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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Is everyone getting laid?Men don't get uglier in their 30s/40s unless you completely let yourself go | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | 29 IRL “Signals” she’s attracted to you (fresh from the field)Most of this is just common sense? | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity about my age?You think people stop going to bars after their early 20s? And you lied about your age by 2 years? huh? | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedBarely any public dates? I'm not saying you're lying, but I'm doubting these women were on the attractive side | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 06:03 AM |
| 4 | Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed.Why would it be height/ethnicity if you're getting a first date? That makes no sense | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 03:05 AM |
| 3 | It's easy as fuck5'8 is about average male height in the US... | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 5 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]How is 5'8 hard mode when it's an inch under average height, lol | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageI've matched with tons of attractive women on dating apps...no attractive women are begging to come over and blow you, lol | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 03:46 AM |
| 21 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?I highly doubt those stats are true. 40 isn't old enough to just completely give up lol | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Recently I noticed a pattern.You can't see 6 pack abs unless your shirt is off... | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 04:18 AM |
| 2 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?5'8 isn't even that short man. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How much of a role are you finding a man's height to be in seduction?That’s interesting, it seems like somewhat older women would be a little less strict. While they can still be attractive they’re usually not as attractive as when they were younger and obviously men prioritize physical appearance. I also wonder how much they care about facial appearance. Finding a 6’ dude isn’t that rare but finding one that’s fairly handsome too, I think you’re getting into rarer territory. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 04:27 PM |
| -2 | Do you think slightly older women (30-40s) are generally less picky about men's height? In the US at least.idk man, this seems overly cynical | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 07:19 AM |
| 1 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?What hints were they dropping? Just like body language and eye contact? | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 06:36 PM |
| 7 | WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME?This story doesn't make sense. Whether it was her birthday or not, why would you decline? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed?This is bad advice, she's gonna find out eventually. Might as well get it out of the way. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 02:47 AM |
| 4 | This question is for everyone about personal experience what do you consider obvious signals that someone is attracted to you and there's no doubt they want to *make out, fool around, have sex * with you?This story doesn't make any sense...Did that girl like you or not? | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 03:10 AM |
| 0 | A conversation trick that instantly makes you more attractiveIsn't this common sense? | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How to be the guy she has a crush on.How are you supposed to get anywhere if you don't ask her out? This makes no sense at all. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Overly Cold, Direct, Impatient ''Grumpy'' Attitude... could this have been an Indication of Interest ? or the complete opposite?Why do you think someone being rude to you is an IOI? | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Are black girls underrated?lol at you thinking being a Trump supporter is a positive thing. That just means they aren't too bright | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 08:11 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with going from unattractive to attractive?Do people really need to be told to brush their teeth and trim their nails? | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | If you live in Seattle, your f**ked, and will probably only have hookers to rely on. (unfortunate truth), please prove me wrong.Why is there a post about Seattle on here everyday? Is it the same guy? | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How to take her to my place or hersHaha I'm a guy and was thinking this is super sketch | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | I made a post a while back. I finally did it, I approached and got the numberIf I were you I would have texted her asking her out for a drink or something fairly quickly. I don't think endless texting gets you anywhere | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Post-Covid “Men vs Women” trend cockblocking me?Thought it was crazy you're getting 99+ likes on tinder. A previous comment you made says you describe yourself as a 6-7. How does that work? I'm considered a very good-looking guy and can't get shit on the apps. I'm guessing you're very tall, high-paying job? But I think the apps in general are just worse now. More monetization and I think less people are using them. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Any older guys (35+) look super young for their age?I'd probably prefer to just mention my age and get it out of they way right off the bat, otherwise I would just keep worrying about it. When you do bring up your age, are they usually surprised? Sounds like they don't care though so that's good to hear. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:24 AM |
