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Don’t argue semantics. You didn’t say attractive but it was in that vein. Let’s agree to both be bored here yes have a good day madam or sir or whatever you are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:29 PM
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Trying to feign a natural connection isn’t decency - it’s just someone attempting to get what they want, even though the other party actually wants something natural. Ignoring the wishes of another party is the opposite of decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:19 PM
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The average woman does think she’s better because the average woman tries to look nice outside. The average woman still wears makeup, shaves her legs, and tries to dress for her body type. The average male doesn’t even want to get a sense of style because they might be seen as gay by their peers. That’s it’s own issue but honestly, let’s not pretend like the average male even has a skin care routine when the average girl does. They aren’t really equal in terms of appearance which is how someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:17 PM
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Your assertion doesn’t really speak to my main point of this being ugly person vs perceived more attractive person, though. Manners are nice - but in general, you only get them delivered towards you if you’re decently attractive. That is the truth regardless of sex. sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:06 PM
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I think most women want to not have to work very hard to just make the first date go well - if it doesn’t, you simply don’t go out again. And vice versa - communication is important but people would generally prefer the first date to be relatively effortless since the actual relationship will naturally add additional stress. A girl wants you to read her mind? No, she just wants things to feel natural and if you naturally don’t align with her, don’t expect a second date. Yes, girls do expect to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:50 PM
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That’s true but I think one has to understand the overall differences between those two circumstances - “Men being hit on,” vs “women being hit on.” And let’s be more specific - “Heterosexual men being hit on by women,” vs “heterosexual women being hit on,” because I think generally speaking gay males are far less “please anyone take me thank you for the attention.” As I said in another thread or smth, you can’t really compare the desperation of men to date to a woman who kind of just wants to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:42 PM
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I think what you’re trying to say is that, “Well, in THIS thread, women aren’t getting the ‘right’ messages from their rejections,” and that sounds more like you’re trying to say, “This happening here means men aren’t doing what you’re saying,” and I don’t think that makes any sense. Is that what you’re trying to convey or am I misunderstanding? Or are you trying to say, “Women are just as bad as men,” which I don’t really have any qualms with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:20 PM
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… and? That doesn’t take away from what I said. What’s your response to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:15 PM
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Yes, but that’s just life. It is. You can’t strongarm your way into someone wanting to have sex with you. The same way no one can do it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:12 PM
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It’s one data point, so no it’s not a legit take. I don’t rly believe ppl in this sub wouldn’t go with that take tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:12 PM
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Honestly, no idea what you’re trying to say, hun, but have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:52 AM
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The problem where people have physical preferences for people, including you? No, not really. Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:37 AM
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Here? I think it’s the latter. But in general, I think it’s an even split, honestly. I do understand it’s harder for men but the reason it’s harder is because men will accept almost any woman. I don’t think they really should. I feel this comes from a general lack of social and emotional support - so many men I speak to always say they don’t feel emotionally supported by their male friends. One friend told me he was trying to talk about a girl who rejected him and his friends pretty much just we…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:29 AM
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I did that once when I was like 16. He was super nice about it, actually - he declined and said he’d want to talk more before going out but he understood I didn’t do it very often and he really admired it. I model the rejections I give out like that. Turns out, he was a racist, tho, lmao. So, I dumped him when I found that out (we dated obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:21 AM
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Yeah, no. I don’t even make friends with people I can’t have a good convo with and I honestly detest when men lead with their photo online - especially if they think they’re “hot.” I can’t have a conversation with their “well-chiseled jaw.” When I get 70, barring they or I get dementia, I’d like them to have something of value to contribute to a discussion. Especially in online dating. Unless everyone just wants to hook up which I think is what men keep complaining about. “No one wants to hook u…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:18 AM
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Be interesting. Most of the men in this very sub can’t even substantiate their claims, despite making posts a mile a minute. Do some real research. Look into things. Become an actual good conversationalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:01 AM
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Ah, you’re just a bored troll or you can’t actually engage with folks. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:05 AM
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In a sub dedicated to those things? Okey dokey.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:55 AM
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It’s just about sex. It has nothing to do with red pill or blue pill. It’s just “how do people have sex in real life.” Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:52 AM
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You don’t respond to someone just to argue. You respond to share ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:51 AM
