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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time? | Logistics | african-nightmare | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 08:46 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Just ask if you can kiss herIt doesn’t matter lol if anything in 2025, girls will find that consensual shit attractive | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 01:28 AM |
| -1 | Just ask if you can kiss herNah, if a girl wants to kiss you, doesn’t matter how you go about it at that point | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Is DMing low win rate or I fucked up?If you have mutuals it actually isn’t that hard and I’ve met 3-5 girls that way. Even had one girl fly out to LA to get fucked lol I would start with an opener that tries to make the connection like “Are you also from X? I swear I recognize you” Grab their attention off the bat | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 09:50 PM |
| 16 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.Bro WHAT 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?Do you have any advice for me? | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?What you mean? | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?Yeah I don’t think that’s the move lol. I do like the other options though. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 02:58 PM |
| -1 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?I appreciate that advice for real. Number 3 is a great idea, I didn’t think of going for the ears. I did try grabbing her ass but she’d move my hand a bit more to the waist or back area. Also I’m confused on what you’re saying with #2. You’re saying you’re gay? | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 12:29 PM |
| 2 | How to DMDo you have any mutuals? If not, this almost never works. Why would the girl trust/respond to you? | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 11:13 AM |
| -1 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?Nah I wouldn’t date her 😂 just hit | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 09:29 AM |
| -6 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?She chose me? How is that clingy lol | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 09:11 AM |
| -24 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?Nahhh she was the one | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 08:53 AM |
| 5 | Why wouldn’t he let me give him a blowjob?I feel like half of the detail in here was not necessary to what you were trying to say lol | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 11:52 PM |
| 9 | I keep hearing stories of guys on dating apps getting a girl to come over directly to their place and having sex, how do you do this?It’s really just contextual to each situation but I’ve done it a few times. For example, if you both live in the same neighborhood (I’m in a dense part of LA), you both meet at a local bar and then you can easily invite her over before or after for a quick drink or to hang out. Or, you have something on your dating profile about cooking or something in your home, and you casually ask her if she wants to come over. I’ve had multiple girls ask me to cook for them (I do cook and have it on my profi… | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Ah there’s the difference haha | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Do you live in the US…? Never heard journey used in this context bro lol | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 07:37 PM |
| 4 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Just be causal lol “How was the drive/walk/train?” You’ll sound like a major try hard if you say journey | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 04:57 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Journey? I feel like that’s a strong term lol | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 15 | Being a 22m virgin is making me suicidalHoly shit chill out. Not having sex at your age isn’t insanely abnormal. Work on your social skills, don’t be weird, get some dating apps, and BOOM! I didn’t have my first lay until 22 and now pull bitches every other week here in LA | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 05:08 AM |
| 2 | I am thinking about visiting the USA, and wondering between Miami and Los Angeles, which is best for finding the most beautiful women?LA has no beaches?! Dumbest shit I’ve ever read | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 04:08 PM |
| 46 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?Hell nah 😂😂😂😂 anyone who brings up Reddit in real life is socially awkward | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 03:02 PM |
| 0 | If girls keep asking if you're gay, it might just mean you're attractive.Who said I’m not? Lol but thanks for assuming | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 11:15 PM |
| -18 | If girls keep asking if you're gay, it might just mean you're attractive.another dude that has definitely been called gay before 😂 | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 01:37 AM |
| 42 | If girls keep asking if you're gay, it might just mean you're attractive.Uhhhh no lol You gotta fix your vibe if a single girl is calling you gay. No disrespect. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Went to a Café Alone Today and Just Watched People Interact...How long is the gap between chatting with her and going up to her again, usually? | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Where to meet white women as a black man?🤦🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 05:53 AM |
| 2 | liberal vs conservative states for day game, which do you prefer?Man this is Reddit lol you’re only gonna hear about liberals and the positives. These people think anything red is Nazi Germany | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 06:16 AM |
| 6 | This article explains why you should move east in the USA to find women.Moving cross country for girls is crazy 😂😂😂 It’s not like there arent girls out west. This is something else lmao | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 12:43 AM |
| 3 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?If you were to get a girlfriend, you need to find time in your schedule for her. So dating needs to have that same mindset. If you aren’t willing to give up a weeknight here and there for a date, why bother dating? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 09:59 AM |
| 4 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Yeah I’ve tried for coffee dates and it just can’t be escalated. The day time is a completely different vibe and the set up at coffee shops isn’t for intimacy, in comparison to bars. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 09:57 AM |
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