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SEEKING ADVICEadvicethrowawayyys/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:14 AM
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I have this weird attraction to CinnamonToastKen. I think it’s his obvious paternalistic qualities. He has a hot wife though so maybe I’m not that odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:27 PM
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That is ideal, yes. That’s why people need to use discernment sexually. The devil uses sex to enslave us. Using someone’s naïveté as a teenager, and lack of mental discipline from not even having a fully developed cognition, it’s easy to see how someone could fall into a detrimental bond with a teenage sexual partner. Is the right way, then, to abandon their spouse as an adult? I don’t know. &, I say this as someone with an abusive father, so it’s not something I speculate on in a theoretical wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:51 AM
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Secular justifications for adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:48 AM
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Abandoning a wife because of your fleeting feelings is now considered moral fiber? Are you in sales?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:19 AM
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Maybe the attractive one has moral fiber that is prohibitive to engaging in those “achievements”. It doesn’t feel like an achievement if you find it morally grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:31 AM
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Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:06 AM
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Pathetic and feeble male attempts at guilt-tripping so they can low-ball. Nothing more. I have had a man cry, multiple times, publicly, because I won’t spend time with him (no sex) without getting tangible fiscal benefits. But he still will pony up, because it’s a guilt trip to try to low ball me into giving away the best of me for cheap & I’m a hard-nosed negotiator. Women would honestly do well to take note from me in this regard. No one’s turning them upside down and shaking the coins out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:46 AM
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Ahh, impotent attempts at guilt tripping. If you don’t like us acting in our own best interest, why don’t you leave? Oh wait, we have what you want? Well, it’s gonna cost ya, if the women have half a brain. Most women aren’t hard-nosed negotiators, which is why their parents were for them, historically. Men take thorough advantage of that. Now women are being trampled on & low-balled and they need to learn take the role their parents would have before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:33 AM
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Leverage your virginity to get a husband who will provide for you for the rest of your life instead of being swindled & low-balled into being a low-rent prostitute, like most women have been conned into by society. If the grifters don’t like it, tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:47 AM

30 is 15 years past prime in pill communities lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:37 PM
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For all you know they could be using bullying & other antisocial tactics to have sex, it’s not that they are more desirable to women because of their antisocial behavior. Just a thought. Or could be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:35 AM
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I didn’t say it doesn’t alter your appearance in a positive way. It wouldn’t make sense to spend the time for no cosmetic benefit. I said that’s not the only thing it does. Your analysis misses several additional benefits of makeup. I’d also feel uncomfortable going on a date without curling or styling my hair and wearing nail polish. Naturally wavy hair must be considered ugly, too. It’s not that having unset hair is not considered the trappings of a “hot woman”. Also, I forgot to even address …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:53 PM
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If makeup were able to address those concerns entirely, facial plastic surgery wouldn’t exist. It’s merely playing with colors. This is why a fat person in a bikini can’t contour themselves into a new body, contour away cellulite, etc. Likewise, you cannot shorten a “horse face”, erase wrinkles and sagging, or significantly alter one’s bone structure with makeup in a way that 3D projections and depressions would be erased and new ones formed- makeup is 2D. You also completely ignore my point tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:38 AM
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I’d argue using IPL & depilatories are more invasive than the topically applied chemicals in makeup (depending on absorbability of chemical). That also is a different argument than the morality of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:22 AM
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Wouldn’t I feel just as weird when I hang out at home with a significant other? I would feel uncomfortable wearing makeup at bed or around the house with someone I presumably want to look attractive for. It’s also entirely possible we both are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:20 AM
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Not really. Makeup is part of performative femininity. This is why I would feel extremely weird not wearing makeup on a first date but just as weird wearing makeup to sleep with my husband. It’s on par with leg shaving. Plastic surgery is a better example, and I would compare that to men pretending to be ballers, which I personally experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:07 AM
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They won’t because they’re too horny and attracted to the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:32 PM
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Makeup is also performative femininity, like heels and lace and adopting certain mannerisms, which men LOVE, whether they say it or not. Don’t let prey tell you how to hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:45 AM
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News flash: what people accept does not necessarily equal what they prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:05 AM
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“I prefer childless, now.” Shocker. We don’t prefer you, though. I think the movies where women are drawn to men taking care of their kids are a cope. I see kids and think “estate battle”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:52 AM
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Men can be picky when they’re paying. Ask strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:51 AM
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It’s going to depend on what else he has going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:41 AM
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Anecdotal evidence is bullshit, and doesn’t tell anything. I think the stats are 4 is the average for women over their lifetime: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n_2015-2017.htm So that says more than anything you or any one person here will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:13 AM
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Lmao he’s the man with 40 lbs to lose telling a woman that has 5 lbs to lose because she’s bloated on her period that she needs to tone up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:02 AM
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Karen checking in. Your comment is grossly offensive and I’d like to speak to your manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:37 AM
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How is approaching men going to make other men stop talking to us? The only way to accomplish this feat is to look purposely frumpy and try to blend in, I have found. I think it’s hard for women that want to look attractive for the right guys, but then their looks cast a wide net and they deal with a bunch of guys they don’t want, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:34 AM
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What’s the percentage for one sexual partner??? I’m curious. I’d also love to see the results for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:32 AM