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So… maybe respond to them seriously later on since you made a topic that was meant for discussion? Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:26 AM
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S/he’s continuing your metaphor to explain that none of those things are actually simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:21 AM
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This doesn’t really seem applicable for the sub… it’s just more Ike a general “what is real sex like” Q. Cow girl is fairly popular. It’s easier to make it end faster that way tbqh lmao. Most men request it as well because they’re lazy, I find.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:19 AM
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Because they’re boring people. Your car doesn’t care if you do anything outside of work and sleep - friends and potential partners do. They want someone they have things in common with. That’s a part of all relationships - platonic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:03 AM
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So, men and women are victims of both emotional and physical abuse. I know you want to pretend they don’t exist and make it a “female problem.” That’s fine. It’s just not really one of my interests to say that women/men can’t discern any difference in personality, so… agree to disagree, hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:20 AM
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So…. Different people like different people? That is awful and hard to work around. Furthermore, plenty of men also have been in abusive relationships. It’s to do with manipulative people - don’t blame the victims of abuse. That’s the type of personality women and men should avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:02 AM
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How is “shit personality” a bad reason? Isn’t it the same for friends? Why would I want to fuck everyone when I don’t want to even be friends with everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:43 AM
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I’d like to note that men are primarily in charge of these companies so, don’t blame women for this one. that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:52 AM
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Maybe you should read exactly what the person said and what I’m responding to. Literacy is really important in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:39 AM
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If it’s a date, call it a date. Otherwise, I will assume we are friends just hanging out because I do that with my friends. Just because you’re a guy doesn’t mean it’s a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:54 PM
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I always hate this one. Like… the people in your age range are gonna have kids. Just say you want to date someone more than double half your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:53 PM
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You can just say you don’t respond to things you don’t know how to respond to. I do respond to nonsense - that’s why I responded to you in the first place. My mistake, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:59 PM
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I’m more inclined to believe it’s you. You’re the one with the data, saying it’s every random woman but it’s never you. Just sounds like you have a victim complex. Sucks. Anyways, like other women, I don’t have an interest in continuing to speak with you. Have a nice day, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:43 PM
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They have no interest in your actual personality - that’s why. Like you don’t when you act like a pig. There’s nothing bad about that - except that you don’t attract people with your personality. You can say it’s their problem - but the most common denominator is you. Not different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:40 PM
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You don’t respond to even half of what I say. So… I’m gonna tap out. Have a lovely day, ma’am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:37 PM
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It makes it hard to respect women who want to have sex with you and want nothing else from you? Doesn’t that say more about you than them? Honest question. Like, you have less respect for people you have sex with because they’re willing to do it with you? Obviously, you’re not thinking of it this way. But that’s what it boils down to. They’re not interested in your personality. They’re just interested in sex. They’re no different than you. I hope you have some respect for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:36 PM
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So, sexual compatibility doesn’t matter? I’ve had sex with a guy and never again because I really didn’t enjoy it. Your internalized misogyny is showing - like, actually. You didn’t enjoy sex with a guy, but you will do it with him twice more to show you gave him a chance. You don’t have to. There’s no need. This isn’t baseball - they don’t need 3 strikes to be out. Men obviously aren’t operating on that belief. And they shouldn’t - I don’t need to be fucked poorly three times by someone I went …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:30 PM
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Almost never isn’t never. Furthermore, you can change your mind after sex rather often - for example, if you didn’t really enjoy yourself(even if you orgasmed); the chemistry didn’t translate to the bedroom, etc. Sex is important. It’s not uncommon to realize it’s not going to work out from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:19 PM
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I mean, I think it’s fair to change your mind. Yes, it will hurt her feelings but even if you have sex with someone, you’re not obligated to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:26 PM
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Yes, and those aren’t the men in this sub. The men in this sub complain about working their minimum wage job with low hours, the girlfriend they can’t get and the friends they don’t have. This sub isn’t even the majority of men. But the men here don’t have the excuse the men you’re talking about have. Furthermore, one needs to make time to benefit themselves. They need to make time to work out. They wake up an hour before they’re supposed to and workout. Source: I do. If you can’t make time but …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:19 PM
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Lol. They do - they just also don’t want a guy that is trash. Which means they’d rather be alone. That’s okay too You’re not entitled to an unattractive girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:25 PM
