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Conversationadyuma/r/seduction05/09/20 11:57 PM
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Escalation & Calibrationadyuma/r/seduction26/06/21 05:25 AM
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Don’t target ‘i’m gonna get X numbers today’. Be like i’m gonna try and approach 10 girls today, and if I get numbers cool if not then no worries. Once you can do that comfortably, try and target smth like ‘I will speak to 10 girls for 1 min each’ or smth like that. Don’t be outcome dependent. If approach anxiety is a lot then start by just interacting with girls/guys indirectly like ‘which direction is XYZ’ or ‘where’s a good place to eat around here’. Warm up to the idea of talking to stranger…
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:34 AM
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Nah this one was my favorite retinoid by far but come winter I will hitchike full spectrum into the oblivious accord.
/r/seduction31/01/24 05:27 AM
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While you're at it add Mr and Mrs Imcummingagghhhhhhh to the list
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:42 PM
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Who in the world screams their own last name in bed. That is absurd
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:02 AM
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Its an opposing statement to what is said on this sub genrally but its the truth I feel (atleast for a few of us). It is said to work om yourselves to become a better version, and ultimately you will attract the one, but what about the loneliness we feel in the journey there? I too feel that my mood lifts significantly when I've got the possibility of meeting/dating/having sex with a woman around the corner. I have no advice here, just adding my 2 cents.
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:00 PM
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I mean what is it that you cant control? Do you like food too much? Or are you always hungry? Or just eat because you cant keep idle? Do you work out?
/r/seduction09/08/21 07:41 AM
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See you dont actively look out for boys to talk to do you? Yet in a natural course of things you end up talking to a guy and become good friends/develop a connection. Same goes for girls, dont look out for the purpose of datind, just do what you do and develop yourself and they'll fall in place
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:39 PM
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I read that as 'I'm a single man'
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:36 PM
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I tend to do OK with my race (South Asian). Never got along with white women or men. Grew up in South Asia, moved to a Western country, still hung out with South Asians, lived and worked with South Asians. Then I got a job in a bigger firm, with loads of white people around, didnt really connect with any one of them. I thought it was a race thing too, or whatever it is was I couldnt understand it. Then I realized they've had COMPLETELY different upbringing and experiences to my life and we dont …
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:08 AM
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Bro practice makes perfect, a few hundred approaches later it'll feel so natural to you, you wont even have to think twice, and it'll come out smooth and confident af. Oh and also one more tip, dont call unsolicited, always text first and start a small convo there
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:03 PM
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Hey man thanks for the reply, but I'd really appreciate if you read my post in full and answered. I get getting close and closing off the space as the date goes along, and I dont have an issue with that. I was specifically looking for light physical games such as thumb war, hand slap etc
/r/seduction26/06/21 02:15 PM
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Congrats my man, keep going and keep going strong! Ngl very impressed with how you're able to do this while at work, keep it up
/r/seduction26/06/21 02:12 PM
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What this double prong dude said is exactly right, girls give out numbers easily and they forget you if you dont form a connection. You said you're busy since you're a waiter, well instead of saying you're cute, tell her what you like about her (smile, eyes, dimples, color of her hoodie, whatever but make sure its genuine). Build on it, talk for like a quick min and then ask for her number, and tell her you'll text her once you get off work. I guarantee you you'll get better responses!
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:31 AM
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So I'm from Pakistan, and imagine your typical punjabi guy, usually tall, bit bigger in build, stubble beard so you could picture what I look like, and generally yes it works decent with South Asians, black, hispanics, rarely with white girls. Like I said I've still got a lot of South Asian-ness in the way I look/dress nor do I have a Canadian accent (i'm in canada) so generally I'm not attracting white women. More than that though, I feel I cant really connect with any person born and raised in…
/r/seduction08/06/21 05:36 PM
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Hey man, South Asian 27M here, First of all kudos to you for taking the steps to improve your life with the working out, its a great achievement and it definitely goes a long way in your self-confidence. Granted that the world says you should love yourself the way you are but humans are programmed to crave appreciation and attention, and dropping weight/gaining muscle definitely gets you that. I was/am somewhat in the same boat, and moved to the West only 7-8 years ago, so there's a lot of South…
/r/seduction07/06/21 08:47 PM
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Yeah I agree, better to do it sooner rather than the let the convo sour with too much info and then nothing to talk about after. Appreciate ir, thanks!
/r/seduction06/09/20 04:15 PM
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I agree with what you mean. And its much easier when there is a constant flow of conversation, in the moment. When its I reply today, then she replies later in the day, then I reply tomorrow kind of convo its much harder to build that connection. But thanks for the tip anyways, I'll try to recognize the moment and sieze it!
/r/seduction06/09/20 04:14 PM
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I only gave the long detailed answer because its something I can relate to really well, having gone through the same emotions and still go through them sometimes. Yeah man I remember when I used to wish for a time when I would have the nice things like a good car, good job, money in the bank, and I would be all set and I would be attractive to myself and the world. I got a $80k annual job, got a nice car, saved up some money. It felt great for a month or two. Then I was back to my old ways, as t…
/r/seduction21/08/20 07:28 PM
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Mannn, I know exactly what you are talking about. I have been through this complexity before as well, and still do sometimes. But for the most part I am ok because the key word here is CONFIDENCE. Yes, that magic word again. Lemme ask you something. If you were to walk into a $100k today, would you feel better about yourself? I bet you you'd feel amazing for a bit, and then a few weeks or months down the road you would still feel inferior for one reason or another. You'd be like 'Dang I only got…
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:29 PM
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Yo what happened to your post??? I came back to check on something and its gone :( do you have the post saved anywhere so you can pm me or post it here again?
/r/seduction10/07/20 01:04 AM
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Sounds good. Like I said I use most of the stuff that you posted however never used anything on my face, will go with your recommendations and see if they make a difference. Cheers bro!
/r/seduction07/07/20 06:27 PM
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Hey mate, great post! I do most of these except never used a toner before and never knew what it is. Can you explain whats this for and how it helps?
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:50 AM
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Hey bro! New to TO, was just going across some posts and saw yours, was wondering if you managed to find success with this/or if theres any group online where we could join for TO wingmen? Thanks!
/r/seduction13/06/20 03:16 AM
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