agaribay1010 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Hello! I’m a journalist and I need some help with a piece.		agaribay1010	/r/MGTOW	07/04/19 02:53 PM

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0	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. I can give my modern perspective while saying that people in general practice something different. I don't understand what your point was. A majority of women aren't sex workers. Try again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 05:04 AM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. That's not what happened and in many scenarios I personally see that's not what happened either. I would blame someone for making that assumption with no prior communication, but like I said that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about people who were actually led on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 05:10 AM
2	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. How when it was discussed between both parties that they were committed??	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 05:08 AM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Totally understandable. It can be more exhausting than rewarding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 08:32 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Honestly true. Either that or if you want just hookups, just be upfront. It saves a lot of heartbreaks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 08:23 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Good on you man. I think a great sign of a good partner is someone who's willing to wait to be intimate. It shows they care about your comfort and consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 08:12 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. That we can agree on. But I personally just don't think that placing ALL the burden on the person who was burned is a good idea. The first time you can blame naiveness. The second time you cannot. But I also highly doubt she's putting it out on the first date every single time and then coming here and bitching about it lol. I think I've said it before, but I was also in a situation for a long time where I kept dating (and yes, holding out) and then getting ghosted after having sex one or a few t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 08:04 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. It's really not your fault you were fucked over though. Sure, maybe you learned red flags to watch out for and maybe there were some in the beginning, but it's still not your fault that someone fucked with you. That's on them. They did that. You didn't deserve it simply because you didn't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:53 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:52 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. The comparison was to show how it's wrong to tell someone they should've seen it coming when they had no reason to suspect they'd be hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:49 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. You really can't see how someone could be fooled? Have you ever been fooled? Have you ever known anyone who was screwed over in a relationship? You talk about accountability, yet you place all of it on the unsuspecting person. Not the actual person who did wrong. There are women who say no for months and still get ditched. They do everything you say and still get fucked over. Men as well. We can't stop the fact that shitty people exist. It's not a weakness to acknowledge that someone bested you.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:48 PM
2	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Yes I absolutely believe women need to teach themselves to not be naive. But how much can we really blame a woman when she was told repeatedly and showed repeatedly something else? Should women absolutely never trust men because they might be lying? That sounds too far for me personally. Yes you can see red flags, but sometimes you really just can't. People lie and manipulate all the time. It's unfortunate but it's what happens. We can't blame the unsuspecting party though when they didn't have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:41 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. I think you're missing the biggest factor, which is that the OP is talking about women who think they are starting a relationship with someone and have been led on in that way, only to be ghosted. Imagine if you started dating a woman and she acted like she really wanted a relationship. Maybe even flat out said she wants to spend the rest of her life with you. And then the moment you finally have sex she finds you disgusting for wanting to put out. That's the situation they are describing. Not a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:34 PM
5	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. You literally said that I was saying women shouldn't be held accountable and I didn't say that anywhere. Take your own advice about assumptions buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:27 PM
2	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Sweetie, I flat out said it's not one person's fault. You said I said that. Clearly, you didn't read what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:26 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Name calling isn't disrespectful? Okay bud. You're not stating facts, you're staying opinions. There is a huge difference. You straight up called me trashy just now and somehow that's not disrespectful? Cope harder dude. At the end of the day I'm the one that's happily married despite my "trashy behavior". I genuinely hope you find peace one day. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:22 PM
8	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Normal? Sure. But if you base your morals and logic off of what society deems normal, that's the problem here buddy. Think for yourself and really think about it. I absolutely never said it's only the man's fault. I said it's both people's fault because you only wanted to blame the woman. Even though it takes two people to have sex. And of course an adult can opt out of a relationship for whatever reason, but some reasons are shitter than others 🤷🏽 and ghosting is childish. For someone who bashe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:20 PM
