
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Sidebar recommends 5x5 stronglifts to start. Youtube to learn form. Worked for me. No More Mr Nice Guy for books if you need it.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 06:36 AM
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You need the gym. Not books.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:36 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Briffault#Briffault.27s_Law
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:15 PM
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Not OP, but in a similar glut. Thanks for the advice. I'll keep at it.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:11 AM
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I'd like to hear more about your opinions of Singapore and HK and what you think the current trajectory is.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 11:41 AM
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Search asktrp. This has already been answered before.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 01:51 PM
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Generally about 14 days from 1st day of period is ovulation. They stay fertile for 1 week after. If you are fucking her right, she'd be clamouring to get on your dick as often as she can during this week.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 10:53 AM
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You gotta try harder to keep your dick outta them to make it to the friend zone.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 02:33 AM
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Read up on Kino escalation ladder. Point in that article is that you should always escalate as far as possible and as quickly as SHE is comfortable. Don't try too hard to rationalize with her (talk to her), women respond better to emotions. Show her what you want, through your actions and gauge her based on her response. Whether she is marriage material or not is determined by YOUR standards. That is your frame, think about it clearly and be strict with her on it. If she doesn't meet them, insid…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 06:10 AM
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How do you get so many of them? What work do you do in Japan?
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:40 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement. I'm in a bit of a slump right now. Really appreciate it.
/r/seduction05/02/16 03:08 AM
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I'm however 28. So pretty late to the party.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:14 AM
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You are a real inspiration. I'll keep working on myself. Fellow 5'11 160 Asian.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:22 AM
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Law 24: Play the Perfect Courtier The perfect courtier thrives in a world where everything revolves around power and political dexterity. He has mastered the art of indirection; he flatters, yields to superiors, and asserts power over others in the most oblique and graceful manner. Learn and apply the laws of courtier-ship and there will be no limit to how far you can rise in the court. In the past the court garnered around the ruler, and had many functions: Besides keeping the ruler amused, it …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:46 PM
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Other than "The Prince", what else can I read about being machiavellan?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 02:15 AM
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If you are doing something and the results don't show, rather than to give up, why not find out what's wrong with that you are doing? This doesn't just apply to lifting, it applies to all aspects to your life. Think of life as a series of experiments. You have to keep trying new methods till you get your life right. That's just how it is. Every little step towards a better you helps, so let the small but continuous improvement encourage you. Unless you are getting worse, even times where progres…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:04 PM
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Lifting and improving your appearance is most important for you now. People treat each other based on impressions of each other. If your appearance shows that you are 'lowest of the low', you will be treated as such. Also, improving your appearance will help improve your confidence and this becomes a virtuous cycle which will improve your life. To help you along, the sidebar has many books which I recommend you read. For fashion and social attitudes, I'd start by observing successful guys near y…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:01 AM
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Basically Otaku, Hikikimori types.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:15 AM
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You are right about Super Saiyan Alphas. They are also the reason why there's a small but supposedly growing population of MGTOWs here. Because they feel that can't live up to the Super Saiyan Alpha ideal and opt out of the game altogether. On infidelity, yes you are right about just keeping discreet. It goes for both man and woman.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:10 AM
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It depends on where you are. Remember that Japan has quite a large suburb and rural populace. Even in the larger cities, depending on where you hang out, the ratios differ widely. Overall, I think it is still 20/80. Just that the 20 and 80 are very segregated in all senses of the word.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:08 AM
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A Japanese alpha comes in 2 main forms: 1) Yakuza/ Gangster dark triad types. Buff, Tattooed, rich, literally armed and dangerous You don't see them unless you know where to find them. I suggest avoiding them at all costs anyway. 2) The all-round high status male having most or all of these traits. Good education (Tokyo/Waseda/Kyoto university grads), Mutlilingual, well-travelled, Charismatic, Mid to high management job at large Japanese conglomerate (Toyota, Sony, etc) Well-connected, Well-off …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:17 PM
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How old are you? Is there anything you don't like about your circumstances?