| 6 | How to use dating apps: a guideThose lines about running from spiders and Serena Williams are very cringe and not really clever, but I guess other than that's it's good info. | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 57 | Girl went from messaging me first to unmatching and I don’t understand (Hinge chat analysis)This stuff happens all the time on OLD. You gotta remember, she's probably talking to multiple others guys. There's also the chance she just deleted her account, I've seen that before. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Had an Amazing Night, Then Got Completely Ghosted Why Does This Happen?Not sure how drunk you guys were, but alcohol may be a factor. There's been a few times where I've been out drinking, and girls were very flirty and even kissing me, only to be ghosted the next day. One girl texted me just to apologize for her behavior and said she had drank too much. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 01:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with dating apps?There was no shift, dating apps have always sucked. They just suck a little more now as they're more monetized | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Besides clubs and high end malls what are other places to increase your numbers?How have you approached them at a gym? Just ask about their routine and stuff? I go to small private gym where I see a lot of the same people often, there just aren't a lot of opportunities to approach without it being awkward | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 12:36 AM |
| 0 | 10/10 in gymWho initiated the conversation and what was said? I'm finding gym approaches so difficult, there just really isn't any opening for an approach | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Spotting Interest under 10 MinutesIt's probably best to take a break in the conversation early and give her a chance to continue it. You don't need 40 minutes for that. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightNo, this is dumb. You're gonna look like a dumbass when you take your shoes off and she's see you drop 3/4 inches. You really think people won't notice that? lol at this sub. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 03:37 PM |
| 3 | approached a girl after a date and boyfriend/husband came up and told me to fck offThis post makes no sense at all | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 05:52 AM |
| 9 | Matching with beautiful women on tinder but don’t know how to open“So so so, you have decided to come down the path!!! Of being gorgeous, huh!? 😤 Look at you! Stuff like this is so cheesy man...It's also just putting them on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Can Older Men Succeed On Dating AppsIt's so dumb when people on here recommend 3+ inch shoe lifts. You're gonna look like a dumbass when you take your shoes off and she sees you drop 3 inches, lol | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”Tell her you have about 8 or 9. Offer to fit her into your rotation. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 07:16 PM |
| 3 | How to stop nerves when i'm talking to a beautifull lady?“Hi, I’m Bob. I just wanted to tell you something. I’ve been really shy and nervous when talking to attractive women my entire life and today’s the day I decided to defeat this fear once and for all. So I just wanted to come up and tell you about that. Nice meeting you”. This doesn't exactly ooze confidence though. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 06:20 PM |
| 6 | I like the bartender at my #1 pickup spotIt seems like she isn't interested. I mean declining 4 times, whatever the excuse seems like a lot. Seems like she could have always rescheduled if she was interested. I'd move on. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | OLD doesn’t work for meDamn, you're doing great. Do you live in a big city? I've been told all my life how good looking I am yet I really struggle on the apps. I'm 37M. I'm in a smaller-moderate sized city and I'm wondering if that's the issue. I'm also 5'9 which I guess is considered short on the apps, lol. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Had conversation with girl at bar. She gave me her business card but I'm getting mixed signals.The difference is walking away without saying anything after talking for 20-30 seconds isn't that weird at all. Walking away after talking for like 15 minutes like we had is. Wouldn't most normal people would say something like "Ok, nice to meet you, bye" regardless of the level of interest? The tattoo thing was just a joke to start a conversation. Just didn't land. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**Who would want to be with a woman that uses tinder as an ego boost? That's a pretty red flag. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 04:48 AM |
| -1 | Had conversation with girl at bar. She gave me her business card but I'm getting mixed signals.Wasn't her walking away without saying anything a rejection though? I have more pride than that. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 09:30 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Hinge is the best dating appI've also noticed that while superlikes barely work on Tinder and are apparently seen as creepy, they actually work really damn well on Hinge. I've been sending out roses without even a message and been getting good matches, and sometimes they even send the first message. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:41 PM |
| 27 | Your favorite method to escalate to sex?Point to your penis and raise your eyebrows | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How would you sell your profession in IT sector?Nothing sexy about IT? Uh, IT people are very intelligent. | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 09:57 PM |
| -9 | My Most Successful Cold Approach Technique100 numbers from girls with low standards, lol | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 02:35 AM |
| 42 | My Most Successful Cold Approach TechniqueCheesy | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Do women usually start swiping in there dating app when there horny?That was bugging me too. Not sure why you got down voted. No wonder people on this sub can't pull, lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Do you think any aspects of game will be different after the pandemic?Night life venues have been on the decline? Not saying you're wrong but I've never heard that and it doesn't make sense. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Someone please help me understand womenI did provide some banter, and she even laughed at it. Also, some people in here are saying she probably just wanted to hook up and I feel like I did enough for that. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Someone please help me understand womenI'll probably go next week but not because of her. She's probably not interested. I should have used that line though, haha that's good! | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 10:42 AM |
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