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Yes, the world has changed and we all have to adapt to new challenges. To be honest though, I like the modern world just fine and would not trade it to live in, say, the 1800s, 1950s, or whatever past time period that people seem to idealize. People were still miserable for various reasons. I feel like every generation loves to kvetch about how terrible things are now and how much better it was before. I think people need to look at the cup as half full and realize that there are so many ways th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:05 PM
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I guarantee you that African women have diverse opinions on this topic and they probably vary widely from country to country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:44 AM
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Could be. I was just wondering if sex with the same gender had been factored into the percentages in the original OP. Apparently they have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:38 AM
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Most likely. Especially the out and active ones who would answer a survey. I'm in New England so I guess comparatively were pretty liberal, though I think we have a decent mix. There are a good number of LGBT conservatives here as well :P
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 07:06 AM
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Really? Only 4%. I feel like the proportion of bi girls I've met is larger than that. Who knows though. Maybe it's regional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 03:35 AM
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How many of those women are having sex with each other I wonder?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 10:50 AM
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Will do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:10 AM
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Okie dokie internet stranger. Done and done. You take care now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:06 AM
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Um, ok man. I was using the general collective "you" in my reply. I have no preconceived notions about "you" as an individual (until now) since you are a complete stranger. I thought it was clear that we were just opining on the general nature of men/women/submissives/dominants/etc. Your defensive reaction strikes me as super out of context so, whatever you are dealing with, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:00 AM
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I keep seeing this topic over and over. The first time it was interesting but now that I've seen it a million times over I'm just really curious what all the fuss is about. The world population is not in decline. People are free to do what they want. If the modern world has made things different for this generation and people are not engaging in as much intercourse it's not some sort of emergency. There are so many ways to spend your leisure time these days that maybe sex is just not as much a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 01:13 AM
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Just from personal experience, the few times I've had casual (no connection) sex have been super disappointing on my end (ie. no orgasm, felt inhibited and not in the moment, etc). I think "connection" can mean different things to different people though and there are many ways of creating one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 12:40 AM
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For me domination/submission (outside of the bedroom) is primarily a concept of leader vs. follower. I will take your word for it about how "all men" feel about being a follower. All that said just because you don't like your role doesn't really mean much when it comes to the reality of the situation. You are your actions. As for the posturing that men do to impress women, I guess that is another form of exerting dominance. I feel ya that it doesn't make the more submissive man comfortable. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 02:20 PM
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When you have more then one person in a room, a hierarchy of dominance will develop naturally. It will happen with a mixed group or among a group of just men or women. Different types of dominance exist but the leaders will usually differentiate themselves pretty quickly. I don't really know what the male psychology is in regards to this but in my estimation MOST people are followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 10:45 AM
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I mean if you're going to make a generic list of excuses for why some men are submissive then you can make one for women as well I guess. IMO some people are naturally submissive and others are not. It also depends on context because people will be a leader in one scenario and follower in another depending on their level of expertise, confidence, and dispositions of the people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 10:25 AM
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Don't kid yourself. Many men submit. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:49 AM
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Is your definition of all banter as "cunty" and "disrespectful"? Because if so, then this definition of an alpha sounds like a boring wet blanket. Also...reading books is frowned upon? What? This alpha/beta differentiation is looking more and more ridiculous the more I read these posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:46 AM
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I know. I feel as if the concept of "allowing access" misses the point entirely. My observation is that in relationships where one partner is disinterested in sex, the pain for the other person comes from the rejection and lack of intimacy. I can't imagine that this aspect would improve if the other partner was just lying there, enduring, and thinking of England.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:31 AM
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> different standards apply Sure, but standards are set by the consumers and they are subject to change. Many men LTR "loose women" so none of these supposed evolutionary preferences are set in stone. That said, I don't think anyone should be shamed for having any sort of preference. Only you get to decide who you will be intimate with and when. No justification needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:57 PM
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Lol. I'm sorry for your troubles internet stranger. I wish there was a dating app that could mach people up based on libido and level of kinkiness. I've seen so many mismatched couples in my life (in both directions) and it always entails so much misery and feelings of rejection. I have a lot of sympathy for men because they seem to be on the rejected end of the stick more often then not. Also BC can be the worst when it comes to libido. Can confirm that it puts a damper on the lady bits. The tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 09:35 AM
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Obviously this example is just one data point but her new boyfriend is hot and super nice. Not someone I imagine has a hard time hooking up. Dating is a crap shoot. You try out different things. Obviously making the guy wait is a strategy that leads to more success than not since a lot of women continue to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:41 AM
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Idk. My friend would sleep with every guy she went on dates with immediately. For some reason though all they ever wanted from her was sex and never wanted anything more serious. I told her not to make it so sexual so fast and lo and behold she is in a relationship. As long as it works people will continue to do it. The question is, why does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:21 AM
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People who are secure about XYZ don't really waste too much of their time caring about other people's opinions on the subject. Especially strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 08:57 AM
