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Male pickmes, that's all. You'd be surprised how pathetic they'll allow themselves to become for just the chance of a taste of the puss. No better than the female pickmes who destroy themselves for the chance of some dude committing to her. Everyone should live for themselves.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 09:15 PM
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it's shocking to me how early most guys expect sex. I'm not being snarky but are you new to men in general?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 12:43 AM
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The same way he's exploiting and using her: taking the best years of her life - her youth, her beauty - wrecking her body with kids, devoting her life to wiping asses and sexually servicing him. Street goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:44 AM
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So why are women more attracted to millionaires? If it can be done on 60K, why are men attracted to being millionaries, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:43 AM
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Well it's been 16 years so I'm wagering it might be a while longer. Perhaps when Barron graduates. If Donald hasn't traded her in before then, she's 51 now after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:41 AM
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If there's one thing men are aces at moving, it's the goal-posts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:39 AM
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Great, do it! Quit acting like you're trapped in it, tho. Walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:38 AM
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You're in the wrong sub, son. The men here make it clear they don't care about that. They want youth and beauty. That's it. Nothing else matters in any way for any type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:37 AM
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Andfor those men whose top priority in a woman is youth and/or beauty, they are free to pursue those types as well. I don't think it's wrong to have either money or youth as your core defining want. People just need to be transparent about it and be willing to accept the limitations placed upon their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:36 AM
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So mens' base nature is to rape and pillage. Thanks for confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:34 AM
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Ah yes, the Jeff bezos who looked like a fucking turtle, still does - except now he has a bit of a bicep and shaved off that awful hairline. The Bezos the first wife rode for and built was the epitome of the stereotype NERD, but we forget, in our haste to make sure the world knows SHE DOESN'T DESERVE HALF, that Amazon didnt turn a profit for the first 20+ years of its existence. And she was there, suffering through it, the whole time. Then Bezos rewarded her for giving him the best years of her …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:31 AM
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women are not willing to run the race with a man, and will instead wait at the finish line and pick a winner. And in exchange, you get her wrecking her body/risking her life to give you, and raise your, children aka bloodline. Which is precisely how men pick the mothers of their children, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:27 AM
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Well, most men don't, either. They think money is enough and without even that they just fall back on entitlement, before grabbing whoever they can lock down tight enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:25 AM
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Well, yes and no. It's not about being equal to men. I can't think of a mammal I'd like to be equal to less than a male human. The entitlement, violence, raw stupidity, malice of heart, inherently exploitative, simple and single-minded...no thank you. It's simply about not having men deny us the same opportunities in life that men get to enjoy. It really is that simple. Stop hoarding the resources for yourselves to force us into dependence and transactional trading, which we all know what that b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:23 AM
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Women who are family minded don't want to find out they married a bum who leaves them holding the bag for the whole family any more than men want to have kids with a woman only to find out she's on her ass watching tv all day while the kids and house go to shit. Being a good provider is what makes it attractive - if you're a narcissistic shithead I'd like to think that your money would not make up for that. If you intend to lock down a woman into being the household provider (of chores, asswipin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:15 AM
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All the first wives in the world could have told you that yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:12 AM
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Men don't have to do anything they don't want to, and if men wouldn't put sex on such a pedestal, they wouldn't be complaining about it the way they do. But they choose to see sex with some 18 year old model as the end all be all of life, still, and can't interact with women at all without typically angling for penetration, so here we are. Meanwhile women are literally just trying to live their lives. As far as the subconscious clinging - that's grooming and conditioning. The kind that tries har…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:10 AM
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That's not attraction, that's utility. Men aren't exactly hitting up fat or ugly chicks with questions about their belief systems, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:56 AM
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ROFL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:55 AM
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Because it gives men one more thing to hate women for. I think it just ultimately comes down to wanting to fuck as many women as possible over a lifetime with zero work and zero consequence. That's not reality, tho. And men will never stop being mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:50 AM
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Meanwhile men in this very forum make it clear every chance they get that all they care about is youth, thinness, and beauty (and a high sex drive just for them). Something women can't really control - we all age. Meanwhile, you can control money. And men make these demands with all the expectation in the world that women will simply acquiesce and find a way to stay young and thin and hot for them. BUT DON'T YOU DARE EXPECT A DAMN THING IN RETURN BITCHES No wonder cats win out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:48 AM