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Yeah but she probably wants someone who values chastity and loyalty to one person, not a thirsty guy who is incapable of finding a willing partner. Assuming that’s what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:30 AM
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What was he spending that much on?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:18 AM
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Well, she’s a guy, so.🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:32 PM
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Yeah, I’m not watching that. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:14 PM
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The only thing I care about being picked for is by admissions committees for graduate school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:15 PM
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John Tucker lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:48 PM
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They usually are expected to provide anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:47 PM
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What’s she getting from the transaction?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:35 PM
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If it’s any consolation- the stripper will hustle him and be his karma!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:57 PM
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Educated professionals usually don’t act like that to preserve the integrity of academic discussion. Stick around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:39 PM
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Don’t be nice to someone that just tried to steal from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:32 PM
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Ehhhh they could make their answers for matching more palatable to women by giving generic “nice” answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:31 PM
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Gov ID let you say whatever height and weight you want based my my license experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:21 PM
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They think we can’t tell lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:20 PM
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Let me guess- high Islamic population?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:17 PM
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Last sentence is typical self-aggrandizement from these types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:06 PM
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Thank you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:28 AM
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I did their Hometown Hotties thing when I was 19. I can’t believe I was such a pickme I thought that was an honor lmao. My friend was on the cover of Maxim South Africa and said she made $1,000.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:04 PM
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Where did you buy it???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:01 PM
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You have to take accountability for your behaviors. Stop dating men that provoke you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:00 PM
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Thanks FDS for ruining SM for me after highlighting Serena’s pickmeism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:57 PM
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Lol random insertion of Margot Robbie’s face just because.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:41 AM
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This is considered hate speech on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:01 PM
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They should have to pass the bar. If you can pass the bar, you’re better off than 1/5 of JDs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:00 PM
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Did she get hired straight out of law school or how did this work? Not in law but curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:30 PM
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“If you were the prize at the end of a race, I’d run in the other direction.” -Judge Judy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:58 PM
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The reason for the uptick in onlyfans is because of economic insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:49 PM
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You’re single until your married. God doesn’t recognize your relationship and neither does the government.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:47 PM
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I mean, it is her husband. I’d be offended if it was some random dude offering his unsolicited opinion. Not sure about posting it online but it’s anonymous and I guess he’s trying to be a good example for other husbands. I’m alright with this. (Mods, please don’t flair me as a pickme lmao.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:26 PM
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I guess the unspoken thing is he’s the best she can do so she’s willing to tolerate treatment she otherwise wouldn’t. So yeah, she’s being dishonest in leaving that pathetic tidbit out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:41 AM
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Would you even go so far to say I’m... NoT LiKe ThE OtHeR GiRLs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:37 AM
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What in the pickme hell? ....STDs and child support payments for bastard kids don’t get passes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:10 AM
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He prob thinks pulling his worthless attention is ruining a woman’s life lmao (then posts this because he’s an idiot and can’t help himself).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:08 AM
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No money but still pay half lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:56 AM
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Wtf girl I’ll send you a bottle of toothpaste lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:45 AM
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This was just a word salad of manosphere talking points lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:43 AM
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What the fuck is he wearing lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:29 PM
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Scrote cope lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:28 PM
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Shocking. Dating coaches are a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:27 PM
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A laughably cut-rate one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:27 PM
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Was her live SB performance doctored, too? Literally she’s just a good looking celeb. Who cares. They should stop the butthurt lmao. This person’s priorities are fucked if that’s what they dedicate their energy to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:44 PM
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But he picked ME!!!!!😭 /SARCASM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:23 PM
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Male LARPer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:42 AM
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“Why am I not pulling women on here???”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:40 AM
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inhales No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:38 AM
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Hope she got picked lmao.💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:33 AM
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He talks like poor, uneducated street trash. Get an educated professional.💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:29 AM
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I liKe tHe NaTuRaL LoOk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:26 AM
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I was going to say it’s prob a man LARPing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:18 AM
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I love a happy ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:13 AM