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:35 PM
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I live in Japan. These stats are lies for ladies. There is a very strong unspoken culture amongst the youth to 'graduate' from virginity by end of high school. The 'you aint truly an adult till you lose your V'. University girls here ride the serial monogamy CC. The gap here between the alphas and the betas and omegas are huge. Could be true for guys though, due to very strong porn and 'fleshlight' industry here. You can literally buy porn comics and stuff in a 7-11 5 minutes from your place.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 10:54 AM
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What's the source? Change it if you can. Otherwise, come to terms with it if you can't change it.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 10:48 AM
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Also could be a test to see if you were judgemental about casual sex.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 10:36 AM
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She was telling me that one girl on the bus was ridiculing her for not sleeping with anyone during the trip, and that she slept with half the bus and " HAD clamidhia". She might not have meant it literally about the std btw. She's trying to make to make herself look good. Would I trust her? Hell-no. Odds are she is the girl that slept with half the bus and that now she's trying to "change for the better". Traveling alone to find themselves is a red flag and you know it.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:05 AM
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Red flags were there. You made the right move. No point investing in a girl who doesn't invest back.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:00 AM
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Thank you. I've been bothered for a long time by this. I need to come to terns with this and put in the hard work to screen for women with as low a n-count as possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 01:57 AM
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Really needed this. Was getting too into TRP and spending all my time judging everything through red pill lenses. I ended up like your brother taking things too seriously. What do you say is a good balance to TRP in our lives?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 01:48 AM
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You can get good at things. You just need practice. Don't defeat yourself. Ironic as it may seem, women only have interest in men who can live well without them.
/r/seduction18/01/16 05:31 AM
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It is how it is. You gotta try on clothes before you buy them right? Everyone in their right mind does it, you do it too. So why be so judgemental? I'd only reject a girl if she's been sleeping around a lot. How much is a lot depends on you. But having several partners before you means she knows what she's looking for and she's looking for it. Having a lot of partners means she's just addicted to sex.
/r/seduction18/01/16 03:12 AM
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There's the same 80/20 split here. The top guys lift, are well dressed and slay pussy. Just AWALT. AMALT.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:10 AM
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Stayed here for a year. Non Asian guys have it damn easy here. The girls are all DTF, they just hide it due to societal culture. Most of them 'graduate from virginity' (local phrase) in high school or University. How good they are in bed varies widely.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:08 AM
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For me, language classes, volunteering and group sports. I just talk to them, mostly by asking why and when they started doing what we're doing.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:38 AM
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If she's really into you, lead her to work on spicing up the bedroom. That's important if you are into LTR and marriage
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:48 AM
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What do you think will happen with the invention of an artificial womb? I'm seriously curious. As a scientist, I'm actually very interested to invent one.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 07:39 AM
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Why would you trust a woman? She could have done tons of things with the money.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 09:04 AM
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You shouldn't have given her the money to begin with.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:40 AM
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Never give anything for free. To man or woman. It signals low value from you.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:31 AM
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Sell it if it can further your mission or is hindering you from accomplishing your personal mission. Otherwise, leave it alone. Learning some self-discipline to deal with temptations is better than flat out avoiding it.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:23 AM
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You are an inspiration sir. I will aim to be as successful as you are.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:06 AM
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I think you can learn a lot, not just her banter but also take some tips from her style of confidence.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:55 AM
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They resent you getting ahead in life.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:13 PM
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I have hobbies like yours and they used to dominate my time. Now, they still get a slice of my time but I have gone on to using my time for stuff that is more value-adding. If you are looking to replace those hobbies, I'd suggest hobbies that would make good conversation topics with a wider audience, as that will grow your social circle and improve your odds with women. Note that you shouldn't do a hobby to impress women (women-friendly), but rather to entertain yourself while building your own …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:10 PM
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Great advice. Not OP but similar and will take your advice and work on it. I wish I was half as fluent when drunk.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:56 AM
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Thanks for the succinct and concise advice. I'll give it a try next month or so, got other girls I wanna hit up in the coming weeks.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:43 AM
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Firstly, Thanks for th detailed reply. My thoughts are about improving my game and not tailoring to a single woman. I used to over invest and do so quickly, so this time I made sure to be late to show that I was busy and I only paid for the bottle of wine and spices because I wanted to make (and improve on my recipe) spiced wine. Whole date costs me less than $15. Time used probably was worth more, especially since I didn't close. I'll work on having a smooth kino escalation pathway that I can c…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:42 AM
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Dang. I could have even just asked her to pass me the spices on the table. I need to stave off passivity in the girl as far as possible right?
