agentphunk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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49	How do you mentally cope with paying alimony? Stoicism. It's not what happens to you, it's how you respond to it. Aka "Let go or be dragged." Yes alimony sucks, but it beats being with someone who made you miserable. Edit -- to me, the two most powerful worlds you can utter are "I am .." You are what you continually tell yourself. If you say "I am unhappy that I have to pay alimony. I am angry, I am sad, I am, etc." then that's what you are. Be mindful that you don't let the 'sunglasses of negativity' slip over your eyes, because then every…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/23 12:15 PM
2	Does Everyone Hate Their Ex? "Fail forward fastly." "You either win, or you learn." "Let go or be dragged." For anyone else -- I would highly recommend "The Daily Stoic" podcast and related books. SO good at cultivating this mindset.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/23 12:16 PM
1	Does Everyone Hate Their Ex? "Let go or be dragged" and/or "Hate is like your drinking poison hoping someone else gets sick." There are no failed relationships, just opportunities to improve yourself and/or your selection criteria.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/23 07:38 PM
22	How do you punish bad behavior without seeming butthurt? When something shitty happens to you, set a 5 minute timer and go be as butthurt as you need to be. When the timer dings, say out loud "can't change it" and then remind yourself that every negative emotion is created by your resistance to reality. This is Stoicism 101. You are only butthurt because you are losing your frame, because you want things to be different than they actually are. You can't change the past, you can't change her, you can only change you and your future. You should strive t…	/r/askMRP	07/08/22 05:07 PM
3	struggling being alone This should be PERMANENTLY stickied and/or in the sidebar! Fantastic advice. For meditation I would suggest the (free!!) Insight Timer app with the Mindfulness Daily sessions from Jack Kornfield and Tara Branch. They are quick 10 minute sessions and easy to do. When I just opened the app the quote of the day was "Life is the balance between fear and courage." Take your fears of loneliness, of abandonment, of unworthy -ness and put them aside. "Put down that backback' that you are carrying around…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/22 01:11 PM
1	Can’t do this anymore Don't let the bitch win! You can do this! Go on /r/stoicism Reinvent yourself! You have your whole life ahead of you. Please don't give up!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/22 08:33 PM
3	The person you divorced isn't the person you married. Also "Mother Theresa doesn't show up to divorce court with Hitler" i.e. she's not the saint, nor you the devil, that she's claiming"	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/22 12:30 AM
2	What is your opinion on Red Pill? Straight redpill? No. But MarriedRedPill has been a godsend for me. MRP is all about self-improvement and how to "be the man" that a quality woman wants to be with. And that specifically is not the RP 'just do it to get laid' reason. MRP has its faults, sure what doesn't, but the core is spot-on.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/22 05:57 PM
8	Momentary lapse of judgement Dude go read No More Mr Nice Guy. And then read it again..	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/21 06:57 PM
8	This is hands down the best sub on Reddit for men. Or as Robin Williams said "Divorce is like having your wallet ripped out through your balls"	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/21 10:28 PM
4	What is an attractive way to act with women who have rejected you, or you've tried unsuccessfully with? /r/stoicism And read (at least a summary of) When I Say No I Feel Guilty and definitely The Charisma Myth	/r/seduction	23/08/19 12:50 PM
0	LOL Paging /u/fuckingeatmore	/r/MGTOW	22/05/19 09:50 PM
16	Integrity is integrity. Maybe a touch of Alzheimer's or dementia, and she started calling him by the 1940's dude's name when they we're having nasty old people sex.	/r/MGTOW	04/05/19 02:45 PM
15	There are Only NPC Women to Date- Aaron Clarey Eddie Murphy sums this up PERFECTLY in this old stand up routine. https://youtu.be/i5mIL3F5QDA	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/12/18 03:27 PM
9	30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The Butt Find a late night talk show host you like and try to analyze WHY you like them. Then do your version of that.	/r/seduction	19/11/18 10:04 PM
2	Who said i was a sugar daddy? I think I should invest in some diabetes / insulin companies now.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/10/18 06:49 PM
1	Vasectomy and Hypergamy Right up until she goes and fucks (and gets pregnant by) Chad.	/r/askMRP	26/03/18 08:17 PM
1	Farewell to my friend A dog is not a pet. Cats? Fuck cats. A dog is a companion.	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/04/17 04:42 PM
8	Update: there was sex after the damn soup. If you had five dicks your pants would fit you like a glove. I'll see myself out.	/r/askMRP	12/12/16 10:22 PM
4	Is it okay to cry? There's a great book called "The Charisma Myth" that I think you (and everyone actually) should read. The myth part is that you can only be born with charisma, and it can't be learned. Well, it can, and this book teaches you simple things to out you in a positive frame of mind, to be confident, to re-write those negative emotions that are dogging you, and more. Here's a summary but you should really read the whole book (which is quick and easy). I think maybe you just need to implement some of t…	/r/seduction	11/11/16 12:13 PM
1	Wife went nuclear, struggling with my options. That sentence is about all the sympathy you're going to get. One of my favorite quotes is "if you're looking for sympathy, the only place you'll find it here is in the dictionary, between SHIT and SYPHILIS".	/r/askMRP	08/09/16 11:41 PM
82	Nightclub bouncer gets asked what good pick ups look like (from RSD Nation) WHAT?	/r/seduction	27/06/16 12:12 PM
1	premature cork popper Remember, it could always be worse: (Guy walks up to the store clerk): "yes, I'd like to buy some con..Con...CONDOMS!!! Oh never mind..."	/r/askMRP	27/06/16 01:58 AM
20	How do I meet girls in my area by myself? Check out photofeeler.com. You can upload your pics and people with rate them on three different characteristics depending on if the pic is for Dating, Personal, or Business (LinkedIn) use. It's "free" if you rate N number of other people's photos which honestly is kind of fun - just be fair/honest.	/r/seduction	29/05/16 11:31 PM
7	Jealous of the Guy Who's Better Than You? Here's a Thought Do you know what a hemophiliac and a virgin have in common? One prick and its all over. Yes, this had nothing to do with the comment thread, but hell its Friday and I don't feel like working anymore.	/r/seduction	08/04/16 06:44 PM
3	5 Effective Ways to Approach a Girl in a Club Maybe because they've all had too many Pan-Galactic Gargle Blasters?	/r/seduction	27/03/16 11:53 AM