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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How should I've dealt the encounter with aggressive homeless person?Oh shit, good point.. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How should I've dealt the encounter with aggressive homeless person?Thanks... Emotion got better of me.. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How should I've dealt the encounter with aggressive homeless person?Haha, yes.. I understand it is stupid to engage in a fight.. Maybe I watched too many movies. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How should I've dealt the encounter with aggressive homeless person?yes. I am glad that I am alive and well. However, I wish I had somehow was able to say my "honor". But then again, I may be thinking this wrong. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Is my male friend toxic or just needs some help?haha, yes, I was naive... I guess I was frustrated and just wanted to point out the obvious thing that he was missing seeing. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is my male friend toxic or just needs some help?You are right. I felt something was amiss while talking to him. Yes, he would just dump his sad stories to me but never really asked for my solution. It is making sense now. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Is my male friend toxic or just needs some help?Alright. I was leaning towards that conclusion after thinking about this for a while. It seems like its honorable/bro-code to help struggling friends, but at the same time, I don't want this negative person keep dragging me down towards toxic feelings. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | FR: Find like-minded TRP friends IRL!Yeah, I feel lucky and actually feel too good to be true. I think it is working out so far because we have same aligned goal: seducing girls. I also found many groups that I tried to befriend to be cliquey. That is why I have trouble making a reliable social circle. I kind of feel like this group of friend is more of a business partnership, where we all benefit from each other. First of all, it is way better to go to a club as a group of 3. Most girls are in a group of 2 or 3, so it is more diff… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with jealousy when comparing to others?Thank you for your advice. I can see how everyone has his or her own problem. I just need to look out for myself. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with jealousy when comparing to others?True. I feel most happy when I see I am improving compared to myself from yesterday. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with jealousy when comparing to others?haha I see. Well I only can see from the outside since I dont work at a tech company. To me, I can only see the good side of them so I probably overestimating them. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with jealousy when comparing to others?This is awesome. You are right, I believe everyone has insecurities. I was hamstering and believe everybody had low opinions on me because of my insecurities. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with jealousy when comparing to others?Thanks for this. I should just focus on making me happy and stop comparing my situation to others. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Can you recommend me good resource about understanding the Frame?Wow thanks for the vids. I really liked the second one. What a boss! | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find close and honest relationship?hahaha. I get it. But how do you cope with that? I mean, are you happy that our own self is the only one we can trust? That we forever need to be thinking about possible betrayer? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Kino routine for holding hands?hahahaha yes, I do need to grow some balls. I will be more bold on my next opportunity. thanks for the reply. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Kino routine for holding hands?yea, to me holding hands is thing only romantic couples do. I like your idea of just going for kiss. I got too hung up the escalation ladder. We are still in that friends territory, thus it feels awkward to be romantic. However, if opportunity arises, I will just take the leap of faith. Whatever, if she calls me a creep, thats fine too. I need some kind of closure. I hate being in this limbo of friendzone. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Kino routine for holding hands?Oh thumb wrestle seems so fun and easy. I definitely will try next time. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | From Red Pill's view, what is driving Trump?Right, I don't believe Trump's statement that he became a president to "make America great again". I believe he wanted to became the President for his own selfish benefit. So what is it? Is it just to become the most powerful person? Is it to boss around other world leaders? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with friends who keep asking for favors/adviceThanks for the suggestion. I will put it in my read list. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with friends who keep asking for favors/adviceI'm always been a loner so didn't have dependable friends. I would instead search in internet or pay the professional for help. The reddit is also very powerful. Also having a place to ask this difficult question is a godsend. If I asked this same question to my friend, I would offend them and cause strain in relationship. I do like the idea of lowering my investment. I am actually at a point where I feel like I can gain nothing from a friend. So if he asks me for a favor, I feel like turning it… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | After few failures, losing my anger phase, back to being betaI tried but it is difficult to understand the trp strategy... I get too confused with myriads of things to do. I think i should step back and keep things simple. I should just lift and work on myself and do less thinking... | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 05:29 AM |
| 1 | After few failures, losing my anger phase, back to being betaThanks for the advice. I agree that i do need to regroup and build myself first.. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 05:27 AM |
| 1 | After few failures, losing my anger phase, back to being betaTwo times a week. But yeah i am working on lifting more seriously. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How to not feel alone when you are alone? People smell it.Change is difficult process. I am also struggling to change and when things go bad, I also run back to my safety net. So don't beat yourself up because you are also struggling to change. I think it is important to realize that improving oneself is difficult. So by just going to to the gym and taking that step to improve is a victory to celebrate. Whenever I finish my daily workout, I feel proud of myself and have so much confidence boost. I think to myself, "While all these suckers are sitting o… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 09:21 PM |
