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Could you give more details about her relationship ?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:19 PM
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TIL, I'm just a pair of shoes.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:26 AM
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Nasty laughter. There was another video of a guy talking to college girl on campus about friends secretly in love, they all denied it, but when he insisted they all cracked an ran away because they do of course know. ps1: I exagerated quite ps2: found it
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:20 AM
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I don't believe in deep changes from working out, but after going through it a bit, I agree it does have concrete effects [1]. Your body is quicker, stiffer, and it makes your mind at ease to feel it. You're just happy to feel able and swift. It's also a very very good long term bet, health-wise. [1] might depend on your personality too. Maybe some people really can't enjoy physical effort, and the relaxation of the morning after, and sport will be too high a price.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:15 PM
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Yeah but that's assuming you just met her. What happens when things evolve ?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 08:40 PM
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Yeah finally something that doesn't sound bitter, but honest and inspiring at the same time. Is it TRP though ?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:01 AM
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Wrong point of view on the interaction. You're afraid because you wanna prove something (to you, the other, or both).
/r/seduction08/02/15 12:54 PM
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Forget this view on confidence. Humans aren't not judge of value, unless you allow them to. I felt this way before, thinking I was inferior, then life adjusted, and this idea of being confident is moot in my head now. I heard tinder was about fast hookups (or massive free validation for people already 'pretty' enough), meaning surface based, I guess don't use that for now. People have said this here that I found interesting: don't try to be interesting to people, approach them in order to find t…
/r/seduction06/02/15 12:18 PM
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Everybody is told not to say things, it kills me.
/r/seduction03/02/15 01:33 PM
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I understand your distinction, still, I mean loving the way she is flawed, subpar, how it shaped her personality.
/r/seduction03/02/15 01:21 PM
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Bad timing regrets are pretty awfull. I too wasn't mature enough back when I had a nice basis for a relationship, now it's all very awkward.
/r/seduction03/02/15 12:34 PM
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What then if you love her flaws ? is it still OI ?
/r/seduction03/02/15 12:31 PM
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Anecdotal yet my own life tells me moisture/lubrication is one massive indicator of true deeply satisfying arousal, as opposed to engorgement which can happen regardless. It seems not strongly related to attraction though. I've known someone dying to be some guy little thing even though he didn't bang her properly (not wet). There's a part of the brain that can make you willing to do anything for someone that meats this internal demand.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 05:55 PM
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Nice way to summarize my internal feeling about differences between boys and girls. We were always seeking action, building stuff. Girls not as much. They can try (we were 80% boys, so some girls next door did try to play sports or hunt games with us, didn't last), they very rarely enjoy it as naturally as most boys do.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 12:22 PM
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boys fuck things up, girls are fucked up -- Louis CK Could you define 'older' ? after puberty ? later ?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 12:02 PM
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It's not good lies, it's just that they will dig in their own story as deep as god spell.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 05:26 AM
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Fair enough. I don't know if that last sentence ... anyway.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 05:01 AM
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How long did it took you to finally imprint this in your mind ? I completely agree now, but after years of needy supplications.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:10 AM
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Amazing summary. I've been guilty of playing the rescuer for so long, and ended up aiming at victim type of girls so we'd feed each others biased views.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:09 AM
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Maybe it's an evolved mechanism. The only way to have access to a meaningful relationship with a girl is to be the way that makes her trustworthy. Inverted double penalty.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:05 AM
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Not self-esteem, but basic human relationship maybe ? can you enjoy someone you know is randomly telling lies whenever convenient ? You're more of a physical relationship kind of guy ?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:02 AM
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Yeah, I've seen it by men (me included). It's just pure weakness but somehow I feel like most men hate it so f'in hard, they'll avoid it most of the time; while women, if presented a situation will rush into the bullshit head on.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:54 AM
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Fair enough, even though "judging" (for a lack of a better word) people in their teen years before entering college is a bit premature.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 08:59 AM
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Talking about age, what are the demographics around here ? how many 18-25, 25-35, 35+
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:29 AM
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John Travolta is gay, it's been confirmed by Tom Cruise. /l
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:12 AM
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solipsistic I'm so f***n guilty of that kind of projections too.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:30 PM
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One person made me feel that way. I believe you can reach this sense of plenitude since I felt it, but I wonder if it can emerge out of something else than a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:53 PM
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I did all this in the opposite order. Guaranteed failure. Even though you do everything she'll want later on. Skipping beats....