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That would be a great idea if this actually happened lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:07 AM
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What the hell?! Why couldn’t he get cleaning services? My bf earns 1/3 that and had a cleaning lady (not enough, only 2x a month, still tho) before the pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:04 AM
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I was feeling charitable lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:39 AM
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Hurley at 30 years old lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:36 AM
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Gf not any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:36 AM
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Someone w 2 Ivy League degrees that makes $250k is brain dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:29 AM
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Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:19 AM
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5x an RN salary? That’s like 350k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:17 AM
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Imagine being around educated professionals in a stable career all day and opting to date a retail worker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:13 AM
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Why tf would someone take this pic lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:11 AM
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$90k is high enough for black AmEx? That’s a pretty normal salary (I’m in Chicago).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:47 PM
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I know what you mean lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:26 PM
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The fact she only has tattoos in the least sensible places is indicative of self-destructive tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:22 PM
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Me cheating on you was a blessing from God! Who are you to challenge something ordained by God?!?!🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:01 PM
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Women pay less in auto insurance because we’re better drivers and the insurance companies don’t give a fuck about male ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:58 PM
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I audibly sighed when I read the title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:48 PM
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If women weren’t constantly under pressure from men we’d be able to focus on things men traditionally do more because we aren’t spending four hours a day dedicated to being “hot”. So we’d probably be better off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:22 AM
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Snorts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:48 AM
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I was a 32D and still got comments about girls with DDs lmao. It’s just bullying at that point, nothing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:35 PM
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Tell him you would if he pays for it, then take the ten grand and dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:33 PM
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“Then take me shopping at Agent Provocateur for some nice lingerie!” Go shopping. Get lingerie. Dump boyfriend. Sell NWT AP lingerie on eBay for $500. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:31 PM
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The rigors of an engineering career aren’t compatible with the many hats women are expected to wear in society, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:43 PM
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Imagine dating someone who opens with being a hopeless orbiter lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:10 PM
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Haha doggo go bork 🐶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:30 PM
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🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 07:00 AM
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Haha cat go meow meow 🐱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:33 AM
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My toenails fell off from exercising (running hard, stair master, etc.). I didn’t realize this was a personal shortcoming. #TRIGGERED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:47 PM
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I think talking about chakras will make HV people in general roll their eyes. Peddling BS is inherently low-value behavior, to me at least. I agree with the sentiment of being supportive, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:55 PM
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These men have absolutely no idea the cost of being a conventionally attractive woman, in terms of both direct financial cost and lost earnings from time spent. I would have another degree already if I didn’t have to perform beauty duty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:04 PM
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20% off the bridge I’m selling! DM for info!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:33 PM
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Have a hunch she’s a forever girlfriend larping as a trophy wife lol. I like some of her tips on clothes, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:46 AM
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Don’t let him hijack the conversation with sex talk from his slurs. He does not deserve any kind of sexual talk of any kind. Men like him may get thrilled from shocking you like flashers do. But you should still stand up for yourself if it makes you feel empowered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:17 AM
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Don’t steer conversation towards sex with someone you just met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:41 AM
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And then at the end of the night she pulls out her strap-on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:31 AM
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r/makemesuffer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:07 AM
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I 1000% agree; average Hooters’ waitress is better looking than the avg 45 +/- man.... Sue me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:42 AM
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You’re telling me high social-strata women with $100k in beauty procedures wouldn’t be dating someone in middle-management or a small business owner??? I’m shocked. SHOCKED!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:23 AM
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This is why you get them to spend as much money as possible without having sex with them. If they aren’t spending money on you, you may as well be with a peer you find more attractive. Or just be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:15 AM
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Why should his adult son take assets away from a surviving spouse that may need them to live on in her old age, that he also didn’t earn and is not entitled to? I left my inheritance from dad to my mother because surviving spouse should get all. Grown men can take care of themselves. My significant other having irresponsible sex 25 years ago with someone he didn’t even see fit to marry should not result in me losing $300k I may need in my old age. Me giving money I need for myself in my old age …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:56 PM
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Age is just a number and a gravestone is just a rock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:32 PM
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Why does he want her to wear the same thing every day????😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:16 PM
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Them f-ing someone else without you knowing is making a decision about your health without your consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:14 PM
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A ukelele 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:18 AM
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