| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 333 | DiCarlo Escalation Ladder: Concise and Emphasized | afcwtf | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 04:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Starting a new job, new to the seduction community. Thoughts?Don't eat where you shit. | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 07:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR #1] Valentine's Day night outYou're 18, super young and in school, trust me you will do very well in time if you stick with it. "Not over thinking what I should say after the opener." Good, but make sure you PLAN. Once you get good it'll be more natural but what you need are transitions after the opener. Use fluff talk, I always ask "how do you guys know each other?"/"celebrating anything?" you can come up with some I'm sure. This is good so you don't get stuck. From there once the set is receptive to you it's hard to keep … | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 03:17 PM |
| 1 | First [FR], what to do when they both "go to the bathroom?"Ask for the number sooner, ie. "were going to the bathroom".. "ok cool, give me your number". | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Was this supposed to be a shit test or something?Ignore it. It was late night IMs, replying now much later with this "awesome clever witty" retort will probably come off as try-hard and chode. *EDIT: Just realized it said "how would you respond to this if you were awake?". Here would be my response "?" if I didn't know, she would go on to link or explain it and I could take it from there with some sexual/funny comments. | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, Should I Invest in a Bootcamp?"Don't take a bootcamp, just do it". This is what you will hear in every bootcamp thread, which is true, you should "just do it". Personally I took a bootcamp not too long ago and I am happy I did. The purpose of a bootcamp is to FORCE one to do it, you have someone guiding you in the interaction and showing you what to do. Now granted, I'm sure a lot of them suck, make sure to read reviews and do your research on them. I think the other major thing is, do you have the money? Mine was $1,500 whi… | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Are all girls REALLY crazy?You have to ask yourself, what do you want? If you find a girl is like that and you keep her, that is on you man. Find quality women outside of bars and clubs. | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 08:57 PM |
| 13 | How To Overcome Approach Anxiety (an essay)"Expecting every girl to like me is a fantasy. It's narcissistic" Very true. For me pick-up is about enhancing myself, my ability to talk to a woman, attract her, build comfort, my confidence etc. All women still have a preference and simply might not be attracted to me, whether physically or mentally. When that happens I smile and keep walking. It's important not to invest too much upfront emotionally ("omg she is so hot, I want heeerrrr"). As far as truth, to me the truth is that it's all a le… | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Preparing for tonight - Seddit, how should I Solo a pub.I do not have much experience sarging in pubs, but one thing I can tell you is don't lean aganist the wall or hover in the corners with a sullen/sad look on your face. I see this far too often at clubs from guys and it's a serious game killer. If you're not in set, be grooving to the music, smile or whatever, basically enjoy yourself. As far as sets, all-girl sets are obviously the easiest, like a 2 or 3 set and would be good for warm-ups. You can go situational at first like "excuse me do you g… | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 04:56 PM |
| 8 | Is starting a conversation in a gym possible?No it's not possible to talk to women at the gym, you will try to project the words but nothing will come out. It's the "anti-guys-hitting-on-chicks-at-the-gym" thing. :) Of course it's possible, but please, don't go "sarging" at the gym. If an opportunity arises (I can think of like, a smile, she/you getting on/off the machine right after each other, waiting at the desk etc.) just do your usual day game. | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Can someone tell me the mentality behind this?Best. Seduction. Advice. Ever. I lol'd. | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 07:42 PM |
| 28 | [fR] Girl on the busNext time, get walking beside her say "Excuse me.." proceed to stop and she will stop. Then "I wanted to let you know I think you're cute..." Then do not ask her out, use a routine or fluff talk. In your approach she knew you were only asking her out based on her looks, no good. Also unless you are Brad Pitt you built no attraction. If things go well ask for the #, then come back here and read up. That would be a little bit better, but personally I don't like direct openers because I want to fin… | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Grudgingly accepting the title of AFC.. what can I do tomorrow?No problem I had the same issues, and to some extent still do. On being 'nice' I suppose you are 'nice' initially by taking the initiative to start a conversation, nice smile, good energy etc. Where you are not 'nice' is being supplicating, or basically kissing their ass at whatever they say (ie. "oh my god that's so great, oh reaaaally???"). Challenge them a bit, poke fun a little bit. I personally don't act disinterested or aloof, except maybe if they challenge me. | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How to scope out more dominate guys~?As you clearly see now, the pendulum swings both ways, it's hard for most people to approach the opposite sex, it's just a social norm (and I do agree with it) that a man should take the first step. Like stated above, dress nicely, have a warm smile on your face, be approachable... If an attractive girl smiled at me, maybe gave me those 'come here' eyes I would approach, almost any alpha would. | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 03:49 PM |
| 2 | That one female cockblocker with the HB8s and +?It's never too late, it might FEEL too late for YOU, if you feel too nervous etc. but there is no harm in trying. You'll never get anywhere not saying anything anyway. The only thing you can do is befriend her. You must befriend the mother-hen in all situations. How about something like "I have seen you help your friend out in her form, wish I had someone like that to help me :)". Of course don't come off creepy like you've been watching them all the time, just something casual you noticed. If y… | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Email coversations? Yea? Nay?Well I don't know all the logistics but sounds like you went too direct here. Make sure not to email her again if she doesn't reply, if she does great, take it from there. If not, move on. Lots o' fish in the sea. | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What do I do with girls name's and #'s that I obtained while black out drunk?Send a text the next day or as soon as you find the random # in your phone. Personally I would say something like "hey name had a blast last night, hope you had a good time too". Usually I would include something like a nickname relating to what we talked about, not an option in this case. If she texts back, great, # is confirmed. I would then leave it at that and give her a call the next day and run some boss phone game :) | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 08:09 PM |
| 15 | Seddit, Analyze What I Did?Some options - 1. "Well it was a bit weird when you farted, but I'll let it go :)" 2. "No, it's not weird. I'm doing x at x time tonight, come with." 3. Ignore it, make up your own line... | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Generating Interest in a Sneaky WayDo it! This is a cool idea, you have nothing to lose. IMO I would totally play this up after, like smiling/teasing. If they call you gay, play it up - "oh yes they're from my hot boyfriend, jealous?" | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Grudgingly accepting the title of AFC.. what can I do tomorrow?Dude I haven't HAD a REAL gf and I'm in my late 20s (still don't lol). Don't compare yourself to others man, the only real comparisson is yourself to YOU. Why compare myself to the 19 year old guy who has laid 100s of girls who is also in my towns "pua lair"? He didn't have the same background/upbringing/hangups as me and he got the The Game faster. This exercise is futile in every respect, and you are doing it with your peers who are going to get married (they will all be soooo happy, yeah righ… | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Email coversations? Yea? Nay?You'll know if it turned out ok if she replies :) It's all a learning process, I'm in a big learning stage as well. Try what you read here, use your own head, and then you can guage how it goes and if you need to tighten anything up next time. That's why reading and reading will never substitute field testing, I just learned this when I did 50+ approaches over the weekend. | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Email coversations? Yea? Nay?I would email her something interesting, perhaps about something you talked (don't be suplicating, but be more geared towards making statements rather then questions) and add some humor if you can. Leave it at that, if she replies you can guage her response and take it from there. For me I would probably wait for solid 2 or 3 email exchanges and if things are good then be like, 'you seem pretty cool, lets continue this on the phone, what's your number'. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 07:52 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter