agpass Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
109	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience	CMV	agpass	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:08 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Men are not insecure. You just don’t provide security. Why would a lesbian bar be better? Lol	/r/MensRights	03/04/23 06:34 PM
0	Western Women, how much of a turn on is it for you if a guy is rich? I don’t really care. I come from money and have met enough rich douchebags to associate the two. But it all depends. Someone that’s worked his way up in the world through hard work and dedication? Hot. Someone that’s a trust fund baby and has taken over daddy’s company? Not hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 08:34 PM
1	You can't complain about older men dating younger women if you're a young woman who only dates men who make $80,000 or more. You can date whoever you want and women can think it’s creepy. Women can date whoever they want and you can think they’re gold diggers. Personally, I think older men that specifically seek out younger women are creepy and women seeking out a certain salary are gold diggers. Neither are going to stop because I think that way. Do whatever you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 10:43 PM
4	Are women hornier in a different way than men? I think it just makes you horny in a different way. I don’t want that feeling any less than you, I’m just more horny for an orgasm than a random dude in my bed	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 08:18 PM
7	Are women hornier in a different way than men? What women want to feel and what majority of men can make her feel are completely different. If I’m horny, I want an orgasm which is 100% guaranteed by my vibrator and about 5% guaranteed by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 07:58 PM
3	Why is sex as a reward seen as a bad thing ? Yep. The opposite could also be argued. Women’s orgasms exist solely for pleasure so they must feel better. I don’t think either are true and both are dumb arguments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 06:59 PM
7	Why is sex as a reward seen as a bad thing ? Aw buddy	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 03:01 PM
3	Why is sex as a reward seen as a bad thing ? Are you joking? First of all, women’s orgasms are known to be stronger than men’s. Second of all “creates life” LOL. What do you think the sperm has to touch to create life? Men cannot create life without a woman to grow the baby inside of but women can create life with a sperm donor. If anyone’s “creating life”, it’s the woman growing the life inside her body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 03:00 PM
-3	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I was just trying to boil it down to the usual issues that I see complained about here. It is in no way comprehensive. My post would’ve been a novel if I mentioned every issue every gender faced, I was stating a general sense of the issues I’ve read about here. I didn’t say it was as lonely. I said it is lonely. I don’t think comparing pain or loneliness is productive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:10 AM
2	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Okay I should have said the incredible stuff is in relationships, not dating. That’s what I meant, sorry for the confusion. I think you are correct that it can be transactional without me realizing it. What I wanted was love and I got it. We were looking for the same thing and our relationship is as close to equal as it can be, there is still a give and take. But if, for some reason, he stopped wanting to have sex for a period of time or something, I wouldn’t take anything away from him. I would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:07 AM
-3	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I shouldn’t have said women have a harder time finding the right partner. That is just the problem majority of women are facing while men are struggling to find a partner. It is lonely to be with the wrong person just as it is lonely to be alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:54 AM
6	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I guess because you focused so heavily on what you were getting out of it and said multiple times there isn’t incredible stuff. You cannot know the results of dating ever. No matter how well you vet. You may you feel you can but you can’t. People are unpredictable. The incredible stuff to me is being in love, creating an intensely deep connection with someone. I’ve never seen my relationship as transactional. We both love having sex with each other, paying for each others meals, buying each othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:51 AM
2	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Which is a strange stance to take when you are trying to boil dating and relationships down to a marketing strategy. Why do that at all if you aren’t afraid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:45 AM
2	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience You aren’t looking for love or anything relevant to what I’m talking about in this post. You are looking for a transactional relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:41 AM
5	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience The height stuff was more about missing out due to rigid boundaries. It might have made more sense to do two different posts. But I guess I was trying to imply you’ll miss out on some great guys if that’s a hard rule for you. If you genuinely cannot enjoy a relationship with a man that is less than 6 feet, it’s not relevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:36 AM
4	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. But if you’re enjoying sex with multiple people that have it quickly, wouldn’t that mean you have a high n count? Why would you expect your partner to have a low n count if you don’t?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 12:24 AM
5	Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships? Sometimes I think “bitter and scorned” means “won’t put up with my bullshit”	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 09:39 PM
2	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Thanks for responding to the one thing I said I didn’t want to debate. Assuming you didn’t have a response for the rest? Could you imagine that maybe she doesn’t post the photos for validation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:25 PM
