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agenderAsexual/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:39 AM
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agenderAsexual/r/MensRights28/10/13 03:30 AM
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Okay, thanks, good mate! I'll keep that in mind.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 08:59 PM
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I'm outside of the binary, as my username says, but I'm also biologically female. I guess people would call me a "black madame."
/r/MensRights05/11/13 08:59 PM
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Thanks. I'm glad that /r/jailbait was deleted.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 08:56 PM
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Is that so? What if one was replying to you right now?
/r/MensRights05/11/13 08:55 PM
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I just consider "white knights" to be male feminists.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:46 PM
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That's a great one, mate! Good job.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:46 PM
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Sorry mate, but what is SRS?
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:46 PM
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Well, I'm a biological female and I consider myself an MRA. Everyone deserves to be protected (which is the point of chivalry: to protect). If I can help, I would do it, for certain. Man or woman.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:45 PM
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Feminists come up with such rude terms, I guess. Looks like they can't deal with the opinions of others.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:43 PM
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Nicely put, mate! I don't think anyone could have said that better. However I think that some white knights think that women are their supreme rulers and that they are perfect in every aspect. It's kind of... gross.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:42 PM
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I guess that makes me sort of a rarity? I am (biologically) a female and I identify with MRAs. I notice that there are issues for both sides but most people think that there are no issues for men. That's sort of sad. I don't think men have to be manly and traditional. They can do what they want. The whole point of me being a gender equalist is that I think people shouldn't be expected to do certain things based on their genitals.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:37 PM
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Knight is a homophone of night.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:35 PM
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Thanks, good mate, for writing. You are right, "white knight" is a little derogatory. I had used it in a really broad sense. Well, now I know. :)
/r/MensRights05/11/13 03:30 AM
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...Ouch. That's a harsh term. Do they use this on /r/Feminism?
/r/MensRights05/11/13 03:26 AM
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Sorry for being unclear, mate, I didn't mean it had to rhyme with "white knight," I was trying to say that it should be two words that rhyme. :) Like "humane dame"? That sounds pretty general but it sounds cool too.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 03:25 AM
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I understand where you're coming from, but I'm not sure if the phenomenon is common enough to label. I also don't think it would necessarily apply to female MRAs in the same way it doesn't apply to every male feminist. It would depend on the individual's reasons for helping/being nice to men/women. Yes, I fully understand, mate. I thought it was usually acceptable to call male feminists white knights. If we're going with the medieval theme then maybe doting damsel? Dutiful dame? Cute names! Alli…
/r/MensRights05/11/13 03:09 AM
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That's a good one too, mate!
/r/MensRights05/11/13 03:01 AM
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They are biological things. That is why we talk about male and female's of a species. Again, you would not last 2 seconds in a biology or medical class because the differences are rather important and the terms have real objective definitions and used all the time. No, I believe you are referring to "penis" and "vagina," not "male" and "female." Also, mind the ad hominem, mate. If you accept science it doesn't mean you are a "transphobic". You are being transphobic because you are defining peopl…
/r/MensRights04/11/13 04:21 AM
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Women were given less opportunities to contribute. Not only they had to stay at home as housewives, but you can't deny that there was a patriarchy way back years ago. And women did contribute.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 06:06 PM
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By that argument you could say individual cells are humans. And by the way, mentally retarded people are self-aware if you didn't notice. You are making so many straw men right now.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 05:08 PM
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finding one female scientist who was great is missing the point. The vast majority of great scientists, inventors, mathematicians, business leaders were men. Yeah except the people OP linked to said that men were responsible for everything good.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 04:33 PM
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Really? Marie Curie is one of my favourite scientists ever... I'm grateful that we've had some women that helped our society and technology progress.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 03:51 PM
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Here's what I've been saying all along. Fetuses aren't self-aware. So killing a fetus is the same as killing a chicken. Are you a vegan or vegetarian?
/r/MensRights03/11/13 04:19 AM
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I used to be a rather radical feminist, but one day on the internet, I got into an argument about which gender has it harder. The only people arguing were me, as a feminist arguing that women had it harder, and the polar opposite. The mate listed things that were harder for men with sources and I just... switched. Just like that.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 04:15 AM
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Can you give me one reason why it should be considered a person? Can you actually provide any argument yet?
/r/MensRights02/11/13 04:24 PM
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So technically it is not a person.
