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Wait, I have not said anything about women who settle in marriage. You must be mistaken me with someone else. I cant deny that a lot of men just want sex. Thats just how it is, thats how we are wired. But men desire relationships just as much. Both have a high importance for men. I think men and women should both find partners they are compatible with be it in open or monogamous relationships. But society forces to many people to desire the latter and that causes issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:35 AM
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What are we even arguing at this point? The original discussion when this blew up was not about husband material by itself being an insult. Why are you so annoyingly disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:05 AM
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Husband material is a compliment. A pretty common one and most men will appreciate. Where did you get the idea from that men wouldnt like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:00 AM
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You need to make a distinction between men as a whole and the degenerates you find here. Red Pill men and their opinions are not mainstream. “Well, you’re not male and you’re not a totally hideous old bag” also is not a compliment. Again, men find a lot of women sexually attractive or rather above average in looks. But its not all or even the majority of all women. Also not being hideous is a decent compliment when 50% of women already dont qualify. In other words, it’s fine when a man says a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:04 PM
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Men are not picky compared to women when it comes to hookups. Doesnt mean they have no standards whatsoever. Men have a raging desire for a lot of women. For some woman its stronger than for others. But that does not imply that they are settling for anyone tho. And when it comes to deciding who you want to be monogamous with men are very picky
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:08 PM
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Husband material by itself is fine. It's basically all the attributes a man would want to have. It's the other stuff she said about not wanting to hook up with him that rubbed him the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:56 PM
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I dont live in the US. In the part of europe where I'm from most women use very little makeup. They would look quite plain in american's eyes. A bit mascara, maybe some eyeliner and under eye concealer is all you really see on a daily basis. Still very much attractive to the male population. Women certainly dont need any of that to be attractive. They are told that by profit oriented companies who live off of their insecurities but men dont need it. Does it make you look better? Of course. But i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:42 PM
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How can you deny that when shaving prior to companies making it popular was not even a thing? And now you cant even imagine a women that doesnt shave. The desire to be attractive to the opposite sex is very real and applies to both genders. But the way it manifests for women is completely artificial and shaped by what culture demands of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:12 PM
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Women dont need that to be attractive. Men are perfectly capable of finding plain women hot. Not to mention I'm pretty sure that 99% of women say that they dress for themself and if anything for other women but not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:51 PM
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Well, no. Women do this because society tells them to do that to be a proper women. There is obviously also the intrasexual competition aspect but men do the same. Not with looks but with status and other signs of weatlh and success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:48 PM
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As someone who got into skincare, hair care, fashion etc a bit later in their 20s, I must say that men are not aware of the sheer amount of mental space looks take up for women. They essentially look at every little aspect on their body and try to optimize it. Tbh as a society we should move away from this focus on beauty because its kinda insane. Sadly social media made it worse and more boys are joining in too(see looksmaxxing).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:18 PM
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It doesnt really matter what you think. This has been studied before multiple times. And the evidence is clear in that women choose the less masculinized face when they have the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:27 PM
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Hulk Hogan. Cavill is masculine in a feminine way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:35 PM
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He is quite the pretty man. Doesnt scream hyper-masculinity tho. It's more so the symmetry and overall balance of his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:51 PM
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Pretty much. But again, I would never even consider or date a woman that thought a man is obligated to pay on dates. If you are already this strict with gender expectations then the relationship is already doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:46 PM
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I dont date conservative women so all these rules about what each gender has to do while dating dont really concern me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:12 PM
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Women prefer men with feminine features. See Kpopstars, or pretty much all actors and artists that women fawn over. Too much masculinity in appearance is actually quite unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:50 PM
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That's statistically impossible. Most bums are just average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:02 AM
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How many times does this need repeating? Women are not hypergamous, plenty of bums finding partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:54 AM
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I think a couple a week are normal. Like 1-3 matches a week. Not a whole lot but you can work with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:14 PM
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Yall are all delusional. Making shit up without an ounce of research. All we got here is vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:25 AM
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Passport bros are sad pathetic men who were so unattractive in their own home country that they felt the need to go to another country to find a partner. Definitely not representative of the male population. Studies have shown that men do care about socioeconomic status, its just that looks/attractiveness trumps it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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She is right. The number you are citing did not account for male partners who did dv. If you exclude them lesbians have the second lowest ipv rate right after gay men who have the lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:15 AM
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Most men dont struggle yes. At least not much more than any other generation. There is a growing subset of very anti-social, chronically online men who would rather debate how to get "quality women" instead of going out to a bar or a party with friends. Those are the ones who struggle. And the fix to their is issues is not trying to earn 100k. The fact that you even view another person as some kind of thing with different specs tells me everything I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:36 AM
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What the hell is a top quality women? Are we talking about products now? Most women especially once in their late 20s, early 30s are looking for long term relationships. You would have more difficulty finding someone who is not into that. And again you need to be around their level. People date within their own socioecononic bubble so if you want a high status women become high status yourself. But that is hardly what the average man is looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:51 AM