2	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Explain that to me. How does it only go one way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:22 PM
2	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Agree to disagree about the photos, I’ve never understood why that’s a big deal and don’t care too debate it. And complaining about dumb stuff really depends on what your idea of dumb is, so not objective. What do you mean? Do you not hang out with people before they date them? Do you get into a relationship with women before knowing about who she is? Or do you mean women that hide that before she’s in a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:11 PM
2	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? I think most of those are personality related over anything else. If you don’t want a woman that posts hot pics of herself or complains a lot, don’t date a girl who does that lol. If you are so pressed for a relationship that you put up with shit that doesn’t meet your standards, that’s on you. Don’t get into a relationship with a woman if you don’t like who she is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:56 PM
4	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? I feel like those are just your standards rather than a universal “misbehaving”. And I don’t think I understand what you mean by “can they walk away”. Can’t everyone walk away if someone isn’t meeting their expectations?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:47 PM
3	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? What does “doesn’t behave” mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:41 PM
4	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? This is the exact toxic bullshit that this poster is pointing out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:40 PM
5	Single Men vs Single Women I think 2 things are probably happening here. For one, men are more predisposed to violence than women and that can translate into violent/aggressive/hateful thoughts. The second thing is that more women have access to an outlet for these feelings. Women are encouraged to open up emotionally while men seem to be discouraged. You constantly see women hyping up their newly single friends/single friends in general. Women used to have to rely on men before we were allowed to work and I think we cele…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 06:36 PM
1	What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why? So all morality is on women then? Since men refuse to be? Or do you just mean that women are held to a standard of ethical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 04:21 AM
1	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women I’m not shaming homosexuals. I’m shaming men that use women to impress men because they actually want men and that want to gain status with men. Men can fuck men all they want, I don’t care. But I sure as fuck will shame you if you’re using women in that game. I think we should differentiate between men on this sub and all men. Not all men see sex as a way to gain status with other men. Oh okay so it’s society’s fault that men dehumanize women to impress other men. Even though there are several …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 02:11 AM
1	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women What??? I’m not saying sex isn’t an achievement because I can easily get it. I’m saying it because it shouldn’t be. If you see women as conquests that actually prove something about your worth to men, that is dehumanizing. I’m not shaming homosexuals, if you’ve spent your life fucking women to impress men, you might be barking up the wrong tree. So either you are comfortable dehumanizing women to impress men to feel like you’re “worth more”, or you really just want to be with men and will dehuma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 01:33 AM
2	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women I started asking once I found this sub Reddit since there’s so many men here that aggressively deny that a lot of men don’t care. One user literally told me believing men didn’t care about n count would be like believing they don’t care about looks… lol. Most of the responses I got ranged from “no, why would I care about that” to “hell nah, get it when you can”	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 10:40 PM
1	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women You are correct, I shouldn’t have put it in quotations. I wouldn’t consider rejection to be suffering because everyone experiences it but I agree that it shouldn’t be mocked because it is painful. Not quite sure how to answer your question without stating my personal experience. That’s all I have. In my personal experience, I have met one man in real life that cared about n count and he was a bit of a nightmare of a person. I’m not saying this is a reflection of all of society. However, I have l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 09:52 PM
-2	Standards for men on dating are rising because relationships are becoming a luxury That’s a pipe dream lol. Attractive women will always have several good options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 08:28 PM
1	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women I’m not sure how that relates to what I’m saying. That being said, I would disagree that it’s unfounded. There are plenty of men that believe they should be able to fuck tons of women but that women should be held to a different standard. That is sexist (not misogynistic and I wish this sub would learn the difference), entitled, and screams insecurity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 08:02 PM
0	CMV: Most women also have a N count preference and threshold, it's just higher than the N count preference of men. Therefore it's hypocritical for women to shame men for having a preference as they also judge men's value over his sexual experiences. I literally don’t know any woman that cares about this. Not saying they don’t exist but I definitely don’t think it’s the majority of women. If I were to care about n count, that would mean I have to compromise on something else (personality, looks, etc.).	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 07:52 PM
