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It depends how you approach. Im not a huge day game guy but if you arent agressive, creepy etc... I dont think its really a big deal. However if you are yeah.
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:47 PM
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Only if youre Jeffrey Toobin
/r/seduction18/11/20 10:55 AM
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Pua in your 30s is way easier. Lose your v card at 25 and make up for lost time after that. Allot of late bloomers becomes the best at pick up.
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:30 AM
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Im bad at tech dont know how to start a group chat
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:14 AM
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Thanks bot
/r/seduction16/11/20 06:49 AM
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53km so around 25 miles. My elo score is probably shit so it helps me allot.
/r/seduction16/11/20 06:48 AM
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Yes but do it around 9pm
/r/seduction16/11/20 05:59 AM
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I knew an ex drug dealer who was sad as fuck his girl left him.
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:23 AM
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I could see the nervousness in ops face tbh in his r/amiugly pics. I think the old school pua advice of just mass approaching to desentize himself to rejection would help him allot.
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:08 AM
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I also think girls get even more turned off if a black guy is nervous because of the sterotype of confidence. The expectation of confidence is even more there and seeming needy carries a bigger penalty.
/r/seduction13/11/20 04:37 PM
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I think it also depends where OP is located, a big city or smaller town, medium sized city. Also if he has bad body language cause hes nervous this can excsercibate the issue even more.
/r/seduction13/11/20 01:55 AM
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Belgrade is a top pick up city. Maybe the best ive seen. Its not a neg city tbh imo, also it maybe has one of the best day game set ups. Serbs are just so blunt that negging is just seen as fun. Like a gentle neg isnt seen a negative if that makes sense. The summer here is supposed to be amazing. I was here and even with covid amazing fun time. You should return in June. Great club game, even better day game. I also feel the girls here are incredibly approachable. Also incredible tinder city. Se…
/r/seduction12/11/20 05:59 AM
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To go back to god to me its like some people think god is real and act as such. Leagues are only real if in an interaction one party believes in them. Most interesting and confident people don't.
/r/seduction12/11/20 05:42 AM
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I dont care. I was just saying that some women wont date men due to leagues. They see it. Tbh most women ive dated on paper have been out of my league. I dont have a traditionally impressive resume , average face, out of shape. However there are some who will never touch me do to that. Most of those are people id consider boring or who view sex or relationships as more materially transactional. Its just something to be aware of.
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:32 AM
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Also hiding takes a ton of effort. If you dont hide shit from the start about who you are and what you want you dont have to worry about breaking frame as much or getting caught.
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:48 AM
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Yes and no. Some girls have an idea of leagues tbh the cool ones dont and I think leagues exist more for ltrs than ons. Like some career girls who arent cynical about their careers really do think in terms of leagues for ltrs. The girl whose hot and whose life is the club often thinks in terms of leagues.
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:46 AM
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Most women ive met are a little bi. Ive met maybe 2 who arent.
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:44 AM
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In certain venues it can prevent getting amoged. Its benefit if you have an extemely low tier face is that side effect. And it makes allot of hobbies easier. I dive, hike and climb and not having a better foundation makes it much more difficult and also its nice to have being shirtless in the minus column. If you have an average face and are even five five it can help a ton aesthetically and can make getting laid easier as in less shit tests more likely a first or second date fuck, make kino mor…
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:41 AM
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My personality helps me but tbh im definetly the exception to the rule. And tbh its also cause ive tried allot of hobbies, read a ton and have travelled extensively. If I did this to get women it would be insanely inefficent.
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:38 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction10/11/20 10:25 PM
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So whats the biggest difference between us girls and foreign. Ive found the shit test level is lower. Im also kind of an friendly asshole and ive found it works better with fellow expats as were misfits.
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:14 PM
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Private rooms in hostels or shared airbnb flats your first week if you long travel is great to make travel buddies.
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:12 PM
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I also work online. Tbh digital nomad lifestyle is optimal for pick up. If you decide to visit belgrade let me know.
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:11 PM
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Im trying to. I think its good for practice. And I dont like very many people tbh.
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:09 PM
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First date then activity or if youre feeling bold drinks then venue change to club and try and make out Second I think you may be advertising provider too much making you 3rd date sex material. Hence "date properly". Do something fun, fun is better than fancy imo.
