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| 2 | Wife and I agreed to divorce but she's already doing me and our family dirty?Put your effort into being the best father you can be. Any attempts at revenge or vindication are wasted energy that could be focused in to the only important things in this equation. Searching for righteous retribution only gain a net negative for you, anger is not usually a thirst quenched. Besides as a woman what she really wants is a reaction, whether that be positive or negative it would be a reaction either way. When you want to train a dog to stop shoving it's snout in your nuts sometimes… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Feeling guilty spending money on yourselfIt's really hard considering that's the role alot of us adopted because that's what we were told was the right thing. I lived in that role until I woke up and realized I didn't feel right...it was a hard feeling to nail down, took me a week of this to realize that feeling was happiness. And I didn't know how to process it. But whatever it's all forward motion no looking in that rearview mirror that's how you get in a wreck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 03:18 PM |
| 8 | Feeling guilty spending money on yourselfIt's hard spending money on yourself when you previously defined yourself as a "provider" but for me that's what woke me up to the reality that I was in a shitty point in my life and marriage. Started breaking bad habits, I'm gonna steal a quote "marriage was my last bad habit" so here I am a 44 year old man divorcing a wife of 24 years. But I'm a lot better at it than I was because I truly know how I felt "providing" versus just fuckin living life. So hope that helps man, don't wanna wake up on… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 10:32 AM |
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