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Sure, I can get that. But I don’t get the bitterness, esp from the dudes who don’t wanna try harder but just go “>:( Dinkleburg…” about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:35 AM
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I don’t mean just girls, lol. Boys pick on girls quite often - it’s literally a stereotype. “He’s mean because he likes you!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:21 AM
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What is it about men that makes them upset they aren’t a chad? Most girls know they aren’t a Stacy. They have known since their peers made them feel like a monster for having hairy legs or for not wearing makeup. Idk. Seems weird guys here seem to be so mad they’re not the most desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:13 AM
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Because they’ve spent their time with shitty men already and realized that they would rather be alone than be with someone who doesn’t actually bring more positives than negatives in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:49 AM
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Again - the point of this was you trying to purport that men who are not trophies still should have trophy wives. Neither are a thing. No one should be asking for it. Especially men who cant go up a flight of stairs and want to pretend they have anything in common with even a rifle hunter in the south. The rest, again - You argue with a phantom. Stay on task? Try that next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:05 PM
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Oh, I thought it was like a TYPE of person, lol. Just curious, thanks for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:36 PM
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Men aren’t working out because they don’t have a job? I see men in prison working out. So, that’s not it. And you’re not even going to be fighting a dog - stop acting like your ancestors represent you. I bet you wouldn’t want to claim a racist heritage (or that anyone else should) would represent you, so, let’s keep that same energy across the board. You aren’t going to be fighting anything - most men are not. You’re just a guy sitting at the computer. End of. Men just need to have a job. They n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:35 PM
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“miss moral?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:29 PM
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Because you say so? What’s the logical reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:15 PM
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Men die because they have been sold a masculine martyrdom. Most men these days are either so fat they can’t run up a flight or stairs or so skinny/non athletic that 10 pounds is heavy. If we want to talk about what men traditionally do, they’re not doing that so asking for a trophy wife really isn’t really logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:12 PM
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In this scenario, this person who displayed an immature behavior has no other immature behavior? It’s just rejection which definitely won’t come up again, like for sex or a date? Quite shortsighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:10 PM
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Because even if she said yes, his immaturity would cause a breakup later. Furthermore, some people DO respect a mature response. Just because you don’t doesn’t mean it’s not worth doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:36 PM
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Then, he should reply to OP? There’s a reason I responded to you and not the OP. Mostly because the grammar was atrocious and hard to get through.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:04 AM
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There was a tweet a few months back where a girl was complaining that she felt too awkward to tell her fuckbuddy the condom came off. The bar is super low. I’m sure he didn’t want a damn kid, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:41 AM
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I said no one is obligated to be mature. No one is. I didn’t say no one is owed anything. That’s not my stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:40 AM
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I don’t mean that. Ben Shapiro is quoted saying women shouldn’t get wet. Either that or he simply can’t understand hyperbole - and if he’s meant to be as smart as he is… well, neither looks good. Men and women often don’t want to ask questions about their sexual partners because it’s awkward, so they just try to guess. And even when asked, some women won’t want to be honest. That’s what I mean by sexual education - just basic stuff to do with having a conversation with your sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:34 AM
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… who is discussing nihilistic selfishness? I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:29 AM
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I don’t think it’s weird - but it’s just not realistic in the current world we live in. Quite frankly, everyone is too stressed and poorly sexually educated. Most women are either very sexually repressed or so sexually liberated they can’t see they’re participating in their own trauma. Most - not all. Those demands are minimal and with that simplicity, I would imagine not too too hard to find. I think thinking less of our idealized mate and more waiting to see what happens makes the most sense -…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:29 AM
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“Do what I want or I don’t want anything to do with you.” This is how a lot of men here imagine speaking to their partners that don’t exist - and shouldn’t with that attitude. Yes, a man can have non-negotiables, such as things like: you must want to have children because I want that in my future. You must want to live in Bali for our retirement because that’s what I want to do. You must have sex with me every night because that would make me happy. Even that last one is okay - it’s not going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:16 AM
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That’s not really the point, though. No one is obligated to be mature at any time - but if you can’t handle rejection, maybe you shouldn’t have even propositioned someone for a relationship. Immaturity isn’t really a +1 when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:32 PM
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And it’s fine to see people that way but - well, it isn’t because most people gripe about other people not liking it - but, anyways, you can’t treat people like that and ask for a romantic, trusting, sexually open relationship. Because they know you don’t even value them as a person but as a tool to get what you want. It’s fine if you think that way - just don’t be one of those people that complain that other people don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:28 PM