| 2 | I am dating an okay girl but losing motivation to go forward. Am I being too picky?Only two. One was ice skating -> having pizza together -> walking around park. Second was brunch -> walking around mall -> playing VR in the mall. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | How to make date more efficient?yeah.. I am learning this... having dates over food is not fun! | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How to make date more efficient?thanks, i didnt think about hookah. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 12:46 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with people asking me to get married?I mean, this is right way to think, but I don't know if I should openly speak of this. It might draw unnecessary hostility from people. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with people asking me to get married?I like this one too. I'd like to just dismiss the question. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 11:35 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with people asking me to get married?It seems like this kind of talk about "you'll change your mind about" is normal. I should always anticipate those and be unfazed by it. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with people asking me to get married?wow, hahaha! | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with people asking me to get married?oh I like the phrases. I hear the term "amused mastery" many times, but it is hard to grasp what it really means. I can only think about how would alpha Buddha would respond. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Using small talk to set up a date she can't refuseI did mean to have small talk in person, not on text. I am surprised that hiking is not a good thing for a first date. I thought that doing action dates are much better than having dinner. I guess coffee date is simple and doesn't require much commitment from both parties. I did have successful coffee date even with complete stranger off of Tinder. Regarding asking how's your weekend doing, it is good check for her complacency. But at the same time, I feel it is easy to reject for the girl. Hmm.… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Should I play along if girls are saying I am a nice guy?Oh I like that response. It is jovial and changes the air. I can imagine going for kino to surprise them. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/16 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Theory: Using small talk to set up a date she can't refuseI do think it is asking many questions. But the small talk can be phrased such a way that I am not keep asking direction questions. Like cold reading or something, I can state something and let her say stuff about her. I guess best thing is my SMV is high enought that girl will just want to hangout with me. That way, all I need to do is suggest something. But I have tried just asking girls to do something. Most often, I have heard rejection regarding her availability. For example, I got another … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/16 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Girl i like , likes my best friendI had opposite experience. My so called best friend ended up fucking the girl I liked behind my back. I say you should appreciate your friend for being honest. Also I strongly suggest just next the girl. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/16 11:49 PM |
| 10 | AWALT. Poor guys, both probably won't find out anyways.I also want to add a similar story. I got a friend who is short but good looking with low body fat. He is an engineer and DJs part time. So he has this one female friend come over from another country. They used to goto same college but havent seen her few few years after graduating She has a boyfriend back in her country but she came to America for her masters degree. Basically, now she is long distance relationship. A week before her school starts, she came over to see my friend. They went to … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl rejects me. 2 weeks later, my close friend says they are in relationship.I see... I do realize I have many weaknesses. I do plan to double down on improving myself. Focusing more on lifting, eating and career. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Girl rejects me. 2 weeks later, my close friend says they are in relationship.Can you kindly point out few of my problems? I do want to stop being a bitch, blaming other people.. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl rejects me. 2 weeks later, my close friend says they are in relationship.It took sometime to realize their explanation is total BS. It is difficult to not be butthurt, but I can see how it doesn't help to feel that way. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Question on being known as a guy who "meets" many girls.Right... I know that I fucked up when I said I like her... Oneitis is really bad... my frame was broken to the point where I wanted to say anything to make her like me... which ruins everything. Anyways, it seems like I should not care about the rumors and keep on socially involved with girls? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Question on being known as a guy who "meets" many girls.I am a minority ethnic race. My pool is small because I only hangout with my race. Thus rumors spread fast because people of my race all know each other. I can circumvent if I approach and hangout with girls with different nationality/race. But I found it a bit more difficult to do so as english is my second language. But I know that I am limiting myself via only looking for girls in my race... | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | I said "you're pretty", she replies "I hate hearing that I am pretty."Thanks, I read it and I see that it can be very damaging to setting up frame. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Am I "friending" my way in?Okay... So should i not hang out with girls at all when i am with a social group? Should i just go for day game and tinder dates? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Am I "friending" my way in?Thanks for that. I just read it. I knew that girls have different categories but this theory clearly represented the idea. Looks like i was in different ladder. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I said "you're pretty", she replies "I hate hearing that I am pretty."I see now. Thanks for your explanation. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I said "you're pretty", she replies "I hate hearing that I am pretty."When she asked me, first thing I said was she is pretty. I was thinking about saying other qualities but she started talking. But in all honesty, I think her beauty made her other qualities look good. I mean she has some good traits but if she was not pretty, it would have been not that great to be attactive. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I said "you're pretty", she replies "I hate hearing that I am pretty."Are you saying that for pretty faced girl, saying she is pretty is taking on the bait? That act of complimenting her looks is beta behavior? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 11:35 PM |
