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I just went on a date with someone from OLD. He was so smooth, he got me to talk about personal things with him. He has my number. Now I feel so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:31 AM
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A guy that is grossed out by the thought of eating pussy. That energy in a relationship is a hard no for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:10 AM
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I do it for myself. It feels great to be strong and fit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:09 PM
1

There's a lot more I'd take into account other than that. So that alone doesn't give me enough information to opt for either of the options
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:56 AM
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I thought it was common knowledge that women think that 80% of men are unnattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:19 AM
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You sound like a bad lay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:44 PM
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They would have sex if the partner wishes, but it won't be due to desire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:11 PM
1

Cuddling and kissing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:55 PM
1

What would you do if you found out your partner is asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:01 PM
1

Gross. If I have to compete for him, he is not high value
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:13 PM
2

Gross, I will start considering that I might have overlooked those traits in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:09 PM
9

Yep. My bf sucks in bed so much, I'm just not turned on around him anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:04 PM
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Doesn't flirt back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:41 AM
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My bf is the first guy out of the guys ive talked to who deflects my suggestive comments 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:32 AM
2

I was disappointed by a guy too, in a different way. My bf lasted 5 seconds and told me he never lasted longer in bed before 😭 I can't resort to a life like this. He didn't even try to get me off another way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:25 PM
2

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:13 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:37 PM
5

I thought my date was leaning in for a kiss so I leaned back but he just wanted to hug. I'm so dead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:58 PM
6

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:47 PM
8

I needed to hear that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:00 AM
8

My ex sends me low effort texts every once in awhile. I know that he's capable of communicating properly. Makes me wanna block his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:09 AM
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Thank you <3 he would convince me to do things I wasn't comfortable with. Later, he promised he'll never do it again for me but as it's part of his nature, that is hard to believe. He wasn't enjoyable because it didn't feel orgasmic to be with him (sorry for the tmi).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:48 PM
8

I broke up with my bf who exhibited coercive and manipulative behavior and he was not enjoyable in bed. I did that because you should consider how a man treats you over how you feel about him. But now, I just remember the times he treated me really well. He was always present and texted back right away. I don't know if I miss him or I need a hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:18 AM
3

When I didn't want to do something with him, my bf whined and coerced until I consented. He was also not apologetic when I told him how I felt. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:51 PM
1

So my bf coerced me, was not apologetic about it, he did not care to sext when I was horny (hypocrite) until I let him know that it bothered me, says he loves me, talks about our intimate lives to his friends, drives hours for me, gets me food, and does activities he does not enjoy (and complains about it) for me. Am I dealing with a POS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:22 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:12 PM
6

Sometimes attractive people open their mouths and they're instantly repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:02 PM
5

Will every guy that is alone with you coerce you or are there men with feelings out there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:33 PM
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Thats good for a husband but bad for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:51 PM
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Defeatist mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:10 AM
2

Okay, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:24 PM
1

Is it possible to have a healthy relationship that started in coersion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:52 PM
2

My boyfriend coerced me into it / did last minute resistance on me. Any tips on how to proceed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:53 PM
17

Trust me, men can find someone who wants to fuck their holes just as easily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:25 AM
2

My boyfriend talks "bro talk" with his friends. He also gets a kick out of degrading me. Is it valid for me to feel uncomfortable about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:23 AM
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My boyfriend disregarded my "no"s and kept pressuring me to do stuff until I didnt say "no" and he took that as consent and did what he wanted. I need to be snapped to reality and stop justifying what he did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:05 AM
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Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:34 PM
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Probably around 10 min
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:38 AM
2

I guy asked to work between my sets so now Im wondering if I ignored his attempt to talk to me or if he actually needed to use the machine...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:44 PM
0

I dont care about that, they just have to be attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:59 PM
1

If a guy complains about spending a money on us, should I stick to saying "aw im sorry to hear that"? Is it pickme to offer to pay a portion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:56 PM
1

Start lifting and you should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:53 PM
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In order to get wanted male attention from desirable men they want to date, women must dress sexy. An unfortunate side effect is that they will also attract unwanted male attention from undesirable men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:18 PM
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Id rather travel for high quality than settle for whats available closer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:54 PM
1

Thank you, thats what I thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:02 PM
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This is an update to a previous question. A guy ive been on a date kept pushing past my "no"s, questioning it, and convincing me otherwise. He pressured me to become "official"and posted me on his social media. He also suggested a hotel as a date.This seems like a huge red flag, doesnt it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:48 PM
1

Sounds good, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:23 PM
2

Okay, thanks for your guidance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:31 PM
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Yeah im worried about that, and yeah we barely just met. He already asked me if I wanted to be official, but that could be a part of his future faking, perhaps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:22 PM
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Okay, thanks, so far he has been respectful of my boundaries and never tried anything without asking first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:30 PM
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Should i tell him my boundaries in advance before he comes? How should I tell it to him without making it awkward? Or should I just say it straight up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:02 PM
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A guy drives hours to see me and took me on a really cute date. He said he would like to wife me up eventually. Now he is trying to escalate to spending time overnight together. How do I know whether he just wants to fuck and then will leave me or if he is actually husband material?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:15 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:55 PM
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Well certainly dont marry or date a redpill man. If youve ever heard them complain about the priviledge women have and the pussypass, it becomes clear that women do have advantages in society
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:53 PM
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Redpill has taught me that women have it just as good if not better than men if they tap into their potential beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:35 PM
1