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Do you think that going, “Well, she did X, so it’s okay for me to do Y,” is a mature response? If you treat someone like an object or tool, you’re simply in a bad relationship. Maybe instead of being so desperate (both parties) they should break up and find someone who values them and doesn’t force them to do things they don’t want to do. Also, you can’t treat people poorly then complain people treat you poorly. Where’s your leg to stand on? It’s too busy kicking other people down because you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:55 PM
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Question - why do men have “stranger” sexual proclivities than the people they’re supposed to mate with? Sexuality is a big deal. Even if she used to do ABC, it’s not like they have to do it, especially if they didn’t like it. Maybe a guy let a girl peg him once - he’s not obligated to let his wife try now. I think this comes from seeing women less like people and more like outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:47 PM
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Are you even replying to the right person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:25 PM
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Except it’s not meaningless when you repeat it? Just be honest - you didn’t understand. That’s fine. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:17 PM
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They aren’t. So, not sure why you repeated what I finished my comment. You can just say you didn’t read it or didn’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:08 PM
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I literally said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:05 PM
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Idk if English if your first Language or not but regardless, I can barely understand what you’re trying to say so… anyways, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:22 PM
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Whose “space” is the kitchen? Whose space is the garbage? What about the living room? Also, people shouldn’t engage in illegal practices or encourage others to do so. So… good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:15 PM
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… I’m really not trying to be mean here but it sounds like you’re just mad you, as a possible beta, would have to help your supposed spouse out with the home. Like, if you don’t want to do that? Don’t get married. It’s not something you have to worry about, then. Everyone should help out around the home. You all live there. Especially in this day and age where we don’t even have the “but he works :(“ nonsense. You can’t survive off one income anymore, so, she does, too. Now, what’s the excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:10 PM
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Some people are desired less than others. That’s just how it is. Some people have to try harder than others. Just how it is. My dad has a higher voice than my mothers. For a lot of women, that wouldn’t fly. Different strokes - or you know, letting things go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:06 PM
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Empathy is the action of understanding someone without going through their circumstances. So, I think you’re kinda just stating, “grass is green,” to the class here. They can’t empathize. Empathizing isn’t meant to require you to experience their literal circumstances. If you cannot empathize with others, you need to either work on it or accept that your relationships, If you manage to get them, will be shallow. That’s not a deriding comment - I’m a diagnosed sociopath. I empathize better (or at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:00 PM
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I really don’t think it is. Hey, you’re from Texas! Same, super fun. Anyways, I think there is a difference between a male model - it’s hard to get super muscular and you have to win the genetic lottery. That is a guy people like - personally, I don’t like muscles because I like soft people. Muscles are hard to the touch, lol. But that’s neither here nor there - simple things like brushing your teeth or getting a sense of style. And not even a GOOD one - just one that expresses yourself. Most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:53 PM
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I think they “get it.” They just don’t want to. Like, your doctor says you gotta brush your teeth. If not for the ladies, your health. Still no? Okay, then. It’s not just the ladies saying you should be hygienic. But I meet those types of men fairly often. Most women really aren’t that picky - I know this sub genuinely thinks all girls will wait for Chad but most women also have those “daddy issues” you also believe in, so… you think they’re going to just not indulge? I rarely see women with ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:47 PM
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I just used different examples than your OP to illustrate context. Like another user said, you’re Talking about 2 different groups of people and saying they think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:58 PM
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Sure, but sometimes there are other reasons for that. Like, that your spouse never helps with anything around the house. Be much easier to pick up a vacuum than get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:57 PM
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Sex isn’t unimportant - but asking for sex within X time frame of a brand new person is ridiculous. If you just need to get your rocks off, get a sex toy. Likewise, sex is important in a relationship - but if your main way of getting sex then is guilting your partner because of your needs, you just have to admit your partner doesn’t really want to have sex with you and maybe that’s what one should work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:27 PM
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Fair enough. Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:41 AM
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Lol, I meant it as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:55 PM
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… what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:45 PM
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I once had a girlfriend go, “I was drunk and he didn’t try anything - he’s such a nice guy.” Not raping someone isn’t really a plus - it should be a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:28 PM
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