0	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women Sex isn’t an achievement, that’s the point. Plus, if the sex you’re having with women is actually about men, you’ve got a different problem there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 06:48 PM
5	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women That’s because most people that use that phrase either haven’t had sex or are very bad at it. If sex is something you’re “doing to a woman”, she’s definitely not orgasming hahah	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 06:46 PM
7	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women They want some sort of suffering to happen to women that can get what they can’t easily. Since men had to “suffer” through rejection, they like to imagine that women will have to deal with it as well once they’re over 30 or have high n count but it just isn’t true lol. Women can fuck around as long as they want and still get a great guy to commit to them. And then they’ll say that guy is a “beta” or whatever because they just cannot accept that not everyone sees the world the way they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 06:41 PM
2	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women I don’t think these are a good comparison. If you are born short, you’re born short. Sleeping with people is a choice. I won’t date you because you are short vs I won’t date you if you have made decisions I don’t agree with. One is judging life decisions, the other is judging attraction based on looks. I don’t think either of these are great metrics to judge a person but I don’t think they’re comparable. If you don’t want to date women that have had sex with a lot of people, don’t. Those women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 06:33 PM
1	What are some behaviours that make you distrustful of your sex? I don’t trust women that will bring up every issue they’ve had with you when you bring up something they did that bothered/hurt/upset you. The classic “I’ve let x, y, and z go!” Like did you really? Because I’m pretty sure you’re talking about it right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 08:41 PM
2	Do girls usually assume the guy they're dating (or guys in general) can easily get casual sex? Yeah, I normally do. Most of my friends that are guys have no issue getting casual sex so I guess that’s where that comes from. I’m in a long term relationship now but when I used to date, I would assume I was not the only person they were dating and that they were probably having casual sex. It saved me a lot of heartache that I used to get when I assumed otherwise. I’m not sure if it was where I went to college or the people I hung out with but I truly never realized how difficult it was for s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:59 PM
7	What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why? Women should be held accountable for being promiscuous because some men are willing to be even more promiscuous?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 03:35 AM
1	Q for men only : Can you ever see a woman as an equal? Honestly, this is on me for commenting something like this on this sub. The world can make progress, it will never be reflected here. If you don’t want to make any effort to understand the other side, that’s your choice and likely why you’re here. If I applied things that men said to me to reflect every man, I would say all men are rapists. You take a few responses you’ve gotten from women and think we all think you’re trying to take our rights away. And this is why we’re at a stand still. You s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 03:42 AM
1	Q for men only : Can you ever see a woman as an equal? Yes, but I think everyone has to be willing to extend empathy. I understand that it is not easy to be a man but comments like yours drive everyone apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 02:38 AM
13	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. Do you base your friendships on what that person can do for you? Everything you listed was about getting free drinks, free meals, free rides, and protection. I personally haven’t noticed a difference in my male friends doing that vs. female friends but I also don’t think that’s what makes them good friends. The hobbies thing doesn’t make sense to me either, really. You think people are good friends because they like what you like? I understand that being something to bond over but wouldn’t say t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 10:08 PM
23	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. If I’m being assaulted, yes. I would expect a friend of either gender to try to help me. If I’m being sexually harassed (cat called), I’d prefer to not engage. The way OP talks implies to me that he’s probably never actually had to step in, but resents that he’s expected to. Because his friend is a woman. If his male friend got attacked, I doubt he’d have any issue with being expected to step in lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 09:58 PM
26	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. Also, does the woman say this is what she is expecting? Or ask him to defend her? Or is he saying he deserves pussy from her for feeling societal pressure to defend her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 09:34 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Okay, so if I have a god-awful day and decide to unwind at a bar. I meet a guy, he’s really attentive, attractive, and we hit it off. I want to shut out the world for a while so I have sex with him. Don’t see it going anywhere, was just horny and wanted to turn my brain off. The following week, I have a tinder date with a guy and he takes me to dinner. It’s a little awkward, but he’s nice and attractive and is a gentleman. Am I supposed to fuck him at the end of the date even though I don’t feel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 02:41 PM