I think your premise is false
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:42 PM
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Are you talking bald or buzzcut?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:56 PM
2

I feel you, thats really edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:24 PM
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Men dont relate to womens humor so they think theyre not funny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:39 PM
1

I accidentally acted like a pickme/simp when I intended to cOmUniCate eww
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:05 AM
1

Youre right, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:24 PM
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Ok, I was assuming the guy pays for the date but Im changing my view. I agree that its not prostitution when you dont pay for any dates and she goes straight to your place just to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:20 PM
2

Where exactly is outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:57 PM
3

All forms of sexual interaction between a straight woman and man is a form of prostitution. Exchange sex for resources
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:56 PM
3

I was referring to not smashing and passing, but paying for dates and not suppressing himself from saying nice things are good too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:14 AM
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Its not worth it for a guy to invest into a girl because she'll reject him if he doesnt treat her well?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:54 AM
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Right, depends how you say it and how experienced they look. I personally dont mind it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:46 AM
3

Ill let him find another one then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:36 AM
1

Right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:35 AM
1

Correcting her form can come across as helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:30 AM
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If she lifts, you can ask to do a set while shes resting between sets
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:27 AM
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They should lack decency in bed 100%, and have that dominant tone yes, but also take care of a girl. Not smash and pass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:22 AM
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Most chads lack human decency so its not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:17 AM
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To get ghosted after? No thanks. He was trying to plate me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:07 AM
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So ive been on and off talking to a redpilled chad who played games so I played back and got ghosted. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:38 AM
5

Women are gold diggers, men are sex diggers. Whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:35 AM
1

Anyone else meet someone really cool on dating apps but the attraction is not there? Swiping right just to be friends feels wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:08 PM
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So women have nothing to complain about because hot guys won't commit to them and they won't settle for average non-sexy men who will commit? That's not a relationship a woman wants. There's no point in a sexual relationship with someone who you don't fancy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:00 PM
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Women only want to feel desirable to attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:15 PM
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This man stopped texting me regularly, scheduled dates but never made plans, and started sexting and asking for nudes. Im shook by the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:27 PM
1

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:15 PM
1

Thats my concern lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:10 PM
1

Seems brutal but I guess its the best way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:04 PM
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How do you tell someone youve been talking to for awhile and who likes you that you dont feel a romantic connection? Without ghosting unless ghosting better than telling them youre not attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:53 PM
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Makes no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 05:32 AM
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I did communicate it but too late, i think. It definitely wasn't on purpose but it could have been avoided. He texted afterwords saying he is looking forward to plan another date with me but his energy was off. He suggested meeting places which were very inconvenient or time consuming for me to get to and let me pick another place if i wished. Idk if I should just pick a place or let him go as he seemed to stop caring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:04 AM
2

I showed up late to a date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:07 AM
4

Good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:54 AM
5

True! Im embarassed to admit that I was a lvw by showing up super late to one of our dates but I feel like fds would say to just move on rather than compensate for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:26 AM
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That's what I thought. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:19 AM
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This might be a dumb question. Is it low value for a man to make you choose the date by saying he doesn't know the midway point area well? We live a good distance apart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:06 AM
1

So I went on some dates with this guy who I am super into and who was crazy about me and recently his vibe changed. Hes still down to see me but only if i initiate. He used to double text and send me a lot of emojies. I was an asshole to him one time so maybe thats what changed his feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 01:03 AM
3

Sounds great, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:14 AM
2

How do you decline their request for your phone number or social media without totally rejecting them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:22 PM
2

Thank you for clarifying. I read the handbook and why men love bitches. Sorry, maybe I need to read it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:26 AM
1

At what point in dating is it not low value for a man to show his sexual attraction to you? I'm guessing that a husband asking for pics could just be part of a healthy marriage. Is it simply that he hasn't shown enough investment to be rewarded with pictures?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:07 AM
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Is it LV for a man who you have just met online to ask for more pics of you than what's on social media? Or is that normal flirting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:10 AM
1

Define cooperative and compromising
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 12:44 AM
1

Wdym hard headedness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:04 PM
2

Why would it take so long to figure out that there's little incentive? Is it cultural conditioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:50 PM
2

A top 20% man can find all that but the non-sluttiness in casual relationships. What would be in it for him to prioritize a single woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:26 PM
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What kind of a woman would a man with options consider for monogomy or consistency? Edit: I meant to ask why would a man with options prioritize a single woman and when he decides to, what kind of woman would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:42 PM
1

I always thought the first date is where people got to know each other without it being called that they're "dating" yet. That would be a multiple dates in and with more investment. It's interesting to hear that some people prefer to meet up once they're more sure about the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 01:21 AM
3

Oh the entry phase is new to me. How long does it take and I'm guessing it's something people who look for monogomous or deeper relationships would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:59 PM
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Any ideas why a guy would be interested in getting to know you personally and flirt through text but deflect taking you on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:31 PM
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