/r/seduction10/11/20 02:12 AM
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I knew one guy who did I was there it was late at night and he had been a model. She was...he had interesting looks standards.
/r/seduction06/11/20 10:12 PM
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In order Men who are good with women, have a high lay count Women Men who only read pua Guys who niether know pick up or practice
/r/seduction06/11/20 10:10 PM
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Clubs it matters and the amount of time between meeting and fucking. Also means less shit testing. Tbh start out of shape cause it will make you better.
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:30 PM
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I do it. I just find it annoying. Its not lazy I just enjoy taking a short walk and walking into a random resturant. I go to the gym, I have allot of hobbies.
/r/seduction05/11/20 03:43 PM
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I mean as a guy who doesnt care what resturant he goes to I get it. I take the lead but on trivial stuff its boring, I wish you could just say meet me in the city center and we will find a place and chill. Women care about minituae, nesting and all that.
/r/seduction05/11/20 03:19 PM
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Its like sales if you wait till long to you close she will lose interest
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:42 PM
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I often flirt with a girls friend first and then switch to her. I find this works well when out drinking. Some girls seeing another girl can help but it has to be brought up organically (not as an opener imho) and can also backfire.
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:39 PM
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The cheif non physical traits that are attractive are sexually charisma, intelligence, creativity, dominance and risk taking. Humor displays ability in the first 3 and to a lesser extent the later 2. Kindness and empathy are emotionally attractive. So think provider vs lover, dad vs cad.
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:38 PM
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Romantic relationships are transactional. So you have to provide some amount of one or more of the following resources or entertainment or excitement, good genes (looks, altheteism), social status. Unlike friendship a partner wants some net gain for their time and energy and reproduction is the unconcsious root. So genes, status or provider. Even having a risky lifestyle falls under this as who would kill the tiger going into the village. We all have to modify ourselvs to be attractive. Ive meet…
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:14 PM
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Almost anyone can travel the world and should. I know people on the specterum who travels. He has a great gf now and even fucked a stripper from the strip club he used to go to and was poor till his late twenties. One of my best friends is. Dont travel to get laid, travel to see mountains and meet amazing people. Another friend is studying a social science in a top school hes on the specterum. Being on the specterum doesnt have to mean you have poor prospects or cant be adventerous. Travel by it…
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:17 AM
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One of 2 reasons. She wants an emotional tampon She likes you but isnt physically attracted to you If you make your intentions clear on the onset you wont be friendzoned. Its that simple. Also let me add being low value in terms of career but not experince, skills is way less of a hinderence for casual sex and fwb situations. Also free spirited people often care less about that if you have a fun lifestyle and are intellectually curious. There are "career" women who like that.
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:09 AM
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Almost every women ive known has had a stalker. Or some legit horror story. Honestly though allot of girls do want a bad boy. I mean "bad boy" is such a loose term though. It can just mean doesnt work a nine to five, has high risk hobbies. Puts experinces of finances. The way its used, it doesnt have to mean being "cruel". I find when allot of guys complain about bad boys what they mean is that. In my life I've found that allot of self proclaimed "nice guys" are genuinly judgemental selfish peop…
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:43 AM
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I think guys equate being a nice guy to not being sexual. That is where the confusion comes from. Or they try and be nice and are really just boring. Its the boring part that hurts them.
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:33 AM
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Ill half agree. On tinder being nice helps but also foward. If you want sex be flirty. Move the conversation foward to a date. Inviting a girl to your place isnt not nice if she seems like the type and you arent weird about it. Im much more of a nice guy on tinder than irl and it works. Being a bad boy via text is like being an internet tough guy. At best you come off as try hard.
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:29 AM
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Probably. I mean I think allot of men now dont have any close friendships. That to me is even sadder than being friendzoned and also means you will lean too much on your girl because thats the only close bond you have. Also when ive had female friends and confided in them ironically they became attracted to me. And I didnt see them like that. Women definetly get friendzoned too.
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:15 AM
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Because the traits I look for in a friend arent the same I look for in a lover.
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:10 AM
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Its not really the same. My male friends if I had an emergency I could call. I have and visa verse. Weve lent each other money, weve helped each other move. I know secrets about them their spouses dont. Ive spent extensive time crashing on their sofa. Ive been there when they first learned they would be a father, divorces, seeing a girl almost bring them to break down. Theyve seen me piss drunk and crying, theyve backed me up in fights and near fights. You never get that across genders were as f…
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:07 AM
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I think the difference between friends who are women and friendzoned is the assymetry and the fact you never let her know you wanted to fuck at the start.
