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DISCUSSIONadultpioneer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:28 AM
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Yo I was just amazed that you could remember that chill out
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:34 AM
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Urology.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:17 AM
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Whoa you can remember that?
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:14 AM
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Men will always seek some kind of bullshit just to not have to actually listen to what women want. The article from op states clearly that Jane wanted E-MO-TION-AL CONN-ECT-ION. I tried to explain this ad nauseum to my husband before I decided to leave. I wanted the romance and attention that I was getting at the beginning of the relationship. Seems like a fair trade, since men expect sex for the rest of your lives together in a monogamous relationship. But no. They turn to porn and strip clubs …
/r/MensRights08/10/21 12:20 AM
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I’m so proud of you. I’m a year and two? ish months out from no contact (I lost count...I love that lol) from my abusive ex. I know how hard it is to not let him STILL get into your head sometimes. I’m so proud of US for being so strong! Hell yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:34 PM
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“I locked up the house and threw the keys in the ocean.” That is some dang beautiful and powerful poetry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:59 PM
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I appreciate the award. Anyone who downvoted tho care to explain why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:40 AM
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I resent the way the “actual” poly woman is depicted in this comic. She clearly has a curated fashion aesthetic, is witchy, loves cats, wears bows in her hair and is rocking a GD Peter Pan collar. (Very similar to my own style snd I am so very not poly so maybe I’m taking it personally lol.) It comes off as very sexist in that it’s making a point to drag in all the old sexist standbys, i.e., witches, cats, colorfully dyed hair etc. The dude on the other hand is a straight up clown who probably t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:32 AM
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This is one of my favorite jams of all time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:13 AM
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Where does it mention about “having/flaunting cute pets to attract women?” I’ve suspected this to be a tactic of SO MANY MEN that I’ve come across, it’s truly one of the most selfish and despicable things lvm do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:56 AM
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Does he think that he really “did something there” with the box spring?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:31 AM
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You’re not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:31 AM
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Lol you are not a woman posting. Psych. You sure convinced some of the extra dumb ones tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:44 AM
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Have you even even read or watched “The Handmaids Tale?” Cuz you have no idea what you are talking about in any way with your comparison of it to arranged marriages, let alone “the algorithm.” Gawd, I don’t even know why I comment on the posts in this sub anymore, they are so mind numbingly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:56 AM
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I just messaged you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:36 PM
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This subject deserves its own post, and you described it so well. The dog thing happens all too often and it is just so gross and so cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:14 AM
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You’re terrible at conversing. “Ask better questions” is so tawdry. Congrats tho on your success on a platform that doesn’t rep the majority cuz in a real world sitch people would look at you like you’re crazy if you brought this up. One more thing: mgtow making a video about any type of woman if they went they’re own way...? I think they need to find better things to devote their precious time to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:21 AM
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Usually when someone takes the time to write out a post that has multiple sources to reinforce their argument, it’s about something important and relevant to them. So it is safe to assume it applies to you. Also, you aren’t stating otherwise with any kind of meaningful response to my questions. If it matters to you to put this up on Reddit for discussion, it shows that you feel you have an important and relevant audience to present this to, so it should matter to you the things that others have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:40 AM
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Is that all that matters to you in your relation to the opposite sex? “Getting a lot of sex and women?” Do you care about sharing values, love and true connection with someone? Intimacy? Also, these man whores that y’all seem to envy are the ones sleeping with these woman whores that so many of you clearly despise. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:03 AM
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What in the ever loving fuck does he mean that men go thru periods, pregnancies and child birth too? Grrrrr and how he tried to make it sound cute? BARF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:56 AM
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No one is entitled to sex. And honestly, the way most of you on this sub talk about women would absolutely disgust any woman that is worth her salt and make her not want to have sex with you. Your attitude, entitlement, and frankly-HATRED of women is what is keeping you from getting laid. “Oh, but women always go after the DaRk TrIaD CHADS and just look over us ~nice guys.~” Good lord. Is that the kind of woman you would want? Personally, I’m all for more virginal men. I personally choose celiba…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:57 AM
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Just trying to help you dude. No need for the ‘tude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:40 AM
