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FOREVER GF TALESagotasaidwhat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:33 AM
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Good point! I heard Shera Seven is going viral on TikTok, clearly there's a demand for female dating advice that's beyond the cool girl pickmeism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/23 05:49 PM
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Yeah, if the aim is to spread FDS message, leaving Reddit was a bad move. FDS was becoming a cultural phenomenon online, now it's some weird niche website with a UX that barely works + a podcast of questionable quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/23 07:13 PM
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despite saying the website is for women, ppl who dont agree with you attack your comment I think this is a general phenomenon. When a community moves to an alternative platform, whether voluntarily or due to being banned from mainstream platforms, that community starts becoming increasingly radical. That's because it's extremely difficult to get people to move from a mainstream platform to an alternative platform. Only the "true believers" make that transition, so the community loses the moderat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/23 10:28 AM
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Is this a history podcast now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/23 01:50 PM
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Lol what were their arguments in favor of living with Mommy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/23 09:33 AM
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Wait is FDS sub back??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/23 09:21 AM
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It seems to me that the hosts downplayed the plight of unattractive women. It's probably safe to say that the vast majority of people want to have a family at some point in their lives. But then that dream might feel out of reach for unattractive women because men primarily select for looks. Say, I believe Savannah argued that ultimately, being treated well is not about looks it's about boundaries, which I agree with. However, if a woman is unattractive, then she might struggle to get any romant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/22 09:05 AM
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We have heard so much about how attractive Lilith is that at this point I'm expecting her to look like Amber Heard on red carpet 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/22 03:34 PM
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Not only that he said he has a girlfriend and they split the bills. Imagine messaging random women to inform them that you have a girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/22 07:11 AM
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"Traditional" men hate women for: Only dating men who can provide ("gold digger!!"). Giving chances to deadbeat losers ("here's a 3 hour podcast on why single mothers are evil"). "Superior male logic" strikes again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/22 12:09 PM
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>which man deserves a traditional wife I don't even understand how it's supposed to work from the logistical perspective. If he doesn't make enough money to support a family on his income alone and she doesn't make any money at all... Then where is the money to make up the difference between his income and the bills is coming from?? I thought men were supposed to be good at math, but these guys seem to be struggling with basic arithmetic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/22 09:05 PM
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The easiest way to trigger an online traditionalist is to say: "I believe in traditional gender roles, I want to be a stay at home wife, have 5 kids, and homeschool them. That's why I won't date any man who can't support a family of 7 on his income alone" ...then watch all hell break loose 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/22 09:02 PM
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I just wanted to comment about the "cook, clean, submit" expectation mentioned in the podcast: According to my observations, there's a negative correlation between: How much time a man spends preaching traditional gender roles online. How capable a man is when it comes to fulfilling his traditional gender role (protect, provide, lead). There are plenty of women out there who want a traditional relationship dynamic, but they won't go for a weak, broke, low status man with no discipline and no dir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/22 03:37 PM
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You are missing the point. Of course femcels wouldn't have to pay for sex, but they would need to have sex with men they aren't attracted to. I'm sure that the homeless man by the dumpster would be DTF, does that mean that a femcel isn't a femcel because she refuses to take advantage of that wonderful opportunity? By that logic incels aren't incels either because they could pay for sex, they just refuse to. Women also typically seek not just sex but a committed relationship, I assume that's the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/22 08:25 AM
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I guess I'm not familiar with the femcel community enough to know whether the hosts addressed their issues. But I agree that polling them or announcing the episode in advance so that they could submit questions would probably have made the episode better. I actually thought that the weight issue wasn't given enough focus. After all, addressing that is the #1 way to looksmax as a woman, so to me "just move to Ohio lol" didn't cut it. I also thought Lilith's suggestion that the ideal female bodyfa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/22 08:38 PM
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>they did flat out say lose weight You are probably right, it's been a few days, so I probably forgot a lot of it already What advice would you give to femcels? Or do you take issue with giving advice at all? I'm surprised that this podcast elicited such a negative reaction from the community, but maybe I'm missing something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/22 08:16 PM
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I don't think the "move to another state" advice was targeted at teenage girls. Also while I get the idea, I thought this advice was weird, it seems the hosts came up with it just to avoid the obvious "lose weight" advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/22 07:58 PM