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:01 AM
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Be direct. Ive friendzoned and been friendzoned. Honestly if youre not direct and dont get rejected you wont even be good friends. Im friends with a girl who rejected me and decidely not "friendzoned".
/r/seduction05/11/20 12:59 AM
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This. Tbh its why try and date a few girls at once. Unless I really like one and its getting serious.
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:50 PM
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I mean I went to that bar allot and talked to that chick allot and she was gonna quit her job in a week to go to spain. I think if youre a regular at a smaller place and you vibe well with that bartender it isnt super rare. Had a buddy who dated a stripper that way that deserves applause. Also it depends, like most women dont like it unless youre someone theyd want to date so again it depends on context.
/r/seduction03/11/20 06:55 PM
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Its happened to me.
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:23 PM
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Some cliches are true
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:55 AM
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Women can be logical but prefer processing things emotionally. Why they are more empathetic and men tend to be more goal based.
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:36 AM
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Unless she asks to chill during her break.
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:24 AM
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I mean women are less logical. Most women will admit this after a few drinks.
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:02 AM
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I cant stand too much positivity. Negging makes sense.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:50 AM
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Do you bust your friends balls? Do you enjoy compliments (I don't)? Negging is fun My friends and I genuinely insult each other. Imo negging done right shows one your honest, youre not just a bullshit artist, two you have options. People who are only positive arent entertaining.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:48 AM
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Im not offended. I get how someone repeating that would be at best insanely annoying. How you ask for the number matters allot. I generally hang with a chick for like an hour have done a venue change and very often she asks to put her number in my phone. Asking for the number before rapport is built is inefficent imo. The number is a way to get a date not its own accomplishment that some guys treat it as. Badly asking for her number<Giving her your number<Asking for her number correctly If a wom…
/r/seduction01/11/20 09:06 AM
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Im in the same city for a while if you want to wing one day
/r/seduction30/10/20 06:51 AM
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And I think women know that. Ive seen dudes bomb being vulnerable, maybe it works on some idk but the cost benefit analysis doesnt work out. I think people like the sound of the advice to be honest. Its very new agey and comforting to guys starting out who have insecurities and it probably works sometime. It is also a product of the year the book came out, there were ted talks about vulnerability and so on, it was trending. I would replace vulnerability with self honesty. Be honest with yourself…
/r/seduction30/10/20 06:35 AM
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They dont. Hes in his late 20s so op thinks it does. Take care of yourself.
/r/seduction29/10/20 03:23 PM
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3 out of 4 and over 30. Wasnt homeshooled. The trick is that worked for me was to lean into my fears and embrace risk. Letting myself be the loud fearless dude I was as a kid before my controlling parents tried their damndest to make me timid and meek. I think our generation has allot of "natural" alphas that schools and parents tried to make beta. The same way in the generation before that women were pushed to be housewives and adventerous bold girls were ground down to be meek. Fear is the min…
/r/seduction29/10/20 03:19 PM
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Ask for her number if youre priority is turning into a date However I would say its better to spend time building rapport Im in europe so people use whatsapp. Maybe in the us facebook messanger or ig is better now I dont know. Giving her your number is the least likely to turn into a date. However dont be forcefull about it. Personally when I go out usually evening or night I find a girl I click with and spend a few hours with her do a venue change or do tinder. I dont day game much in fact in n…
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:41 PM
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Im a "jerk". You have to have good techincal game if youre naturally a jerk. You can be horrible at pua and a jerk. Most acquired it early on through trail and error. Most of my friends are jerk and shoot the shit discuss tactics of pick up without calling in that. Essentially they worked on game without knowing it.
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:08 PM
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Elbow isnt fun but its nessecary if you want to be careful
/r/seduction29/10/20 01:45 PM
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Im in europe. They hug I used to hate it but now ive gotten used to it. Where I am now people still do. Honestly I think now you have to choose between proper covid protection and kino. Ive already had covid during like the first wave. You have to decide your priorites.
/r/seduction29/10/20 01:43 PM
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Yeah you should seek to conquer your flaws. Im not an anti egotist I am very much an egotist. You shouldnt let something hit you and if you do that is the mistake imo. I think that is the mentality our grandparents generation had right.