/r/MensRights02/11/13 03:35 PM
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Ask the census if they count fetuses as people.
/r/MensRights02/11/13 04:55 AM
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Except a fetus is unborn. And besides it's not counted as a person in the census... so... please, can you actually make an argument besides "Your argument is invalid" now, mate?
/r/MensRights01/11/13 02:19 PM
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Male and female are totally psychological things. The difference in biology is "penis" and "vagina," not "male" and "female." The latter are strictly gender roles, attitudes, fashions, and feelings. Quite a rash statement from you saying I live in a fantasy world when you, transphobic mate, deny that trans people are the gender they feel they are. Not only that but you don't see the difference between sex and gender.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 03:35 AM
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It's not considered a person until it's born. I'm sorry but the census doesn't count fetuses as people and neither does anything else official. If fetuses are human, then sperms are human too.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 03:32 AM
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You've taken something I said and twisted it so that you could argue against it. You are not born until you're outside of your mum's body, so fetuses aren't humans. Just like sperms aren't humans and eggs aren't humans.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 08:55 PM
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You called me insane because you had no more arguments left. Basically your only arguments were insults. You can give up, mate. Doesn't mean you lose. I'm not going to downvote you. You should talk to me when you feel better.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 08:02 PM
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You started calling me insane and a waste of time. If it's such a waste of time then I don't know why you continue to reply to me, mate. Don't be angry.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 01:44 PM
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No, kill fetuses whose lives will be rough. You're using a straw man. Humans are different, they are conscious and self-aware, and most of them don't want to die. The ones that do are not in a healthy mental state to choose to die. It's obvious that some babies won't get adopted because it happened to me. Also you haven't made any arguments, you've just been sitting here making straw men and saying, "That's not a valid argument." Well... ditto, mate!
/r/MensRights31/10/13 01:25 PM
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Probably just a dialect difference. It's a pretty good argument because obviously not all children will be adopted right away. Especially the ones with a disability or two like me. No one wanted me and I don't think anyone still wants me now. Do you know how bad that makes people feel?
/r/MensRights31/10/13 04:32 AM
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Adoption is the worst thing you can put anyone through. I've been given up for adoption and it is the darkest thing ever... I've been traumatized by the children at the adoption centre... I had no communication with anyone (I'm deaf and no one taught me sign language) until I was adopted at fourteen... there was nothing to do there because if I brought any toys for older children in, then they would be lost or broken so quickly. No one should go through that.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 03:16 AM
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People shouldn't have to be forced to go through the pain that is pregnancy.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 02:34 AM
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So they have no choice in whether they give birth or not, if they have already conceived. Okay.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 02:17 AM
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At least I haven't ran out of valid points to degrade to ad hominem. Just calm down, good mate.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 01:22 AM
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I didnt believe transsexuals were be insane, but you've convinced me that at least you are, congratulations. This is a waste of time. You know you've lost an argument when...
/r/MensRights31/10/13 12:05 AM
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But do they have the right to not give birth?
/r/MensRights30/10/13 08:01 PM
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So why do you believe these - non males - don't count, even if they are affected by it? Why is it not a genderless issue? This is about gender, not sex. I never said that abortion wasn't a women's rights issue just because of transgender people. I meant that it would apply to everyone, and transgender mates are just an example of other genders that can get pregnant. You are seriously misrepresenting my argument because you think that I'm saying it's all because trans men can get pregnant. He sti…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 01:56 PM
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I know you didnt say that. No, I didn't imply it either. And you need to make more sense, please. Tell me how my argument means there could be no such thing as men's or women's rights issues. If you claim thats not what you believe then by all means please give me an example of what you believe actually does count as a mens rights issue, or a womans rights issue. When you fail to do so, maybe you could apologise for claiming I misrepresented you. Child custody is an issue for men as the legal sy…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 06:35 AM
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Not sure if you read my whole post, but the slam dunk you apparently missed is this... If you do want to argue that abortion should be neither a womans or mens rights issue for these reasons you argue, then you have to accept that there is no such thing as a woman or mens rights issue altogether. Hey, it's a human rights issue because it would apply to everyone hypothetically. According to your logic, it is not a mens rights issue, because your logic says there is no such thing as a mens or woma…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 04:52 AM
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Have you ever been in an adoption centre, good mate?