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The attitude about sex not being “that much to ask for” is also a huge turn off to women. The amount of money, time (and quite frankly, PAIN) that is required just to not get pregnant is something that most men just do not appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:47 AM
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I’ll tell ya right now then, that it’s going to take a lot more than what is stated as the benefits for the woman in your post. CONSISTENT romance, kindness, love, empathy, thoughtfulness... all for her as an individual etc are the only things that are going to make any woman WANT to continue having sex with a man over the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:23 PM
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What is considered “regular?” I know it probably varies from man to man, but I’d like to hear what the general consensus is from men on how much sex is considered “regular sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:19 AM
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Men wanna be all like “it’s our nature to be thirsty” but get bent of shape when something like the old as time notion of “men are hunters that chase after the woman that they really want” is brought up. “Men are visual creatures” is another classic and y’all be lying if you deny that a woman’s looks are the first thing that makes men pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:35 PM
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Gawd I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. I knew of a couple of pilots on that level of abusive/complete shit person (again, these were just the ones I KNEW of for sure, there’s probably plenty more getting away with it) that ended up actually getting fired and lawsuits filed against them for sexual misconduct towards flight attendants. Every single one of these despicable trash men were married with very young children at home. Like kids under 5. I can’t even begin to comprehend the level of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:57 PM
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They all use the excuse of “the lifestyle” of being gone from home a lot, like it makes cheating any less shitty of a thing to do to your spouse. Sad to say also, that most of the female pilots I knew were the same way. You’re probably right, that it has something to do with the power and responsibility of safely transporting hundreds of people in the air every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:05 AM
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I don’t know if I’d quite call them psychopaths, but I’d add pilots to the list of professions to avoid in men. I was a flight attendant for 8 years and the cheating stereotype is beyond true. I couldn’t tell you how many “happily married” pilots hit on me on layovers. Get one or two drinks in them and they just start spewing the juice on all of their misdeeds like it’s something to brag about, or like it’ll never get around to their wives/families. Effing idiots. Oh, and they are all alcoholics…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:34 AM
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The reality of the world outside of the home does not support this if you have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:49 PM
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I’ve spent about 20 years “faking” anxiety and depression and I guess I “fake it” so good and hard that when I say that if it were possible, I’d gladly donate my life force to someone with cancer or something, everyone just poo poo’s me and tells me to suck it up and just be grateful. I’m going back to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:47 PM
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Do you know if recurring UTI’s can also be attributed to a cheating partner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:42 PM
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As far as I know and correct me if I’m wrong, but the Freemason building that seems to be in every city only allows men. Edit: just to add that I never see this mentioned when it comes to any kind of “gender segregation” argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:28 AM
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Yes to both. I walked away a year ago. The scrote is a literal psychopath. He has two young children that I think about every single day which has made it nearly impossible for me to just let go what he did/who he is...and he’s like 40. Who knows how many victims he already had before me and since I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:09 AM
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Trying to dm you but it’s saying “try again later.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:07 AM
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Got any tips, you know, for using every now and then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:41 PM
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@laurenhopelark
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:36 AM
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Her TikTok content is solid. I came across her account her a few weeks ago and binged every video of hers! Great advice from someone who’s been thru it and leveled up to happier, healthier life, free from abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:08 AM
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Meh
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 03:42 PM
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Nah
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 05:23 AM
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The only issue I needed to work on was leaving them after they abused and now, not dating men. What do you have to say then, for the men that abuse? Do they have things to work on too? Conveniently you haven’t said anything about what issues they might have. I sure hope you never have children or don’t already if you honestly think that this is the answer to give someone that speaks out about being abused. You know it’s wrong. Do better. Isn’t that why you’re here on this sub? To do better? Or i…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 04:49 AM
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Read Books.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 03:39 PM
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There is no personality flaw that causes someone to be abuse. It is the responsibility of the person doing the abusing. And abuse is not mere conflict.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 03:52 AM
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So you’re saying I deserved to be raped and abused?