/r/seduction29/10/20 01:39 PM
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Fuck I have hot matches ive never messaged, I cant imagine how many chicks have
/r/seduction29/10/20 12:59 PM
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Unpopular opinion but vulnerbrality isnt good. A person should try and be as strong as possible. Real strength not fake. Having had a hard life I thank god im not vulnerable. Fake vulnerability is the biggest turn off and if youre not a vulnerable guy embrace that. Being open to love and sharing yourself is good but purposely being vulnerable isnt. Vulnerable people can do great things dont get me wrong. Maybe it will get you laid but when life hits you side ways and youre dead broke and alone a…
/r/seduction29/10/20 12:49 PM
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Living the dream. Mom probably fucks better tbh
/r/seduction29/10/20 10:23 AM
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Fuck congrats. She def wants you. Teach us your ways sensei.
/r/seduction29/10/20 10:22 AM
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The most interesting girl I know is quiet
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:31 PM
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Know you now how we feel
/r/seduction28/10/20 05:07 PM
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Allot of quiet girls are incredibly interesting and funnier than regular girls. This post did make me laugh tbh though. I'm a bad person.
/r/seduction28/10/20 03:46 PM
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I like fun
/r/seduction28/10/20 03:44 PM
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It was orginally how to fuck allot. There was an era before Mark Manson. Some of us still just wanna be fuck. Dont male slut shame
/r/seduction28/10/20 03:16 PM
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If shes american yes, european no
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:13 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:13 PM
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The two most successful friends with women work completely different. Both are naturals. One follows PUA type strategy the other is a just sweet not cocky, no edginess around girls, but somehow pulls like crazy.
/r/seduction27/10/20 06:26 PM
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Im a good guy, like if you need a friend im good and I help people I'm close to more than most. I am not emotionally senstive but I consider myself a solid dude. I'm definetly incredibly fun to hang with. But if you need a shoulder to cry on or emotional support thats not a talent I have. I'm not organized and I'm on the impulsive side. The story that illustrates my lack of supportiveness is a female friend was mentioning something bad that happened to her and I was trying to be helpful. She say…
/r/seduction27/10/20 02:17 PM
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Both. My big problem is I had a face that is very different from my personality. Im an adventerous dude who likes to drink, hang out with the boys and has a loud voice. I have allot of crazy stories. Im not good at being sensitive, something im working on. I had very very soft features. Add that I was skinny fat then and that was the issue not just looking bad but looking bad in a way that was incongriuous with my personality.
/r/seduction27/10/20 01:42 PM
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Chin, nose, lip, eyelids/brow Very much Getting my jaw done probably this summer. They didnt have good jaw implants back then.
/r/seduction27/10/20 12:10 PM
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The surgeon I went to was rather famous espically with male clients lots of wall street people and people in politics. Said men get work done but just hide it and usually prefer to make sure it doesnt look fake. Like if you looked at my face youd have no idea it is mostly fake. So it looks less hollywood.
/r/seduction27/10/20 11:32 AM
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Guys need guy friends. Who they can shoot the shit with. Male camradrie is an underrated part of life and helps game because you are less dependant on women and can have people to discuss things that are negative and women dont want to talk about or get advice, a wing man, social proof.
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:32 AM
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Well im drunk allot so allot of girls must be in love with me, theyve just failed to tell me so.
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:27 AM
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Watch allot of stand up, practice being funny. Honestly Im not sure humor can be taught as its a world view. Ive always seen humor as the most natural way of seeing the world. Its accepting the absurdity of reality and not taking anything seriously cause its all bullshit and we die in the end anyway. Thats the world view that makes me funny.
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:26 AM
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If she wants to have sex have sex waiting to wait doesnt help espically in college where she can bang someone else in the mean time and connect with that.
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:23 AM
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Ive gotten a shit ton of work done and the biggest difference isnt even with women its how people treat you.
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:21 AM
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Seeing people in generally liked me, seeing I was good at shit. Edit: I wish I had a better answer. I grew up with a mother who hated men with self confidence and I was naturally a loud fun arrogant SOB. So she tried to snuff out who I was and grind down my self confidence wouldnt let me play sports of pursue any goals. Leaving that and letting myself heal is what helped.