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it's not advisable to have kids after 35 Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:12 AM
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You're about 90% right. Women absolutely need to quit following the bullshit grooming they are raised with and live their one life for themselves as the best versions we can be. Same for the men. Families later, after people have grown and been high value in our society all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:09 AM
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If a man isn't willing to commit to a woman when her youth is gone he doesn't deserve to have it while she's got it. Using your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:04 AM
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Perhaps you should, then you could spell it correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:03 AM
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Because they only realize what a shit bill of goods they got sold their whole lives based on hitting the wall and dried up ovaries and only having value in slaving for a bunch of ingrates including the manchild who cheats and plays video games all day was until after their bodies, lives, and careers are wrecked. Divorce is their last resort, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:24 AM
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I don't think women want something serious so much as they are groomed from birth to believe that's the only value they have, is as wife and mother aka lifetime slave. God help the little girls with brothers, they would have been cleaning up after them, too. Single women are consistently shown to be the happiest, followed by widows and lesbians. Hence the nonstop campaigning to get them locked down to males lest they become Crazy Cat Ladies. But married women are consistently the most miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:15 AM
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I’m not saying Hypergamy doesn’t exist but the way they talk about it, they make it seem like it’s the only reality that exist and if a man isn’t a certain height with a certain salary then he won’t be able to get a woman or she’ll leave him as soon as she gets the chance. And yet they spend all day and all night bitterly calculating how to get theirs. It's really gross. The infestation at PPD is just beyond at this point. Talk about crazy cat ladies. Besides, the NiceGuyTM that hot women were s…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 12:01 AM
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you're doing it wrong, just put on 10 lbs. Voila!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:06 PM
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We're all chair-sized in the zoom meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:09 AM
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I agree wit you about 99%. I happen to be one of those women who does not factor things like height, baldness, or penis size into my attraction or feelings for them. I've dated just as many dudes with every height, size, and hairline. And body shape. Fat, thin, acne, backne, back hair, braces, tattoos, honestly I think my one dealbreaker is nobody younger. Couldn't tell you why, I think I might feel like I was dating my younger brother. Enh. For me, if I'm attracted to you as a person, you're th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:07 AM
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You've got the same google we do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:49 PM
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always projection with that crew
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:33 AM
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You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. There's a difference between future-faking, which men are amazeballs at, and being attentive, which is what women get blamed for because apparently treating you like a human is not in fact what you're after. Have you ever considered how much you are leading her on? By pretending to be her friend when you really just want to sleep with her? Why not open up and tell her immediately what you're really after?
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:22 PM
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Throwing pebbles of attention? How...by acting like the friends that you paint yourself out to be? It's one thing to say shit like "I wish my boyfriend were more like you" - I'd never say that to my girl friends so there's no reason to say that to a guy friend. It's another to treat my male friends the same way as the females...only for the males to be butthurt that it doesn't lead to sex. There's a difference.
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:20 PM
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Downvotes but it's the truth. Nobody's forcing you to stick around at gunpoint, boys.
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:19 PM
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Well, yeah. I can't think of a good reason on the planet for me to tell any of my male friends things I wouldn't say to my female friends. That's pretty gross, too. To say something like "I wish I could find a guy like you, but not you" is beyond rude. What could she possibly get out of that?
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:16 PM
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Enh...nah. Being an orbiter is super gross and manipulative. if you're circling a gal because you're waiting for your chance, then you're being gross and manipulative, while presenting yourself as her friend. And she will, gosh, treat you like her friend, because gosh, that's how you're presenting yourself. If you're attracted to her, tell her and then walk tf away. You should not be offering the guise and behavior of friendship when that is not what you want. "Throwing you a bone" by what, actu…
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:12 PM
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Holy Yahweh that was specific
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:52 PM
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Why can't men take Chad out back then, instead of being pissed at the women whose self-perception Chad messed with? But even then, she clearly IS an 8....since an 8 thought to stick it to her. I think that's what yall are actually pissed about but it's just easier to bash women than to bash Chad and tell him to stick to his own kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:51 PM
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and they marry (sorry for the spoiler) GODDAMMIT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:23 PM
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Nursing homes have entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:19 PM