3	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? I don’t think that I view them as “rules”. If there are seriously women going around saying “you have to spend x amount of money on me and take me on x amount of dates before we have sex”, that’s stupid. I have sex when I feel safe with them, have a connection, and feel horny. Sometimes it’s the 5th date, sometimes the 10th. It’s entirely dependent on my connection with the guy. If I go on a date with one guy and the conversation just flows. We are able to open up to each other and it feels like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 02:12 PM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Yeah, I’m not confused about that part. I’m trying to understand why. Do you see it as a slight if the man has sex with another woman faster?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 01:51 PM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? I guess because some men talk about it like it’s something women don’t want to do. Women get horny and don’t really view sex as “giving it up”. Just like many men don’t think of having sex as giving it up. I don’t understand how so many men think it’s totally normal to sleep with any and every woman that’s willing but think it’s a slight against them if their woman has been that willing woman for someone else even once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 12:36 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? I didn’t realize we were talking about women. I’m sure some women would pick the rich douche as well I just thought we were talking about men. You wouldn’t because it makes you feel inferior. You believe that her fucking him faster=he is better than you. That doesn’t sound pleasant. You want your woman to make you feel superior because she picked you over other men and the only way you feel that is if she hasn’t fucked them faster. I’m not trying to argue with you, I’m genuinely trying to unders…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 04:48 AM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Hmm that’s interesting. So it doesn’t actually seem like it matters if the woman has a great personality or anything. Men are picking their partner based on what will make them feel superior to other men which is a hot woman that has never slept around. That makes sense why so many men here care about n count. You aren’t proud of your woman for who she is, you are proud that she represents that you are worth fucking over other men. It’s not a way of thinking that I would find fulfilling but that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 03:59 AM
7	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Yeah, I’m a woman. I think using sex as validation would probably ruin sex for me too honestly. It seems like it’s stepped so far away from being a shared bonding experience into something that causes so much pain and frustration for both genders. It always bums me out to hear that men feel burdened by the idea of spending time getting to know a woman. Sex in love is so incredible, I would hate to only have it with as many people as I can to validate myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 12:28 AM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? I guess I’m failing to see how getting to know her is “working for it”? Like if it’s such a pain to invest your time in her, do you really want to be with her? Also, in my experience, women don’t sleep with men in a shorter amount of time because they find them attractive. They sleep with them in a shorter amount of time because they’re fuck boys and their opinion doesn’t matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 12:13 AM
3	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? This seems like such a sad way to look at things. If ALL you want from her is sex, then yeah it would be annoying to do all of that. But, if you have feelings for her, why would it matter if you had to get to know her? Why is dating a woman you are attracted to such a burden? Why do you only measure your success by other men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 11:55 PM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? I don’t think that’s how women feel validated after a break up. That might be what validates you after a break up, but it’s typically not what makes women feels “validated”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 11:50 PM
9	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? If they changed into a whole new person without you noticing, you probably weren’t paying attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 11:36 PM
12	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Men who called themselves alphas are nauseating. Like truly there is no bigger turnoff than a man saying he’s an alpha	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 11:28 PM
5	What do women gain from having relationships with red-pilled men vs. blue-pilled men? Yeah and I would argue that the ones that haven’t even heard of the red pill are infinitely more successful than the men that had to seek it out	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 09:25 PM
0	So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating? Glass houses	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 07:50 PM
1	It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive women Oh, I totally agree with the sentiment 100%. I just think Nina is one of the most beautiful women alive	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 01:37 AM
1	It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive women In what world is Nina Dobrev a 6.5??	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 01:28 AM
1	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. That is actually really interesting. Most women I know say they don’t care but I could totally see this happening as well. Have you dated anyone with a similar count?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 01:39 PM
1	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. Have you been rejected/dumped for your body count? Feel free not to answer, just curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 11:37 PM
4	“How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be? That’s super interesting, actually. Because people can look at whatever on the internet. So there must be loads of people that are attracted to fat people that don’t admit it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 09:38 PM
1	“How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be? Fair enough. So are fat women undesirable or can they make thousands off of the internet by showing their bodies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 09:18 PM