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:28 PM
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Final question, should I next her? Or try again after I've tried a few other girls?
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:27 PM
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I guess I failed in keeping the conversation funny, I guess I got nervous after getting her to my place. Mulled wine was my idea after she said she had a boring Christmas. I need to get some dance classes, she mentioned dancing and I wanted to seize the moment, but realise I have no idea how to dance. I need to practice how to kino more naturally.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:38 PM
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Thank you sir. You have taught us so much.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 10:48 AM
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Joking or teasing, got it. Will try it next time. Just emerging recently from social isolation to improve myself (lifting, getting life in order, dressing and grooming), abundance mentality is still a long way to go for to me (any tips on this?) I get numbers, approach and get dates easily. But I have been failing to go beyond hugging. Getting a HB7 girl to my place is a first.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:34 AM
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I regret to report the lack of kino. There was some hand touching and teasing in the cafe, but I didn't kino her on the way back (didn't know how to make the kino look natural), should I have just grabbed her hand and walked her home arm in arm? She shifted very clearly away from me and brought up making the spiced wine. I went ahead because I though some spiced wine would relax the atmosphere. If I got you right, I should have ignored her while I made the spiced wine rather than to build comfor…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:28 AM
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Good point, it was 2 seperate chairs rather than the sofa like kind of seat, so I didn't think at of that at that point. Bad move right there. So I killed the date within 5 mins of meeting. Dang. Advice on kino while walking to my place? Do I just grab her arm and loop around mine? She had a small backpack, meaning that escort with hand behind back would have been weird.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:15 AM
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I just know I want to. Sidebar, read and lift. You are going to need monk mode for a while. Try reducing or going nofap. I had problems like yours and it helped. It'll take time. But remember that a guy's value can go up indefinitely till we die, while female SMVs will only go down. So it's literally a matter of time, if you put in the hard work, before you get where you want to be as a high value male. Keep at it and don't give up. You were brave enough to wake up to the fact that you are in a …
/r/askTRP02/01/16 01:20 AM
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People want to think they are above nature.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 05:00 AM
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Shit. This makes my life clearer now. Damn, in Singapore we get a double dose of this shit. SEA betaness and growing feminism...
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 04:49 AM
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There's no need to attack per se. But you need to establish clear boundaries on who you will be nice to and who you won't. Maintain your boundaries so that you only have good people around you rather than parasites.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 04:00 AM
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It's ok to be born nice. But your niceness should be reserved for the worthy. I've made the mistake of being nice to too many who didn't deserve it. There are plenty of people out there who specialize in digging out this "hidden niceness" in people. Don't fall for their trap.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:06 AM
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She's too tense. The pain is from her vaginal walls not being able to relax when you penetrate. So lube might help, but it doesn't solve the root problem. To deal with the root problem, you're gonna have to foreplay much longer than with other women. Finger her starting with 1 finger and get her used to being "penetrated". When she relaxes enough, her vaginal walls are not clenching on your finger and that you feel there's plenty of space for another, gently finger her with 2 fingers until relax…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:29 AM
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How far along in TRP are you? Meditate and Lift. Get new plates if your SMV is good enough. Maybe consider going nofap for a while to minimize chances of thinking about sex and leading to thinking about her.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:24 AM
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Bros before Hos. Sex you can get from plenty of women out there. Friends, not so.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:46 AM
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Had this happen to me. She's branch swinging, someone else is giving her more tingles. Denial will only make you feel more hurt later. Your turn with this girl is over. Get some new girls.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:14 AM
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Escalate and give her the D. Just remember to wrap it up. You pretty much have nothing to lose assuming she is of legal age.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:45 AM
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Dude. Your instinct tells you the answer. You are just hiding from it. At this point it's common sense man... She's probably screwed so many guys she probably lost count already, even if not, she's definitely NOT a virgin.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:36 AM