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You're still using males pitting you against other women to determine your worth. How about a man finding you attractive because of who you are, not because of your "body count"? That "miserable and unfulfilled" has nothing to do with sleeping with someone on prom night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:13 PM
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fundamental human experiences romantic milestones Funny euphemisms for getting laid, which is what the high school boys care about, and are pissed AF about not getting by the truckload simply because they want it. At least call it what it is, and it ain't romantic in the slightest. What's most pathetic is that these men put so much energy into being bitter and hating women instead of taking sex off the pedestal they've always had it on and leading actual fulfilling lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:11 PM
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Thank you. OP claims "circumstances" and 'fun social outings" but then also HUGELY emphasizes being drunk and then tells guys to be out doing fun social things to get laid faster? Sounds like a recipe for disaster. The answer is and always will be, for me, to quit putting sex on so much of a pedastal you can't even plan a Saturday night out without strategizing that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:57 AM
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Starting relationships off with a lie. A page straight from the males' playbook. Anything to get what you really want from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:29 AM
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Remember that when she pokes a little fun at your dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:18 PM
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You can care about stuff and still live life. literally what bad-dps said to you earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:35 AM
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And yet here you are all over this thread admitting to deliberately insulting them with the term landwhale while trying to hold men accountable for doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:34 AM
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Social proof is one thing, "what you're missing out on" is another, but most of all, nobody likes a stage 5 clinger.
/r/seduction05/04/21 11:00 PM
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You literally said she would string you along or use you. The vast majority of women are not interested in collecting dudes to toy with - those conversations are far too awkward to hedge your bets against simply to get the occasional car ride to an event. What they will do is treat you like a friend. The problem is that while she'll treat her male friends the same as her female friends, males treat female friends as something they haven't slept with yet, but are working on it. The only thing pre…
/r/seduction05/04/21 10:58 PM
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Also add in supremely shitty US food regulations contributing to obesity even when you eat what you think is healthy, along with poverty (including food deserts, which exist even in Chicago) and trauma-based eating and you have Tons of Funs rolling around thinking "what's the point? I'll just gain it back." I didn't have much to lose (I lost about 30 pounds to get down to 105-110) but even I had given up. I ate healthy on the surface but figured well, metabolism is slowing, hormones are out of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:26 PM
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non-fat men barely get a dating improvement from not being fat. Have they tried being 1%? I'll see myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:20 PM
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indepth studies What you did there...I reluctantly see it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:16 PM
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But they all think they speak for all men, and they don't. Funny how this is the one place #notallmen never gets mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:15 PM
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This. There's a reason the "why do fat girls give the best blowjobs?" joke has existed for so long. I'm not here for the part of the FA movement that demands men see them as equally beautiful (read: fuckable), because I'm tired of women basing every decision in their lives through the male gaze (just be HUMAN, people), but yes to the rest of it. If she's happy, then she doesn't need to worry about what men find her fuckable. And in fact lots of fat women are unfortunately fat specifically to try…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:12 PM
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The vitriol for fat women stems from their attitude ABOUT their fatness, not their attitude in general. That vitriol was around long before the attitude developed as a form of push back against the vitriol. It's literally why the HAES/FA movement was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:09 PM
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Unfortunately, the loudest voices of the movement are the Hagans of the world who think they can pound a gallon of ice cream every day and in between shovelfuls tell the Cancer Society they are being bigoted for attributing some causes of cancer to obesity. You also have very loud fat people who insist six ways to Sunday that they are healthy, fit, have PCOS, etc. while posting instagram photos of a 5,000 calorie meal. Obesity is not a good thing, regardless of the cause(s), and we do need to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:59 PM
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have no MOVEMENT to protect them Why not? Too fat to march?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:54 PM
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The campaign to shame women into dating fat guys has been successful for many decades. Unfortunately when fat women say simply hey, we're here, too, men react with abject hatred. OP is trying to point out the difference in the treatment, not the preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:23 PM
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It really had to do with being treated as a human being despite the weight, rather than seeing weight and being viciously unkind. Unfortunately, like every movement on the planet since the dawn of time, when it reaches critical mass (no pun intended), the lunatic fringe takes over and turns it into a parody of itself. We should all be seen a valid humans no matter our physical traits. But much like men should stop shaming women with the word "shallow" for not fucking them no matter how trollish …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:19 PM
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fat women demand that they be treated like ultra thin supermodels despite physical wearing their unhealthiness. They also demand that people conform and change their behaviour to suit them. In a word, it’s just a sense of entitlement they display So basically, the problem is that fat women behave like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:16 PM