1	“How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be? The average woman in America is 170 pounds. I promise it’s not average women this is happening to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 08:53 PM
0	Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get? 😂😂The LinkedIn guys! They kill me	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 08:39 PM
3	Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get? Yes, I feel very ungrateful for being sexually harassed and that is inconsiderate of me. I apologize. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 08:37 PM
1	I’m tired of the same debate so I wanna switch it up, would you date an inexperienced man if so why or why not What do you mean by inexperienced? For a little bit of sexual experience (like 1-2 times), that wouldn’t be an issue. It’s fun, you get to teach them exactly how you like it without them getting insecure that they did it differently. For 0 experience, it depends why. If they’re religious, that’s gonna be a no from me. Not compatible. If they are just waiting for the right person, not an issue. I’d want to wait until they feel for sure I am that person. But, again, could teach them exactly how I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 07:56 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? This is dumb. You are deliberately trying to misunderstand me. My boyfriend sleeping with other women IS cheating. It would impact my daily life because I would question his commitment to me. If I told him he could, it would also expose me to STDs he didn’t have when we started dating and would run the risk of getting another woman pregnant which would obviously impact my day to day life. You are literally trying to say that fucking someone before you’re in a relationship and committing to them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 05:19 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? I don’t care about a promiscuous past because it literally doesn’t impact me. I care about him being a wonderful, beautiful person because I have to talk to him every day. Who he fucked before we dated has literally zero impact on my day to day life. I told you why it would bother me, he made a commitment to me. That apparently wasn’t enough for you. I said I wanted to be solely connected, that wasn’t good enough for you. I’m not projecting anything, you’re literally asking me about my relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:19 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? Right, and I do the same thing with men I would never actually touch in person. That’s why it’s fantasy. Am I supposed to be so controlling that I don’t allow my boyfriend to THINK about whatever he wants?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:01 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? It’s not about winning. It’s about finally finding someone that you want to commit your life to. We’re in love and part of that love, to me, means giving up intimate relations with other people. Why? Because you dedicate your lives to each other: mind, body, and soul. It’s not my problem if other women are unsatisfied. I know you’re trying to trap me into saying something for an “a-ha!” moment but it’s not going to happen so don’t waste your time. My partner’s commitment to me starts when we agr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 02:48 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? You can’t really take the promise out of it. If we hadn’t committed to each other, I would have no right to say who he had sex with. Would it bother me? Yes, because I would hope once he saw how good we have it together that he wouldn’t need/want to be with other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 02:31 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? Fantasizing and cheating are very different in my eyes. I think everyone should have their own form of solo sexual exploration. It’s important to me that he stay exclusive to me because he promised me he would and that was the commitment we made to each other. It impacts me because he made a promise and that would show me he’s a liar and his word means nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 02:22 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? There’s a difference between committing to me after we are in a relationship and expecting him to have committed to me before. Yes, he masturbates to porn, why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 02:05 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? How is that at all related to having sex before we were together?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:44 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? You were making a universal statement that there’s no pride in committing to a promiscuous woman, I was countering that. I didn’t say you had to, I said you can. Your last paragraph doesn’t make any sense. I don’t want my boyfriend to cheat on me. I don’t give a fuck what he did before we were together. That’s not the same. So are you in a committed relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 12:57 PM
6	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. I’ve only witnessed people even talking about it online. Unless I’m the one to bring it up due to seeing it here. Has anyone actually talked to a real live woman that has been dumped or rejected for it? Like not just a post on reddit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 10:06 PM
2	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. Haha thanks. And same to you. So you don’t end up one of those creepy 50 year olds going after women my age (joke)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 09:43 PM
0	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. The agreeable part sort of proves her point though	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 09:20 PM
1	What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself? I guess I know a lot of women that feel that way but none of them are open minded. If you’re bisexual, you’re going to need someone who is since even many gay people question the existence of bisexuality. Nothing of value lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 08:46 PM