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IIRC, the hosts argued that in most cases, femcels aren't inherently "ugly", they just don't put as much effort into grooming as the average woman in their social environment (e.g. don't shave their legs when all the other girls do). And if someone truly can't make themselves "attractive enough for society", then yes, tough break, this person needs to learn how to navigate the world with that disadvantage. The same way people with other disadvantages have to learn how to navigate it - those with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/22 02:17 PM
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I think that it was pragmatic advice. Especially for girls that are still in high school. You can't expect a 17 year old girl getting bullied due to her appearance to "challenge society", she has zero power to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/22 11:14 AM
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I think "incel" and "femcel" refer to not being able to have sex with someone you are attracted to without paying for it. Because if we define it as just "not being able to get sex", then men can't be incels either because they can pay for sex. And if it's illegal where they live, they can go on a vacation to a country where that's legal. (Obviously, I'm not advocating for prostitution, just applying the same logic to incels that you applied to femcels).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/22 11:11 AM
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I believe FDS has a Discord for Patreon supporters (Level Up tier and Queen Shit tier): https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/22 08:49 AM
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I'd recommend reading the book "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt. TL;DR: If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/22 12:41 PM
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FDS moved from Reddit to their own website: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/forum From what I understand, they keep the sub open now, but only for posting podcast episode threads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/22 12:09 PM
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As someone who has conservative views regarding social issues, what I find interesting is the "conservative" reaction to that magazine cover. There was a tweet where someone put two SI covers side by side, one with a typical swimsuit model and one that Jordan Peterson was talking about. The implication seemed to be that going from the hot woman to an overweight woman is a sign of civilizational decline. What I'd like to know is why "conservatives" are in favor of putting pornographic images of s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/22 08:39 AM
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I wish FDS would reconsider Reddxit. I understand the concerns behind moving away from this platform. But as a general principle attempts to move an online following from one platform to another platform typically results in losing most of it. You can see this if you look at people who got banned from platforms like YouTube. For example: IIRC, Stefan Molyneux had around 1M subscribers on YouTube, now he only has 82k on BitChute. That's 2 years after being banned. This pattern can be observed wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 08:26 PM
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>Men truly believe as they get older they look better but judging on dating apps it’s the opposite. Yeah, when I went on the apps, I was like "What happened to aging like fine wine??" But then I realized that men also lie about their age so that partially explains it... Though it does raise the question as to why they would lie about their age when they are supposedly in their prime. Shouldn't young women be throwing themselves at them?? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 11:40 AM
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>The only indication of this was years prior >they were together for ten years The fact that he was in a relationship with her for 10 years without marrying her is the best indication that he didn't want to commit to her. That's why rotational dating is the best way to avoid the forever GF scenario - "If I'm not married, I am single". Don't commit to a man who won't commit to you. And marriage is the only commitment that counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 07:50 AM
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a girl who found out her boyfriend of 4 years was on Bumble WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:55 PM
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How many men that want this “traditional” arrangement are comfortable with that? Let's not get ahead of ourselves... We first need to establish what percentage of men that claim to want a "traditional" marriage can support a family on their income alone? Or even have an income to begin with? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:10 PM
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So you think that men and women commit the same amount of crime?
/r/MensRights15/07/18 09:55 PM
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Why would men and women be arrested at the same rate if men commit more crime?
/r/MensRights15/07/18 07:43 PM
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04 July 2017: There were 5,391 newly recorded2 cases of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) reported in England during 2016-17, according to the second publication of annual statistics from this data set. These children are either UK's citizens or residents which UK fails to protect which is why I said that FGM is rampant in UK.
/r/MensRights02/04/18 09:20 AM
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https://digital.nhs.uk/article/6941/Annual-statistical-publication-for-FGM-shows-5-391-newly-recorded-cases-during-2016-17
/r/MensRights02/04/18 03:53 AM
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They don't really prosecute people in the UK for it, though, check the stats, there have been 0 convictions so far despite it being rampant there.
/r/MensRights01/04/18 06:36 PM
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You seem to be proceeding from the premise that wannabe rapists announce their fantasies to everyone in their lives. You could as well say that all crime is mostly made up since I assume you don't know many murderers, robbers, and thieves either. This is just flawed reasoning.
