| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | How do you initiate touching on a date?If you don't get a laugh, or if the laugh is uncomfortable then you know she's not into it, so this is a good litmus test | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]🤷♀️ | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't think the effort in both directions comes in the same forms. Her getting dressed and looking pretty and being good company and making conversation is her effort, his paying and driving and planning is his effort. The relationship should go both ways but the way they'll express it to each other is going to be different and those differences are important as well as valid. But kissing/sexual activity shouldn't be considered part of that equation | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I just don't agree with this statement at all - on a fundamental level, but yes if that's what he's going for he should do that I guess | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If she wants to play coy, let her, that's more fun for her than "getting to the point" of a kiss, and will keep her around longer. If you work harder to win her over it increases her value, so she may be trying to make you work harder to prove your interest. Going for a kiss and earning a kiss are different | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Putting a number on the dates seems weird. If OP, you really like her and want to do better with her I (F23) would suggest stop trying to kiss her at all and just make your dates exciting and different, something to get her attraction levels up, before attempting again. Maybe she'll even try and kiss you | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol girl be sneaky n drop hints and be sus ?? Nah, just say or don't. Depends on the image you want. Get him to bring it up | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | First Approach TodayGreat job on the work up! Sometimes when you have to hype yourself up too much beforehand it can make you get in your head like that, just remember to not make the approach about you, make it about them. You shouldn't approach a girl to get some response out of it yourself, but approach her to compliment and nothing more. Girls can sense your intentions/vibe immediately. It's a more lasting impression if you compliment her sincerely, and leave w/o "pursuing" her. Then next time you're in the sto… | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 03:09 AM |
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