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:33 PM
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Lewinsky wasn't raped, and she was mostly a lever for two other investigations. I'll admit that for political figures it's a tad different than from celebrities, because the whole Nation doesn't depend on an actor's or singer's behavior.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:44 PM
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I'm thinking it's an exceptional exception and still betting he was set up because of his role in the French presidential election.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:04 AM
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Funny metaphor but I agree. As you said with someone you knew somehow intimately it's strange since you know there's someone in there but her main reflex toward men is to play games. Maybe there's another path to crack through and reach to her soul. I don't know. As some said, women need to be reset by a little game so they get their feelings back and don't start to question things.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:01 AM
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The higher they are, the more people are between you him and justice. To be honest I don't even really believe what I wrote earlier. I just contemplate the same thing happening over and over (think Jimmy Saville, or a famous french Tennis coach for young pupils [sick one]...)
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:20 PM
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Very interesting to me. I'm a weird one but I hate game at some point. I had a oneitis talking back to me after she's been let down, soon after that she started to flake and I very lightly mentioned an ex girl I knew in an answer, next thing you know she starts to initiate contact on her own (I think she was confused whether or not she was my girlfriend), with sophisticated texts (unlike the cold, smothering, pitiful I got previously). I was a kinda disgusted by that. So yeah women needs to be g…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:09 PM
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you can't touch someone at that peak of fame, nobody will care to listen
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 08:21 PM
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I remember a very (very) smart and pretty girl I just met who became very compliant after I told flat out I was very unhappy in my life even without being clear about why (didn't even know myself). On the other hand expressing deep affection toward a 3 was reciprocated by cold shoulder hypocritical text. Ha life.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:00 PM
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Men do that too. I remember a lot of 'us' that only meant 'me but I am affraid to be denied ...'.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:09 PM
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I tried to ask a few women about feelings, attraction and such and got almost no truthful answer at first. Only after long chats one started to tell about how she'd behave to indicate interest even though she denied they did so when I asked previously.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 05:32 PM
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I'm becoming stiff. I now think cultures where marriage is a hard silo have a point. Unlike most modern cultures where one can have 'relationships' early, and opt out whenever they feel like it. As I see it now, in the former it enforce stability and depth, the latter aims to easily at short term 'happiness'. The old way may look unfair, but I'd like to see the statistics about how many wrong couples are born that way.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:27 AM
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Ha, I just took a very big 'do not argue' hit. Some kind of desperation (more regrets) turned to overreaction and then dead things were.
/r/seduction01/11/14 07:09 PM
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Finally something that makes me feel human on this thread. Thank you.
/r/seduction30/10/14 07:14 PM
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I can read it both ways. It can be a petty throw back or just a playful but hard joke to remind her her own words.
/r/seduction30/10/14 07:06 PM
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I feel like I was scared to approach a rock. so true I died
/r/seduction30/10/14 07:02 PM
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What's below the ego. If you forget what you think you are, what is what you now are ?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 03:42 PM
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Yep. I knew shit about life then got confused with a friend. I'm trying to find clues about how to patch things up with her.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:19 AM
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I didn't explain, but to me these subs existence is mostly pragmatic reaction to pain, at least that's how I ended up here :) Pain is not your best friend in these times though.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:49 AM
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Thank you for your answer. I understand the existence of this sub among others (seddit). I never found someone that would tell me something that resonates with my inner views (or dreams).
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:33 AM
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Is there a purple pill ? where a guy and a woman click as a team ?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:58 AM
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Sometimes you will be boring out of irreconcilable mindset differences. I could go on for hours about some subjects (music, math) but nobody will feel what I feel and will have this clueless look on their face before jumping back to the latest TV Show or Celeb song title. ps: I didn't read the article yet. #impatient
/r/seduction30/09/14 09:25 AM
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Reminds me of a girl, whose safe confident I became, telling me about 50 shades of grey and slightly rough stuff and how her man wasn't into that. I also thought about their first years together where he would be quite abusive verbally (hothead). I hated the guy for being such an ass with a girl like her (hello white knight), but she wouldn't argue the slightest. Nowadays he's much more calm, I find him easier to deal with, and now she jokes about getting a flat for herself and her daughters. Ti…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:14 AM
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Sometimes just seeing things come and go, see what stick and what doesn't, gives you a fair amount of wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:46 AM
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Reminds me of someone close.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 10:13 PM
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I can attest. I'd better reach to her anger than to nothing at all. Even though I felt like a sadist the first time it happened.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 09:55 PM
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Is it what he's saying ? I'm biased but it resonates with my own feelings, how many prefer really long term relationship rather than the thrill of knowing someone else ? And how many people here above 30 are feeling the same as OP ?
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:53 PM
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Don't you feel it's spending a life in fakery and lying ? Is it really too much to ask for openness or will it kill the hidden forces making the relationship ?
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:49 PM
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In a totally different level, the first time I made a ~20yo blush (even melt a little, tilted head, uber slow ear to ear smile) in the subway to try how to hold gaze, I felt utterly bad. I don't want to flatter myself but it really looked like she was lifted by some random guy staring at her with a smirk.