/r/MensRights31/03/18 11:34 AM
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Have you watched the videos I suggested? Also, you seem to be in denial about, well, evolution.
/r/MensRights25/04/17 08:44 AM
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Again, you are assuming that I subscribe to feminist ideas, though I guess I can't blame you for that because those lunatics claim to speak for "women". I think the dichotomy between The Nice Guy and Chad is a false dichotomy. Women are attracted to men who have good genes, the resources to provide for them and their children, and ability and willingness to protect them and their children if necessary. The reason why women aren't attracted to Nice Guys and are attracted to Chads isn't that Nice …
/r/MensRights25/04/17 03:17 AM
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I'd like to point out that me being a woman doesn't automatically make me a feminist - I think that feminism is an extremely destructive force that needs to be stopped. And I do think that a child making terrible choices and ruining their lives is a consequence of bad parenting (both the mother and the father have failed as parents).
/r/MensRights25/04/17 02:58 AM
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The reason I used heroin as an analogy is because it's something that presumably makes people very happy in the short term and has disastrous consequences in the long term. Do you think it's ethical not to intervene if someone you cared about started using? Promiscuity and dating "bad boys" might make a woman "happy" in the short term (provide her with excitement that comes from the highs and lows of an emotional rollercoaster) but it has absolutely disastrous consequences in long-term, such as …
/r/MensRights25/04/17 01:43 AM
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Would you also be okay with your daughter doing heroine "if that makes her happy?"
/r/MensRights25/04/17 01:24 AM
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taking offense at what one person says to another has a limited value. If the daughter likes and enjoys it, is she being demeaned? After all, she probably has had many fuckscapades with guys while listening to that very rap music, in today's culture. So, just to be clear, you'd be perfectly okay with your daughter having had "many fuckscapades with guys while listening to that very music" and then dating a manwhore rapper who'd discuss their sex life in his songs, call her a bitch and a hoe, and…
/r/MensRights25/04/17 01:21 AM
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Rap and hip hop music is stereotyped as being demeaning to women specifically because of male singers bragging about multiple partners The reason they brag about it is because they think that being a manwhore is a positive thing. And rap music is "stereotyped" as demeaning to women because it is demeaning to women (I doubt there are many fathers who would be happy if someone talked like that about their daughters).
/r/MensRights24/04/17 04:04 PM
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It's not "attachment" that women sense, it's desirability, which indicates status and resources, which indicate he's likely a good potential mate.
/r/MensRights24/04/17 09:32 AM
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This varies among different countries which might explain us having a different perspective on that. You can observe sluts/studs double standard in popular culture, though - how many female singers/rappers are bragging about having had a lot of partners and how many male singers/rappers are bragging about it?
/r/MensRights24/04/17 07:49 AM
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I think women being attracted to men who are desirable to other women boils down to male desirability being an easy way to evaluate his value as a potential mate (from an evolutionary perspective).
/r/MensRights24/04/17 07:46 AM
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Im much more attractive to females of all ages if I have a current intimate relationship than if I'm unattached. I actually suspect that this works on men too just maybe to a lesser degree.
/r/MensRights24/04/17 07:44 AM
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Men who sleep with a lot of women, are deemed as players by women, its only other men who laud men who sleep with lots of women as as players I personally see promiscuity in men as a negative trait but I think a lot of women might see it as attractive because it could be interpreted as an indication of his status (his attractive to other women, must be a catch). i could swear i have seen people link studies that state women slut shame women more than men do I would not be surprised - female comp…
/r/MensRights23/04/17 07:18 PM
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I think besides the obvious slut/stud double standard society views assertiveness in men and women differently (he's a boss/she's a bitch). Also, career women are held to different standards than career men when it comes to parental responsibilities.
/r/MensRights23/04/17 07:08 PM
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In other words, women complain about women who sleep around being shamed as having no self-respect--and perhaps they are viewed this way by some people--but they apparently don't consider that men who sleep around are shamed as having no respect for women, "using" women for sex, being misogynist or even predators Still, a woman is way more likely to get judged for promiscuity than a man is, slut/stud double standards is true. Of course, it's important to point out that a huge % of people doing t…
/r/MensRights23/04/17 07:06 PM
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