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But women aren't hating them with such viciousness they can't even leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:12 PM
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If you never had to worry about paying a dime into healthcare, would you have this same amount of hatred? Also, in some parts of the world fat = wealthy, it's desirable. it's one thing for you to have a preference, it's another for you to prove OP right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:11 PM
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I think it comes down to being fewer women to fuck and dominate and control. A fat girl is in full control of herself merely by the fact that she weighs X amount. Add in the "entitlement" men so viciously bitch about her having to "their bodies" (the irony!) and these men see a woman truly in control of herself. And that's what men hate the most: a woman in control of herself. Her body. Her life. Her choices and preferences. Men could simply chuckle and move on, couldn't they? Could easily just …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:09 PM
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In many cultures, being fat is desirable as it's a sign of wealth - for example, in food or resource scare areas, if you're fat it means you have the resources to be that way (abundance of food or resources that mean you don't have to work). Then of course there are the fetishist men who pay you to gorge yourself all day. Plenty more of those than you would think. We aren't really meant to be stick thin, really. Not 300 pounds, either. But certainly we should be allowed to store enough for winte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:59 PM
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Men will happilly shame and degrade everything they fuck, this is nothing new. Men hate women by and large. No pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:56 PM
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All that last one "proves" is that most people, yes, women included, like people who stand up for themselves and don't just bend over backward to ass kiss everyone. People like people who have self-respect and this guy didn't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:06 PM
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They finish last because you let too many assholes and society in general groom women into thinking abusive behavior = love. BTW, it's been psychologically shown that men are very attracted to women who display BPD traits. We as a population apparently all love the chaos, not the calm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:03 PM
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Well your user name certainly checks out. Your entire post is a disingenuous lie. Designed to stir up yet more hatred for women in general from the MRA/incel brigade who populate this sub and keep them in their tizzy, which they'll probably happily oblige you with today. You know they aren't reading that thread, and certainly not with objective eyes. The "lack of ambition" you refer to is not about working 60 hours a week. It's about him becoming a completely different person who sits on his ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:01 PM
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stdud muffin FTFE
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 10:26 AM
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You can just say "I have purchased access to your body under the guise of steak and salad and I expect to be given that access"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:50 AM
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He wants to know so he can add it to his arsenal to screw woman over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:48 AM
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Narcissists gonna narc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:47 AM
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Agreed. Women should use mens' excuses: "I have needs" "You weren't there for me" "It's just how women are wired"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:46 AM
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The point is you can’t compare gay dating/hookup standards to the ridiculous and shallow behavior of straight females. There are plenty of guys gay men would happily suck off all day long that females would ignore. You having no standards at all doesn't make anyone else's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:07 PM
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What does that tell you about the vast majority of today's men then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:53 PM
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They don't want you over 25 because they equate you to a disgusting rotted corpse at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:53 PM
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You know good and well what it is, if you truly don't you're a danger to society walking around that ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:52 PM
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So it wasn't because of an inherent attraction, but because of their dissatisfaction with who they otherwise should have been dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:51 PM
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The thing about successful grooming is that you don't know you're being groomed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:49 PM
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If they really did old men wouldn't need to create a culture that grooms them into it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:47 PM
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I thought it was about the cuddles and someone to talk to! Surely all that pimp marketing isn't lying...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:17 PM
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have the mindset of girls, No such thing. All brains have the same right and left sides. They are typically trained to behave like girls, socially, usually from the homphobia and exclusion from straight males, who train each other to suppress half their own human traits to act like jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:05 PM
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And yet all three have fucked straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:03 PM
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Whether it's easier or not, have you seen how specific gay men get about their partners? You all would lose your minds once you saw height requirements were just one of a hundred expectations you had to meet to get in their pants. I'm more of a believer that if you got rid of homophobia more men who call themselves straight would be able to openly get that access (since "a hole is a hole" when it comes to women) and we could all go about our lives. Overall in life tho, when your next orgasm is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:02 PM