/r/seduction27/10/20 09:00 AM
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Did you quit? Its not failing just giving a fact
/r/seduction26/10/20 05:44 PM
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So when I had low self confidence a woman liking me would be a turn off cause in my brain only a loser would wanna fuck me and I dont wanna fuck a loser.
/r/seduction26/10/20 05:28 PM
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I mean when you intellectual seduction done badly its really painful to see
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:57 PM
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Bad intellectual seduction is the worst.
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:42 PM
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So American whose live allot of other places. American girls reject hard and I think American girls have an inflated sense of SMV. Also its a consumerist society and lots of passive activies. Less sports clubs for ameteurs, traveling often, vacation time, sitting at cafes, clubs are less try hard compared to Europe broadly.
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:32 PM
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Yes When I had low self confidence id think there must be something wrong with her for wanting to fuck me and lose interest
/r/seduction26/10/20 02:02 PM
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Im gonna. Just got pissed at lost progress
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:55 PM
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Early 30s I get to be younger to fit 40 somethings and older to 20 somethings I look in my 20s though
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:50 PM
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Yes having been in and out of shape this makes a big difference
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:40 PM
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Thats like saying all food is the same. Sure you might enjoy good food more but it all turns to shit.
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:38 PM
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Will do. Went on a date with a forty something last night and a 24 year old a few days before.
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:37 PM
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Mostly 20 somethings yep
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:11 PM
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I have actually. I dont really hang around many materialistic people though I dont work a nine to five
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:58 PM
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Women like bad boys because a bad boy will appreciate the part of themselvs they hide.
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:43 PM
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Yes it is. I was getting fit before covid. Felt great having my sleeves hug my arms.
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:40 PM
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Agreed kids do best with two loving parents
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:34 PM
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Tbh having shitty parents helped me. I had to look for positive social interactions away from home.
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:32 PM
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I thougt of sex for gain as gold digging And just fucking cause you love to fuck as a slut
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:29 PM
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This. I am great at irl conversation and love it but texting isnt fun. Also people never reveal themselvs over text. Most girls texts are also boring af
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:28 PM
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Ive known sexually prudish girls who were just mean people plenty are nice not saying they arent And girls who were sluts but otherwise sweethearts thats all I dont intend to wifey so thats a different story
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:25 PM
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True I would trust a gold digger less though. Dont marry either but getting cheated on outside of marriage isnt as bad a getting fleeced imo
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:23 PM
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I think a sexy 28 yr old has definetly hit 10. 10 isnt super high, i mean lets say she lost her virginity at 16 thats less than one per year.
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:59 AM
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I wouldnt ltr a sugar baby. Not cause of the promiscuity but because of the materialism. You have to worry about a girl like that taking advantage of you. Id trust a slut over a gold digger
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:57 AM
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I wouldnt ltr a girl with a super high body count the same way I wouldnt want to hire an accountant whose bad with money. Would I chill with or fuck or even date a high body count girl, fuck yeah some are fun as fuck and smart and its not a moral judgement. Plenty of prudish girls are way worse as human being compared to slutty girls. I find allot of slutty girls super fucking hot both physcially and the energy they have. Its just what are you looking for, a gf, a fwb, ons, ltr, wifey
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:54 AM
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We are all whores. Men and women are sexual creatures. We want to fuck holes or have or holes fuck. We want filthy animal sex. Also dont date prostitutes
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:51 AM
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If you do interesting things for yourself women find that attractive and its fun. I started doing it for myself and my increase in smv followed. One of the postive about increasing attractivnes is the stuff that does it is largely pretty fun in its own right. Travel, cool hobbies, getting in better shape, becoming funnier, more comfortable with people, confident. Its one of the few thigs where the reward and journey are both fun. So do it for yourself and practice going out talking to girls and …
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:47 AM
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Im not on social media. Can it help, yes. Can it hurt, definetely. Ig is probably the most helpfull if you actually do interesting shit but you will enjoy that shit less. However if youre stregnth is looks but you lag elsewhere only then does it really work for you.
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:27 AM
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I interact with hot women. You need to have a really interesting life style. You cant be average and ordinaly looking. You can be average and hot looking. But a ton of shit is like this in life. If you have a learning disability it will be harder to get a degree or if you went to a shitty high school but you can. Life isnt fair you can either go okay and put in the effort of decide its not worth the energy which is fine.