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You guys complicate everything. There are bums with no money to their name and they still pull women left and right. Be confident, be outgoing, and actually fucking leave your house and meet people instead of posting nonsense on reddit. Too many of you guys are scared, have no friends, dont go out. And the most you''ve done to get to know women is set up a shitty dating profile. No you dont need to make 100k to be successful with women lmao. Have a job, earn around her income and that should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:08 AM
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Looks play a role especially looking clean, groomed and stylish but you guys focus on looks way too much beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:43 PM
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They dont feel attraction the way men do. Its pointless to talk about it in this way and equate them. You focus too much on looks when those are not that important to women. What would instantly increase a men's appeal is confidence, humour, an outgoing personality, some kind of sign that you are not a misogynist, great sense of fashion. These things would make men more attractive suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:53 AM
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Dude, as a man you have to understand that most men arent that attractive to women especially when they know nothing about you. For men extreme attraction happens fast and quite easily just based on looks. But for women its like a cocktail of a lot of different things and looks are often not enough unless you are extremely good looking. They need more info and context to start getting extremely attracted to you. That's just how it is. It certainly helps to be attractive but really its your overa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:37 AM
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If you as a man are interested in that kind of stuff then let your partner know. The onus is always on you to bring it up and ask for consent. The women doesnt have to do anything and should not be subjected to you just doing anal because you felt like it without asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:48 PM
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Very true, but if the weight gain is so high that the husband loses sexual interest in her, is he is allowed to remove himself from the relationship? Do you agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:01 PM
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When you have half of all women fantasizing about rape play know that you are calling quite a lot of women bimbos, which is not very feminist I might add.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:45 PM
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You guys sound like rapists wtf are you talking about? Anal is also really common does this mean you can just stick it in without asking? Jesus christ some men are fucked in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:38 PM
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No, they dont have to do anything, are you insane? If you are into this stuff then you ask for consent and talk it out, maybe include a safe word or actions for when something goes wrong etc. The onus for getting consent is on the active person not the one on the recieving end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:33 PM
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I actually dont understand your point. You think people are into bdsm because they faced abuse? I dont know if this is supported by the evidence. It does feel odd how many women seem to be in denial of what other women are into. Maybe they just like rough sex, doesnt have to be much more behind it. Like what is your issue, are you ashamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:24 PM
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Lesbians face more abuse because they still coupled with men before being in lesbian relationships. If you account for that lesbians have the second lowest abuse rate after gay men. And while they do have the highest divorce rates I dont think that's a problem as long as people are happy. Might also be a woman thing as they initiate most divorces in hetero relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:58 PM
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Do you think the opposite is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure they both have better relationship and sexual satisfaction and that is despite the discrimination they face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:15 PM
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Two reasons this could be the case. A lot of women started dating older men or/and more women are dating non-men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:11 PM
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True. Sometimes I'm thinking that heterosexuality is cursed to begin with. Because women fit way easier with other women and men way easier with other men. It feels like there is a disconnect in wants and desires built into hetero relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:01 PM
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Hypergamy is not a thing. Stop making things up. Women date and marry around their socioeconomic group. If anything due to more women attaining higher education and careers you will see hypergamy moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:19 PM
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The main problem and cause of current dating issues is that men and probably women too have become too anti social. Its like a pandemic of social anxiety and anti-social attitudes. They dont have mixed gender groups going to the mall anymore, house parties, clubs, sport clubs, communal activities etc. They spend most of their time online and socialize this way too. If you were to look at what defines people who struggle to find dates its that they they have no hobbies that are done in groups, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:19 PM
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Dude if you cant manage to find someone in your own city then just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:51 AM
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You will find yourself pretty unhappy soon if that were the case. Unless you are aromantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:50 AM
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Those guys would still be lonely and resentful so it wouldnt change anything. The problem with incels is that they are lonely, oftentimes mentally ill individuals who feel too highly of themself which breeds a lot of hate and anger towards women. Sexbots wouldnt fulfill the emotional dimension of relationships that these people seek. Therapy and ways to fix their extreme social anxiety and depression would actually do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:03 PM
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Of course they do. It's just a different way of getting aroused. It's not as instantaneous and spontaneous like it is for men. It's a bit more complex and requires the correct headspace, emotional connection etc. But once its there its just as strong as that of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:01 AM
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The emotional dimension to sex that women have, that almost feels like a requirement, is something men dont have. Men can basically seperate raw lust from the emotional aspect of attraction and only require the raw physical attraction. That to me makes men's sex drive way more simple as it requires way less steps to get going. Same reason women like to read smut to get into the emotional space for sex whereas men just need a couple pics. There is a stark difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:52 AM
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Men's sex drive and women's are fundamentally different. Attraction for the both of them doesnt seem to work the same at all. You could take 2 attractive people of both genders have them go out and randomly ask people of the opposite gender for sex and you would get a high % of men agreeing and a very low % if none of the women agreeing to such an offer. One could say men are less complicated in that they have less inhibitations for sex. You can see the same difference in lesbian women and gay m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:28 AM
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Nah, gay male relationships are probably the most stigmatized and shamed relationships on earth, yet gay men act even more "straight" than straight men. They have more sexual partners, more open relationships, casual sex and they watch more porn. And because gay men are this way despite the way society treats them, I dont think sexual desire is much at all affected by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:15 AM
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No one is forcing you to do anything. You are a grown man, act like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:56 PM