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I appreciate your leniency on reflective stripes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:52 PM
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I thought all men wanted a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:23 PM
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I hope you put your ultimate goal as the first line of your bio, then. At least be transparent. Giving women that much opportunity to shop for men means they're in constant monkey branching mode. What do you care, tho? You're doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:16 PM
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And women here wonder why men turn to shit like trp lol. No different than the men reeing all the time about FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:11 PM
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It’s also the culture. Women don’t realize how the metoo craze and doxxing of private chats has made non-psychopathic men hesitant to approach with any vigour. Hasn't stopped the dick pics and violent harassment at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:08 PM
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... now it'ss just sitting at home in your mustard stained t-shirt watching netflix and eating pizza, hoping for a sloppy blowjob. I don't give a shit about the BJ, my vibrator works just fine, but I gotta take issue with the shirt and the Netflix. I mean I literally have a "steak-eating shirt" because I'm going to drip butter and blue cheese off the fork and sometimes the steak falls off, too. I'm okay with this. Perhaps if people quit putting the weight of the world on blowjobs and Valentine's…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:57 PM
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It's almost like women are still not and never will be seen as actual human beings, just pretty things to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:13 PM
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someone who wasted her youth on casual sex or relationships that went nowhere. She's 35 and wants to settle down now after offering other men commitment free sex. Why should any man be willing to pay the price of commitment to her now when she has no youth left and is possibly desperate to have a baby? For the same reason men do? Men do this shit as part of their playbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:11 PM
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she merely needs to spread her legs wide enough so now they fucking fat dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:53 PM
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Found the incel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:53 PM
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Logic and reason and anything less than abject hatred for the opposite sex no longer belong in this sub, I often have to scroll up to make sure I'm not in /incel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:52 PM
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Funny how men get to say fat or ugly or over 30 but REEEEE like crazy when male height or dick size is brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:51 PM
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You're describing a desire for female submissiveness by calling it "femininity"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:50 PM
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If they're only the table it's because men made them that way. This is what happens when mens' worlds revolve around and are controlled by their dicks. Women are simply not controlled in this way and the sooner they wake up and realize they don't need relationships with men, either, we'll all be better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:48 PM
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When I was a new dancer I asked one of the managers why the men there would pay $200 for a woman just to see her boobs and go home. He said the alternative was to spend the same amount on dinner and conversation only to not see boobs at the end of the night. Made sense to me. Sometimes you just want to see boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:23 AM
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I guess my point is, guy should have no shame paying for it, as long as they manage to become HVM later in life...which is another hard task in itself. Nobody should feel shame for buying or selling it - but getting transactional sex past the point where the industry is owned by pimps with a very vested interest in keeping supply high (hence the trafficking) is probably next to impossible, in large part because of people like you who insist it doesn't even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:20 AM
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It would be a more interesting discussion honestly to talk about the pricing disparity among "types" of sex workers. Why would a man pay anyone $5,000 or more for sex nobody else will find out about when he can get a blowie down the street for $20? Or is it specifically so he CAN brag to others that he pays $5,000 for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:16 AM
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Not the answer we wanted but the one we needed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:14 AM
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But who is expecting this of homeless men, tho? It's not like society at large is ever going to find out. I'm curious why the same men who complain what a privilege it is for a woman to just sell her body are not out there selling their bodies as well. If it's just a transaction, no desire necessary, why can't men sell their bodies and suck/take dick, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:12 AM
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BTW I've never paid for sex not that it matters. Curious why you felt the need to point this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:09 AM
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They dont go writing articles or bother to do research for the women that become and escort by choice. Are you kidding? We've been getting "sEx WoRk Is EmPoWeRiNg!!1!" shoved down our throats for years now. They only look at the seedy side. And it's about fucking time. I'm tired of the cuddling narrative. hookers by and large do not end up junkies because they love cuddling so much. How the heck would you know if you're not a working escort? You dont, you make assumptions because you Think thats…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:07 AM
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You not being forcibly trafficked doesn't negate the reality for the other 99%. And you aren't exactly going to get any clients from this thread if you come in here talking about how much you hate it, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:04 AM
4