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:23 AM
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Avoiding eye contact can be just as creepy
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:22 AM
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Its not that simple. There was a point in my life where I came off as creepy (I was unemployed fat and didnt own any nice clothing). Now Im probably one of the most charismatic interesting people I know. Ive put a ton of work into it a ton. Good looking guys can be boring as fuck, they can be broke, they can get laid by women who hate them. The can get laid the same night of meeting at much higher frequency. The same is true of women also. There are hot women ive spent time if they werent hot I …
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:16 AM
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Thats a useless question Both sound fucking awful Also not a good looking guy and I dont think anyone has thought im a rapist. Creepy means creepy. It doesnt mean rapist.
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:08 AM
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Let me tell you a story. There was this gorgous girl who liked me and at one point she mentioned her physical insecurity she had small breasts (tbh I thought they were perfect). Seeing she had an insecurity made me realize that everyone has one and broke that spell for me. Not sure if that helps.
/r/seduction26/10/20 10:39 AM
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Like its a normal conversation point. Im not a jealous guy in general and usually she segues into a funny story about them afterwards where shell say something negative about them slightly after I hold frame. Ive noticed its usually a good sign as it means she sort of into me. Also if the girl is my age or older ill mention later on at some point I usually date younger women (which is true). And let her joke about that.
/r/seduction26/10/20 10:35 AM
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I had a dope dealer roommate who gave me some of the best life advice about people
/r/seduction24/10/20 03:36 PM
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This is also fucking true.
/r/seduction24/10/20 03:08 PM
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Respecting girls and being a player arent mutually exclusive. The same way being a "slut" doesnt make you a bad person. It doesnt mean you dont respect them. Having sex doesnt devalue people having casual sex doesnt mean you disrepect them. Finding a girl pretty isnt a devaluetion. I have a female friend and she loves hearing my dating stories and she is very pro feminism in a country that is patriachial. Allot of the girls I like are strong and date dont take shit, most of them. I like tough ch…
/r/seduction24/10/20 03:05 PM
1

Libido
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:31 PM
1

The early rsd stuff is helpfull and so it todd valentines imo. Also tbh plastic surgery only helps so much you still need game
/r/seduction24/10/20 01:07 PM
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Im not great looking and I do much better than I did years ago. Game is real the same way sales are real. Women find other attributes sexy even short term. Dominant personality, humor, creativity, intelligence being well read and worldly, having charisma and holding frame. If you have a really bad face like bottom 2 percent than yeah its extremely hard.
/r/seduction24/10/20 01:04 PM
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There be a bay ar where things are
/r/seduction24/10/20 01:01 PM
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It also depends if youve both been talking, drinking a bit and if youre funny. An unfunny sexual joke if you arent hot doesnt work. Online tone isnt there so its harder
/r/seduction24/10/20 12:58 PM
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Hamsters are adorable
/r/seduction24/10/20 12:20 PM
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This
/r/seduction24/10/20 12:20 PM
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Ah shit that makes sense. You just made something about my own life click. Thanks man
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:34 PM
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I was just trying to add some levity. On the more normal side I knew broke guys when I lived in shitty apartments who had great natural game who "dated" yuppie girls but the girls would make sure to never introduce him to her friends. Girls will fuck down if they percieve the guy is a bad boy (dude wasnt but just looked like one and came from a tough neighborhood but was actually more of a nice guy than most yuppies ive known). But wont risk losing social status among friends by ltring someone t…
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:20 PM
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Im definetly largely dead inside and that only works with some women others who are more positive find it a turn off. Also it doesnt give off great body language. Its actually less effective than purpose. Purpose is sexy, dead inside is only marginally better than caring too much.
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:18 PM
1

Act more on impulse and embrace your dark side
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:47 AM
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I knew a girl who dated a homeless dude who had a giant dick. Not even kidding. So if youre homeless there is hope provided your dick is really huge and the girl is a high functioning alcholic.
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:17 AM
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If a woman asked me how to date a guy Id say buy him burritos and give him lots of blowjobs. I have enough meta cognition to tell its probably shit advice but also if youre a chick reading this buy your bf a burrito and give him a blow job. He'll appreciate it.