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 03:42 AM
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Hear, hear!!! Great comment, and so spot on about how pissed off they get at women that have a backbone.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 07:57 PM
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Harmful men, harmful actions.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 07:52 PM
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OP, first off, I do empathize with you on how shitty this feels and I wish I had more sage wisdom for that aspect. Coming to this realization for myself was the most difficult turning point in my life. But trust me that what you’re feeling are your intuition and your survival skills speaking to you, and you are not wrong. While are may not be literal physical danger 24/7, you would be doing yourself a disservice to try and tamp down these instincts and to try and convince yourself to go against …
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 04:05 PM
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Changing ones thoughts/language about harmful men does not change the fact that the harmful actions of men destroy lives and that it happens in all of our realities as far as local and national news.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 03:51 PM
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I’ve always sought out good men. Even thought I found one genuine enough to marry. He was well liked by my family and friends. Guess who turned out to be an abuser? Guess who still denies everything that they did to me and is believed by most around us because he’s seen as someone who could never do anything like what he did to me in private? We divorced 8 years ago. I’ve dated three different men since. The first two men were, again, upstanding members of society. They appeared put together, ow…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 03:33 PM
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They will use anything, anything, anything as ammo to beat down a woman’s self worth/self esteem/dignity to ensure that women don’t get any crazy ideas thinking that they deserve good treatment and that a narc abuser/RP “alpha” is the only man that’ll want them. And that said woman better feel lucky for having such a prize of a man! It’s all a steaming pile of bullshit crapped out for the purpose of attempting to keep women down in order to manipulate them easier.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 01:07 AM
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I’m glad you took it seriously (the wake up call.) I don’t think my ex ever will but I also won’t know because I cut him out of my life, because he was so abusive.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 10:01 PM
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Thank you for bringing this up. I also saw that video and my first thought “what a GD irresponsible thing to promote with your platform to men looking for answers.” Redpill has fueled the fire for so much hatred that has come out in the form of Elliot Rodger and other men turning to violence because they aren’t getting the women/sex/power that they feel entitled to. RP teaches men how to ABUSE WOMEN. There are no ifs ands or buts about that. I was in a relationship about a year ago with a man wh…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 09:14 AM
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As long as your personal boundaries are strong about what treatment you will/will not tolerate from others and that you hold strong to them and are comfortable saying NO, then it doesn’t really matter if people “perceive” you as weak for being kind. It will actually weed out the people that try to take advantage of kindness a lot quicker.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 12:28 AM
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What is your reasoning for it still being a red flag then if a woman is 30+ and does not want children? Her “desperation” to settle down and have kids isn’t there, ruling out the “non-pedo” reasons to date young.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 11:10 PM
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Ive struggled with life long depression and anxiety and I’d like to share my thoughts on your situation, as someone who’s been thru it on the woman’s side. First off, your feelings about this are totally valid. I can empathize entirely with how crappy it feels when your person goes cold on you, and that’s why I state right up front, just like your lady did, what I struggle with (depression/anxiety and what it looks like for me) so that the person in dating (in hopes) doesn’t take it personally, …
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 01:17 PM
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There are plenty of women 30+ out there that don’t want kids.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 12:22 PM
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“The Love Witch.” I highly recommend this flick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:47 PM
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Lane Moore authored a book called “How to be Alone.” She is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:12 AM
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I know it hurts. And I know money is a valid concern. I very much hope tho that you recognize the glorious magnanimity of what just occurred: One- the Queen strategy move you pulled with the last min phone swap. Two- YOU LEFT HIM. Dang girl, that was POWER. I hope you’re feeling proud AF about yourself and owning how good it feels! If you don’t feel that yet, you will someday soon, I promise. Cuz you may feel sad about it for a long time and you will most likely have struggles with single parent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:45 AM
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The “drink water” reminder dropping down during the “get your shit together” part was good timing. made me laugh 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:05 AM
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Here is my (very short) list: (fictional) -Aragorn from LoTR -Gomez Adams (real life) -Nick Offerman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:35 AM