That men create for each other from childhood. Men can fix it with a snap of their fingers, but they don't seem to want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:02 AM
4

Why not discourage homophobia so men can freely fuck each other or give each other brojobs without shame? Why do we continue to force women to bear the brunt of that bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:00 AM
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Somehow nobody knows a man like that but the crime stats indicate that everyone actually knows a man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:58 AM
2

You have all the sexual outlets in the world LOL what are you talking about, because paid rape isn't one of them you think you're the victim of a hate crime now. And your hand is always available. What is it with the beta males who can't think past their next orgasm? ugh how pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:57 AM
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Legalizing it has been proven to make human trafficking absolutely explode. That's the downside. Plus when German tried it, women were forced into it when they became unemployed at their day jobs. They literally could not collect unemployment because you have to look for work...and the first place they were pushed to were the brothels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:56 AM
1

"Force those women one way or the other"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:54 AM
1

"Escorts" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:54 AM
2

have you heard of unions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:53 AM
5

BUT MY DICK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:53 AM
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Based on his attitude throughtout the thread he doesn't care about that, either. Completely and utterly revolving his whole world around his dick. Quite the beta way of living methinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:44 AM
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The right view it as something 'special' between two commited people, so they dislike paying for sex for this reason. The left see sex as something two people do together for mutual benefit, so they dislike paying for sex for that reason. The right wants women to see it that way to lock her down to one man The left wants women to see it that way so they can all get a crack at her The women lose every time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:43 AM
3

What are your rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:42 AM
3

Somehow tho the prostitutes don't get called gold diggers. That title is reserved for the women who have the nerve to expect someone who asked them to carve three hours out of her evening to listen to him bloviate about himself at a restaurant to actually pay for her order.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:37 AM
9

Our brains are very associative devices. Men are so, so, so entrenched and brainwashed by porn that they will kill to keep it. They do not argue about how easy it is to brainwash people when it comes to literally anything else: no other addiction gets argued down to "it's not possible to warp your brain on that" quite like porn use. Here's my question: if men have made it clear that they will spend billions per year on porn, why is so much of it free?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:36 AM
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Pimps write that second quote. Sorry LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah. It's not complicated. I feel sorry for you. Imagine being this controlled by a body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:32 AM
1

LMAO crazy how many tight ass Becky are getting triggered by this thread. I hope Johns are reading this and booking their next appointment while taking a laugh at seething prudes who think men should have their accord to obtain sex. Wow, so why the supposed discussion question I just wasted my time on, then? Turns out my explanation is correct: most men who use prostitutes do so because they hate women. I'm speaking about men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:30 AM
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Q1-Is ''John Shaming'' (guys paying for sex) mostly a Western thing? Couldn't say. That said, the Nordic Model is in play in Europe which punishes johns but not the workers, so I would say no. Q2-Do you really think it's about paying for sex the problem (prostitution) or the reason/context he paid for it? Ex: Girls will reject an average dude if he admitted paying for sex yet, we all know the Super rich millionaires, Finance/Wall Street guys, Athletes, Movie stars, Music Idol somewhat all have e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:27 AM
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No. Going dutch was about women trying to stop being date-raped right off the bat because you bought her a salad. Nothing to do with him being the only breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:17 PM
0

For all the primal psychology why don't beta males accept their fate and either go off together (leading to all the sex you can imagine) or just die off?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:20 PM
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I don't disagree with you or Lilith's response below, but i want to point out that women are groomed from birth to both mistake what danger is AND to gaslight themselves out of their gut feelings when they do appear. Perhaps if we weren't starting girls off by telling them that boy pushed them down "because that's how he says he likes you", AND encouraged girls to recognize red flag behavior from boys their whole lives instead of calling it "love", AND didn't gaslight and groom them into always …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:18 PM
1

She doesn't have that choice over his life - he can abstain, get a reversible vasectomy, wear condoms, advocate for more options for male birth control, and most importantly don't ejaculate inside her. It's not that complicated. Poor men, and shit men, and mediocre men, all benefit from the behavior of the men in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:17 AM
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If they ejaculated responsibly this would never be a concern for them. Men should only be ejaculating into women they want babies with, and preferably after a long discussion with the woman about making babies and raising them together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:16 AM
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You don't take away someone's autonomy tho. Men are in full control of pregnancy, period. Don't nut irresponsibly, and you'll never have to worry about paying for a kid you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:13 AM
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Can't wait to read the manifesto you leave behind after the spree killing starts You in Atlanta by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:49 AM
1