3	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. I'm fine with pump and dump, but that's because I know what I'm getting into lol. I think the OP is talking about women who think they are pursuing a relationship and then get ghosted. It's way more hurtful to think you're in love with someone, have sex, and then have them ignore you than to know you're going into a situation where y'all won't be dating at the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:13 PM
15	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. This is very odd thinking, considering it takes two to tango. You act as if there aren't men who lie about their intentions with their partner. There were many times when I was young and naive that I slept with guys who I was in love with and told them how special it was to me... All for them to ghost me. I was fully under the impression that I was going to be with only that person for the foreseeable future, but there were a lot of men (mostly older) who knew I felt that way and took advantage …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 07:04 PM
1	do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with? I'll let you in on something embarrassing lol. In high school I went around asking guys out to try and break my social anxiety. I got rejected every single time. In embarrassing ways as well. I mean yes ultimately I did end up finding someone, but in those moments I truly thought I never would. Just like you, but I did eventually. So I think we felt similar feelings, more similar than we realize. Both in a state of hopelessness. It's an awful place to be. And yes it's totally true that you had a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 09:06 PM
1	do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with? Hey man I get it. I really do. If you need someone to talk to please reach out. I'm happy to talk and explain things or just listen. I think we all need more understanding in this world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 06:44 PM
1	do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with? Sure I can. Why are you mad at women for that though? If I'm horny and can find anyone who's willing to have sex, that means there is still a large pool to take from that's consenting. The consenting party would be other men lol. You're mad at women for... Lots of men being willing to consent to sex? That's odd to me. I don't understand that. Stop being mad at women and society for women not sleeping around as much. Again, you're not entitled to that. And yes, I do agree women on average choose …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 06:22 PM
1	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. Oh trust me I know a lot of women who prefer dad bods lmao. Sure muscles look nice but when it comes down to what we realistically want, it's not that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 06:08 PM
-1	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. If the same woman who says "body count shouldn't matter' would refuse to date someone who's also had a high body count, then yes that's hypocritical. But I'm almost certain that just about any woman you ask who thinks body count doesn't matter, wouldn't really care if their partner had a lot of partners before them. You seem to be mixing two different kinds of people together and thinking they are the same. And when people don't want to date someone for being a virgin it's usually due to a lack …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 06:06 PM
10	do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with? How are women unfair for having standards you don't meet? If everyone fucked you, you'd call them loose. There are also a ton of women that are virgins who choose to not have sex outside of a committed relationship. It's not unfair, that's how consent works. It's not fair to be entitled to sex and a romantic relationship. You have to be worthy of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 10:22 PM
1	do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with? Honestly as a woman it's easy but only because it's really easy to find men who are willing to sleep with people they hardly know. At least that's been my experience. I don't count it as an achievement or anything just because of how easy it is. It's kinda like a "look we both know what we are here for so let's just have fun and leave it at that". It's much harder to find women who are like that and I say this as a bisexual woman. It's a million times harder to get pussy than dick. I feel like i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 10:19 PM
2	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? I think a lot of men are told that gushing over women is a sign of weakness. When men get broken up with I often see this "oh well fuck her just move on" mentality and it's not that simple. Guys need time to grieve as well. They usually don't have friends or family members they feel comfortable enough confiding in like that. If I lost my husband I know I could go to my family and friends and cry for however long I needed, but I don't know many guys who could say the same. I also think certain me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 10:06 PM
1	you're not a nice guy. Exactly. If you're only nice to get stuff in return, you're not actually a good person. Like if you gotta film yourself every time you give a homeless person money, are you actually doing it out of the kindness in your heart? Being good is unconditional.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 06:10 AM
1	Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women think This isn't a gendered issue. It's a human thing. Stop dividing shit into useless categories when collectively we do these kinds of things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 01:39 AM
8	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Honestly you should steer clear of women who want a push. Wanting someone to push you boundaries in a sense like this is toxic in itself and I think it speaks to some emotional problems or personality problems as well. A healthy way to push boundaries with someone you're already established with is encouraging new experiences or facing things we may not want to face. But trying to push a relationship is never a good idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 11:01 PM