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I was a flight attendant for 8 years. Dated a lot during that time and if I had a dollar for every guy who’s eyes lit up in that way where they see “an in” to be sexual after I told them my job, well, I’d be much richer than being a flight attendant ever made me lol. They all seemed to hold this idea that flight attendants were auto-dtf AND that we made a lot of money. Far from the truth. They all asked the same questions, guaranteed: “are you in the mile high club? har har!” or “oh so you must …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:02 AM
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Cornell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:57 AM
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Hmmmm...I’ll just add this one to my bag of lvm tests to weed them out quicker: how does he respond to a woman that he thinks is going to be easy to manipulate? Use it to your advantage, ladies. We know who we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:39 AM
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There are at least two questions you could answer and multiple points one could elaborate on without me having to waste my time re-writing my comment cuz it sounds "manic" to you. I'm responding to many different points that have been brought up throughout this thread .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:33 AM
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Nah, that's a lazy reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:42 PM
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So, about post nut clarity: does it work the same way if you just rub one out to a picture of said girl instead of having to use her body? And if the answer is no because “it could end up being that she’s bad at sex,” what does “bad at sex” even mean? For women, the risk of having sex with a new person is that you most likely won’t have an orgasm but the dude will, stds affect women worse, and duh, pregnancy. Not to mention if we don’t want some dude to choke or slap us, are we bad at sex? Idk, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 01:58 AM
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Oops my bad! Then yes, I DO think you should tell any future girlfriend about the hookers you’ve smashed. I think it’ll really turn her on! Give her all the details, including how frustrated you were that women weren’t giving you their bodies for free quick enough. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 03:14 AM
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The way you talk about women leads me to think you are not even close to ex red pill.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 01:08 AM
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Big red! I’ve even gotten the response of: “well, what do I need to do for you to trust me?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:16 AM
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I tell the men that I date that I will only have sex with someone that I trust. The way they respond to that tells me everything I need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:01 AM
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LVM tactics like this-esp to THIS degree- should most definitely be posted here, because it is another example of straight up, no bones about it ABUSE. This is totally different than a text exchange posted about an lvm you might just be chatting with online or have gone on a few dates with- no, this is this woman’s husband and father of her child. This could be a matter of life and death for this woman. By sharing this exchange with FDS, all of us can tell her that there is absolutely no questio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:56 AM
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Good idea, I will check with my state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:46 AM
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The how is what I’m not sure about yet. Should I tell his friends? The kids mom? I really don’t think he’d ever listen to a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:45 AM
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If you’re a woman and disclose to a man that you’ve been sexually assaulted by another man, instead of being a good person/friend/partner/family member whoever they are to you, and seeing that said woman clearly trusted said man to share something so vulnerable, said man will be chomping at the bit to bring up “false accusations.” He’ll take some kind of personal offense to something that didn’t even happen to him (said woman’s rape.) He’ll also most likely be offended if you talk about male vio…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 09:52 AM
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I’m right there with you, DJ Sparks ⚡️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:52 PM
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What do you think the right thing to do in this situation is tho? I have written out many unsent letters detailing why he needs to check himself-for her. I think about her so much. She’s 7. It feels like a moral dilemma to do nothing, and I don’t really care about looking “dipppdurrrr crazy ex” in his eyes, or if I’m just risking having him not heed at all what I have to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:33 AM
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So, I have an ex (3 yr relationship, ended a few months ago) that told me he was a feminist when we started dating. And there were things he did that showed that he did actually have a modicum of feminist beliefs. Gradually tho, throughout our time together, he would slide stuff like this (dread game about sexual stuff, and the ever stupid “women actually like a little abuse,” etc) into conversations we’d be having. I even flat out asked him, at the time in a joking way, if he was “going red pil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:47 AM
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This was therapeutic, thank you 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:10 PM
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