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Redpillers are so delusional and pathetic. This reads like some loser nerd trying to get revenge on his bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:49 PM
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I dont give a shit about how popular other men are there will always be more attractive men. It's a foolish thing to think about. Improve yourself as best as you can and you are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:23 PM
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You have no idea on how to attract women and what they like so why do you talk as if you do? A great sense of fashion will definitely elevate your chances by a whole lot because its something women themself put a lot of effort in. Literally half the women I talked to mentioned them loving my style when I got to know them. You guys are so blinded by this perverted idea of what women are into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:54 PM
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Who cares? Why do you care so much about how other men are doing? Just improve your chances as best as you can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:59 PM
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Who is getting "less". You sound like an absolute creep tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:53 PM
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No, women have nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:51 PM
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No, the population that is the most at risk is the group of men that have 1 or no friends at all. Generally men who have friends of up to 10 or higher are getting rarer. And thats where the rise in loneliness comes from. Men spend too much time alone online instead of going to parties, outings, bars etc. Women should have nothing to do with beating loneliness in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:49 PM
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Nah, women almost by default have a way superior understanding of fashion and its not even close. I would say most men dont have any such understanding at all outside of their desire to look masculine or respectable. The majority of men doesnt care about clothing or fashion as an art form and a way to express what they like. And then you add hairstyles, makeup, skincare etc. Like the bar is truly in hell because so many men dont even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:43 PM
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There are rules in fashion that are pretty much universal in their appeal to people. And the one mistake that most men do is buy clothes that dont fit them well or have odd proportions. Women are so far beyond men when it comes to making yourself look good in various ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:20 PM
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You can be just average looking but the fashion you have will make you attractive to a lot of women. Its just that most guys dont really care about how they look outside of appearing masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:17 PM
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Self imposed exclusion for being anti-social losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:08 PM
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What would you know? Are you married, do you have kids? A big family that celebrates holidays together? You have nothing. Just some red pill weirdo who thinks they can gameify relationships. You dont have shit figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:13 AM
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You cant say everything and anything you want because doing so tells them a lot about how you tick in the head. And in your case you sound socially inept, creepy and like someone who cant turn a woman on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:40 AM
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He obviously doesnt even understand how sexual attraction works for women. A lot can change depending on how caring you are, confidence mannerisms, voice, fashion etc. The majority of attraction happens in person and the fact that a women joins you on a date already means that there is potential attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:27 AM
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Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:18 AM
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Yeah and that's bullshit and you certainly dont have plenty of female friends. Women on average are way nicer and welcoming than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:15 AM
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True, as long as the man is supporting the family and is involved in the childs life even if they split up then all should be fine. You should look up icelands 'baby mama culture'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:49 AM
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Women just hold themself to a higher standard. If women were as sloppy as many men are, men would be just as strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:44 AM
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If you are the one affected then sure. Totally your business. I meant outsiders commenting on it. Ghosting a friend also makes them an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:21 PM
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Of course it makes you an asshole because its literally none of your business. They are upholding their own boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:34 PM
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That you hold these feelings and that they were not reciprocated. Pretty simple stuff. Some people need distance to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:07 PM
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That's you. A lot of people like to remove themself from a person that doesnt share their feelings because its uncomfortable and difficult to always be reminded of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:28 AM
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No some people are just excluded because they are anti-social losers. But there are parties happening every weekend in any big city and the fact that you think it died in the 90s is laughable. People are still going out on the weekends to meet people and socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:32 AM
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Most women date and marry close to their socioeconomic group there is nothing else to discuss. Your argument is pure nonsense, made up and not based on any data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:40 PM
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You obviously dont have any female friends. If you actually went out and talked with actual women instead of just jerking off to them online and watching shitty podcasts you would realize that they are pretty nice. The main difference is that men like you are losers and dont have any friends. Do you go out clubbing? When did you go to the last party? Did you go the beach with a mixed gender group last summer? Are you active in your community? The issue is that people like you sit at home all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:54 PM
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No its you just fucking up and not making your intentions known.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:38 PM
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Well you are quite light, So i guess its different then. I am doing lifting for 4 years now with a weight of 87kg(a bit of fat though), but I havent seen anyone in my gym gaining 15kg of pure muscle mass in less than 2 years without the help of roids. One and a half years I guess is possible but not the norm at all. If what you are saying is real then you have good genes so keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:56 PM
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Dude wtf. 35lb are 15kg correct? That shit takes you years if thats supposed to be lean muscle mass only. I would say minimum 2 to 5 years depending on your genetics. Cutting can take some time too especialy if you dirty bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:05 PM
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How does it even matter? If you are lifting weights to change your physique arent you already bodybuilding? I mean both do use the same exercices. You would have to train for years to really see a diffrence if both eat the same amount of nutrients. If you are just in it for the looks do bodybuilding and adjust your diet accordingly, saves you a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:27 PM
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That's not really how its supposed to work in the real world. Feminists are fighting exactly against that. So I suppose mgtow and feminists want the same thing.
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