/r/seduction25/08/14 07:01 PM
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So allowing failure instead of analysis paralysis ?
/r/seduction21/08/14 07:03 PM
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Just trying to balance things out, not giving a fuck is nice, but sometimes caring a little to what happens outside of your field of view is a good thing too.
/r/seduction21/08/14 06:22 PM
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So the thing is to give a bit of fuck, and not to your own subjective view of things only, right ?
/r/seduction21/08/14 06:13 PM
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I think they talk about it. Their "loneliness" is not the physical isolation of, say, an artist, filled with inspiration. It's the want of intimacy.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:21 AM
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So it's either start as a family business or family and then business.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 09:05 PM
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I too am curious about such reversal, not to overwhelm someone, just to keep my head clear above water.
/r/seduction14/08/14 06:47 AM
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Follow his lead http://www.vice.com/read/our-interview-with-a-guy-who-didnt-masturbate-for-100-days-722
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:31 AM
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It's a nice brick, started reading it and enjoyed it so far. ps: so this wasn't where you got the idea ?
/r/seduction12/08/14 10:31 AM
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reminds me of http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Dice_Man
/r/seduction12/08/14 10:05 AM
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This fails in some cases : I really wanted someone to cherish, nothing else had value. I couldn't understand the notion of being a prize because the only I existed when a girl accepted my affection with a little reciprocity.
/r/seduction06/08/14 06:01 PM
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archived
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:14 PM
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I feel like someone put a sensor in my mind and converted the data into text.
/r/seduction06/08/14 04:58 PM
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I lost it when he went below zero. I didn't except another chart too. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 09:18 PM
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In the 'behind the curtain' chapter, make a female account on a dating website put an average picture and enjoy the never-ending stream of attention (warning: can be nerve wracking at first). Now think about the absurdity of both male and female positions. Males are pushing hard to get a few answers because females are pushing hard to filter the few valuable candidates for them thus can't answer you.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:03 PM
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Can't agree more. Every hobby/passion/topic I cared about vanished the second I found someone to sleep next to. At best the became a mean to an end (us). Spent all my life pursuing hobbies because I couldn't have someone. Now hobbies have no value. The irony is that this thing blew up in a week. Now I feel both the void of her and the disinterest of past passions. As Bruce Lee said: Be balanced my friend.
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:51 AM
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Do you have good references/resources about lowering ego ? I'm having too much stock of that it seems.
/r/seduction05/07/14 12:22 PM
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Write FR about this if not the case already
/r/seduction05/07/14 10:15 AM
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When you yawn your voice is deep and strong. Try to fake yawn and sustain while aiming for lower notes. Don't push it, just stabilize the sound, you'll feel warming up and relaxation of your throat (also a stronger voice because relaxation allow for sound resonating thus natural amplification).
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:17 PM
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something I did too, seems like validation seeking in disguise (unless you really did something bad)
/r/seduction21/06/14 06:10 AM
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Watch some Kubrick (strangelove, 2001, orange,...). Even if you don't get any of the meaning, watch. This guy had a seriously different way of making movies, especially the pacing, he owns the time, and thus the audience. Also Woody Allen, early like take the money and run, everything you always wanted to know about sex but.. , here it's mostly the storytelling, flat and unlinear at the same time. These a pretty well known, so in case you never spent time on their productions, give it a go, it's…
/r/seduction18/06/14 10:35 AM
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they are giving YOU money. YOU are in control. ha ? really ?
/r/seduction18/06/14 10:24 AM
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freudian lips
/r/seduction18/06/14 10:13 AM
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Does that work with women already taken too ?
/r/seduction18/06/14 09:54 AM
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What about monotone eyes ? I see people eyes have such a diverse palette of expressions, mine is [dull, suspicious, surprised, madcow].
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:39 PM
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I see. Timemachineitis much
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:32 PM
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Article was in the context of straight males lifestyles.
/r/seduction17/06/14 09:23 AM
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archived also pdf
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:24 PM
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That part was valuable to me: From my experience the 3 emotions that you want to evoke are: Excitement Laughter Arousal (for women only) So if you want to be memorable, focus on these three emotions. Now I only have to understand how to do so. Can't be harder than drawing owls.
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:19 PM
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I thought you were right, but I saw the links and it does give hints : https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/5-ways-to-value-overload https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/demonstrating-intelligence
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:02 PM
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Do you catch yourself constantly apologizing too ?
/r/seduction16/06/14 04:40 PM
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How boring are we all ? I'm quite curious about that. Are some people genuinely brilliant ? or is it just the attraction in place that makes you tolerate that person because a) you get to have sensual pleasures b) not a lonely fuck anymore, affection too.