2	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. The only time I've done it is by accident and I've always felt horrible afterwards. I feel like there aren't many people who do it purposely. That's more for sociopaths or narcissists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 10:58 PM
1	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it Oh I didn't know lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 09:15 PM
3	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it What? I'm agreeing with you lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 01:03 AM
11	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it Doesn't everyone have someone they've regretted being around? I find it weird when we only focus on one sex. Like I know plenty of guys who have had bad hookups or bad girlfriends. It's just a universal thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 11:21 PM
0	What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old? 20-16. There is still a huge difference between 16 to even 18. Let alone 16-20. A 20 year old is able to do most things an adult can and already has for two years. A 16 year old still needs to go and ask mommy if they can hang out with friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 03:50 PM
7	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. Not yet. But that's how these things start.	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/22 02:23 AM
5	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. This is his joker moment. Proceed with caution.	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/22 06:09 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Parts of the undeveloped world sure. But what you're describing is just messed up. Not everyone is like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:54 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Not true at all considering I'm getting married and my fiance knew I had partners before him. I'm sorry you surround yourself with shallow men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:53 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Jesus Christ your views are seriously messed up. Are you okay with your logic meaning that your own husband only wants to stay with you because you keep yourself hot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 05:39 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. This kind of thinking is exactly what leads to so many unhappy marriages. It's fine to date for fun. It's fine to have hookups. You just gotta use common sense and be safe. I was serious about marrying my ex but things didn't work out 🤷 I wasn't even looking for a relationship when my met my fiance and yet here we are planning to get married in a few months. You need to reevaluate how you view women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 05:38 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Or.. maybe we stop holding people to these weird "low value" and "high value" expectations? I was very open about my previous sex life early on in my realtionship with my fiance. He didn't care. Why? Because he knows I'm not an object. Value isn't inherent and someone's worth doesn't change just because they've had previous partners. They aren't a used car. They are people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 05:32 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. I had a bunch of hookups before my current fiance. But that's all they were to me. Hookups. I didn't care about things moving too fast with them because everyone involved knew it was no strings attached. Just friends with benefits. And we were all fine with it. When I met my fiance though I could tell he wasn't just looking for a hookup. Something about him made me want to go on a real date though. So I respected his boundaries until he made a move on me. And by that point I could tell it was ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 05:26 PM
3	Update: Someone please help me I don’t wanna be “incel” anymore It’s really amazing and shows a lot about your true personality that you can recognize a flaw in yourself and seek help. Many people can’t do that. While your views are pretty extreme I can’t help but feel like they were somehow shaped to be that way by external forces. We can’t always control how we feel, but we can control how we react and how we let experiences mold us. Your destiny is in your hands and I wish you luck.	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/20 02:04 AM
6	I played the game, and I lost it. Need advice. My ex would do similar stuff and every therapist I’ve seen since we broke up told me that it was indeed abuse and manipulation. You just seem like an insufferable person.	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/20 02:49 AM
1	Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock? That makes no sense lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/20 03:22 PM
7	Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock? What I don’t get is how they will also say that overweight or obese women can’t possibly be beautiful because it goes against evolution and biology but get mad when girls don’t like them for being unattractive...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/20 11:18 AM
9	Would you trade all the struggles of your sex with the struggles of the opposite sex? Tbh I wouldn’t trade my world for anyone else’s. Not even a millionaires. Not because mine is fucking amazing. Tbh right now I wanna kill myself. but it’s MINE. I can change it and I love the people in my life and I’m excited to see where it takes off from here. Though being able to pee while standing up would be cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 06:10 AM
1	Shattered with reality i never understood making men pay for everything. My boyfriend bought me a milkshake yesterday and I felt bad. A guy friend of mine paid for my lunch one day and I gave him $15 to pay him back. I felt bad when I lived with my parents and they paid my medical bills! I can’t imagine always expecting to make someone pay for everything I want. That’s why I’m getting an amazing career that pays well so my future husband and I can both make bank and put it together to live an awesome life but still be…	/r/MGTOW	07/04/19 02:44 PM
4	I present you, the most ungrateful wife in the world alongside the biggest idiots that support her So are kids and the husband not suppose to do anything around the house?	/r/MGTOW	07/04/19 02:41 PM
5	Where did this knowledge go? Face tattoos on anyone is a sign to stay away	/r/MGTOW	07/04/19 02:35 PM