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You must be a young millennial. I feel like you guys are obsessed with your phones and are incessantly texting. All my girlfriends who are in their mid-20s get insecure when guys they're dating aren't constantly checking in. I don't know. I'm probably bitter since it takes me forever to write a proper text.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:49 AM
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Sure, maybe men are more individualistic in how they address some things and women can be more communal. On my unit we agree on a temperature that is adequate for most people and the outliers have to bundle up or get a fan. It's not really an issue other than the fact that we have crappy heating/cooling where I work so when it's too hot or cold everyone complains, even the few men. IDK I've personally never gotten into it with a dude over heat so I don't really have much in the way of experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:55 AM
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Right. Just like with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:43 AM
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If you're talking about my original comment, I was describing behavior dynamics that I've observed. In any case I gave you my speculations in the above comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:25 PM
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I've heard guys call girls slut/bitch when she did fuck him, so that can't be the the only correct usage. I've heard girls describe their own family members as fuckboys so there has to be more to this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:13 PM
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I don't know why you're asking me to speculate about the state of other people's minds. My guess is as good as yours. If I had to hazard an opinion, I would say that probably some women might feel that way, some women don't think about it one way or the other, and some women resent that the quota is there because it makes it seem that they couldn't have gotten it on their own. There are probably a thousand other opinions that people might have on this topic that I'm not thinking of right now. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:02 PM
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I was talking about interpersonal dynamics between romantic partners based on your previous comment. Though obviously it applies to workplace relationships as well. In regards to your comment, I think a lot of people get a push to the top (in many ways, not just in the form of quotas) and they don't deserve it. Many may deserve it but they don't need it. Maybe there's some fringe group that really is disenfranchised in some way and they do need affirmative action. I don't know. It's not somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:45 PM
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You said anyone that wants power without competing fairly is afraid that they can't succeed otherwise. I don't think I said that. You said that. To repeat, I said I don't think all women have a uniform opinion on this topic. I can only speak for myself. I can't speak for all women. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:24 PM
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Hey, no judgement here. People should enjoy their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:16 PM
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Well it comes in the form of incentives as well. For example, my nursing school offered a scholarship for $10,000 for "under-represented minorities in nursing" which included men, and all the guys in my (small) program got it. But fair point, I don't really know how much of an impact these things have. Obviously it creates an environment where people feel like there are opportunities and the percentage of male nurses is increasing. Who knows what would have happened otherwise. I guess we could l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:13 PM
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I think it's clear this guy is being intentionally obtuse. Hopefully. For the sake of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:58 PM
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How do you mean? PS: I guarantee there are a lot more men in nursing than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:52 PM
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LOL ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:20 PM
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When we say things like "should" it's just a way of stating an opinion, not creating a law. But if you have a problem with that word then you can substitute it for "it would be nice if" if it makes you feel less aggrieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:05 PM
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Like I said, there really isn't a uniform opinion on any topic among women. That said, I work in a female dominated field (nursing) and we have affirmative action for men. It doesn't really bother me. It's not something I really think about too much. I can't speak for "all women" but, again, not pro quota myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:58 PM
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No one is entitled to anything at all. When we live in a community we can opine about ideal human behavior in a particular scenario (as outlined above).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:49 PM
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I'm pretty sure that women don't have a uniform opinion on this issue, though I have to admit that gender quotas are not a frequent topic when I chat with my lady friends. I'm not an expert but I'll take a stab and say the concept is probably some sort of attempt at righting perceived historical wrongs (like with affirmative action, for example). All that said, I'm not pro-quota myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:39 PM
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No one should be protected "just" because they're a woman. Like LSTW1234 mentioned, any capable human should feel an obligation to protect another human (or puppy, or kitten) from a threat if they are able to safely step in and give aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:29 PM
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I work with all women. Some are always cold and some are always hot. We all wear scrubs, so it's not a clothing issue. We're just humans with different internal thermostats and we have to compromise. The police/fireman/soldier thing is valid though. I don't agree that standards should be decreased for women. I want women to have the right to apply and compete for those jobs, but I accept that the percentage who will be successful will probably be much smaller due to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:05 PM
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It sounds like an interesting idea. If you can get some consensus from the general male population I wouldn't vote against it. You have to advocate and get the word out if this is an issue you think men will support. I'm always on the side of transparency though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:54 PM
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It happens more than you think. I'm a nurse on a women's care unit and the number of women in their 40s having kids with a man who is significantly their junior in age is actually startling. My most surprising one was a 47 year old woman who delivered twins (IVF) because her 30 year old husband wanted them. This, despite the fact that she already had 5 grown kids from her first husband, who was dead. I also had a 60 year old woman who came in with a vaginal abscess from "rough sex". People are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:06 PM
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I think most people are just mediocre. Most have a mixture of good and bad traits. You just have to find the people who's scale tilts toward the good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:53 PM
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Welp. Not all people are capable of being a good leader, even if they have leadership ambitions. I find that people who are truly competent will naturally slide into a "senior" slot in the area where they excel. If you want to be executive of your relationship (or job, or whatever) than make sure you're qualified. If your partner is better at XYZ than you then you are the junior partner where that is concerned. A relationship should be a balance though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:48 PM
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