Not All Women Are Like That
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:45 AM
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All women are being charitable, aren't tey? Shouldn't you be grateful, since sex is the end all be all you'll die without it? a lot of FDS members decided to post rants in response lol You know the sub you're in has debate in the title right? You're the only one ranting, so much so you had to make a post. This is fast becoming another incel shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:44 AM
1

It's said recently that only about 1/3 of gay men engage in anal intercourse with other men. Just because you're gay doesn't mean penetration is still the end all (hah) be all. I had a friend many years ago who said something similar to you: "I just don't get it, women have assholes too?" Obviously it's deeper than that, but certain people today are insisting quite violently that parts are just parts now. And while that may be true: a dick is just a dick no matter which sex whips it out, an assh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:06 AM
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You aren't wrong, hard to argue with this. But - men are equally homophobic. Tons of men have sex with men on the down low while publicly and even internally identifying as straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:03 AM
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In terms of theories, some would say all humans are bi and it's societal judgment that drives our behavior and suppression. Plenty of men have sex with other men their whole lives while calling themselves straight. Why do you think that is? But in terms of women - women are taught growing up that all girls experiment with other girls and its NBD. Men expect threesomes at some point, etc. so plenty of girls think nothing of it, but are not actually sexually or romantically attracted to other fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:02 AM
2

CHSIMPS GONNA CHSIMP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:37 AM
1

Really? Are men scrubbing homes and raising kids alone these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:33 AM
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in the time before women were in the workforce Women were always in the workforce tho - poor women married to poor women were always two-earner families. I think what these men are thinking of really just boils down to a woman that puts out and shuts up. The combo mother-maid-whore that their own mothers - even the feminist ones - all to often unfortuantely raise their sons to expect. Marriage and family has never been better for men. They are rarely the sole earner now, and yet 98% of the home …
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 03:38 AM
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"Ugh she was 120 pounds. Fat cow. 0/5 do not recommend." -Billy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:51 AM
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Is this something you might use for the right price? I'm guessing OP is a man, because women have been doing this for many, many years, not counting telling women friends where they'd be on date one just in case they didn't make it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:47 AM
1

How about women In general be more receptive to unattractive nerds No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 08:07 PM
3

I'm presuming the men are virgins in your scenario as well, then, and women should toss non-virgin men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:15 AM
2

Speak for yourself OP. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 08:50 PM
1

Is there something wrong with being a corporate drone? Is it worse than being a stay at home drone? Perhaps more women would be inclined to stay home raising your bloodlines if Being a homemaker were not derided as inferior to working in an office Men put half their paychecks in her bank account every two weeks, thus keeping the leverage the same for both parties to prevent any need for hypergamy, rather than hoarding the resources for himself and treating her like staff. Even servants get a pie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:19 PM
0

She put up with his broke bullshit for 25 years. Amazon didn't even turn a profit for the first 20 years. And he cheated on her when he got successful and bought himself a glow-up - go Google him to see the short fat pasty bald looking loser with pleated pants and zero muscle definition she got the pleasure of riding on Saturday nights until he decided to jack himself up for other women. She chose to be classy about it and took her rightful 50%. He didn't foot the bill for jack shit. And she don…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:12 PM
1

All it takes is a large enough minority of them to disrupt the whole system. Shame we can't remember that when we're #NotAllMen-ning the women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:10 PM
0

10,000% this. There's a reason why men spent so much time and effort hoarding the world's resources, keeping women trapped in their homes while also not allowing them to live alone or be outside at night, not able to open bank accounts or own homes or establish credit in their names, to raise children alone, to abort if they don't want the pregnancy, to be lesbian and fully inaccessible, to keep them out of the workplace unless they were making coffee or the men were at war, hell to keep them ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:02 PM
3

And yet the campaign to shame and threaten and wear women down into lowering their standards straight into hell only intensifies. When standards should actually be higher than ever. And men should be happy to compete for the sake of self-determination (literally).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:01 PM
1

wOn'T SoMeONe tHiNk oF tHe MeN
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:57 PM
1

but then where would the government get their canon fodder
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:09 AM
2

No. I do consider the tossing of birthed children into landfills as such, tho. Do you think state-forced abortion is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 05:46 AM
1