/r/MensRights30/10/13 04:47 AM
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Intersex individuals are not transsexuals, so cannot be called trans, though they may experience similar many of the same practical challenges both societally and psychologically, many having added medical problems. Transsexuals are individuals who are biologically male or female, but psychologically feel like they are of the opposite sex, a common feeling being that they feel they are in the wrong body which is why many set out to physically alter their appearance with surgery and hormone repla…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 12:15 AM
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If you don't get adopted right away then you're going to have a bad time. A real bad time.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 09:17 PM
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Yeah, it doesn't help that I'm deaf-mute and no one had taught me sign language. I had talked to not a single person in those six years. I sat in bed and did nothing, except eat when it was meal time. I had nothing of my own because if I brought video games in or other things, it would be destroyed or lost by another kid. There were only toys for little kids and they were drooled on and chewed on... ugh.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 01:30 PM
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We're supposed to define who they are by their sex. That's our choice, mate. It doesn't matter if we don't know them.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 01:27 PM
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Yes, everyone must be controlled by the social norm called gender and automatically be assigned gender roles based on the genitalia and chromosomes they were born with. You, mate, are a genius. Edit: What's with the downvotes? I wasn't being sarcastic.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:11 AM
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Chickens are genetically unique from everything else. And so are eggs... and fish... and cows...
/r/MensRights29/10/13 04:48 AM
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My mum was raped. When I was in the womb, she did drugs and damaged me forever. I was growing up and she told me she hated me so much and she wanted me gone. She gave me up when I was eight years old. Then I lived in a nightmare (also known as an adoption centre) for six years.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 02:38 AM
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No it isnt. Only semantically if you include women who call themselves men and get hormone replacement so they start developing male features like facial hair. Don't be a transphobe, mate. There are men born with feminine genitalia and you know that. And when men can give birth, or when we can create humans in artificial wombs, then it can stop being a woman's rights issue. And it has already been done.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 02:36 AM
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Ha. Tell that to my biological mother...
/r/MensRights28/10/13 10:33 PM
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...Uhhh. Yea... but that isnt the reality we are living in right now. ... ... Uhhh. Yea... but it is entirely possible for men to give birth anyway now. ... Would be allowed, if we all living in a fantasy world. What if in a parallel universe Harry Potter was real? What good does it do to say these things? Exactly. If it should be allowed for everyone and not just women, it's not a women's rights issue.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 10:12 PM
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But a fetus is of your own body. It's attached to your body, unlike another man's penis.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 08:29 PM
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If fetuses are sacred, then I guess you could argue that sperm is sacred too.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 08:13 PM
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My mum was probably the type of person who thought condoms and birth control pills are murder.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:45 PM
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Because I'm too stubborn for that. I'd probably get angry at them.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:40 PM
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Because they are the ones that have to carry the baby in their bodies. Once babies can be grown in a lab then it will stop being a womans rights issue, or at least it will be for those cases. It's pretty much a human right because if anyone in the world got pregnant, they should have the right to abort it. Not just women. My parallel universe analogy shows that, no matter who gives birth, people should be able to abort. So it's more of a human rights issue to me. But this a contradiction (one of…
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:40 PM
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Ah, but they can end your life. Maternal death, mate.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:36 PM
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Yes, and if I was dead before I was born, I wouldn't feel bad about it. I wouldn't be alive.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:35 PM
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Are you also a vegan or vegetarian?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:33 PM
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It's not really killing, I think, if it's an organ in your own body. It isn't self-aware so it's the same as killing a chicken for your food.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:31 PM
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I say that we draw the line at the age the baby becomes self-aware, so maybe about eighteen months. I know you wouldn't like that but my moral system wouldn't extend to anyone younger.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:29 PM
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Ah, but a sperm can potentially fertilize an egg which turns into a great person. But people masturbate anyway.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 06:06 AM
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The difference is that I'm a grown person and a fetus is... a fetus. It's not self-aware at all. There is no "I" in fetus, if you know what I'm saying.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 05:59 AM
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But if your friend had not been born, you would just carry on with your life and not worry about a missing friend. Perhaps some of your "future friends" were aborted but I'm not sure if you should really care about that.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 05:39 AM
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I don't support what she's trying to advocate. If you're raped, just, abort it. That's all. I'd rather be aborted than have lived in conditions like that for eight years and then in that adoption centre for six years.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 05:03 AM