/r/seduction16/06/14 04:33 PM
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I see how my title was ambiguous. I wasn't framing shyness as an attractive quality but more as an subconscious desire to seduce everyone (and making you speechless when you can't break out of your shelf). But I may be confusing shyness with social anxiety...
/r/seduction16/06/14 02:03 PM
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Hah.
/r/seduction15/06/14 07:23 AM
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I think I can say I've seen some effect of this. A previous oneitis told me she liked me whenever I started to angry. In these times I was a lot bolder and careless. So it seems to match the vulnerable-unneedy theory. The thing is to be liked by people you can't always be too much yourself in risking to be too antagonistic. A fine line to walk.
/r/seduction14/06/14 06:04 PM
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I love myself quite a lot in my bedroom. It's everytime I open my mouth and people yawn or frown that I suddenly feel destroyed, which is 99% of the time. 1% is pseudo-reassuring 'youre fine' that won't matter because i'm already too deep under. Meanwhile, everybody else seems to enjoy each other's presence so much it burns, even when they don't really like each other it looks more fun than having me around. /rant /ps I'm not known for my objectivity though
/r/seduction13/06/14 10:07 PM
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In public transportation at least, it's a caress game. Get closer, lock in, then move on[1]. Repeat with enough space in between. The 'funny' part[2] is when you realized you really triggered something into the other person. I was surprised when I caught a woman glancing at me quite directly after I looked at her very gently. Once I did manage to get a profound smile from a 20something girl, that wasn't nice because, to me[3], she seemed touched too profoundly and I felt like messing with her. […
/r/seduction07/06/14 07:38 PM
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Depending on the girl I'd crave blanket sharing more than pounding too.
/r/seduction06/06/14 03:58 AM
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Hmm so you think he meant he didn't have sex since he lost his virginity and is now craving for that feeling ? You're right that not enough sex for too long can lead to very low times. It's probably deeply wired in us, and would appear as some kind of depression (even though it's not related to any sad event).
/r/seduction04/06/14 12:25 PM
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I can understand it's a big downer, but depression ? ..
/r/seduction04/06/14 12:12 PM
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Ha, I thought she would be embarassed by her behavior that night. Here goes my theory.
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:43 AM
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Remember chatting with a girl a long time ago, I felt less shy than her and I went into this weirdly flirty mode saying overly romantic shit, it came out without thinking and didn't feel forced and awkward, even though it was really borderline cheesy.
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:34 AM
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Any idea why ?
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:07 AM
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I don't know, even a neutral look seems to mean interest.
/r/seduction18/05/14 05:42 PM
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I probably should yes. But that wasn't my point, I don't want to send the wrong message to some stranger.
/r/seduction14/05/14 09:32 AM
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Gonna rewatch it because I didn't remember crying the first time I saw it.
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:30 PM
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How many gay dates did you have so far ? update: didn't find any creepy fat dude, but all the guys I held contact with looked away. Alas they were either quite far or walking by. I should have tried to lock in the nosepicking guy in front of me. But he didn't give the slightest fuck that I stared while he was grossly pinky-digging, so not caring I started to laugh a little and lost contact.
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:19 PM
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http://michaeldrogalis.tumblr.com/post/85617979546/getting-a-grip-on-the-small-things I try to do that, but so far it's giving mild results. Sure it avoid silences, but it's not the key to a good interaction after that.
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:02 PM
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Friend only or did something happen between you two ?
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:59 AM
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Funny how I had all your reactions but I'm still not sold on the conclusion. I guess I still have work to do.
/r/seduction28/04/14 09:22 PM
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Is it constantly the same voice ? depending on the situation I can be very 'Clooney' or a very low volume submissive, sometimes even apologizing by the tone of my voice only. Try to find someone you feel confident and listen to your voice, phrasing, speed everything, then try to repeat it in other context.
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:09 AM
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Then go for a walk in a park. I remember white girl stopping dead to scan him top to bottom when walking past a cute (and stylish, very stylish hair and clothes) asian buddy.
/r/seduction27/04/14 08:52 AM
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pardon my hijacking, what about a girl that never answer right away but most of the time the next day, around lunch ? I'm guessing a pity answer. ps: but texts me when she's in shitty situation (STD fear) ... I'd drop her right away if I wasn't already involved feeling wise.
/r/seduction26/04/14 08:49 PM
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I guess I need to stay calm and avoid over-thrilling myself with my little fantasies. Hard to let your passion flow out and keep it smooth at the same time.
/r/seduction25/04/14 09:42 PM
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I have an issue with this, my enthusiasm rarely convey, at best I look like a guru trying to brainwash someone, at worst an aspie. It never feels like a balanced discussion.
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:38 PM
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