| 1 | I said "you're pretty", she replies "I hate hearing that I am pretty."Shit testing me... so she thought that I was not in the position to compliment her looks? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl was attracted to me, but after too much negging, she is now ignoring texts.Haha, I think I was a dick. But yeah...... fuck I gotta fix this. I hate how my natural instinct is to be whiny and bitchy. I really need to be work on becoming a better man. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl was attracted to me, but after too much negging, she is now ignoring texts.Hmm, I didn't think of it that way. So when girls mention exes, it is my chance to bash them? Actually, that makes sense... I actually had an experience similar. I accidentally bashed a girl's ex (because he was a dick to my close friend) and that really helped. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Girl was attracted to me, but after too much negging, she is now ignoring texts.I think I needed this... Thanks. NEXT it is. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Question to those serial monogamists who were able to change their mindset.I am also in similar situation. I only had series of monoamous relationships. I am unhappy about it, as it feels like I was the only fool playing by the book, while all others were enjoying casual sex. Previously I never done casual sex. Thus, I was questioning myself if I am capable to do so. But recent event boosted my confidence. I put some effort on lifting, appearance (clothing, haircut) and career (hence money). These things started to pay off as I notice some girls, not all, are attracted… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Hamstering? Comfort test? Guys will eventually lose love/passion.wow. I have to say, I think you are right. She talked about how she becomes less enthusiastic after going into relationship. She said that she was like bad girl where she slowly neglects her bf as time goes on. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | stuck in anger phase... I became allergic to LTR/marriagewow, I didnt think of it that way. Your analogy really makes sense... thanks. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Need advice, a girl says she likes me has other guy involved.Well, I am 29, so I am not that young. But I was a blue-pilled, white knight until I found TRP few months ago. I wish I found TRP years before... I have been reading the theories and slowly taking off my rose tinted glasses. This is first time where this kind of thing is happening to me. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Need advice, a girl says she likes me has other guy involved.I just started on TRP road, so I agree that my shit is not together yet. I also agree that this is full of drama. TRP teaching has telling me to next her, but I guess I am a bit hungry so wanted to ways to exploit this situation. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Safe to assume girls also want casual sex?Wow, thank you for detailed explanation. You made me clear what is the roadblock. I shall plan out logistics focusing removing roadblocks for her to have ONS. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Safe to assume girls also want casual sex?Wow, I see. I guess AWALT. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Safe to assume girls also want casual sex?Thank you for clearing this up. I have not experienced where girl wanting casual sex with me yet. So I was confused about trp philosophy. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How to determine what others want? (manipulation)thank you! I have bought the book and started reading. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Advice for 30 years old?Wow, I have still lots of things to internalize. I gotta stop being feminine. Inside of me, i feel like my value dropped compare to those young atheletic 21 year old jocks. I should feel like I am at my prime SMV days. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Advice for 30 years old?I am wondering if i can spin plates.. but I will strive for it! | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Advice for 30 years old?Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 01:30 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a beta guy keep following me around in a social setting.If you have lifted for 4 years and read the side bar, I think you light years ahead of Bob I was talking about. Have confidence buddy! As many people say here, do interesting stuff and you will have plenty of things to talk about. Another things that really helped me was being in other person's shoe. For example, be an active member of an organization. I was a vice-president of a group and learned alot from organizing events and managing a group. I had to convince/entice people to join an event … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/16 07:31 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a beta guy keep following me around in a social setting.Thank you. This is good! | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Is it good idea to tell RP related goals to the girls?I see. I agree that it is easy to talk then actually doing it. But in some cases, by letting people know of my plan, I am having myself accountable to achieve that goal. But I see your point. If they ask my goal, what do you respond with? Or is this some kind of shit test that I can avoid later once my SMV is higher? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/16 09:39 PM |
| 1 | When you want to arrange a meetup or hangout with a woman, do not ask her if she can/wants to hang out or if/when she is free to meet up. Instead, state where you will be at a specific time and place and leave it up to her to accept or reject your proposal.I agree.. I tried stating specific time/place and some girls just say they can't. I say "ok" and move on, but sometimes it feels like I am giving up too fast. I used to say, "let's do blank at 7pm." If they reply they can't, I say something like "Come on, you got nothing to do that night, it will be fun." I try to argue saying whatever their reason is not good enough to fend me off. Sometimes it works but sometimes I come out rude. But I think it is worth it to try if the date isn't happening an… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a better looking friend that, appearance wise, outshines you? Is acceptance key?Actually, I somewhat relate to you. I had once set up a little trip out of town with this girl. She didnt want to go just with me so she brought some mutual friends. One of them was this guy who is taller than me, muscular than me and in general better looks than me. Whole trip was disastrous as he obviously was gaining more attraction then me. I didnt want to AMOG him because that is reactive. I just had to keep up my smiley face as much as possible. In the end, lesson learned is never go doubl… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 01:00 AM |
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