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:15 AM
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CALL NOW AND YOU GET 25 PERCENT OFF A DICKING, CALL IN THE NEXT TEN MINUTES AND WE WILL THROW IN A DECENT FINGERING
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:11 AM
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I didnt know broads was a slur, I just thought it was something dude bro guidos said. Also congrats on the broad you pasta eating fuck face Im kidding but seriously ill have a beer for you
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:08 AM
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That looks insecure af imo
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:06 AM
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Eh. You also dont want a bossy gf
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:02 AM
1

The average guy has terrible game tbh I agree also generally asking for numbers unless shes into you is a waste of time abd spending time with her then asking for a number makes more sense. Doing that 9 out of 10 times maybe 8 out of 10 I get a meet up if Ive like spent a few hours getting to know her. Times ive asked for a number after say 15 minutes of interaction its like 2 out of ten. I also dont enjoy texting tbh.
/r/seduction22/10/20 08:53 AM
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Its a reference to a patrice oneal comedic routine You dont ask a fish how to fish, you ask a fisherman It means basically women generally dont have experince picking up women so dont give great advice about it. The same way asking a guy how to pick up guys wont get you good advice.
/r/seduction22/10/20 08:49 AM
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Ive had them ask to put their number in my phone. Ive never had can I have your number.
/r/seduction22/10/20 08:14 AM
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This. Also allot of girls that like manly men are actually agressive girls and allot of the girls who dont want manly men are shy girls who are less likely to text you first. So lots of compouding factors there
/r/seduction22/10/20 08:12 AM
1

I was in that thread
/r/seduction22/10/20 08:10 AM
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I mean physique is largely controlable now. To stand out in the modern age really diet and gym. Its not like in prehistory where everyone was running and hunting. Add game to that showing those personality traits and its controllable. Devolp ways to display or fake creativty and dominance (i.e. setting frame, abundance mentality and so on) There is a middle ground between looks dont matter and youre doomed at birth.
/r/seduction19/10/20 11:13 PM
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First try trolling better. Chicks hate low effort trolls.
/r/seduction19/10/20 12:59 PM
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I mean they are default invisible and need some talent, for example in evo psych studies the traits women select for short term mating are height, face, physique, creativity and dominant personality (the last 3 are things people can work on). So handsome men are default visible. As in sight have some of those traits displayed.
/r/seduction19/10/20 12:48 PM
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This age and energy level. If you look their age it doesnt matter. In fact guess my age is fun ice breaker and 90 percent have a positive reaction and go back to treating you like your 25.
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:24 AM
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Dont make a big deal out of it. Have fun. Also dating 20 somethings in your 30s honestly is the best.
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:22 AM
1

Yep
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:14 AM
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Oh yeah. I have some younger friends and guys now are even worse at flirting than I was. Also in person is way more fun, online pua it takes the process away. I enjoy conversation. Ill look it up. Honestly serbian women are beutiful, top 3 countries I've been to imo. Also im flirting with my airbnb hostess so wish me luck. Its a bucket list travel goal of mine, haha.
/r/seduction19/10/20 09:52 AM
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If she really wanted to fuck you and this was true you would have at least gotten a handjob imo
/r/seduction19/10/20 01:52 AM
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Sure. So this girl who I had a great convo with I waited two days per the rule and as a friend suggested say something like just messaging to say you had a good weekend and your exam prep went well. Unmatched. Same with a girl irl I have been doing well with who is agressive as fuck and prefers dominant guys. Friend says to text here during the week. Blocked. She also has a bf who snoops on her phone so that might be it too but same advice with hurt me when he said to use some emojis, I hate usi…
/r/seduction19/10/20 01:24 AM
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For US cites honestly NYC its dense, people are looking to meet people, lots of singles, cons its crazy expensive and if you are not from NYC it can be hard to get the dense layer of joy in complaining and cyncism that comes with the city. DC is the worst for pua why some of the top puas come from there if you can pick up in dc. LA for lots of good looking women but also intense competetion and shallow. The college areas of LA arent bad. Austin might be a good pick too. Hipster vibe but good bar…
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:57 PM
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Was also gonna say montreal
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:54 PM
1

Ive been all around the world. There are always women who just want sex, its just how low key they have to be about it.
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:25 PM
1

This. Find some cute aussie girls
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:21 PM
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Find a hobbie that has the ten percent. Honestly it will be hard but it will also make you better for when you have more women since you learned in a harder enviroment. Embrace the challenge
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:20 PM
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Text game sucks but is a neccessity. I hate when people say to enjoy the unenjoyable. You dont have to like it but you have to get good at it. The only part that does feel good is when you are out and you have multiple conversations going, and pause while talking to a friend. You feel fucking important and pretty alpha.