I don't think this follows. I'm not sure how exactly you define "pressure", but let's say it means something like "make continued efforts to seduce her and build up sexual tension despite her at best lukewarm responses and at worst outright rejections" and not any kind of forcing, coercing etc. So, like an Aziz Ansari kind of date In the end she willingly gave you sex, so obviously there is some desire etc etc. No. She's avoiding violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:25 AM
1

Is that why prostitution is so prolific? And strip clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:21 AM
2

I agree, BUT but in the end she can actually date someone based on love and emotional connection instead of dating someone for conveniences. Men have made it clear looks are all that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:05 PM
1

Of all the things to lose one's shit about 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:03 PM
2

Because cats are amazing and provide far less bullshit and emotional manipulation to put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:01 PM
10

Sorry that your world doesn't allow you to do more than one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:15 PM
26

The vast majority of crimes against women are perpetrated by the men in their homes, then by the men they know. Women are most vulnerable where they sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:12 PM
0

Prince Charming was actually just not an asshole. Sad that nice is now considered too high if a standard. Also sad that men wouldn't want to be heroic and admired by others in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:08 PM
3

That's because we normalize abusive assholes as romantic to girls starting in preschool. "He pushed you down (and bloodied your knees) because he likes you! He just doesn't know how to tell you! Aren't you so lucky he chose you." And that carries throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:04 PM
0

Not All Women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:59 PM
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I've never experienced women doing that to me. Perhaps you are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:57 AM
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Ah, the old "I'VE never experienced it, therefore it doth not exist" post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:55 AM
2

"I don't understand why men should have to actually man up and take care of theur responsibilities. Women should handle their bullshit in full!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:06 AM
2

what does what women did 100 years ago have to do with me and my generation ? Literally everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:01 PM
1

That's not the point of your post at all - you are here complaining that working women are resentful of men for not providing them with a stay at home option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:46 PM
2

Your entire post is now in bad faith - you're anti-woman MGTOW bias is on full display here. So there's actually no debating with you; you're just pulling your script snippets from the MRA playbook, which counts on you not thinking critically or understanding nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:45 PM
2

You'll have to do better than copypasta from the MRA handbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:41 PM
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I'm still waiting for the day when we either start calling men with children Working Fathers or stop calling women Working Mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:38 PM
2

Women are conditioned from birth to be mothers, despite college and career before then. Even among parity-based, equality-minded couples, when children are discussed or prepared for, the assumption is that mom will cut back hours or stop working completely to raise the children. I've read more than one discussion from couples who were surprised at how old school patriarchal conditioning kicked in when kids came along - it wasn't their overt attitude. I know a couple who went against the grain. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:36 PM
3

They pushed for both the ability to enter the workplace without solely being forced to make coffee all day, AND for men to stay home and raise children if that's what they wanted to do. There are also working men who would love to stay home and/or enjoy that paternity leave slowly starting to come to companies. Women fought for that, too. (Though there are plenty of men who unfortunately take paternity leave to mean vacation and still stick their wives with all the newborn work while they play v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:05 PM
1

Plus, it has become ironic that the passive and effeminate men that feminists, women, and society has spend so much time trying to create This shit again?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:37 PM
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The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men women not to marry. FTFE
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:16 PM
3

OP's assertion wasn't about being shunned because she made more money, but about men not providing their part while still expecting women to perform traditional female labor with no contribution from themselves. Seems like you missed the point by a mile...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:37 PM
1

I'D DO HIM Goodbye Horses intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:51 AM
2

That's...still enslavement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:48 AM
5

a young girl who was too afraid to go through the pregnancy. How about we stop impregnating young girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:46 AM
3

If they don't ejaculate irresponsibly they literally never have to worry about this happening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:44 AM
2

can't be scammed if you use common sense and a little self-respect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:02 PM
0

you really think men (should) play zero role start to finish
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:58 PM
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"Treat women like human beings instead of a walking set of holes who only wish to extract your resources" probably
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 12:40 AM
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checks what sub I'm in nah mate, r/incels is that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:40 PM
1

Pretty sure Donald Sutherland wasn't leading Hunger Games.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 07:05 AM
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Men rape and kill women by the truckload every week and expect to be supported. You can go to a damn movie.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 07:04 AM
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