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Thanks man
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/01/22 01:58 PM
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So far, my grandparent are the only couples I’ve ever known to never divorce Mom cheated on dad and they divorced after nearly 30 years of marriage. I’ve been destroyed by women...twice Now I have a son, and god as my witness he will know the dangers of marriage and women. This was a good read...I hope to be old wise Dan some day. That will mean that I made it
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/01/22 04:52 AM
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But in real life the wife would never move away from her mommy and daddy. Ask me how I know....
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/01/22 12:17 PM
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Easier said than done. Once you see your kid born, you realize you’d fight until your last breath to be a dad. I was making $13 an hour and was offered a 6 figure salary overseas. Money would have solved all my financial woes. But money wouldn’t buy memories and it wouldn’t give my kids a real father figure. I turned it down (seriously was depressed for weeks afterwards). Later I was offered a chance to rejoin active duty (which I only left because of my ex wife). That was my dream. I turned it …
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/01/22 02:45 AM
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Actually it’s because of title IV-D incentives. States are literally paid to assign children to one parent for child support. Doesn’t matter which parent has custody as long as child support is assigned, then the state is getting paid. Your theories just explain why the woman always gets the kids, which you’re right about. It’s a corrupt system from the top down
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/01/22 02:38 AM
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I swear to god I don’t remember posting this...oh wait..I didn’t and yet our stories are one and the same lol. But seriously yes, men are screwed by default in family courts. My kids only see me 4 days a month because I’m a man. My horror story spans almost a decade. Tens of thousands spent in family courts just fighting to be a dad to my kids. This is any man that’s been to family courts. I’d rather face God for my judgement than stand before a judge. But here’s some advice for the other men re…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/01/22 02:33 AM
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Yea actually I am very lucky. All of my family understands the true nature of women and the society that encourages their vile behavior. I also have friends who understand the same. I count my blessings. My ex’s family are men haters and the men in the family are insecure simps. Being around them was soul crushing. I was evil because of what is between my legs. I never stood a chance. So the support in my current circle is uplifting. I truly wish that you find a support group in your real life!
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/01/22 09:37 PM
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Exactly. I found this sub out of my own frustration just looking for support. I have actually found more support in real life vs online. Online is the worst place
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/01/22 06:23 PM
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This is the only sub that actually speaks the truth. Men are 2nd class citizens throughout the entire world (minus the middle eastern countries). We are treated like absolute garbage. Even worse if your separated/ divorced father. This sub has put zero ideas into my head. I have come to conclusions based on personal experience
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/01/22 05:10 PM
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I’m almost just like you except I hope they’ve had a very slutty past because that means my night is going to be just that much better. I remember when I use to believe in love and I was all concerned about a woman’s past. A lot changes in 10 years
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre20/01/22 09:25 PM
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Sounds like a great friend to break off a friendship for being confronted with a harsh truth
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/12/21 05:33 PM
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I’m so dead inside from divorce that it’s dangerous to assume I’ll ever want a relationship. I even tell them this! And then they want me more.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/12/21 05:32 PM
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Seriously every women I hook up with wants a damn relationship. They come over to my house (no date or meeting in public), quickly drop their panties and then act surprised that I don’t want a relationship. Just because I fuck you, doesn’t mean I want to date. Why would I want to waste my precious time dealing with woman’s chaotic nature? Like the saying goes, why buy the cow when the milk is free?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/12/21 04:45 PM
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Blessed is a very accurate description
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre23/07/21 01:21 AM
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Yup actually I can. In fact, I get depressed if my house is dirty so I keep it straighten up through the week followed by a deep cleaning on my first day off of the week. I actually cook pretty well and my skills have developed enough that my cook times have dropped from 1.5 hours to about 45 mins. I do all of this while working 12.5 hour days
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/07/21 03:39 PM
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Your wife keeps a clean house? Where you find women like that? I haven’t gone a date with a woman in 3 years that cooked or clean. My exgirlfriend never cooked or clean. My ex wife never cooked or cleaned. The only women I ever saw cook and clean was my mom and sister.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/07/21 01:44 PM
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There are no benefits to marriage for man. None whatsoever. I was married once and we had a kid. By the time it was all over, I was wrecked. She owned multiple cars, a nice house, made tons of money and was already dating someone. I was unemployed and paying child support with credit cards, eventually became homeless and the absolute worse of all was being labeled as a “visitor” to my own child. Imagine that. I went from husband and father to a “visitor”. Of course I eventual filed bankruptcy as…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/07/21 01:33 PM
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A fucking men! The biggest turn off is a woman who can’t run a household. I want a woman who knows how to be a woman and I won’t feel bad for wanting a traditional role from a woman. Unfortunately this is basically non existent nowadays
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/06/21 07:20 PM
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How dare him and his expectations!! I’m a kween!! I need a subject to worship and serve meeee!!!