3	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. I’m replying to you saying the only reason women feel this way is because they are bitter. I’m not bitter and I still think men specifically going after young women is weird. I do not think you understand the word gaslighting. I’m not making you question your reality, I’m telling you it’s okay to have an opinion but it’s also okay for me to have an opinion about my opinion. Just like it’s fine for you to think the metrics by which women measure men are stupid (money, attraction, penis size, heig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:59 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. Oh, that’s not what I meant. I meant I somewhat agree with this sentiment even though I am not bitter. I’m guessing this is going to be a difficult debate because you are speaking about women in general and they do care about money. I come from big money and have an extremely well paying job so that has never been a factor for me. I would be interested to see how most women rate money in relation to humor, kindness, empathy, and compatibility. If we are talking in terms of like “build-a-spouse”,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:36 PM
2	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. I think it’s only creepy if you are specifically seeking out younger women. If you run in the same circles as a 26 year old and find you have things in common, that’s totally different. If young women are repeatedly the only ones that are receptive to you, I would probably assume you are immature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:22 PM
3	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. I’m one of these “young women” and definitely not bitter. It creeps me out if you are seeking me out for my age specifically. There’s a guy I’m friends with that’s 35 and I wouldn’t find it weird if he asked out another friend my age that he knows. He’s built a friendship with her and sees commonalities. It’s only creepy if you are specifically targeting women for their age. Just like it’d be creepy if I specifically sought out 40+ year olds. Age should be pretty low down on the list of things y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:20 PM
1	Women don't need marriage in 2022 I literally find everyone annoying after a period of time except for my boyfriend. How the FUCK am I supposed to find multiple people to spend my life with? But I also don’t want to do it alone. I love to share all of my experiences with someone else. Sex with one person is amazing and comfortable and fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:11 PM
23	men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them" Well, he shouldn’t have had sex then (I hope my irony is coming across)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:07 PM
4	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier Stop making it so easy for women then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 05:58 PM
7	What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself? What? We do? In my experience, they are infinitely less sexist. Why do we hate them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 05:56 PM
1	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. The vast majority of women don’t have multiple orgasms either lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 05:51 PM
10	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. I’m so curious if any woman has actually been dumped due to their amount of sexual partners. It’s discussed here all of the time but I’ve not met one woman that has actually been rejected due to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 04:53 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? See, I think that’s the difference. They have never said they see it as unattractive or a pride thing. Just like some guys prefer blondes, they prefer lower body count. They don’t think brunettes are unattractive and they wouldn’t take less “pride” in being with them. You don’t have to win over other guys to be winning. You can take pride in being with your girlfriend because she’s wonderful, beautiful, and you love her. You don’t need other men to be losing to be winning. Yes, with the love of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:14 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? Why would that change whether or not I think they’re a great guy? What do you mean “same type of great guys”? Why would a preference have anything to do with that? Everyone has preferences. The difference in the guys that I do know that care and the guys I see on here is that the guys I do know don’t make it a judgment on the woman’s character. They don’t use it to say she makes bad decisions or is a bad judge of character. They prefer women that have slept with less people because they themselv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 01:46 PM
2	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? The latter lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 12:47 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? See this is the issue though. That’s not true, that’s just been your experience. Instead of trying to poke holes in my experience, I wish you would actually respond to the fact that there actually are great guys out there that don’t care. It’s not naive, it’s literally been my experience and many others as well. Maybe it’s where I live, maybe it’s the people I choose to spend time around. But to be so close minded to the idea that men might not care about the same things you do makes me feel lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 12:46 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? What are you looking for there? Great is subjective I guess. But very well rounded men, kind, funny, caring, charismatic with good jobs. Don’t care as in they don’t even care to ask. We’ve discussed it a lot before, I started to see so many men on Reddit cared about it and asked around. Most of them said they’d never asked women that question since they felt it was rude/unnecessary. I know you’re probably going to say that they are lying, but imagine for a second that they’re not. They really do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 01:16 AM
3	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? Nooo way. My nut count is way lower than the amount of people I’ve had sex with	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 12:16 AM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? What? That’s not true at all. I know tons of great men that don’t care	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 12:11 AM