aedvocate Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What exactly is toxic masculinity? Do you feel the same way about toxic player behavior in multiplayer videogames?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 06:58 AM
2	Date bills should always be split equally OP disagrees - The norm when not dating is that even if someone is invited, the bill is split. Why do you disagree? What makes the case of you inviting someone else out special?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 02:04 AM
1	What exactly is toxic masculinity? why is that important, though? feminism doesn't have a monopoly on the definition of toxic behavior. if we accept a general definition of 'toxic behavior', and use that definition to find specific instances of toxicity in masculinity, why can't that same process be applied to femininity? Wouldn't internalized misogyny be a good example, just off the top of my head? Or benevolent sexism, even?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 02:01 AM
2	What exactly is toxic masculinity? 'normative' means to enact and policing a norm - so practices of masculinity that involve enforcing conformity to masculinity. Teasing other guys about being gay or pussies, shaming guys who are perceived as wearing feminine clothing or having feminine interests, encouraging people to 'man up' - comments like "what are you, my wife?" Etc. All of that feels pretty toxic to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:56 AM
1	Should lying to get sex be illegal? Which gender would get in trouble more? Seems like it'd be a nightmare to enforce, doesn't it? I think you'd need to really really narrow the definition of what constitutes an illegal lie to get sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:52 AM
3	Date bills should always be split equally She's already paid it back by spending that time with me, which was the entire point By that logic, shouldn't she be prepared to pay the entire bill as well? Have you not paid her back by spending time with her? Why should you owe her anything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:47 AM
1	Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless? In my experience it's got about as much point as friendship with anyone: what is a friend, but mutual caring and enjoyment of company? Why shouldn't you have that with a man or a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:42 AM
2	Q4ALL: If men gatekeep commitment, who exactly are the women being gate kept out of commitment? who exactly are the women being kept from relationships I suppose it would be the women who are lead into a relationship with a man under false pretenses? If you rely on women for physical and emotional intimacy, you may find yourself tempted to lie and cheat in order to 'use' them for the intimacy you crave. That's unethical, obviously, but if you feel that you yourself are not being treated fairly, that can make it easy to justify the unfair treatment of others. So in that sense it's less that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:39 AM
1	Cobra Kai, as an Allegory for TRP can't wait for season three 😭 It feels good to be stronger than other people, and it feels good to hurt people that are weaker than you. Bullies do it because it feels so good. That's all Cobra Kai is - a framework for justifying bullying. TRP also provides a framework for justifying a certain kind of behavior, if you're looking for similarity. I'm not saying that behavior is one-to-one parity with being a bully - but it is definitely a way for its adherents to explain who they are and why they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:28 AM
1	Q4all: why do you think Women move on faster from breakups than Men? I think it's because men are encouraged to put all their emotional support eggs in one basket: their opposite-sex romantic partner. What is a man supposed to do when he's betrayed by the one person he feels safe enough to share his feelings with? Who is he supposed to talk to about it? What comfort can he find... except by scrambling to find a replacement partner to fill the vacant position of emotional confidante?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:18 AM
1	What are some dealbreakers you’ve acquired with life experience? Untrustworthy people are a waste of everyone's time. I'd much rather be mad at an honest asshole than be disappointed by a flaky liar. Also, a lack of self-sufficiency is becoming a red flag for me as I get older. I've struggled to get to a point in my life where I can support myself, and it drives me bonkers seeing people who haven't put that kind of effort into their own lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:13 AM
1	What exactly is toxic masculinity? Practice termed 'toxic' undermines the legitimacy of the thing, and drives others away from it. Look at toxic behavior in online gaming communities - same story. So masculinity that drives other people away from men or undermines the legitimacy of manliness is toxic. Toxic behavior is part of the tradition of masculinity. Masculinity is not needed. Physical strength is an intrinsic part of traditional masculinity - but I do think that emotional control / bravery in the face of superior physical …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:11 AM
1	What exactly is toxic masculinity? ... is 'toxic femininity' not the equivalent term for women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:02 AM
1	What exactly is toxic masculinity? So would there be any distinction between 'toxic masculinity' and 'normative masculinity?'	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 12:55 AM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread sure it's theoretically possible... but what's so good about it? Like, why go through all the trouble to create it? Would things be somehow better, in the end? Or would humans just what they normally do - stratify into groups, with one justifying violence and oppression against the other? Men hardly have a monopoly on xenophobia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 12:54 AM
0	Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's society give it time... 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 12:38 AM
1	Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's society Sounds like asking for drama to me. "The greatest happiness is to vanquish your enemies, to chase them before you, to rob them of their wealth, to see those dear to them bathed in tears, to clasp to your bosom their wives and daughters." I don't have any enemies, or any reason to chase people, I'd prefer to earn my own wealth rather than robbing others', and I'd feel bad if I caused collateral damage to my non-existent enemy's loved ones, and what the fuck kind of business do I have clasping the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 12:36 AM
1	Troublemaker brutalised by the force 🐷 oh shit you're right.	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/01/19 03:57 AM
1	Troublemaker brutalised by the force 🐷 cop was embarrassed about falling on his ass, tackled her to reassert his masculinity. pretty basic human instinct.	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/01/19 10:31 PM
2	Big Reason for Women's Flaking: Unclicked texts and Silent Mode phone calls and face to face are synchronous communication - text, IM and email are asynchronous. the whole point of sending a text or email is that it doesn't require immediate reading, thought, or reply. If you want immediacy, you need to pick a medium that encourages it.	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/17 12:21 AM