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:15 PM
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Are you in a small town
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:13 PM
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So I have a similiar problem. I have a theory. 2 reasons 1 some girls use tinder for just validation, killing time and either are in a relationship and just thinking about maybe getting someone new or fantaszing. 2 PUA early on reached a point where canned set ups become too well known and formuliac openers raised red flags. Online dating apps are still new and we may have reached a point where more natural style replies, less spotable tecnique is nessecary.
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:44 PM
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Adundance mentality. Good looking guy has more then enough prospects so losing one doesnt matter.
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:38 PM
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Looks, well traveled, education ...
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:36 PM
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With a low value girl?
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:25 PM
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I mean low value women are good filler too. If youre not in a monogamous ltr its not like its either/or.
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:21 PM
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Or I can avoid tecnique give aways. The goal is high value women here.
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:16 PM
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Ill try and find those. Im binging on pua stuff, going back to the gym. Im in Belgrade which is still open and is actually a great dating city. Going over the classic material
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:43 PM
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Right now im in the balkans but honestly Europe in general its more like America was maybe ten years ago.
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:00 PM
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Yeah it was. Drinking with the boys, going out. I remember one time I tried a bad opener, met a girl that was a red sox fan in a bar (im a yanks fan) I said that means we should hate each other. She said yep and walked away. Bad rejection but she had great comedic timing. Got another number later that night. Im getting back into game now.
/r/seduction18/10/20 05:58 PM
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Fuck im in a real similar place. Come to the balkans bro its tinder heaven and open right now. Anyway this and the girls who in your 30s are attracted to adventure are either younger or if your age fitter. All my 9 to 5 friends envy me which is weird cause if you believed society it should be visa verse. Cheers bro
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:58 AM
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The see him as an ltr provider so were afraid to seem slutty around him
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:56 AM
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Yep. Knew a guy with a good job who lied and said he was a bartender and he got sex on the first date more often.
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:55 AM
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I travel a ton since I work mainly online and do adventerous shit and ive gotten very good at conversation, read allot. I have friends from HYP and tbh it doesnt help you pull and ive hung out with top level mbas and seem them crash and burn at the club. It may help you get a girl to marry you if she isnt marrying you for you (enjoy an unhappy marriage that way). The main thing it might help with is convincing her friends not to cock block her or if she is completetly on the fence it might tip i…
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:53 AM
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Its not at least in europe and not in the states last time i visited home. A friend of mine does it all the time. I think its better outdoors of in coffe shops etc...rather than malls. Malls are dying as is and its a closed space which makes it claustrophobic more anxiety enducing for women. My 2 cents
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:50 AM
1

Alpha Male Systems also
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:46 AM
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Were around the same age. I only read bang and rsd pimp and was on deangelos email list. The tip of taking a sip out of the girls drink did manage to get me laid but it also once gave me strep throat right before finals buying me extra time to prep for an examine.
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:45 AM
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Whats some of the best classic material Im going through old rsd stuff, practical female psychology, rooshes first two books. Any other stuff thats good.
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:39 AM
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This and some other dude is gonna be fucking her in the interim so you gotta hope she doesnt fall for him or vise verse. She doesnt just classify you as another orbiter. Just smash all you can and let god sort it out.
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:28 AM
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It wont help you get sex. Also lots of guys do this. Hide intent women can tell and making a big deal out of sex like that wont make her more comfortable around you. Either she think you arent interested or more likely you are afraid to show interest. Tons of guys have had this idea, it seems galaxy brained but it doesnt work.
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:26 AM
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It isnt. Its not highschool anymore. Girls get asked out all the time. So even if she says no, as long as you dont scream or something it wont even be memorable to her. If she says yes, youve got a date Once you start doing it youll see your awkward nightmares arent real
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:08 AM
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Ive been there. The biggest issue that causes this imo is self confidence, one of the few purely confidence related things. I was a fat kid and you learn to think of yourself as unattractive and are in disbelief when a girl finds you attractive. Ive had a girl tell me I want to fuck you not my bf on a subway back from the bar and I didnt process it cause of low self esteem. Just remind yourself youve changed and also that baggage isnt visible. What you know and what they see is not the same. Als…
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:31 AM
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