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/06/21 03:38 PM
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Can’t count how many dating profiles I come across that say “can’t cook” and “I’m blunt as hell so if you don’t like that then swipe left”. We all know blunt is just another word for “bitch”. It’s so crazy but it’s like I just don’t want a woman who can’t cook or clean and comes with a shitty attitude. I made dating profiles to find wife material. All I found was cookie cutter “shitty men”. Sorry, but I’ve seen your house and it’s a mess and your pots have rust in them. I’m not interested.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/06/21 11:28 AM
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I’ve never been on a date with a women where they had any part in the failure of their relationships. “He cheated” “he was a liar” “he was a deadbeat dad”. So weird how it is always HIM. Lucky for me I have the uncanny ability to spot lies and bull shit. They’re always surprised when there is no 2nd date
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre19/06/21 03:36 AM
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Bro...so true
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre08/06/21 02:20 PM
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Thank you for the post. It’s refreshing when a woman can see through this. I’m blessed to have a mom and sister who are also aware of the dangers of feminism. It gives me support. I learned the hard way that being a man means I’m a 2nd class citizen. I was just a young man when my kid was kidnapped from me in family courts. I was told that because I’m a father, I’m less important. The “tinder years” doctrine states that a father isn’t important to a developing child until the child is 6 years ol…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre08/06/21 02:20 PM
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Of course it’s sexist but it’s ok to be sexist as long as men are the oppressed. Everyone knows it but it doesn’t matter. People will always reject facts. “All animals are created equal, but some animals are more equal than others”
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/06/21 12:43 PM
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False. Just because a man wants a great housewife does not mean he wants a mommy figure or that he doesn’t want to be a good provider. That’s just once again shaming men for wanting to be traditional. If a woman doesn’t want to be that role, well hey great. It’s 2021, she’s welcome to work and do as she pleases. But at the same time she can’t be mad at a man for rejecting her because he wants a great house wife/ stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:27 PM
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Why do women get upset when men want a traditional family role i.e a stay at home mother? I’ll tell you why. Because in 2021 men aren’t allowed to have a desire without being “sexist” whereas women can have any such desire they want. This is what we call double standard and yes, it upsets anyone. I make decent money, 100% stable but I refuse to date any woman who A) isn’t as stable as me or B) doesn’t know how to run a household, i.e can cook and keep a house clean. I can cook and I’m clean and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:05 AM
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True words
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre13/05/21 01:47 PM
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Divorce is a multi billion dollar industry. Men are 2nd class citizens who’s only job is to pay up and die quietly
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/05/21 12:32 PM
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I really needed to read this today. I met a woman online and within the first hour of talking she asked me if I wanted to see her boobs. Not even another hour later she invited me over to her house for the sole purpose of having sex. Before going over she said I wasn’t allowed to ghost her. Well we had sex and I wasn’t interested in continuing with anything further. I was feeling guilty because I am ghosting her but the thing is I don’t want a relationship. I have zero interest in dating. I only…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre20/03/21 01:33 AM
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