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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Marriage??		afc0	/r/askTRP	22/07/15 04:27 PM

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1	Marriage?? First, thanks for the advice. ♂ The have had it explained to you, time and time again, that women are not leaders, and that women are not self-sacrificing. You accept that explanation, or else you would not be here. But you are holding out for her to take the initiative in making a sacrifice for your happiness just this once because you really want it. I know it now; I know all the mistakes I made. But I only figured it out in the last few weeks. I have let go of 40 years of indoctrination in 4 …	/r/askTRP	24/07/15 11:50 AM
1	Marriage?? Thanks for the advice. But there is no way I can just let it go. not fuck any girl you want Few is good enough, "any" would be tiresome :-) try getting a counselor to help both of you if you want Counselors don't know what they are talking about; and I react negatively to any statement I perceive as manipulative or judgmental.	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 06:01 PM
2	Marriage?? You're already alone. You're just alone + the additional burden of living with someone who doesn't give a shit about you or your happiness. If you wind up alone and never get laid again you will still be better off because at least you will not be experiencing daily feelings of rejection and being unwanted. Well said. I have said something similar to my brother It's about seeing a woman's eyes light up when she looks at you. When was the last time you saw that? This is the funny part. She does i…	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 05:32 PM
1	Marriage?? Assuming that she indeed has the issues she claims to have, I must ask: Do you honestly believe that she was unaware of her issues before she met/marry you? And if she was aware of what she was doing, don't you think what she has done is a clear cut manipulation? I have some doubts but I think it is more likely that she didn't than that she did. Unfortunate truth is: you are responsible for allowing yourself to be deceived and manipulated... Yes, this is the truth. Don;t be afraid of being lonel…	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 05:06 PM
1	Marriage?? So for 8 years you were in an LTR without sex? Was she the best room mate ever? We did some things and got along very well in all other ways. I was a little taken aback by her position on sex before marriage but other than that she appeared perfectly normal Also, how embarrassed was she of you to not tell her family of the marriage? I am not saying that to be a tool, but WTF I haven't managed to figure this one out, other than that it cannot be anything to do with me. I have been called arrogant…	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 01:48 PM
1	Marriage?? Get a divorce. You've let this go on long enough. Agreed If she gave a rats ass about you and not just your paycheck, she'd have made some kind of effort in the past 2500 or so days to do something, anything, to improve your life instead of just letting you improve hers. She doesn't even see my paycheck. Other than for a period of about 2 years, she has fully supported herself. But yes, outside of money, I have improved her life while I can't say the same for her; there were only a couple of thi…	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 01:40 PM
1	Marriage?? -Get divorced. Agreed -Lift weights Agreed -Eat good Agreed -Get a motorcycle Thanks but it does not fit my personality. -Fuck a lot of women Sound plan :-)	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 01:33 PM
2	Marriage?? Here's a scoop for you: we ALL die alone I agree completely. There seems to be too much fear created around loneliness and dying alone. Call a lawyer RIGHT NOW, TODAY, and get out of this farce of a marriage. Filing next week; don't need a lawyer	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 01:27 PM