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It's okay, mate. That's exactly what I mean. Abortion shouldn't be split into women's rights and men's rights. It's just human rights to me.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:52 AM
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Yeah, I'm not even sure if Winter's a name, right? Oh well, some people call me Winnie as a nickname.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:26 AM
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I totally agree with you. Some pro-life birth-givers need to realize that sometimes, they just shouldn't have that baby.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:23 AM
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There are many other situations where I would agree with the sentiment, however. With which sentiment?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:21 AM
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Ah, now I see. Thanks mate, I was sceptical about fathers opting out of child support at first but I see it now.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:20 AM
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Not only that, but my mum did drugs that had damaged me mentally and physically. The disaster that is me should have been aborted immediately, there's no doubt about that. And if I hadn't made it clear before, my mum was raped but she was pro-life so she wouldn't get an abortion or Plan B. She decided to see if she could put up with me but she was always so mad at me. She told me that she hated me and wish she never had me. She told me I'm a reminder of her rapist. She told me why she named me W…
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:18 AM
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I just don't understand why we have to put those labels on basic human rights. How about we get past that and accept that if gender roles were reversed, they would have the same rights?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:11 AM
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My mum was very pro-life so she didn't take the Plan B either. She despises any form of birth control. Mate, I think if the odds were even 30%, you should just back out of there. I think that's too risky. No one wants to hear that they have a 70% chance of living if they didn't do something.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:06 AM
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I have more of a human rights perspective on my pro-choice views. What would you say about that?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:04 AM
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I think the difference here is that if it's aborted, it's gone. If it's alive and the man wants to opt out of child support, it's still there and needs to have food, drink, shelter, and so on... But yes, you do have a point.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:03 AM
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My mum gave me up for adoption when I was eight since she didn't want to abort me instead, and wow, it wasn't pleasant, mate. Can't say this for every adoption centre but the adoption centre I was at was crowded with children... drooling, loud, crying, angry children. They stole all my stuff and lost it so I basically didn't have anything of my own. All that was there were toys for much younger children, and when I became a teenager, I had no internet, no video games, or nothing. All there was w…
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:01 AM
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Mental trauma stops pregnancy? Mate, my mum wishes it was that way. Enough mental trauma to get her to do drugs strong enough to damage me for life, but not enough to stop the pregnancy. Oh dear. I mean a threat as in when the doctors warn you of maternal death.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 03:53 AM
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Do you really believe that men should be allowed to opt out of child support though?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 03:50 AM
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No doubt. I'm a female-bodied person but I don't identify with women.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 03:49 AM
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But then there are cases of rape or perhaps the pregnancy is a threat to the woman's life. Actually, I'm the result of a rape, and I probably should have been aborted since my mum resented me while I was growing up.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 03:44 AM
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Some people believe an unborn child is a person and its life is more important than a woman's right to have an abortion. This is exactly what I was trying to tell them. I can't believe that some people made me argue from the view of pro-life people. I also said that it was mostly religious people who supported the pro-life view and some guy said something like, "Right, because the Bible and Christianity aren't misogynistic at all. Good argument." You know, I thought I would never, ever have to b…
/r/MensRights28/10/13 03:42 AM
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Neat. Do you consider it a feminist issue?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 03:35 AM
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One time, /r/Feminism had mentioned rape to be a problem to feminism. They implied it only happened to females so I jumped to male defense and refuted them. Then I was threatened that I'll be banned if I make any more comments of that nature. I left because the closed-mindedness to other opinions was just too much.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 04:14 AM
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I knew a guy who was so hurt about being circumcised. Because of religion, his parents circumcised him at a young age, and now he feels really bad about it. He feels like he's missing out. One time he cried to me about it. It's so sad that some people try to justify circumcision by saying people are not affected by it or by saying it's beneficial. As for the petition, I didn't sign that one because I had a problem with the prefixes. I did sign the petition that u/Ripowal1 recommended though.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 05:53 AM
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I would start by explaining to him or her what sexism is. Anything that has any discrimination or prejudice against a sex or gender is sexist. You can discriminate against men by making negative assumptions and by being biased. Some people say that all men are pigs, which is indeed sexism; it falls under the definition quite well. Assuming all men are going to be rapists is also a big, biased, discriminatory assumption, which I think is what he or she was talking about. And please be careful wit…
/r/MensRights06/10/13 09:43 AM
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