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If she sounds truly apologetic, set another date, if she flakes that too, drop her, no excuse. Otherwise just next her.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:25 AM
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I echo this as someone who has done several martial arts. Each style is pretty distinct and liking it will go a long way to give you motivation to practice as well.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 04:09 AM
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Are you seeing a doctor or practicing mediation to help cope with your anxiety? I didn't get laid till my mid-20s too. Better a good lay than to stick it in crazy. In the meantime, if you really need release, paying for it once or twice ain't such a bad idea, you might even learn something for when you pick up a girl (which helps lower your anxiety). One thing that helped me cope when I was anxious in social or any sort of scenario (even sex) was remembering this: "It never has to be perfect, be…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:49 AM
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Mandarin Chinese even if only for economic opportunities. Chinese girls can be really good in bed too.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 04:24 AM
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I was in the same position as you several months ago. 1.) Even if not now, she will soon. The fact that she "talks-down" to you means she sees you as a BB and not an AF, meaning that the branch swing is a matter of time. 2.) Improve yourself, lift, read and practice AF traits. Next her if she isn't interested in the improved you. Remember, only commit as much as she is invested in you. 3.) Healing trauma should not be done by a relationship. Girls are after your value, they don't want to "heal" …
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:03 PM
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I gave you 2 solutions and you fixate on height? You can't really fix that right? So fix the rest!
/r/askTRP30/11/15 02:09 AM
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I'm telling you exactly how to relieve anxiety. By building more self confidence through other areas, like lifting and dressing better
/r/askTRP29/11/15 02:44 PM
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I'm taller at 5'10 but I've been getting IOI looks from hot french and spanish blondes ever since I started lifting and dressing better. Game is only part of the story, there are plenty of other factors. Build those up as well to increase your self-confidence.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 02:33 PM
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When you truly realise your time is finite, video games will be the furthest thing from your mind.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:14 PM
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He is using you to artificially inflate his SMV.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:04 PM
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Its training for the real world, chump. Man up and neg back. Exchanging insults is the way males make friends.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 01:42 AM
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I second The Economist. Good quality reading.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:47 AM
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Expect the worst from Asian ladies. They are good at lowering our guard by acting cute and having the stereotype of 'being submissive and cute' in their favour. Korean, Japanese and Chinese women are insanely manipulative. I have 1 as my mother and 2 as ex's. They play a tight game.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 06:08 AM
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As a hardware geek, this made so much sense to me. Thanks bro!
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 03:14 AM
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Onetitis alert!!! Chinese men and women and famous for inter-continental cheating. They have a partner wherever they stay for an extended period of time, many of them rich kids work/study overseas. I'm an ethnically Chinese expat and hang out with them time to time. The guys never fail to boast about it. The girls will whisper to their girlfriends about riding the foreign CC and "bigger dicks". Put her in FWB where she belongs. Just by SMV alone, she isn't worth your time already. The 6 weeks th…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:35 AM
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Masters should be fine. Not very different from undergrad PhD programs are full of women full of themselves. So, if you game it right, you will get laid. Quality depends on your game location, don't just stick to your faculty. There'll be plenty of grad student parties, go there and game on.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 12:27 PM
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Get her to try something you want to do in the bedroom? Or do you need someone else entirely?
/r/askTRP25/11/15 12:23 PM
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Did you screw her in Japan? That sounds like ex's story. Screwed her for 3 months and dumped her. Cuz she clearly ain't worth longer term effort.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:45 AM
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You aren't alone. I'm posting so I can learn from the other masters here as well. I'm in the same situation as you. I keep pushing my monk mode daily. Meditation and exercise. Without self-control and frame-holding, you'll never get her or any other girl.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 07:53 AM
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